She is asking for the input of married women especially but it is unmarried males dominating the comments

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

gbam. some women ehh am disappointed, they think marriage is all about sex... Service oga my foot. Such men can even sleep with anything even if the wife gives him daily... He is so dangerous even to his children. I bet his jobless that's why it's always sex that is on his mind, Nonsense

Too much sex is stupid, in fact doesn't even make sense, only an abnormal person would do that. Ur husband doesn't even need to be told at least he should know that u are not a machine, why would he always engage u in sex, he lacks respect for u. Please talk to him about it before he kills u with sex because if u die he will look for someone else to continue the rubbish with, u said he is faithful but I seriously doubt it perhaps all the rubbish he's been doing with other stupid girls out there before lockdown he is now giving u the overload due to this lockdown. I am sorry to say this that he is not a responsible man, what sort of rubbish is that?

Man wasn't created for cheating. Cheating is not a nature of man. Just discuss with him.
Tell him politely. Married women can also advice you. But it seems non of the women here are married. Women hardly speak about sex to their husbands. I leave this for married women to advice you

The best solution is to always delay his food . He will fight for food rather than sex
He has something in his belly that why is libido is high

Everyday is not Christmas, which one is sex everyday? If he is angry make e knack head for wall

Unik3030:
u didn't have sex b4 marriage,meaning d guy waited to own it rightfully n now u are complaining again....u are a confusionist

So you are saying the woman has no right to let out her plight because the Man waited?


Interesting.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue. Please how can one cope. Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it

you need to try a counter approach, engage him for 3 days non stop, like making him do it round the clock, 8 rounds daily, yes, give him overdose and finish him off, he will eventually ran and respect you as a champion in the game. Bae Thanks me later

LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido

Is it a do or die?

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

A woman who thinks like you will make a bad wife. is that how to console a lady who brought her marital problem for advise? terrible!

LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido

take it easy ma'am! Pls do not generalise it ok, not all men are cheats so as women and hey Nigerian men are handsome and working.

Does he want to kill you? Op if he hates the smell of garlic,make sure you chew it and smell garlic all over in other to supress his urges and give you some break

Here to read comments. I know it would soon degenerate to a full blown argument and yabbing.

Ishilove:
She is asking for the input of married women especially but it is unmarried males dominating the comments

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

Perhaps if it is pushed to a wider audience you will get the input you need. Front-page?

Rozz:
Does he want to kill you? Op if he hates the smell of garlic,make sure you chew it and smell garlic all over in other to supress his urges and give you some break

Terrible! Little wonder they say "not all women are wife material".
what happened to communication? assume it's your sister that brought such case to you. When a spouse is displeased about a character of the other spouse, nothing is as loving as talking it over with each other.

James289:


gbam. some women ehh am disappointed, they think marriage is all about sex... Service oga my foot. Such men can even sleep with anything even if the wife gives him daily... He is so dangerous even to his children. I bet his jobless that's why it's always sex that is on his mind, Nonsense

Ahn Ahn. It's not up to this nah.



Why do people assume a lot on this forum?

Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

it's a pity it hurts but you see like someone said earlier, try to have an open mind towards it and I will encourage you do more of pre-intimacy. the more wet you get the more pleasurable it will be but all depends on your mind set also.

Unik3030:
u are not willing to give it to him everytime despite d fact u are married....hope if he seeks solace outside u won't complain oooo.cos it's like not giving someone enough food n still telling him not to get it outside

I believe sex is the number one ingredients in marriage, but seriously sex don't keep a man, Giving a man sex everyday will not make him not to cheat , the sad truth is A cheat is a cheat if you like give him sex 24/7 do acrobatic and turn 360degree on the bed he will still cheat...

Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

I asked you some questions, you did not answer.

I am worried he is trying to blackmail you with adultery.

What exactly are your concerns? So you can compromise a bit and tell him to compromise a bit.

Leave him alone, let him enjoy it till last.time is coming where he will b begging u to understand him..we do pass ham den....na time !!!!

lie playing games.. or get Ludo

Romanoff:
I'm not married yet but I'd like to think you're lucky you're the only one he's having sex with.

Maybe now that you know, incorporate other fun activities into your lives that can give you some space.

Maybe binge watch some series, especially during this lockdown.

Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

skedman:
The best solution is to always delay his food . He will fight for food rather than sex
He has something in his belly that why is libido is high

My own oga prefers sex to food, so its not by food at all.

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

A friend is in this shit. More than 10yrs of marriage.
She cried out after like 6yrs of bondage. The worst thing is that if a situation calls for them being separate for some time, he will find relief elsewhere. Once she comes back from hospital after delivery, he will continue pounding her without mercy. When her mum visited for the first òmùgwò, she noticed and approached her but she was being a good wife and denied. Her biggest mistake and regret.

Her vaginal walls don't have feelings anymore. She is constantly dry. She don't have sexual feelings anymore.
Nothing entices her again as far as making love is concerned.

The only exception is during menses but not always.

Babe, talk to your people probably your mum. She is in the best position to protect and fight for u.
I honestly don't have a clue except this.

Lizboh:




My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

This is scary... Imagining your scenario is giving me bumps.

Lizboh:




My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

It's not advisable to live with that. At first ladies see this as form of showing affection and continue to enable it so to pull out is now problem.

I don't know about others and I don't lack self esteem but I will never allow a man to pound me more than twice a week. We check out this before saying I do.
That's part of compatibility.
If we can't agree on that, all man go his way. Can't continue doing something I don't enjoy. men like that have high sexual hormones. They should learn how to masturbate, get fulfilment from mouth action or even bang sex doll and leave me alone. I didn't come to this world to rump everyday.

Why do I find both of you guys cute? Keep keeping safe.

sassysure:

A friend is in this shit. More than 10yrs of marriage.
She cried out after like 6yrs of bondage. The worst thing is that if a situation calls for them being separate for some time, he will find relief elsewhere. Once she comes back from hospital after delivery, he will continue pounding her without mercy. When her mum visited for the first òmùgwò, she noticed and approached her but she was being a good wife and denied. Her biggest mistake and regret.

Her vaginal walls don't have feelings anymore. She is constantly dry. She don't have sexual feelings anymore.
Nothing entices her again as far as making love is concerned.

The only exception is during menses but not always.

Babe, talk to your people probably your mum. She is in the best position to protect and fight for u.
I honestly don't have a clue except this.

Pls what will her mother protect her from and who will the mother fight ?.

I don't think sex can make the wall of a vagina dry

How can a married man be having sex on a daily bases? Is he normal or doesn't he have other things thinking about? I am married too and I can't imagine myself having sex everyday when I have enough task both in career wise and in education. Maybe the man doesn't have what he is thinking of?

I'm guessing you have a child
maybe one
I'm guessing you were a very good girl growing up


well it's not that bad what you have

don't let commentaries here bend your mind cuz you don't have a problem.

for me you have not had sex so many time
in the past i.e before your husband came
I doubt if you had it at all before marriage, so see it as making up for those time you were chaste.

sassysure:

It's not advisable to live with that. At first ladies see this as form of showing affection and continue to enable it so to pull out is now problem.

I don't know about others and I don't lack self esteem bit I will never allow a man to pound me more than twice a week. We check out this before saying I do.
That's part of compatibility.
If we can't agree on that, all man go his way. Can't continue doing something I don't enjoyed men have high male sexual hormones. They should learn how to masturbate, get fulfilment from.mouth action or even bang sex doll and leave me alone. I didn't come to this world to rump everyday.

Its not about low self esteem..my husband is my best friend and I'm also his. We get well together. We've been together for 25yrs now and our fist child is 20yrs now. So its not moimoi. Giving in to his demands is tactical for me, I've developed strategies I use in dealing.