You are just complaining because your pussy has not become ote. Are they not your fellow women that give that service as a job; 10--20 or more costumers with different faces, sizes and lasting power, and weird styles? Common do your job without complaints; thank God you got someone dutiful in tending your garden, the prayer of most women.

sassysure:

It's not advisable to live with that. At first ladies see this as form of showing affection and continue to enable it so to pull out is now problem.

I don't know about others and I don't lack self esteem but I will never allow a man to pound me more than twice a week. We check out this before saying I do.
That's part of compatibility.
If we can't agree on that, all man go his way. Can't continue doing something I don't enjoy. men like that have high sexual hormones. They should learn how to masturbate, get fulfilment from mouth action or even bang sex doll and leave me alone. I didn't come to this world to rump everyday.

U just off me like this ehe... But if I may ask, hope u will still play by the rules (2x weekly sex) when the table turns.meaning,u eventually be the one getting Hot an asking for sex more than aforementioned times, afteral we are all humans... My dear try an loosen up, is just sex... There are far more serious marital issues than sex

It is your society that has given you this mentality and it is what you grew up to see, Same society wouldn't tell a man to consider himself lucky that his wife still finds him attractive, despite the unattractiveness of many men. Something is definitely wrong with the way Nigerian men reason when it comes to fidelity between both genders. You also talked about facing temptations? Married women face temptations as well, it's all about self descipline. Both genders can develop self descipline, it's just a matter of choice. Following the bandwagon to do wrong, does not mean one does not have the ability to do what is right. You stick to your opinion, I stick to mine.

bigass123:


My dear... Listen and listen very carefully.
Cheating in marriages has been going for only God knows how long. But in these last days it has become so rampant that its gradually becoming a norm (you don't have to agree with me) but it is the fact.
In 10 marriages, 8 of them have one cheating spouse: one or both of the spouses will definitely be cheating.
Sad but true, infidelity has eaten so deep into marriages the world over.
Having said that, if you find a home where the man who is oftentimes considered polygamous in nature, and the most likely to cheat sticks to his woman and refuses to cheat or adapt to the modern day "norm". Shouldn't the woman be grateful or thankful she has a faithful and God fearing man.
Do you have an idea how many sexual temptations men (single and married alike) face daily? If you know, you know. If you don't know, explaining to you will only be an effort in futility.
The point is : If you have a faithful man, vigorously thank God for him and still pray for him not to fall into temptation. The world is going berserk and abnormalities are gradually becoming the norm.

Give it to him noni
Except when ure on your period

The major point here is that your husband has a higher sexual libido than yours and you need to understand it. If you love him and you don't want him to cheat or destroy your marriage, you need to step up your game. Firstly, you need to have the mindset that sex is meant to be enjoyed by both parties, don't see yourself as someone's sex machine - you need it as much as he does. Then, look for ways to make sex more enjoyable. Do things that will arouse your sexual urge, so that you are already in the mood before he asked for it. I believe by the time you are giving it to him very well, naturally he will relax and give you more gaps. Meanwhile, on occasion when you are too tired for the action, calmly explain to him and let him realize you will make it up with him some other times.

On another note, if you don't manage your sexual activities with your husband very well, you may end up not having a happy marriage. Your husband's case is not abnormal, it's happening to a whole lot of people outside there. Some husbands demand might be more, while husbands that are not performing to 'standard' can even be worse.

Shutt the phuckk up, you are are a left over from failed parents. I grew up in a decent monogamous family. As you quoted me, what exact point have you been able to make? Yes, i am proudly a 21st century woman, I don't need to learn/do everything my mum did in her marriage.i chose the one I feel is good enough and practice, it's that simple, deal with it!

bigass123:


You're just another 21st century immature I'd!ot with no idea what marriage or even life is about.
Tell me is your mom still married and lives with your father? If YES.. Go back to her to teach you how to handle issues like this because you still have a lot to learn. Work towards ending stvpid!ty and ignorance so you don't end up as another single mother. It's already becoming a problem in the world.

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Which is why having sex before marriage is somehow encouraging.

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sassysure:

It's not advisable to live with that. At first ladies see this as form of showing affection and continue to enable it so to pull out is now problem.

I don't know about others and I don't lack self esteem but I will never allow a man to pound me [/b]more than twice a week[b]. We check out this before saying I do.
That's part of compatibility.
If we can't agree on that, all man go his way. Can't continue doing something I don't enjoy. men like that have high sexual hormones. They should learn how to masturbate, get fulfilment from mouth action or even bang sex doll and leave me alone. I didn't come to this world to rump everyday.

fake news!

Saintkollyjoe:
My wife does nor deny me sex but after 3 child births, I discovered that I vagina is not as tight as before. Furthermore she has become too churchy and she refuses me sex a lot. We used to have argument. Later I found myself a sidebae. Her pussy is tight and she gives me good sex. Nowadays months will go without me asking for sex from my wife and If I eventually have sex, it is just to fulfil righteousness. Mind you, I don't hate my wife, in fact I love her extremely. But men should enjoy sex with women without guilt. Inside the grave there is no sex. As for you complaining about everyday sex, all I can say is don't complain when the man eventually leaves u for someone who can supply his demands. It is not blackmail. It is pure action and reaction.

YOU ARE COMMITTING ADULTERY, THATS VERY WRONG, GOD FROWNS AT SUCH, THINK OF UR KIDS TOO, YOU ARE ONLY BRINGING CURSES UPON YOUR HEAD, PLS STOP, QUIT THAT SIDEBAE

Amumaigwe:


Or you have neither enough drive nor stamina to function optimally. Did the OP tell you that her husband is jobless?

There is more to life than sex oga. Sex is not the ultimate in life.

I wonder why your spouse isn’t yet tired of everyday sex, very soon you would be the one complaining he’s not having sex with you

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

julietsim you are crazy oooOh,what most woman pray for and you are here complaining

You Should advice him to add second wife�

Weldone olosho in the making

So instead of giving it to your husband you prefer to give it to random guys

sassysure:

It works for u, fine.
U accepted it, don't assume it will work for others.
And it's low self esteem. Women being afraid they may lose their husband to the other lady is the cause of this. Let me satisfy him so he won't go out. Make a research babe. That is exactly what this babe did. She was the good wife that shouldn't deny her husband, he is too good to her so why will she withhold herself. It's a sin. Part of the virtuous woman.
So she keep on enabling the selfish act from her husband.
She never ever initiate sex cos she never hunger for it

That's the most selfish act a husband can pull against the wife and guilt trip her if she says otherwise cos she lacks the self confidence to say no and mean it.
U can term it anything u want.

Rozz:
no pastor will ignore his wife's complain as this man is doing to his wife

No pastor indeed.. your type will even regard your pastors better than yourself and parents.. Not knowing that pastors preaches things they don't do.. pastors with high urge like the man will be raping his wife and still be preaching you coconut heads that raping is a sin while his wife will sit and be watching like coconut head just like girls coza pastor bleeped and still preach holiness on pulpit will be watching him.. My sister wise up.

Osobi32:
welcome to Africa......

Abegi, men cheat worldwide. The rate of divorce is even higher in developed countries than in Nigeria.

excessmon:
Weldone olosho in the making

So instead of giving it to your husband you prefer to give it to random guys

If all the qoutes I saw, this is the most hilarious
Thank u
U can come so I will couch you
We have male olosho and they make money more than the female ones.

I will couch you well , u know

Lol how do you want to know sexual compatability without having sex You guys are very funny,religious dogmatism have it's perks too,the best is to just hope to meet a partner that shares the same sexual needs with you

Rozz:
so bold,so compatibility cannot be known until you fornicate abi?change your mindset sir

ABI ooo....

Nwaonyishi69:
You are just complaining because your pussy has not become ote. Are they not your fellow women that give that service as a job; 10--20 or more costumers with different faces, sizes and lasting power, and weird styles? Common do your job without complaints; thank God you got someone dutiful in tending your garden, the prayer of most women.

DeRay98:


That's how you know them, unmarried, men hating and frustrated.
This Op didn't insult or describe her husband with any of the fowl words your imaginations is spitting out now.
Neither did she accuse him of unfaithfulness or unkind, why are you taking it personal, na your own?
If you are so frustrated with other's opinion leave the thread and read another one.
All these "feminists" sef...

Their case is different o!

LilMissFavvy:
Shutt the phuckk up, you are are a left over from failed parents. I grew up in a decent monogamous family. As you quoted me, what exact point have you been able to make? Yes, i am proudly a 21st century woman, I don't need to learn/do everything my mum did in her marriage.i chose the one I feel is good enough and practice, it's that simple, deal with it!

Nkea ana amacha.. na her type man dey use beat band.. and las las she go buy headtie and join prayer wing for church

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

haba..lol.

Madam, your attitude to sex is not the right one. Your feeling is that it is your husband who needs sex and loving and not you. Until you appreciate the goodness and pleasure that comes from mutual sharing and enjoyment, you gain nothing.

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Very wrong advice... Pls ignore this.


Be careful the kind of advice you listen to Mrs, some of the people giving you advice are not married, If you don't handle this with care you will push your husband to the world... The tears of too much sex in marriage is worst than that of when he's cheating on you and finally push you out... They are thousands of ladies out there who don't mind taking your husband and giving him sex 3 times a day...

I will advice you to learn to enjoy it, he will soon get tired of it,If you doubt me go and ask those who have been married for over 10 years.

THE PROBLEM I SEE HERE IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND BUT YOU, YOU HAVE LOW SEX DRIVE, I THINK YOU SHOULD SEE THE DOCTOR.....

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

I swear you deserve award

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Be careful the kind of advice you listen to Mrs, some of the people giving you advice are not married, If you don't handle this with care you will push your husband to the world... The tears of too much sex in marriage is worst than that of when he's cheating on you and finally push you out... They are thousands of ladies out there who don't mind taking your husband and giving him sex 3 times a day...

I will advice you to learn to enjoy it, he will soon get tired of it,If you doubt me go and ask those who have been married for over 10 years.

THE PROBLEM I SEE HERE IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND BUT YOU,I THINK YOU HAVE LOW SEX DRIVE, I THINK YOU SHOULD SEE THE DOCTOR.....

kalufelix:
Just cut the trash already... You are just speaking through the mirror of a woman.. An [/b]unmarried one at that[b]... See there is no schedule/timetable for a mans sexual urge.. Our forefathers and indeed some religion that accept polygamy are not foolish...case closed!!

word!

MMotimo:
You are a human being with feelings, not a machine. You should not feel compelled to do it anytime and every time he’s in the mood.
You both have to discuss this and reach a compromise. Marriage is not a visa to sexual bondage

Aunty Juliet here's your answer. I support this. Think about it.

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Feminist!