KNOWMORE56:


God bless you with many love from your husband woman. When someone is talking from experience the difference is clear

Enyi stop encouraging mediocrity. advice the husband to get a job.

Amumaigwe:


I agree. But tell us the list of those ultimate things you have achieved as a result of your very poor sex drive. Why are we not hearing about you? Moteover, good sex drive is also a proof of good health. So watch it bro.

Oga go ahead and have sex 10x daily for 1 year. I hope u c my pics. Have fun sexing all day long, don't do anything just keep sexing till eternity. It is good for your health.

LilMissFavvy:
Men also lose their good looks. Besides, very many women are still attractive in their 30s,40s,50s, etc. A man that lost interest in his does that because of greed/lack of self descipline.

True. Everybody loose that at a point. But men, letr in life. Becouse men are valued based on their ability to provide and their status in sociaty. Talk about greed. If women like men becouse of resources then I don't see why men with resources shouldn't have as much women as he can afford.

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

I don't buy dis idea...I don't blame u the woman that brought her family affairs here is to be blame...she is married and if she has any problem in her marriage is for her to sit her husband down and discuss their issues... Moreover she said her husband is a Good man....Do that Good man deserved to be drag here..

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Madam OP,
"Holy Mary" no dey the other room.. there's no room for sanctimonious mode in the marital couple's Bedmatics....

Great communication is the lifeblood of every stable marriage, have you ever discuss this matter with your spouse? For example, extensive pre-intimacy and naughty/love SMS to get you in the mood long before the real action begins..
This period of lockdown is a great time for you and your spouse to find workable solution to this issue.

Could it be your spouse is getting high on illicit substances with aphrodisiac properties?

You have to discreetly find out and seek ways to wean him off those harmful substances, else in a few years time, "3rd leg" no go fit stand gidigba (diminishing returns).

You have to assess your feelings as to why you don't feel OK about hubby's sexual needs..
Perhaps, you need to adjust your (maybe sex is dirty) mindset & begin to enjoy yourself.
A married couple has no excuse to deprive each other of sex,except by mutual consent..

If the bad situation persists, please consult a sex therapist or Clinical Psychologist...
Also , pray for your home to weather every storm.

bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

Yes, he is lucky because the man is Ok eating the same soup everyday. Don't you know that one toto is not good for the prick.

U gotta cope ma

Gracemadeit:
Oga go ahead and have sex 10x daily for 1 year. I hope u c my pics. Have fun sexing all day long, don't do anything just keep sexing till eternity. It is good for your health.

When you are finally famous in those your ultimate goals, if ever, let us know.

AkupeMBANO:

See advice. i nearly puked!

How? Why?

Bastarrrdd, I guess in your dictionary the word divorce does not exist, it exists in mine. When abuse sets in, the best thing to do is to exit the door. This is 21st century, I cannot turn into a prayer warrior because of a man, I'd rather channel such energy into caring for myself and kids.

Emmanuelhector:
Nkea ana amacha.. na her type man dey use beat band.. and las las she go buy headtie and join prayer wing for church

LilMissFavvy:
Stupidd, dead brained failed loser. My dad is an exception...... Carry your irritating self out of here.

I understand your frustration lol

Your water infested brain can never comprehend anything, stop imargining.

BerlinGado:

I understand your frustration lol

Amumaigwe:


When you are finally famous in those your ultimate goals, if ever, let us know.

Oga why not share your opinion on the post and let go of my opinion. My success? None of ya business. Just face sex OK.

SweetCunt97:
How? Why?

find something cleaner Madame. forget this olosho talk. it's abnormal for a man to be pounding on the wife everyday. even when she's not in the mood? Haba! where is the mutualism. you want to kill someone's daughter because you paid dowry? that man should fix a job. for him to be thinking of sex all day, which means he has nothing else thinking about. he only takes tramadol and f*ck that's all. for example, me wey wan build hotel for asaba soonest, Instead of me to be thinking of big bucks to achieve my aim, na toto i go dey think of every sec. that man is not well.

Going by what you have said, reverse the scenario. How about women who earn more than their husbands or are bread winners, are you trying to say they can also commit adultery simply because they got more cash? Your answer will be 'no'. People should learn self descipline irrespective of gender. It is wrong for you to place so much emphasis on financial status.

TheRedpillguy:

True. Everybody loose that at a point. But men, letr in life. Becouse men are valued based on their ability to provide and their status in sociaty. Talk about greed. If women like men becouse of resources then I don't see why men with resources shouldn't have as much women as he can afford.

AkupeMBANO:

find something cleaner Madame. forget this olosho talk. it's abnormal for a man to be pounding on the wife everyday. even when she's not in the mood? Haba! where is the mutualism. you want to kill someone's daughter because you paid dowry? that man should fix a job. for him to be thinking of sex all day, which means he has nothing else thinking about. he only takes tramadol and f*ck that's all. for example, me wey wan build hotel for asaba soonest, Instead of me to be thinking of big bucks to achieve my aim, na toto i go dey think of every sec. that man is not well.

I share your sentiments but the woman complaining and even acting all sore and all won't change the man.

SweetCunt97:
I share your sentiments but the woman complaining and even acting all sore and all won't change the man.

even after talking to her husband about her plight the gigolo won't change? although issues sprout Up in marriage sometimes, but marriage was supposed to be sweet, comfortable and involve a high level of understanding? not so? which means niggar is a beast. she should involve third party then, family or whatever.
Infact i'm tired!!

AkupeMBANO:

sorry to say. your husband is a mad dog. I don't want to say more than this because i might sound more aggressive. before you start judging i'm married too. No real man should turn his wife to a sex slave because you paid dowry. atimes Big boys look away because the mutual feeling isn't there. what nonsense? This your comment has spoilt my whole day. I will equally advice you to continue since you are already used to it.

You are a very stupid man for saying that trash about my husband. Idiot....whatever am facing is my problem and not yours Mr blocked and empty brain. Save your advise for your sisters and daughters.

Lizboh:




You are a very stupid man for saying that trash about my husband. Idiot....whatever am facing is my problem and not yours Mr blocked and empty brain. Save your advise for your sisters and daughters.

stop bringing up jobless advice on the media. both you and your husband are sick! sex maniacs

bukatyne:

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*speechless*

which kind useless food you put for pix? Nnyama

GreatChizzy:
Me, I have sex EVERYDAY!!! Sometimes twice a day. I showed my wife this post, and we both found it surprisingly that having sex EVERYDAY is considered tiring by others. Note, We been married for four years now.

Oshe! Awon eeyan german machine

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. [/b]I never knew he was like this.[b]

� funny though

domino4211:

It's not a matter of me changing my mindset.
This is reality.
Every human has what I call a "sexual profile"..
And you never know your sexual profile until you've had sex before.
We all have different sexual preferences and many men have different sexual problems(weak erection,low sperm count,premature ejaculation,impotence,small and tiny dicks)..
Some men and women like long marathon sex while others prefer short multiple sex.
Some women have dry vaginas.
These variations makes it imperative to know who you're compatible with just to avoid the kinda predicament the Op is in now..
When you end up marrying someone you aint sexually ok with,youd end up enduring your marriage. Marriage should be enjoyed.
If the man loves marathon sex,the wife should too or she ends up enduring and suffering in silence just to keep the marriage.
Same if the man isn't that sexually active,he needs a woman who isn't too.
How do you know your sexual compatibility?
You Bleep,that's how.
Leave religion outta this.
This right here is reality.
Marriage should be endured.
Some women marry blindly and luckily end up with a compatible spouse.This isn't always the case,majority of women who marry blindly either get divorced or have to endure their marriage that should be enjoyed..
Like it or not,there is sense in what I'm saying..
If you disagree,kindly tell me how you'd know a man's sexual capacity when you haven't had sex..

hey i can't even argue much ,before this our generation people had happy marriages and didn't fornicate before getting married.Anyways everyone with his/her own opinion

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

To be candid with you, I understand clearly how you feel. please do this and it will help you, a man who is weak can't have sex, he is your husband, subdue him with mouth action. a man release faster wen a woman suck him than the normal sex. give him mouth action and he would release faster and once a man releases, he becomes weak. You may hate it but it will help stop the pains you have cos of constant sex. use this as a strategy and you will have more time to rest than you think ok.

Have you ever praised the man sincerely for a job well done?

Its like a wrestling match, sometimes when the other party has overwhelmed you, acknowledge it and tell him he has won.

Just seat him down one day and say, My Darling "you are a true man, a horse, A bull" I acknowledge your sex prowess. Please take it easy on your princess. The fire power is too much. I totally surrender, you have won in that department. I am appealing for mercy. Instead of daily battles, can we have twice or thrice a week? You dont need to show me pepper anymore ... You are the champion!

Watch that man restructure his appetite. It works like magic.

Most champions will continue pressing until they gets recognition...give it to him!

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

Am not sure u understand what is been said. When a mans need for sex is not matched with his wife if she is not wise the man may look for the satisfaction outside

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Well to me I think Men should respect their wives and also consider them and their feelings at every point.

Yes is good to have regular sex with your wife. It does the marriage more good than bad but then, the man should also pay attention to his wife's body language.

I can't have sex with my partner when she is not in the right mood for me. Being in the right mood wil put her in the right frame to make me it pleasurable.

But madam what have you really done about it,have you tried resisting him reasonably or did you come here first before trying to control it??

It's not guilty conscience, she's just stating what she has noticed after marriage. Juliet, you sound pained as if you have been giving the cookie before marriage or you are still doing so. Anyways, abstinence is key. It saves you a whole lot of trouble.
Too much of anything in this life is very bad. So madam, please talk to your husband, tell him about the pains, thrice a week is not bad, daily nacking is very unhealthy, ask doctors, there'll tell you.

majilore:

who asked whether you had sex or not before wedding. guilty conscience

Lizboh:




There is time for everything, she should create the time for it. She should not listen to those telling her its bad to always give in because am sure most of them are going through worst. If the husband is caring and takes good care of her, then she should take as his fault and help him. Another thing is attractiveness, am over 50 and getting dress in my husband's presence is war because he will sha want to do in. She should love her husband for who he.

Julietsim

Rozz:
hey i can't even argue much ,before this our generation people had happy marriages and didn't fornicate before getting married.Anyways everyone with his/her own opinion

Things have changed..

RamessesIV:
Lol how do you want to know sexual compatability without having sex You guys are very funny,religious dogmatism have it's perks too,the best is to just hope to meet a partner that shares the same sexual needs with you

so you are also supporting him, compatibility in every aspect can be known through conversation and other ways.So what happens if you realise you are not compatible after fornication?what becomes of the lady.Please change your mindset too

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

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