I started dating this girl around February last year. The relationship was one of the best I've had. We seemed to be compatible, and for that reason, it was easy for us to blend well. She is a young girl of about 23 and very beautiful. She's decent too. She wanted to make the relationship official, so she insisted I visit her at home so that her parents will know of me. Since I really loved her and was 100% willing to marry her, I did as she said.


I met her dad at home, and he was receptive. We spoke like friends. We talked about a lot of things, he asked if I was working. I made him know I was into teaching with a high hope of getting a better job soon. He wasn't really cool with that, but he wished me well.



Sometime around September, this girl started acting so funny and cold to me. At first she was reluctant to tell me what was going on. After much pestering, she opened up to me that, another guy who is from her tribe came to her parents in company of his aunt to seek her hands in marriage. That didn't seem a big deal to me. I told her she's already taken by me playfully.
But my girl said she can't turn down the guy since he came through her parents. "What!! But I also came through your parents" I retorted. She said she loves me but she knows that her parents will prefer the other guy. She reminded me how I wasn't working and can barely feed myself. See insult. Instead of being hurt, I got so angry and it didn't take me two days to get over her despite the fact that I really loved her.



Fast forward to March this year , I got a bit better job than the teaching and she got to know of it. She's back on her knees begging me to accept her back. She's been calling and chatting me 247. She said she never stopped loving me, that it was devil that confused her.
Why are some girls shameless like this? What do I do to her? Check our chat where she said she can't convince her parents to accept me over the guy. She was lying on her parents. They never rejected me.
I could just accept her and keep wasting her time

Ramanto:

Fast forward to March this year , I got a bit better job than the teaching and she got to know of it. She's back on her knees begging me to accept her back. She's been calling and chatting me 247. She said she never stopped loving me, that it was devil that confused are some girls shameless like this? What do I do to her?

Only in Nigeria will you see a jobless guy who has been struggling and suffering for years.

Then 2 hours immediately after breaking up with his girlfriend, he'll get a new job, rent a nice apartment, buy land, buy a new car and the girlfriend will come back on her knees begging him.

All these in just 2 HOURS after breakup!

Makes me wonder the indaboski behind the pahose.

Turn her to a sex object, then get yourself a young virgin girl with succulent nyash and firm breast for marriage.

She wants to eat her cake and have it back. Oloshi.

Why waste your time?
Revenge is for the petty mind.

Please make sure your next girlfriend's IQ is on your level. Your ex can't even type or spell well.

Let her go!!!! Karma is a bastard She will disappoint you again if you don't have money. Useless pikin

Ramanto:
I started dating this girl around February last year. The relationship was one of the best I've had. We seemed to be compatible, and for that reason, it was easy for us to blend well. She is a young girl of about 23 and very beautiful. She's decent too. She wanted to make the relationship official, so she insisted I visit her at home so that her parents will know of me. Since I really loved her and was 100% willing to marry her, I did as she said.


I met her dad at home, and he was receptive. We spoke like friends. We talked about a lot of things, he asked if I was working. I made him know I was into teaching with a high hope of getting a better job soon. He wasn't really cool with that, but he wished me well.



Sometime around September, this girl started acting so funny and cold to me. At first she was reluctant to tell me what was going on. After much pestering, she opened up to me that, another guy who is from her tribe came to her parents in company of his aunt to seek her hands in marriage. That didn't seem a big deal to me. I told her she's already taken by me playfully.
But my girl said she can't turn down the guy since he came through her parents. "What!! But I also came through your parents" I retorted. She said she loves me but she knows that her parents will prefer the other guy. She reminded me how I wasn't working and can barely feed myself. See insult. Instead of being hurt, I got so angry and it didn't take me two days to get over her despite the fact that I really loved her.



Fast forward to March this year , I got a bit better job than the teaching and she got to know of it. She's back on her knees begging me to accept her back. She's been calling and chatting me 247. She said she never stopped loving me, that it was devil that confused her.
Why are some girls shameless like this? What do I do to her? Check our chat where she said she can't convince her parents to accept me over the guy. She was lying on her parents. They never rejected me.
I could just accept her and keep wasting her time

she's coming back because of the job and not that she loves u.
Is she Igbo from Anambra?

DateMynd44:
she's coming back because of the job and not that she loves u.
Is she Igbo from Anambra?

Sense is very far from you.

If I were you, I will accept her back as a side chic, to keep her pussy busy, while I search for a better babe, that girl no be marriage material oh, at all.

I will leave my senior men to advice you on what to to do.

Ramanto:
I started dating this girl around February last year. The relationship was one of the best I've had. We seemed to be compatible, and for that reason, it was easy for us to blend well. She is a young girl of about 23 and very beautiful. She's decent too. She wanted to make the relationship official, so she insisted I visit her at home so that her parents will know of me. Since I really loved her and was 100% willing to marry her, I did as she said.


I met her dad at home, and he was receptive. We spoke like friends. We talked about a lot of things, he asked if I was working. I made him know I was into teaching with a high hope of getting a better job soon. He wasn't really cool with that, but he wished me well.



Sometime around September, this girl started acting so funny and cold to me. At first she was reluctant to tell me what was going on. After much pestering, she opened up to me that, another guy who is from her tribe came to her parents in company of his aunt to seek her hands in marriage. That didn't seem a big deal to me. I told her she's already taken by me playfully.
But my girl said she can't turn down the guy since he came through her parents. "What!! But I also came through your parents" I retorted. She said she loves me but she knows that her parents will prefer the other guy. She reminded me how I wasn't working and can barely feed myself. See insult. Instead of being hurt, I got so angry and it didn't take me two days to get over her despite the fact that I really loved her.



Fast forward to March this year , I got a bit better job than the teaching and she got to know of it. She's back on her knees begging me to accept her back. She's been calling and chatting me 247. She said she never stopped loving me, that it was devil that confused her.
Why are some girls shameless like this? What do I do to her? Check our chat where she said she can't convince her parents to accept me over the guy. She was lying on her parents. They never rejected me.
I could just accept her and keep wasting her time

If you have already banged her move on, if not then wait a while and collect your share then move!

Tell her it's too late... Use your head, and not your ddddkkk

Davash222:

Sense is very far from you.

how?

The foundation of the relationship is already shaky and you will never trust her anymore.

Abort mission!

While I condemn her actions, you cannot really fault the fact that this country is difficult. Women have
overr time come to the understanding that the size of the pocket of a prospective suitor defines her comfort in the future. Brother, this is the reality. Hustle hard make your slipper nor first you chop.

Did you hear me well? Don't hate. Hustle hard make your charger nor first you blow.



As per revenge, that's too petty. Don't get mad, get money. Rinse and repeat.

" She reminded me how I wasn't working and can barely feed myself. "

May God Almighty help every struggling guys.

Just be chopping her steady until she sees the invitation card to your wedding.
awon golddiggers chairlady!!

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Just can't stop laughing at those advising the OP to accept her back and waste his precious time, energy and resources to fork fork fork.


OP the ADVISE you seek lies deep in your HEART not your DIG.

Forgive and move on bro


meanwhile someone is dying of hunger please help a soul
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From the conversation you put up there if that's how she writes, then I'd be more concerned about that because it says a lot about her mental capability.

The girl no well, e be like say you sef get skoin skoin for head if na that kind girl dey use you play ping pong wey dey make you ask question here.

Why you no ask her whether she don be widow now now abi wetin happen to the other guy wey she abandon you for?

Davash222:
Turn her to a sex object, then get yourself a young virgin girl with succulent nyash and firm breast for marriage.

She wants to eat her cake and have it back. Oloshi.

She wants to have her cake and eat it.

demo4ril97:
She wants to have her cake and eat it.

I think he is correct

hayzed1090:


I think he is correct

he isn't.

I'm more interested in what happened to the other guy she dumped you for

demo4ril97:
he isn't.

But I can have my cake and eat it

What happened to the other guy? You should ask about him.

Ningen:
Why waste your time?
Revenge is for the petty mind.

Please make sure your next girlfriend's IQ is on your level. Your ex can't even type or spell well.

@ramanto, read this advise and comply. Don't revenge...it is for petty minds. Let your success be the tormentor of her conscience.

hayzed1090:


But I can have my cake and eat it

The correct phrase is "You can't have your cake and eat it too", because this phrase was first found in a letter dated in March 14 1538 from Thomas, Duke of York to Thomas Cromwell. This reads "a man can not have his cake and eat his cake".

This implies that one may not only be the owner of luxuries that wealth can afford, but to also enjoy those luxuries.

Life is all about transaction.. This love you guys keep shouting up and down is just an illusion..

You probably love the girl because she's beautiful, maybe has a good backside, maybe front.. Perhaps how she talks.. Fact is, something attracted you.. If that thing is to fade away, you'll run away for someone else.

If she has what you want, and you have what she wants, go ahead.

There is nothing like unconditional love. Even Yahweh doesn't do unconditional love cause if he does, he won't cast anyone to hell for not loving or accepting him.

Life is all about transaction bro..