Goalnaldo:
I mistook you for a female. Probably why you didn't reply my mention

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

donproject:



Aswear you are 100percent on point. I fall to that category of men, 3 ladies like that in the past. I didn't handle the whole thing properly, those overtures came too soft to me, and I wouldn't go for them.

Money2000:
Once I fxxk a Lady... my interest in her dies by 50%

I don’t know why...

Even if I toast her for 10years... the day I climb her, I start losing interest

Money2000:
Once I fxxk a Lady... my interest in her dies by 50%

I don’t know why...

Even if I toast her for 10years... the day I climb her, I start losing interest

bobkezel:
Did dangote daughter show interest and we no gree?
Men get class na.

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Has it been happening consistently or it happened once.
If it happened once,it means that the guy was not interested in you.Guys value something that cost them to get.If you buy an inexpensive garment (for example )with your hard earned income you will value it than a gift given to you without any cost
incurred.Although some may still value a gift more hence if you come across such a man under your narrated scenario, he will key in

If it has been happening it could be linked to a spiritual curse hence you need to pray.

That is my assumption. It is not Mandatory that by view is the solution.My view can still be subjected to a lot of criticism since am not A God.

Your views please

Renida:


It ends in tears and loneliness

Renida:



I love not to be stressed. Chasing is stressing and oftentimes make one begin to question oneself and experience constant self doubt, I don't want to be in this position. If I like a lady, I'm ready as a guy to work with her pace, but then, a guy chases, today lady's head is on her shoulder, the next day is not. Instability and heart issues is a mixture many men hate to deal with. In the end, we must be ready to deal with some drama in issues that affects the heart.


Oh I'm yet to see a lady I really really like since I was created

xrayj:

It apply to both genders, if u show interest in someone that does not like u, it won't change what they feel towards u. But when u show interest in someone who likes u, he will naturally reciprocate. U ladies feel once u show interest in any man, he should reciprocate, because u are a lady, it doesn't work like that. A man also need to feel something for u.

xrayj:

It apply to both genders, if u show interest in someone that does not like u, it won't change what they feel towards u. But when u show interest in someone who likes u, he will naturally reciprocate. U ladies feel once u show interest in any man, he should reciprocate, because u are a lady, it doesn't work like that. A man also need to feel something for u.

piamily:
Okay. There’s thing guy I met one time last year. So he came up bold and said he was interested in a relationship. He didn’t even waste time. I was impressed . Normally I was supposed to dish out my “naija shakara girls style” you know, but I didn’t . After some days I agreed to date him.

I found out he’s easy going so I decided to give in and be mutual with the love and attraction etc. as soon as I got interested, he withdrew.

I noticed it . I don’t understand why a man will do this. Was he not interested? And does he expect the woman to hate him.

I see some men complain about ladies being hard to get and now a lady didn’t play that much hard yet the man withdrew a bit. Still don’t get men sometimes sha

xcabczyxabczzzz:


Interesting, so what is your mindset or philosophy when you just want to go with the flow?

LAguy:
You know Nigerian girls this days can't be trusted, because it's strange for you to see a lady to just pick interest in you without be something ,like having money, ride big cars, be a G boy etc.

Let a rich girl pick up interest in a broke guy and see how he will rush her like akara oyingbo.

Nigerian girls be jokers.

Renida:




To understand why life made me meet the individual as not all love interest are for romantic relations. Life oftentimes wants us to meet persons for reasons we only would know if we enter friendships with such persons.

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

Dreiwizzy:
Force him to miss you; start conversating with him as if he's still seeking for your contact. It will hurt, but continue; this singular act will bring out his real intention towards you. Let nobody waste your time.

piamily:
Okay. There’s thing guy I met one time last year. So he came up bold and said he was interested in a relationship. He didn’t even waste time. I was impressed . Normally I was supposed to dish out my “naija shakara girls style” you know, but I didn’t . After some days I agreed to date him.

I found out he’s easy going so I decided to give in and be mutual with the love and attraction etc. as soon as I got interested, he withdrew.

I noticed it . I don’t understand why a man will do this. Was he not interested? And does he expect the woman to hate him.

I see some men complain about ladies being hard to get and now a lady didn’t play that much hard yet the man withdrew a bit. Still don’t get men sometimes sha

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit. I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

Renida:



One should limit what one posts on social media jare. Haba you're yet to be satisfied after all our gists . You'll start to pay to engage me in discussions o. Oya, one billion per second

EnterpriseMan:


while he went to search for the one sheep, wolves came and ate the 99 sheep, the man comes back and commit suicide... That is reality

boyjo:


Girls who don't play hard to get, are not the prize.
Those who play hard to get, get wifed.

Believe all these guys saying they don't "like hard to get ladies" at your own peril.