Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Okay! A very little advice...open your breasts for him to suck and play with if you don't want to have sex that night he will play with it and sleep off by himself

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

hmmmmm

James289:
Everyday is not Christmas, which one is sex everyday? If he is angry make e knack head for wall

That is rude.
Is that how u will treat ur hubby?

MrBrownJay1:


EDUCATE yourself so i dont have to do it for you...the correct meaning IS: "you cant have your cake and eat it too"

DICTIONARY DEFINITION
You can't have your cake and eat it (too) is a popular English idiomatic proverb or figure of speech. The proverb literally means "you cannot simultaneously retain your cake and eat it". ... The proverb's meaning is similar to the phrases "you can't have it both ways" and "you can't have the best of both worlds."

thank me later

Hmm.

LilMissFavvy:
Dumbo. ........go back and read my posts. I don't spell abusive words correctly, in my second comment on this thread I typed the word u.gly as ''uggllyy'' bullshi.t as bullseet, etc, it's all fun to me, Common sense which you lack should have let you know that my phone dictionary can easily type that word. I will keep typing this way to avoid a 'ban'. Twerps like you should keep ranting.

You're so full of it.
Get lost!

Lizboh:




My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

your situation is making me fear this marriage.

And to think just like op, my fiance is refusing sex before marriage. �

MrBrownJay1:


EDUCATE yourself so i dont have to do it for you...the correct meaning IS: "you cant have your cake and eat it too"

DICTIONARY DEFINITION
You can't have your cake and eat it (too) is a popular English idiomatic proverb or figure of speech. The proverb literally means "you cannot simultaneously retain your cake and eat it". ... The proverb's meaning is similar to the phrases "you can't have it both ways" and "you can't have the best of both worlds."

thank me later

In as much as I agree that yours is more common ,there have been arguments on which is more correct by English scholars .So my opinion is not lack of education but deep education.
Look at the following conversions below .

Swinger60:
your situation is making me fear this marriage.

And to think just like op, my fiance is refusing sex before marriage. �

Swinger60, Awfa?

Sex everyday is a no no for me. It is tiring, the kpekus will become painful, my nipples too. I pray your hubby will understand. Tell him your pains he will surely understand.

kingreign:


Swinger60, Awfa?

Hey, Mr King, I'm good.

How are you and Iyawo?

How are you coping with this lockdown?

bdchange:
I believed sex should be enjoyed between both parties involved, so discuss with him why you can't have it everyday like he wanted it. He has high sexual urge but he should be reasonable with his sexual partner so that both can come to concord on how to go about it. It shouldn't be done in a selfish manner.

Exactly....meet at a middle ground or something

U needed an important counsel concerning ur marriage and ur best point of call is social media where the devil is having a wild party, u need ur head examined.

kuverah:
Sex everyday is a no no for me. It is tiring, the kpekus will become painful, my nipples too. I pray your hubby will understand. Tell him your pains he will surely understand.

Exactly, that place will pain her. Haba. Sex here, sex there, he should kuku turn her to a sex doll. I bet it doesn't pain men, that is why they always want it.

Swinger60:
Hey, Mr King, I'm good.

How are you and Iyawo?

How are you coping with this lockdown?

We are fine, we are coping well o.
Hope you're coping well this period?
I lost your number. Abeg PM me 07034581213.

Everyday ke.It means he is joke with his life span

mamatwiny:

My dear, forgive me ooo. I saw it but can't remember what happened.

It's okay. Just be very prayerful okay.

LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido

Yes my sister. African men are more h.orny than their oyinbo counterparts.
So you didn't know?

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

GIVE YOUR HUSBAND WHAT HE WANTS OR OKPODU GO ENTER HIGHWAY.

This is not a good advise oh

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

MostIncredibleDFirst:
From the kind of stuff written here as advice by women, I'm convinced as ever that women are evil. I'm very rich and comfortable, but I will never use my money to marry any woman. Men should be wise and defensive and stop marring women. Men should be mean and fvck women and make them baby mamas without committing to them. Men should know that by our native law and custom, getting a child out of wedlock is legal and acceptable. Don't marry any woman because the marriage is a woman's gain, and you gain nothing. Just fvck them for fun and for babies if you want. Don't marry them! Don't commit to them! Women are so evil!

. I can only imaging what your family will look like from ur point of view. wanted to teach u a lesson but I will let it pass. but such rubbish shouldn't be said out from sane man. so I understand

@Julietsim. Be adventurous and use other parts of your body to please him. Your thigh, oranges, hands and even tongue are there to give him more than he ever asked for. Make each of them bring him a different taste of you. And each night, ask him which taste he desires - Mrs tits? Mrs tie or Mrs likie likie.


I wish you success in your endeavors and sincerely hope that my little advice brings peace into your home.

Julietsim:
Married women who who experienced this, please advice me. I am getting tired

Sometimes its difficult for a man to hear "No" when he wants sex, even good men. But be rest assured it will not always be like this, the frequent sex will eventually become infrequent with time..

But before that time naturally comes the last thing you want to do is to cause quarells or start starving your husband sexually because there are too many hungry women out there looking for good men. Those ones will give him everyday, no complain! If you make him feel bad because of sex, he may get it else where, not because he doesnt love you, but because of his sexual drive.

Sex keeps marriages, thats a fact. Some men have very high sex drives, and some women find sex as too much work/hassle. event tricks to by time or extend your off sex days so that you can recover, but as a new couple you shouldnt avoid having sex now, it will reduce naturally. Sometimes pretend to be ill, have fasting and prayer days (those days no sex), masturbate him or give him MouthAction, talk to him.

But remember, when good men start cheating, their own dey worse pass.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

oya na, tell him it's okay with you if he looks for another lady who would help lighten this unbearable sexual burden for you.

It would definitely help reduce the disturbance. If you are fortunate, he might even stop disturbing you altogether and you wouldn't need to 'cope' with his extreme sex drive anymore.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Your husband is like me, so you should be lucky for having such man in your life

Dont let her reason for wantting to leave be that you cant satisfy her sexually..

Every lady enjoys good sex...

Just to share with you, early last month i had a discursion with a lady friend of mine, she recently got married. During our course of discursion,she made a statement that keeps ringing in my ear all through the discursion.

She said "She love her husband very much,and he love her also,but the issue is that he does not satisfy her on bed..That she have to tell me the truth,that she enjoys the way her ex used to have sex with her than her present boy friend..This got me thinking..

Ladies,i dont expect you to critize her,some ladies would have cheated on their husband, due to how close we have been made her share this with me,she said its a big problem,and she does not want to cheat her husband that she love him so much..

So i advise she should talk to her husband about it,he should know about it,she said she have but he is not doing anything about it..

Wow!!! I said.... I didnt know what else to tell her at that point....(My advise to men,at this point ,have a good listening ear,give her the attention she needs most time,this can help save your relationship).

I didnt know what else to tell her ...There is the book i recently read in "How to make a lady desire for more " so i suggested thi book for her...that she should get it and give it to her husband to read....

Guess what,i didnt know she requested for the book ,she said she read through the book before giving it to her husband,it took him some days to even go through it as it was in digital copy,but he did anyway...

Last week,she called me to thank me for advising her to get that book,she said her finance sex life has improved...she never knew this guy has all this stuff inside of him,that the book really helped ....She said she is one of the people that is actually enjoying the lockdown smiles! Smiles!! Smiles!!!!

I was so happy to hear that,because i had just saved a relationship, only God knows what would have happened..

Every lady enjoy good sex, and just to let you, enjoying good sex is not in the hours spent together, neither the size of your d**k as a man,you just have to understand how to do it right and you can learn all this from this book..

Just to let you know,after reading the book "How to make a lady desire for me", i was careful the lady i made love with because she will always come back for more..

Its just some few pages,but trust me its not in the many pages,but the content.

Send an email to

rac2hael@outlook.com
Subject : Good sex life book.

If you want your lady or wife to be proud of you as a man,i strongly advise you get a copy of this book.

Very Important you take note of this : If after you study this book and effectively carry out the tips shared in the book,and the lady did not come back for more, drop a messsge here,i will apologise for wasteing your time to read this and also for wasteing your time to send an email.

I will like to stop here...

you people are still on this matter

purples25:


Exactly, that place will pain her. Haba. Sex here, sex there, he should kuku turn her to a sex doll. I bet it doesn't pain men, that is why they always want it.

den would u allow him to go get it else whr??

This isn't easy for anyone to handle. We can only state how mind here but what there on your husband's mind is unknown to any.....
I suggest you both should see a therapist

The truth is, one wife may not be able to sexually satisfy a typical healthy man. That was one of the reasons our forefathers married at least 2 -wives. This makes life much easier and better for the wives in terms of stress and boredom that comes with regular sexual demands from their husbands.

Most men love sex than anything in this world and that is why there have been so many infidelities and promiscuity in the society today. Sticking to one wife requires lots of disciplines and integrity. Funny enough most girls here, either married or unmarried have been an accomplice one way or the other.

Furthermore, those that are complaining of men's regular sexual demands are the one that will start shouting if the man wanted to take another wife i.e (if he can take care and satisfy both?). If you look closely, one would see that those that commit infidelity/adultery most are married men one of the reasons is what is being discussed here.
This is human nature, and nature is difficult to control. It requires God's grace for the most-decent-of-men not to cheat....

This is the stark truth, but unfortunately humans beings hate the truth. We love to deceive ourselves most of the time.

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LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

That is the end product of all the prayers women prayed when they were asking for a husband. Las Las, women have been blessed with community d*cks