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MrBrownJay1:
the problem is the state of mind of your woman (and not this particular issue of male friends)... because every times you will have an issue with her and want to leave the r/ship, she will try to BLACKMAIL you into not leaving her by threaten to kill herself. so technically, she is telling you that "til death do us part". which is completely wrong!

this woman is mentally unstable, and knowingly staying with such person is highly dangerous!

Thanks sir, I agreed on your point sir. She is kind of mentally unstable, she can go to any length to satisfy me and the keep the relationship working.

But I love her too tho.

What do you think I can do sir??

I can’t come and can’t , make she drink am nah , sniper has a very super nutritive value . Useless excuse “ I’ll drink sniper “ who she helped , make she Dey go if she wan go , we Dey over populated already

yankeenowo:
I love your story line. It looks to you the lady in question loves you pretty well. That's the situation for now. My advise is for you....double your hustle to become a better man in life. If your hustle does not finacially capable as life goes on. The lady will be the 1st to drop you and move on with a better man in life. Every ladies love to love. ...but always let it rings in your brain that money makes love sweet, sweeter and the sweetest. Double your hustle to compensate her love if you truly loves her.

Sir I respect your intelligence, the through is every girl always want to be with a better and comfortable man, I know one of the reasons she want to kill herself is that too. I have a good and well paying job and am doing fine.

And bro am so caring, loving spending and when it comes to sex, am the one that disvirgin her and I use to give her mind blowing sex, finger and head l lots more bro!. Those some of the reasons she want to die in the relationship and I also use to take care of her family too and to your surprise am the one paying her school fees

Ricchcream:
I know the average dude's definition of Love, is the female's willingness to promptly give in to intimacy, and how good she is while at it . If that's the case with you, I think you first of all need to decongest your mind and ask yourself the golden question; "What else is she bringing to table besides sex?". If she happens to be your soulmate outside sex, I think she deserves your help. She's t-o-x-i-c., and I believe she would require psychotherapy. Buy her books on psychotherapy if you cant afford sessions, and pray for miracles. Otherwise, Japa!

She offers even more than a girlfriend, but like a wife. She do fast, pray and support me too financially, spiritually and some other areas of life and to talk of sex, she use to give me mind blowing sex and am the one that tear her rubber.

HARRISON040:
the girl as found ur weakness,if u say the girl has all the attributes u want,so marry her.i can deduce u are a jealous guy.some girls just like having male friends.on the flip side if you want to leave her,say u are broke and be asking her to be doing most things,just watch that love will slowly disappear.

I concur with your point bro.
She has even more than what a man looks for in a woman bro, I truly love her and I want to marry her.

I accept the fact that am a jealous type, remember fireboy too said he dont wanna she her girl with anybody bro. Bro is you know how many relationship male friends and female friends to opposite sex have destroyed you wont say am jealous.

You know how many friends that still want to Bleep even your own girlfriend or wife, keep and leave them around her bro you will learn.

adexpa:
Do not use quit as a threat anymore, can you withdraw your attention and care until she change. Let her know that you love her too but until she change as promised, you are not giving her attention n care anymore

Thanks bro, this is what am working on, and is had being a so bitter moment for her, you know how a girl in love use to feel when you withdraw attentions and cares. But I'm watching over her for change.

yinkaOdutuyo:
She offers even more than a girlfriend, but like a wife. She do fast, pray and support me too financially, spiritually and some other areas of life and to talk of sex, she use to give me mind blowing sex and am the one that tear her rubber.

. You sef you be wicked somebody , you tear rubber, chop her money finish, come dey threaten her with breakup . How she no go threaten you with sniper, cutlass and hoe join? If you no marry her, Jesus has a message for you...

Freelane33:
I can’t come and can’t , make she drink am nah , sniper has a very super nutritive value . Useless excuse “ I’ll drink sniper “ who she helped , make she Dey go if she wan go , we Dey over populated already

Ok bro, initially I expected more from you, but once I see your moniker name, I can see you're free and useless doing nothing with your brain, sub, fone and time, if not you wont be saying all this gibberish.

Ricchcream:
. You sef you be wicked somebody , you tear rubber, chop her money finish, come dey threaten her with breakup . How she no go threaten you with sniper, cutlass and hoe join? If you no marry her, Jesus has a message for you...

Bro I no dey joke wit heaven, na my last hope for enjoyment and fun oo, this life too hard and suffering too much for many days now the BULLari keep me indoor for days without food and supplies. So make I com suffer for afterlife too. No no

I don’t have your time MR. First of all for her to tell you she will take sniper she can never take the sniper , have you ever seen someone that wanna commit suicide to start announcing before he or she does ? Hell no , so the whole thing is a freaking trick to trip the emotion of the WEAK YOU ( ODUTAYO) . As you see I’m not like you and I can never be like you .Why will a girl tell me she wanna drink sniper because I wanna break up with her ? What kind of counter intelligence is that ? Is she trying to bait me with a useless trick “ drink sniper “ is it that easy ? See I will never give you any piece of advise even if I can but don’t forget to tell her to drink the sniper when she’s ready . That you’re even ready to bring her some more . Simps oshi.if by any chance you marry this girl I bet it she will threaten to do more than this if any issue comes up like . Use your head as a man stop thinking with your dick . Do you think she’ll drink sniper because of you ? Tar hell no , she’s only trynna bait you . Wise up MR AGBEKOYA . The abuser

yinkaOdutuyo:
Ok bro, initially I expected more from you, but once I see your moniker name, I can see you're free and useless doing nothing with your brain, sub, fone and time, if not you wont be saying all this gibberish.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Bro I no dey joke wit heaven, na my last hope for enjoyment and fun oo, this life too hard and suffering too much for many days now the BULLari keep me indoor for days without food and supplies. So make I com suffer for afterlife too. No no

ehehnnn.... So, now you know what to do . Marry your thing and dont do something that will make her want to kill you both.

Do you love her,then make her happy

Freelane33:
I don’t have your time MR. First of all for her to tell you she will take sniper she can never take the sniper , have you ever seen someone that wanna commit suicide to start announcing before he or she does ? Hell no , so the whole thing is a freaking trick to trip the emotion of the WEAK YOU ( ODUTAYO) . As you see I’m not like you and I can never be like you ? Why will a girl tell me she wanna drink sniper because I wanna break up with her ? What kind of counter intelligence is that ? Is she trying to bait me with a useless trick “ drink sniper “ is it that easy ? See I will never give you any piece of advise even if I can but don’t forget to tell her to drink the sniper when she’s ready . That you’re even ready to bring her some more . Simps oshi.if by any chance you marry this girl I bet it she will threaten to do more than this if any issue comes up like . Use your head as a man stop thinking with your dick . Do you think she’ll drink sniper because of you ? Tar hell no , she’s only trynna bait you . Wise up MR AGBEKOYA . The abuser

Ok you make a sense, but the name of the sense is Nonsense. Thanks

Ricchcream:
ehehnnn.... So, now you know what to do . Marry your thing and dont do something that will make her want to kill you both.

It is well

If you are ready to live, gonto the police and report the case and also call her family and tell them. Note! It depends on if you are tired of the Union or not. If anything happens to her you will go in for it especially if na all these fools that will write suicide note implicating you. Be guided!

christ007:
Do you love her,then make her happy

I do, but as long, she doesn't want to do away with male friends as I told her she is a gonna bro.

Thanks

You don’t have to tell me if I make sense or not .I do not need your validation . I’m just meant to tell you what you wanna hear . Bless the day o lord

yinkaOdutuyo:
Ok you make a sense, but the name of the sense is Nonsense. Thanks

ronyman:
If you are ready to live, gonto the police and report the case and also call her family and tell them. Note! It depends on if you are tired of the Union or not. If anything happens to her you will go in for it especially if na all these fools that will write suicide note implicating you. Be guided!

Thanks bro, is not that I dont love her, but you know how ladies use to do, if you take everything lightly with them, they will take you for a fool, that is why I just choke her with quit.

Freelane33:
You don’t have to tell me if I make sense or not .I do not need your validation . I’m just meant to tell you what you wanna hear . Bless the day o lord

Ok am sorry bro. Your point is right and valid.

But you dont know how to make a presentation of matter.

Remember how you talk is how you'll be reply. That's the issue

yinkaOdutuyo:
I do, but as long, she doesn't want to do away with male friends as I told her she is a gonna bro.

Thanks

ok I get that but are you sure if she dating anyone of her male friends

christ007:
ok I get that but are you sure if she dating anyone of her male friends

No she is not, but you have to understand all these males friends are snakes and even females friends to a guy some will always make use of any slightest opportunity to Bleep you.

Moreover am the one that disvirgin her and she had all these male friends before I started dating her. But am jealous of her cookies and I dont want any guy to take advantage of her off me. You know the self control she will have when she was a virgin cant be compare to now, when I have teared her down

yinkaOdutuyo:
No she is not, but you have to understand all these males friends are snakes and even females friends to a guy some will always make use of any slightest opportunity to Bleep you.

bro i will tell you the fact in a relationship

christ007:
bro i will tell you the fact in a relationship

Ok am listening sir

yinkaOdutuyo:
No she is not, but you have to understand all these males friends are snakes and even females friends to a guy some will always make use of any slightest opportunity to Bleep you.

Moreover am the one that disvirgin her and she had all these male friends before I started dating her. But am jealous of her cookies and I dont want any guy to take advantage of her off me. You know the self control she will have when she was a virgin cant be compare to now, when I have teared her down

bro the fact there is girl ain’t the same you just have to let her know what you like and hate
The most important things in a relationship is trust

christ007:
bro the fact there is girl ain’t the same you just have to let her know what you like and hate
The most important things in a relationship is trust

Thanks bro.. I always try to work on my trust for her, but it use to fail due to one experience sharing daily and every moment from guys about how one girl cheated on them with her male friends, cheated with neigbours bla bla bla and among others. I think what I have to also work on it. Silence, self control and anger management and to let her know what I like and dislike.

Thanks bro

You said the issue doesn't require quitting the relationship but you just decide to quit. Why then are you deciding to quit? You don't love her anymore?

yinkaOdutuyo:
Thanks bro, this is what am working on, and is had being a so bitter moment for her, you know how a girl in love use to feel when you withdraw attentions and cares. But I'm watching over her for change.

That is the best way to show that you mean business about what you want. Re-echo your love for her every now and then but let her know that she will not earn your attention and care as it should be until she change. Please, be sure you have made up your mind that you will marry her cus it will be bad to drop other guys for you n you later dump her.

If I hear say she drink am. I believe girls have too many options of men to choose from so why on earth will she end her life because of you. Abi you think say the male friends she keeps they are there to crack joke for her abi..

But what do I know.

Bless

Bro! Never threaten a woman with quitting a relationship cos shell get used to it and do you first. It's better to use other means, mine is to ignore for a while then talk about the problem and try to solve it and move ahead. You have to talk to her about this suicide issue it's no joke bro I've been there!

yinkaOdutuyo:
Thanks bro, is not that I dont love her, but you know how ladies use to do, if you take everything lightly with them, they will take you for a fool, that is why I just choke her with quit.

You self your mind Ni leave the girl

Tell her to stop or report to her mother

Emekaossai:
You said the issue doesn't require quitting the relationship but you just decide to quit. Why then are you deciding to quit? You don't love her anymore?

I love her so much!

Thanks bro, is not that I dont love her, but you know how ladies use to do, if you take everything lightly with them, they will take you for a fool, that is why I just choke her with quit if she doesn't take to my cautions.