ImaIma1:


Guy, you keep shooting yourself in the foot. Because everything you are saying I am doing is what you are doing...damage control for instance.

Nigga rest...you like fight and quarrel. Everything hot hot and serious. Abeg bother someone else

crackkhaus:

I'm shooting myself in the foot and doing damage control from not answering a question you asked?

Or you don't know the meaning of damage control?

ImaIma1:


As I asked...Was I under any obligation to answer your questions? No. You cannot beat me if I don't. You can only release steam like you have been doing.

Not everyone will give in to your wimps and tantrums. So get used to it. You are not the only one that has an opinion.

pocohantas:
Lol. Some people get energy sha.

Kai!!!



When people post to educate, not to argue, win or induce headache- you will know.

Sapphire11:

I dont know which of your post to quote so I decided to quote this. I believe this topic is about conflict resolution in marriage, in light of silent treatment and not eating madams food which you're in full support of.
I believe couples can come to term with which conflict resolution is best for them, without having to go through the unhealthy silent treatment way. Someone said a married man got tired of always begging the wife first and eventually backed out, realistically humans would get tired of acts they see to be unhealthy to them emotionally, because seriously no human will be cool with being the one to beg ALL the time whether right or wrong. Sooner or later you will be pushed to your limit.
This isn't different from men using silent treatment and ignoring foods from their wives, maybe it could work out in a couple of times but trust me that woman would soon be pushed to the limit and see no use of whether you're silent or not even eating.
It is likened to biological control of pest, before you know it the pest you're trying to eliminate will soon get used and become resistant to whatever treatment you're using on it.
The best is to find[b] a midway[/b] that would work for both partners without having to keep malice with each other(it can be emotionally draining), or subject one patner to always be the one to beg. Both arent healthy.

ImaIma1:


As I asked...Was I under any obligation to answer your questions? No. You cannot beat me if I don't. You can only release steam like you have been doing.

Not everyone will give in to your wimps and tantrums. So get used to it. You are not the only one that has an opinion.

Biglittlelois:



Ma'am, a sly will always be a sly, ignore and let it rest, those that understand your points, understands completely, have a great day.

crackkhaus:
Fountainofyouth AKA Biglittlelois has arrived again to interfere in my matter as always.

Hell hath no fury like a scorned girl.

I want absolutely nothing to do with you, get used to it and stop tracking my comments all over the forum.

Ironic:

Are both operated by one?

ImaIma1:

Yeah, thanks.

He can't help himself. Let me not indulge him further.

crackkhaus:

100%

And she told me herself

Ironic:

Personality disorder then.

One is vile, the other is calm.

crackkhaus:

And that's just one of them, the disorders are plenty.

What do they call the one where you can convince yourself that someone is in love with you, then you start lashing out when they don't act that way?

Ironic:

Lash of love.

Sehindemi:
If a man can be so childish and petty to reject my food because of an issue of yesterday or yesteryear then he should be ready to die of starvation.
My DH isn't this foolish or childish, he is a man. No need waiting to be served food before you bring up your perceived unruly disposition, so if he was staying in another country, he would wait till he returns to the country and to be served food to express his dissatisfaction about things.
Stop this travesty of a narrative and man up to communicate your feelings or be ready to die of starvation like Dog Major.

Kseafresh:
You Lack wisdom

Sehindemi:

Like your mother.

Sehindemi:


Like your mother.