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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by emeshot: 12:38pm On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Learn the act of love making,take a lot of libido enhancing spice,make love to him one night and don’t allow him sleep until he is done with 3rounds.prepare good meals for him and try to seduce him he will beg you to allow him sleep.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Apr 28, 2020
Emmanuelhector:
No pastor indeed.. your type will even regard your pastors better than yourself and parents.. Not knowing that pastors preaches things they don't do.. pastors with high urge like the man will be raping his wife and still be preaching you coconut heads that raping is a sin while his wife will sit and be watching like coconut head just like girls coza pastor bleeped and still preach holiness on pulpit will be watching him.. My sister wise up.
you can pass your message without those harsh words.Also remember there are true and fake men of God these days,that a pastor rapes his wife does not mean he represents the religion(he will be accountable for his actions).No true pastor maltreats his wife.This man is clearly maltreating the woman
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Emmanuelhector(m): 12:42pm On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Bastarrrdd, I guess in your dictionary the word divorce does not exist, it exists in mine. When abuse sets in, the best thing to do is to exit the door. This is 21st century, I cannot turn into a prayer warrior because of a man, I'd rather channel such energy into caring for myself and kids.
MPA GI Bastarrd. who cares about what you think.. just na amacha
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by klbakare(m): 12:44pm On Apr 28, 2020
Chi59:
This is what happens when you marry someone whose urges aren't on the same level with yours. Why didn't you just go for a man that doesn't fancy too much sex?
Abeg shift, your problem is not serious.

Is that backside your original follow come?
You may suffer the same fate as the O. P with this kind of back side ooo. Chai grin grin
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by codelady(f): 12:46pm On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Hi Juliet! Came across this thread and felt compelled to respond. I recently assisted a couple of friends who were having a similar challenge in their marriage. You can PM if interested (this is at no cost to you, just felt concerned). For now I'd say there is no problem without a solution. Cheers smiley

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by RamessesIV(m): 12:48pm On Apr 28, 2020
Stop attaching religious sentiments,you can't know sexual comparability through conversation,is like verbal autopsy or reading a driving manual,for a conservative person or religious person that's OK but you must remember sex is an activity,a virgin won't know weak ejaculation,painful sex,low libido etc through conversations,if not for modern medicine,what happens after sex happens like it always do the body goes on,sex is a natural activity having sex in whether in marriage,in your house,during dating,outside before or whatever your culture/religion is doesn't change that ,if you don't have a sexual history or sexual knowledge of your partner you risk sexual incompatability,hence why sexual activities are encouraged before going into a long-term relationship.
Rozz:
so you are also supporting him, compatibility in every aspect can be known through conversation and other ways.So what happens if you realise you are not compatible after fornication?what becomes of the lady.Please change your mindset too

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by SirKomA(m): 12:49pm On Apr 28, 2020
domino4211:

Did she say her husband "sexes" her every hour of the day?
Or you're just saying it to make your comment seem more sensible?


The lady says she is tired, and doesn't know how to handle her husband cos he demands sex almost every Day and that this lock down has even increased the issue. Doesn't it occur to you that during this lockdown, the man is demanding it frequently than before? The every hour of the day that I used was supposed to mean that the man demands sex oftentimes which I expect you to translate that on your own.
You know what, please stop quoting me and advice the Lady that her husband wants to use his joy stick to reset her destiny, on what to do.
The lady really needs help, that was why she came on here saying " HOW DO I HANDLE A HUSBAND WHO WANTS TO HAVE SEX ALMOST EVERY DAY "

Soft!
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by choo: 12:57pm On Apr 28, 2020
Rozz:
so you are also supporting him, compatibility in every aspect can be known through conversation and other ways.So what happens if you realise you are not compatible after fornication?what becomes of the lady.Please change your mindset too

I agree on this. Discussions... deep discussions can give one a clue on what he or she might be facing when they get to the bedroom after wedding.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Apr 28, 2020
choo:


I agree on this. Discussions... deep discussions can give one a clue on what he or she might be facing when they get to the bedroom after wedding.
Yes,everything has to be ironed out before marriage(every aspect).
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by geosegun(m): 12:59pm On Apr 28, 2020
The truth is, one wife may not be able to sexually satisfy a typical healthy man. That was one of the reasons our forefathers married at least 2 -wives. This makes life much easier and better for the wives in terms of stress and boredom that comes with regular sexual demands from their husbands.

Most men love sex than anything in this world and that is why there have been so many infidelities and promiscuity in the society today. Sticking to one wife requires lots of disciplines and integrity. Funny enough most girls here, either married or unmarried have been an accomplice one way or the other.

Furthermore, those that are complaining of men's regular sexual demands are the one that will start shouting if the man wanted to take another wife i.e (if he can take care and satisfy both?). If you look closely, one would see that those that commit infidelity/adultery most are married men one of the reasons is what is being discussed here.
This is human nature, and nature is difficult to control. It requires God's grace for the most-of-decent-men not to cheat....

This is the stark truth, but unfortunately humans beings hate the truth. We love to deceive ourselves most of the time.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Emmanuelhector(m): 12:59pm On Apr 28, 2020
Rozz:
you can pass your message without those harsh words.Also remember there are true and fake men of God these days,that a pastor rapes his wife does not mean he represents the religion(he will be accountable for his actions).No true pastor maltreats his wife.This man is clearly maltreating the woman
Dear sorry if its harsh. Only trying to make you understand that everyday sex is normal for some men and some women are addicts too.. A family where the man provides enough, protect his family, take normal care of wife and children, I think the wife is in best position to know how best to satisfy the Man's sexual urge. If she can discuss Mouth Gig or handjob with her man, then she should learn to offer that honey pot when needed. And keep pastor out of such issues cos it will make matters worst.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ajilegend(m): 1:04pm On Apr 28, 2020
It's normal for him to behave that way since your marriage is not more than two years. It will reduce with time don't worry. Then you will be the one begging him then. Until that time enjoy yourself
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Apr 28, 2020
Emmanuelhector:
Dear sorry if its harsh. Only trying to make you understand that everyday sex is normal for some men and some women are addicts too.. A family where the man provides enough, protect his family, take normal care of wife and children, I think the wife is in best position to know how best to satisfy the Man's sexual urge. If she can discuss Mouth Gig or handjob with her man, then she should learn to offer that honey pot when needed. And keep pastor out of such issues cos it will make matters worst.
Kai you men and sex, they will always try to justify their argument in support of the man.Ok what happens to the pain she's complaining about?That should be neglected abi? If a man truly loves his wife, he will listen to her complain and make adjustments and not bowing to his uncontrolled urges all the time.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by mamatwiny(f): 1:11pm On Apr 28, 2020
choo:


I agree on this. Discussions... deep discussions can give one a clue on what he or she might be facing when they get to the bedroom after wedding.
When I was single, I had a friend that loved sex so much. This was her no 1 criteria for choosing a mate cos she cant do with a lack lustre performance. B4 any relationship can start, she must test your manhood. Woe betide you if your performance is avg or below average, she won't even pick your call afterwards cos it was of no need, no matter how good a person you are. Some ppl are just wired like that. Very high libido .
I also know of a man at prisons quaters Enugu who would chase his wife round the quaters . His dick is big and he has high libido on top. On hot afternoon like this, he will be chasing his wife after she gets tired from plenty sex. This woman will run out from the house and he follows in pursuit,the wife will be shouting and he will also be shouting,' m ga- alalili GI taa' He can have sex with her every and anywhere including under the mango tree in front of their house. This happened about 15years ago. I wonder if they are still married.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ModestGal(f): 1:13pm On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido
So you are just knowing that it is a CURSE abi?

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by madza: 1:24pm On Apr 28, 2020
Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

You can't be serious. This is probably the joke of the century. grin

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Emmanuelhector(m): 1:25pm On Apr 28, 2020
Rozz:
Kai you men and sex, they will always try to justify their argument in support of the man.Ok what happens to the pain she's complaining about?That should be neglected abi? If a man truly loves his wife, he will listen to her complain and make adjustments and not bowing to his uncontrolled urges all the time.
Yes we men likes sex and women hates it.. She wrote her husband is a good man and never cheated on her.. The marriage is 2 year and she is complaining of steady penetration sex.. Maybe she is one of those that finds it irritating have di#k in the mouth .. And sex is only all about opening her legs for the man for penetration everyday.. Don't you even think she's boring? May God save me from her type when time is due
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by choo: 1:39pm On Apr 28, 2020
mamatwiny:

When I was single, I had a friend that loved sex so much. This was her no 1 criteria for choosing a mate cos she cant do with a lack lustre performance. B4 any relationship can start, she must test your manhood. Woe betide you if your performance is avg or below average, she won't even pick your call afterwards cos it was of no need, no matter how good a person you are. Some ppl are just wired like that. Very high libido .
I also know of a man at prisons quaters Enugu who would chase his wife round the quaters . His dick is big and he has high libido on top. On hot afternoon like this, he will be chasing his wife after she gets tired from plenty sex. This woman will run out from the house and he follows in pursuit,the wife will be shouting and he will also be shouting,' m ga- alalili GI taa' He can have sex with her every and anywhere including under the mango tree in front of their house. This happened about 15years ago. I wonder if they are still married.

Chai,, the lady go don dey ask God question ife oji isi kote. I once sent a PM to you based on something I read on your diary.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by 989900: 1:43pm On Apr 28, 2020
fredopareto:
Leave him alone, let him enjoy it till last.time is coming where he will b begging u to understand him..we do pass ham den....na time !!!!

#experience
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ume1000: 1:46pm On Apr 28, 2020
The truth is that the wife may no longer find the husband atrative

After God fear woman

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by 9ja083: 1:48pm On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
Married women who who experienced this, please advice me. I am getting tired

I experienced it. But I enjoy every beat of it. grin
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by adspelite(m): 2:00pm On Apr 28, 2020
Its that simple?
Anyway to solve this problem you're going to sacrifice something. Rotate duties with your husband.
In the morning invite him to the kitchen kiss him passionately and hand him some chores to do while you cook, he should assist you there it you must keep kissing him.
Bathe time. Tell him to relax while you bathe him use the opportunity to romax him till he ejaculates while minimizing him from touching you.
Bedroom. Tell him its your turn to do things the way you like......you know what to do.
Keep doing these to him at least 3times daily and at night just when he's sound asleep topple on him at finish him there. He will soon beg you for space.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Apr 28, 2020
Emmanuelhector:
Yes we men likes sex and women hates it.. She wrote her husband is a good man and never cheated on her.. The marriage is 2 year and she is complaining of steady penetration sex.. Maybe she is one of those that finds it irritating have di#k in the mouth .. And sex is only all about opening her legs for the man for penetration everyday.. Don't you even think she's boring? May God save me from her type when time is due
now she takes the blame,weldone Sir.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Apr 28, 2020
it might be that ur husband is trying so much to satisfy u, even at his own displeasure, him having sex with u everyday is not to his own advantage, he is the one loosing strength here madam, please talk to him and save him before he becomes a shadow and dies in a bid to make u happy.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Legendguru: 2:08pm On Apr 28, 2020
Get a warmer for him
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:09pm On Apr 28, 2020
irunoko:
Please o,tell me when did sex become a reward for fidelity.

fulfilling/satisfying sex is an important foundation of any union... and when in such union, everything you do is a reward for each other's action...so just like a woman will give herself fully to a great man acting right, she will equally refrain from being nice to this same man if he doesnt act right (and vice versa).... so as this man does everything RIGHT, there is no reason why he shouldnt expect sex everyday (unless they were sexually incompatible).

like her feelings doesn't deserve to be respected because she is now a Mrs?

who is talking about forcing himself unto her?! here is a simple clue: if wifey has a problem with it, why doesnt she simply explain what she is feeling to this man and exactly why she doesnt want to have sex with him? is that so much to ask OR should this man read her damn mind?

She doesn't have a right to be exhausted? She doesn't have a right to say no?Boundaries should not be respected any longer? Really? What is marriage turning into this days nitoriolorun.

come on sista, now you are trying to turn this into something else... there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a woman being exhausted, but this is irrelevant to the issue at hand, unless you actually believe that the solution to this problem is for wifey to tell her husband everyday that she is tired....thus letting that sexually frustrated man go out in this "sexually dangerous" world. this lady 1st has to understand that unless she let this man knows that there is a problem, then chances are NOTHING will change...so she should sit down and discuss the issue with hubby. if she cant handle the sexual intensity placed upon her and her honeypot, then let husband get a 2nd wife to alleviate her sexual duties at home. if husband cant afford a 2nd wife then i see no other ways than to allow hubby to find sexual "helpers" (aka mistress, gf, oloshos etc)...et voila!

When you know your libido is high respect it till she's ready.shes not a sex machine or sex slave.na person born am.ahannnn

there are few important issues here:
- what kind of man are we talking about...? does he really NEED sex everyday or this is simply what he demands from the wife he has paid for.
- is it that this lady doesnt WANT sex or that she doesnt ENJOY sex with hubby?
- if they aint compatible then let them divorce as nobody should force anyone (men/women) to stay married to someone who cant fully satisfy them.
- i guess you have no clue of the animal you are dealing with so let me explain to you: a sexually frustrated married man/woman is a dangerous person... which is the reason why so many deluded men fukc their ugly nasty maid OR wives fukc their bastard drivers. some men/women out there need sex as a way to function properly, as a way to release life frustrations etc and therefore, there is no point trying to stop these people as they will ALWAYS achieve their aim (aka having sex whenever the desire it)

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Apr 28, 2020
I was in your shoe when I got married. We never had sex until we were married aand all through inthought he would be moderate. I found out he loves sex,we were having it everyday for the first 9 years I almost ran mad and i could not complain to anybody neither could I say no. Maturity has taken over me and he is now so ever busy that he does not have all the power like he used to. I am kind of happy his libido has decreased to around mine now. I managed along the years. We are 13 years now together.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Uncleshaga(m): 2:11pm On Apr 28, 2020
Anytime he calls,answer him but may be you can just give him one round but start seeing it as pleasure not work
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by openmine(m): 2:11pm On Apr 28, 2020
Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!
grin grin grin

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:16pm On Apr 28, 2020
mysteryman2014:
U no dey hear word, the woman say the viggy dey always pain am...shoo

story for the gateman...
let her therefore sit down with hubby and find WAYS to make sex more enjoyable for the both of them, but stopping having sex is certainly not the solution.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by DAVE5(m): 2:17pm On Apr 28, 2020
zedegit:


Use your hand or mouth nah.

Hmmnn, b4 I marry, I dey collect bj, but right now I just can't imagine allowing my wife put her mouth to work on IT, be like say nah self righteousness dey worry me but I no be good boy like that, either ways me no go allow her do am, maybe in the future, I can't say, but I doubt sha

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