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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by zedegit: 9:28pm On Apr 26, 2020
sassysure:

It's not advisable to live with that. At first ladies see this as form of showing affection and continue to enable it so to pull out is now problem.

I don't know about others and I don't lack self esteem but I will never allow a man to pound me more than twice a week. We check out this before saying I do.
That's part of compatibility.
If we can't agree on that, all man go his way. Can't continue doing something I don't enjoy. men like that have high sexual hormones. They should learn how to masturbate, get fulfilment from mouth action or even bang sex doll and leave me alone. I didn't come to this world to rump everyday.

You draw timetable?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by josen16322(m): 9:35pm On Apr 26, 2020
There is a sayin dat good sex makes a good home dont take dat 4 granted wink smiley

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Apr 26, 2020
Only a man without discipline and ambition will be thinking of sex everytime. Perhaps, he has a condition making him preoccupied with sex, he should see a therapist.

Sex is not food and only hormonal boys are always in the mood. I was like your husband in my teens and early 20's and so were most guys but it is natural to grow out of it.

With age comes discipline and with personal development, sex takes the back burner. Your husband has issues and he needs to sort it out before he kills himself with over exertion.
PS.
I strongly believe it's a fake story though.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Apr 26, 2020
Remind him that you're a human being, not a machine.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Apr 26, 2020
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.
.choose one
He should marry more wives or side chicks?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by zedegit: 9:38pm On Apr 26, 2020
Lovexme:


Even if you never knew, didn't you guys have discussions about sex?

This is why they say marry who you're sexually compatible with. You mustn't have premarital sex to know that!

How?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Lovexme(m): 9:41pm On Apr 26, 2020
zedegit:


How?

Kindly read my first paragraph again.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by zedegit: 10:04pm On Apr 26, 2020
Lovexme:


Kindly read my first paragraph again.

Okay. Although a lol of people shy away from such discussions as it looks 'ungodly' but it's very critical though.

Some ladies will say anything just to get the ring then lock shop or grudgingly acquiesce.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by placeofallure(f): 10:13pm On Apr 26, 2020
Donald3d:
smiley

Sex sex sex...... grin grin grin grin grin

Lack of it causes wahala, too much of it causes wahala.

What I have learnt is, no matter how much it gets, if its done right, you won't get tired of it.
Have you talked to Oga, about the pain you feel ?
Maybe its your mindset ?
You could try opening your mind to enjoy it too, it would make a lot of difference.


If you see it as a chore, or "disturbance", you would end up feeling pain, because its not been done with the right frame of mind


Please tell oga to read my post here, you can read it too, it would help.

https://www.nairaland.com/5727914/not-been-able-sex-yet#87318647



You don't understand OP when she mentioned something about feeling pain. It's not the act in itself that is painful. It's the aftermath condition of the area. You may not possibly understand this because you're not a woman. Even if the area was wet while in action, something did pass through it consistently over a period of time- few minutes, longer minutes or hours probably. There's no way it won't be bruised. Her complain is the hubby will not give it time to heal before another marathon starts. Whether massive instrument or small, even if na toothpick, won't you feel some pain down there?

She should talk the hubby into taking it easy. We can compromise for the ones we love.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Oksman(m): 10:26pm On Apr 26, 2020
Iamundisputed:


Well, it's a good thing that your husband finds you sexually attractive and doesn't hide his feelings.

If he wants sex everyday and you can't handle it, there are other freaky things you can do to spice up the relationship. Encourage him to kiss and handle you more instead of the main sex and with time, he'll get used to it. You can also tell him when you're too tired to have sex or you're uninterested. No big deal...

But make no mistake, a man with a high sex drive will demand for it most times, so you need to also get used to it. It's part of your marital rights.


Am i missing something here ?
I believe you mean responsibility?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Oksman(m): 10:32pm On Apr 26, 2020
bukatyne:

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*speechless*

Thats the most stupid advice i've read here in a long time.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Apr 26, 2020
Oksman:



Am i missing something here ?
I believe you mean responsibility?

Rites* (yea, aka responsibility) wink

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MurderX: 10:42pm On Apr 26, 2020
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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by chinwezdasilva: 10:51pm On Apr 26, 2020
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.
would it hv stopped you from marrying him?

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nellychinma20(f): 10:59pm On Apr 26, 2020
God bless you. Sexism has shown Nigerian women shege ��‍♀️��‍♀️��‍♀️. Imagine “u are lucky”
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bimpe29: 10:59pm On Apr 26, 2020
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.
Spot on

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Heineken(m): 11:04pm On Apr 26, 2020
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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Heineken(m): 11:06pm On Apr 26, 2020
Ishilove beautiful madam. Help her push it to frontpage na.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Apr 26, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat
Are you related to oga devil?

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KNOWMORE56: 11:39pm On Apr 26, 2020
Lizboh:




My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

Thanks for your response. Another thing I want you to tell her is about her fear that everyday sex effect the vagina; are you seeing any negative effect?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KNOWMORE56: 12:04am On Apr 27, 2020
Young woman, my own advice for you is practice makes perfect, if you are not having any health challenges, then, try your best to satisfy your man. You said everyday sex effect the vagina this is not correct.
Is there any other man you want to use it to attract apart from this man?
THINGS TO TRY:
1. Give him 2-3 days straight with endurance, he'll become tired
2. Stop showing the sign that he's too powerful, this sign makes men want to do more.
3. Use madam Lizboh approach; pretend as if you are not aware.
4. Don't ever try to play with your sex life, it has destroyed many marriages

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KNOWMORE56: 12:23am On Apr 27, 2020
Lizboh:



Its not about low self esteem..my husband is my best friend and am also his. We get well together. We've been together for 25yrs now and our fist child is 20yrs now. So its not moimoi. Giving in to his demands is tactical for me, I've developed strategies I use in dealing.

God bless you with many love from your husband woman. When someone is talking from experience the difference is clear

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by coolest01(m): 12:53am On Apr 27, 2020
skedman:
The best solution is to always delay his food . He will fight for food rather than sex
He has something in his belly that why is libido is high
hahahahahaha
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ednut1(m): 4:57am On Apr 27, 2020
I just. Weak
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by andyanders: 5:36am On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.


op, why is it that you women can't be pleased in life without complaining? He fails to perform, you complain, and now he performs you complain. Have you discussed with him in a friendly manner in your privacy b4, how you feel and hear from him? Your husband has high sex drive and negative action could drive him away from you and he will seek for it outside and you might end up loosing him. Adjust to his sex drive and keep him or you end up expossing him to the outside world to the detriment of your marriage. Thousands of women herein or outside wants to have ur kind of man. Be carefull and adjust or you loose him and regret later since you stated that he is a nice man.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by jefy(m): 5:40am On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.
but seriously,the women folks seem confused,if the man does want sex wahala,if he wants wahala. Watin owner want sef? If he looks at another woman,owner go fight and quarrel ,even kill. Men are what they are,not by choice,but by nature.. You women should be creative,there are several ways to weaken him if you dont want hard,long penetration. Why not give him a head? Or even a hand so your pained v.j can rest. How long will you complain? Men love sex,but i can assure you,you women love it more and you folks are stronger too thats why most men get high on drugs to hit you hard,all to your satisfaction. Babe abeg,when u tayer,just position make him hit u small from behind,twist fast if you want him out quick or give hime head to head mouth or hand action,he will take a break for few days. Stop complaining and get to work and spice up your relationship. Men like am hot hot,no be their fault,nah God make am so. Thank me later for the advice. You sef try make u enjoy watin him they do you,put ur mind and forget the pain

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by beautifulrosa: 6:10am On Apr 27, 2020
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

Coming from an man.
Respect!!!

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 6:15am On Apr 27, 2020
somebody is complaining and the men are telling her on how to cope with it and continue to endure till she passed out abi ? Go and report him to his parents or his pastor.mchew

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by femi4: 7:18am On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue. Please how can one cope. Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it
Give him tasks to do like washing, sweeping, engaging the children etc

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Oyiboman69: 7:33am On Apr 27, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:38am On Apr 27, 2020
sadOnly a numbskulll would say that sex on a daily basis is a normal thing. I have read severally in write-ups from experts that 2-3, times sex in a week is is normal for healthy married people. it's a pity when a lady does the right thing by abstaining till marriage, then ends up with these kinds of issues. Anyman who has sex everyday has a serious issue and should seek medical help. I don't know why any male should say that a woman cannot experience pain due to daily sex, who told you, are you a woman to speak? The word nymphomaniac still exists in the dictionary, the OP should seek counselling and be hopeful for the lockdown to end so that her husband can get busy again, and life goes back to normal.

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