Hmmm.....my love,my wife,the only woman i've ever cherish.Monsurat onaolapo owolabi.Died last year Since then my life has change to the worse.

In 2009 I lost my Aunt that that was so good to me. She has been taking care of me since I was born and we don't joke with each other.
We spend every Christmas together in the villa till 08 December when I told her I was gonna spend the Christmas period with my family in my own villa,she was not happy with my decision but she later agreed after trying to convince me to spend the Xmas with her.all her children stays abroad so she stays with a house help.i visited like twice during the festive period and I can still remember how happy she was.
On 3rd of January 09 my Dad received a call that my auntie fell down while she was taking her bath so we rushed to her place.
Half of her body was paralyzed but she was still conscious.
I remember sitting beside her feeding her breakfast before we took her to hospital, I still remember the drama when she insisted that I should eat before she continued eating again,the people around there started laughing and exchanging words of how we both Love our self..festive period has come to an end for us so we all left for the city.
She was admitted at the hospital on that 3rd of January 09 I was with her all through till 15-jan 09 when I was supposed to pass the night in the hospital with her , I came up with all the excuses I could so will go in the morning. I can remember my conscience was telling to me go, that maybe something was about to happen but I insisted on maintaining my decision. I was watching TV in her sitting room suddenly around past 2am. I saw something approaching me from the kitchen in human stature shares same height with my auntie and the colour I saw was the same with rapper she was tying in the hospital, my head swollen and it suddenly disappeared. My instincts told me that something bad has happened but I kept my cool since I have not received any call from the hospital. In the morning I and my sister left for the hospital with her food, as we got there and opened the door( I was a private ward) I saw her lifeless body and oxygen cylinder which was not there before,chai It was like my world has come to an end,i placed my ear on her bared chest nothing, grabbed her wrist to feel her pulse nothing. I tried breathing into her mouth to see if will stare breathing, nothing, chai I felt like the world has come an end, I looked at my Dad, his eye balls was like red Sea but was not crying ..I made sure I didn't shed a drop of tears because I have had a myth that if someone close to you or relation dies and you didn't shed tears the person's ghost will be visiting..after her death no week will pass without seeing her in my dreams,like 4 days out of the 7 days in a week and continues like that till the end of 09 then I started seeing her like 3 times in a month and stretched to 2014 -15. I still see her once I while till today. I do pray against, cast and bind scary attacks in the dream but when she died and I started seeing her in my dream, it made realize I could ask her questions in my dream, question I needed answer to in real live. I always ask her (who killed you) because I don't believe her death was a natural death you know (village people)now lol. every time we meet in the dream my question continues but the problem was all along I was asking she was always mute steering at me in the dream while I asked her with anger and vengeance in my heart. one day at the last quarter of 2009 I saw her in my dream and she said that I should follow her so she could tell me who kill her, she took me to a bush part, entered inside the bush I followed and insisted that she should tell me who killed her, she started smiling as she was looking at me and was smiling till I woke up. After that day I stopped seeing her in my dreams the way I used to and I also stopped questioning her.
Sorry for the long story, but I just see this thread as an opportunity to pour my heart out.


RIP Decency

My class teacher then May 20,1999
My dad April 6 2010(can't get over these)
My aunt November 20,2012( she was terribly sick and in bad shape the picture still haunt me)
My mum's friend March 26 2020
My long time pastor April 14 2020( still crying over these )

obidaddy:


Bro, truly i shed tears for you. Lossing my Dad was the worst thing that happened to me. But yours, especially your is painful.

I see you are really hurting & in grief, i noticed your comments, it is good that you expressed these things.

Crying later for my dad & even addressing him imaginary, really helped to soften the pain.

It is well with you, enjoy what time you have left, if you have children take good care of them & make solid provisions for them incase of emergency. Never bring in a woman into your house that is a sharp contrast of your late wife. Never rush into another woman! The lord is your strenght.

Thank you for this kind words.The biggest challenge is battling depression. We were a tight unit together. I cry everyday. But God is my strength, he is helping me and I have to help myself for my sons.Thanks bro and God Bless.

My Uncle. Dr Phillip Olumuyiwa Adegbile. Died March 20 2003. Till now I can't still forget Him. He had big dreams for mystery of and my siblings most especially me. Continue to rest in peace Daddy. His burial was the last time I shed tears over anybody's death

Mr Uche be strong for her, she wouldn't want you to be that way, if she were around, The Lord who took her will fill the vacuum created.
I grieve with you.

Uche0610:
I can't forget when i lost my mum on Saturday the 6th of November, 2010. She had been sick for a while and earlier that morning we decided to take her to the hospital after complaining of pains. Before entering the car, she held my hands so tightly little did i know she was saying goodbye....i so much wept when i came into the hospital and saw my elder brother crying as my dear mother was gone....Mummy my heart hasn't healed till now for i miss you so much and i wish you were with me...LOVE YOU FOREVER

My husband DonBobes it's two years now and can't stop crying, I miss him so much

The Lord will console you in Jesus name.

onadana:
July 18th 2019,the day my world came crashing. We left home together my wife,my son and I.My wife and I exercised at the gymnasium that morning,then she left.They travelled for an official assignment on their way back that same day. They were involved in an accident. She died on the spot.

Mine was a neighbour who was like a sister to me.I use to call her by her first child's name 'mummy Evans'. She was a very nice,caring,honest and loving woman.I can tell her anything that is bothering me and she will always av an advice that will solve the issue I will never forget the day she died.We spoke on Friday evening and she even gave me food to eat when I came back from work.At arround 12am Saturday morning, she fell down from the bed she was sleeping on and she never woke up again.She died immediately leaving a 3 months old baby.I cried till I passed out and till today I still do cry because her death still remains a mystery to me.Next month is her remembrance but I do remember her everyday.

Thanks a lot .

Life is a bittersweet experience

Heineken:
so sorry sir. Please take heart bro

My mom,to that dreadful cancer

My sister, Belinda, Sept 18 2012 still feels like yesterday, can't believe I still cried about her this morning.
My son, Michael, died Feb 25th 2016, his bro fills his space but mehn, I always remember him and imagine how cute he would have been at 4years old.
My godmother, Cynthia, even though after her death all I see is scary dreams of her but I still miss her.

KingRabota:
Thanks a lot .
Life is a bittersweet experience

I tell you sir. Please be strong. Ogadinma

Thanks man
Sometimes we smile and Sometimes we cry . In every situation we praise the most high

Katier00:
she would love to see you you move on now. May God grant you the strength to make the right choice. Take heart brother

Wooow! Can't believe I clicked up to page 19! I pray that the lord will be with everyone who has lost a loved one, I decree that affliction would not rise again... No evil shall befall each and everyone of us....

I feel your pain bro. May the soul of your mum and the souls of all those who have lost loved ones continue to rest peacefully in heaven. Amen �

Nexus25:
I lost my mother to cancer this year January. She was loving and caring. She was accommodating and could allow just anything to pass.

I kept crying when she was on admission, on several occasions, I couldn't stay for long in the ward because the pain she was passing through was unbearable.

It was an advanced case of pancreatic cancer and I had already knew only God could save her. But she kept asking me if she would not die? Answering such a question was a big burden. I couldn't lie yet I couldn't tell her the truth.

Four days before she died, she wasn't eating and she wasn't talking to anyone. She wasn't even feeling the cancer pain.

Her thought flashes my mind every day.

I love you Momma.

Continue to rest in the bosom of the lord

JasonJidenna:
She's happy wherever she is.

Cry no more.

Thank you

I feel your main. Please, worry no more. You'll have other male children

PrettyLolo:
Yes..... My beloved son, my second child and first son. 6 months ago is still like yesterday in my mind. Each time I see his belongings, I cry.
God pls console me. I'm losing it all.
My 1yr3months boy.

Lamanii22:
Wooow! Can't believe I clicked up to page 19! I pray that the lord will be with everyone who has lost a loved one, I decree that affliction would not rise again... No evil shall befall each and everyone of us....

Amen. This is probably the most heart-wrenching thread I've ever seen on Nairaland... It is well!

I feel your pain. Don't worry, you'll have other male children

PrettyLolo:
Yes..... My beloved son, my second child and first son. 6 months ago is still like yesterday in my mind. Each time I see his belongings, I cry.
God pls console me. I'm losing it all.
My 1yr3months boy.

Lost my mom 18th of last month (march), she was the only woman in my life... I really miss her

Lost my close friend 3years ago, he died while serving in bayelsa... I miss you bro

Jh0wsef:


General hospital has been killing people! That hospital is a mortuary in disguise, I still lost a friend few weeks ago due to their carelessness and selfish interests! RIP GIDEON

I lost my sister's fiance few weeks ago too in that useless hospital. It's so painful that I cry whenever his name flashes through my mind.

They need to be shut down, however.
Coincidentally, his name too was Gideon.

This thread made me shed tears. Life itself is a mystery, no one knows tomorrow. Live a good life today so that when you die, your legacy will live on. RIP to every loved one we have lost.

I lost my younger brother February 4th 2013 in gas cylinder explosion..still hurts and fresh in my memory,took me six years to come to reality of his death....22yrs old.

Pierced:
Yes.

My mom...... July 10......2019.

I still cry anytime I remember her. I can't even visit her grave without crying.

Rip mom... Love u.

I also lost my mum July 15th 2019 to breast Cancer

Everyday i feel the hole

Sure my mum n dad... Lost my mum when I was two years old ...in fact I didn't know her at all so my dad was both my mum + dad (PAMA) to Us Unfortunately we lost him in 2018. ..Gosh it still feels like yesterday... I do see him in my dreams but he is always happy which makes me not too sad when I get up and I am glad he is out of pain.

PrettyLolo:
Yes..... My beloved son, my second child and first son. 6 months ago is still like yesterday in my mind. Each time I see his belongings, I cry.
God pls console me. I'm losing it all.
My 1yr3months boy.

May the good lord grant you peace and may his blessings never seize from you

quote author=elchapoo post=88877821]In 2009 I lost my Aunt that that was so good to me. She has been taking care of me since I was born and we don't joke with each other.
We spend every Christmas together in the villa till 08 December when I told her I was gonna spend the Christmas period with my family in my own villa,she was not happy with my decision but she later agreed after trying to convince me to spend the Xmas with her.all her children stays abroad so she stays with a house help.i visited like twice during the festive period and I can still remember how happy she was.
On 3rd of January 09 my Dad received a call that my auntie fell down while she was taking her bath so we rushed to her place.
Half of her body was paralyzed but she was still conscious.
I remember sitting beside her feeding her breakfast before we took her to hospital, I still remember the drama when she insisted that I should eat before she continued eating again,the people around there started laughing and exchanging words of how we both Love our self..festive period has come to an end for us so we all left for the city.
She was admitted at the hospital on that 3rd of January 09 I was with her all through till 15-jan 09 when I was supposed to pass the night in the hospital with her , I came up with all the excuses I could so will go in the morning. I can remember my conscience was telling to me go, that maybe something was about to happen but I insisted on maintaining my decision. I was watching TV in her sitting room suddenly around past 2am. I saw something approaching me from the kitchen in human stature shares same height with my auntie and the colour I saw was the same with rapper she was tying in the hospital, my head swollen and it suddenly disappeared. My instincts told me that something bad has happened but I kept my cool since I have not received any call from the hospital. In the morning I and my sister left for the hospital with her food, as we got there and opened the door( I was a private ward) I saw her lifeless body and oxygen cylinder which was not there before,chai It was like my world has come to an end,i placed my ear on her bared chest nothing, grabbed her wrist to feel her pulse nothing. I tried breathing into her mouth to see if will stare breathing, nothing, chai I felt like the world has come an end, I looked at my Dad, his eye balls was like red Sea but was not crying ..I made sure I didn't shed a drop of tears because I have had a myth that if someone close to you or relation dies and you didn't shed tears the person's ghost will be visiting..after her death no week will pass without seeing her in my dreams,like 4 days out of the 7 days in a week and continues like that till the end of 09 then I started seeing her like 3 times in a month and stretched to 2014 -15. I still see her once I while till today. I do pray against, cast and bind scary attacks in the dream but when she died and I started seeing her in my dream, it made realize I could ask her questions in my dream, question I needed answer to in real live. I always ask her (who killed you) because I don't believe her death was a natural death you know (village people)now lol. every time we meet in the dream my question continues but the problem was all along I was asking she was always mute steering at me in the dream while I asked her with anger and vengeance in my heart. one day at the last quarter of 2009 I saw her in my dream and she said that I should follow her so she could tell me who kill her, she took me to a bush part, entered inside the bush I followed and insisted that she should tell me who killed her, she started smiling as she was looking at me and was smiling till I woke up. After that day I stopped seeing her in my dreams the way I used to and I also stopped questioning her.
Sorry for the long story, but I just see this thread as an opportunity to pour my heart out.


RIP Decency
[/quote]Sorry about that,i have read so many deaths traceable to bathroom falls. Let's be careful and admonish our aged ones.

elchapoo:
In 2009 I lost my Aunt that that was so good to me. She has been taking care of me since I was born and we don't joke with each other.
We spend every Christmas together in the villa till 08 December when I told her I was gonna spend the Christmas period with my family in my own villa,she was not happy with my decision but she later agreed after trying to convince me to spend the Xmas with her.all her children stays abroad so she stays with a house help.i visited like twice during the festive period and I can still remember how happy she was.
On 3rd of January 09 my Dad received a call that my auntie fell down while she was taking her bath so we rushed to her place.
Half of her body was paralyzed but she was still conscious.
I remember sitting beside her feeding her breakfast before we took her to hospital, I still remember the drama when she insisted that I should eat before she continued eating again,the people around there started laughing and exchanging words of how we both Love our self..festive period has come to an end for us so we all left for the city.
She was admitted at the hospital on that 3rd of January 09 I was with her all through till 15-jan 09 when I was supposed to pass the night in the hospital with her , I came up with all the excuses I could so will go in the morning. I can remember my conscience was telling to me go, that maybe something was about to happen but I insisted on maintaining my decision. I was watching TV in her sitting room suddenly around past 2am. I saw something approaching me from the kitchen in human stature shares same height with my auntie and the colour I saw was the same with rapper she was tying in the hospital, my head swollen and it suddenly disappeared. My instincts told me that something bad has happened but I kept my cool since I have not received any call from the hospital. In the morning I and my sister left for the hospital with her food, as we got there and opened the door( I was a private ward) I saw her lifeless body and oxygen cylinder which was not there before,chai It was like my world has come to an end,i placed my ear on her bared chest nothing, grabbed her wrist to feel her pulse nothing. I tried breathing into her mouth to see if will stare breathing, nothing, chai I felt like the world has come an end, I looked at my Dad, his eye balls was like red Sea but was not crying ..I made sure I didn't shed a drop of tears because I have had a myth that if someone close to you or relation dies and you didn't shed tears the person's ghost will be visiting..after her death no week will pass without seeing her in my dreams,like 4 days out of the 7 days in a week and continues like that till the end of 09 then I started seeing her like 3 times in a month and stretched to 2014 -15. I still see her once I while till today. I do pray against, cast and bind scary attacks in the dream but when she died and I started seeing her in my dream, it made realize I could ask her questions in my dream, question I needed answer to in real live. I always ask her (who killed you) because I don't believe her death was a natural death you know (village people)now lol. every time we meet in the dream my question continues but the problem was all along I was asking she was always mute steering at me in the dream while I asked her with anger and vengeance in my heart. one day at the last quarter of 2009 I saw her in my dream and she said that I should follow her so she could tell me who kill her, she took me to a bush part, entered inside the bush I followed and insisted that she should tell me who killed her, she started smiling as she was looking at me and was smiling till I woke up. After that day I stopped seeing her in my dreams the way I used to and I also stopped questioning her.
Sorry for the long story, but I just see this thread as an opportunity to pour my heart out.


RIP Decency

Wow.. Is this for real? It's supernatural

starbuck:
The worse of it was that i saw when life was slipping away from my mom that very day, she was crying, she asked me to touch her legs to know if she can still feel it..... I almost died that day so she could live, other patients were praying so she could live because they said they haven't seen a bond between a mother and daughter like that before ... Finally, slipped away from her...


It's been 18 months now and i have refused to move on. Every 19th of each month, i completely shut off from the world so i can mourn her, i still want to have a moment with her to tell her everything that has happened since she left

https://www.jw.org/en/search/?q=When+someone+you+love+dies+
Trust me, follow this link, you'll find comfort, it helped me

UyaiIncomparabl:


I lost my sister's fiance few weeks ago too in that useless hospital. It's so painful that I cry whenever his name flashes through my mind.

They need to be shut down, however.
Coincidentally, his name too was Gideon.

Wow

My father in-law
I love him so so much......indeed a father
On March 1, 2020, he called and we played together. And even prayed for us
On March 2, 2020, he died.....so painful