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jaycerichh:
Good morning everyone

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Martinez39s
Ubunja

Lately I've been reading the redpill post from y'all and I've really seen reasons to end my relationship

Firstly, I and my partner are interfaith, we attend the same school (UNI), I'm 20 entering 21 before the year ends and she's 18 turning 19 before the year ends too.

It all started during my first year, after our second semester I've had a crush on her not for too long, know I'm the kind of guy that crush on ladies that much though [all I see now are my goals], I was so desperate to feel among, i was a virgin before then(don't really know if a guy's called a virgin though), all I needed was someone to call my own, I wasn't really the sex before marriage person to be very honest, formally I use to masturbate and watch a lot of porn, but I quitted that habit since I gained admission and since then it starts to irritate me cause I felt I was better of without it, I'm this goal chaser kind of person, use to have intellectual conversations with people of my kind, a very good singer and music inclined personal, to cut a long story short it actually going to our second year since we've started dating, I got her number and only had a physical conversations with her for awhile before I left for home after the semester ended, so the rest was done with chatting and all that.

Due to ASUU strike before the next session commenced, we stayed at home for close to five months before resumption, she doesn't bill me, she provided for me she's all this good, but during the holidays we started dating, she persuade me to come over to the environment she stays, "that if I love her we should spend some time together, that how can I say I miss her and all that, so I came over, she visited several times, we had sex, she was not even eighteen yet though, I told her I was new to this, she didn't judge me, and since I was this sorry sorry guy(simp), I'm not trying to judge her and I'm not saying I wouldn't find someone better if I leave her, but she's been through a lot for me I know for sure, a lot of sacrifices she's made, since we're both interfaith her mom never wants to see me though and her elder sis, lol but she act like she doesn't care.

Sometime if we have a fight, she goes to her WhatsApp status to make a post like "we loosing each other to find ourselves"
She's made this post several times whenever we have a fight or misunderstanding, she takes things to the heart, I'm tired of being a sorry sorry man, my mother characteristics, that the kind of woman I'd want to settle with, but now we've made promises to each other, and since I was broke I didn't know a better way to make her feel than tell her I'll neveylet her go, cause she stood by me when I had nothing , seriously it makes me laugh cause when I have some small conversation with her, I tend to find out we both lost ourselves, things we formally do matters no more, which make everything boring, she doesn't want to see me around anyone else not even friends I just feel my whole world revolves around her and I'm tired.

Some days ago due to the whole corona matter sha, we've been apart but she was like " I miss you" please come around, she sent transport, I appreciate that though, she's a very nice person when it comes to giving me, but we lack other areas totally, mood swing na she, when she now propose a break up, she'll now later tell me sorry that when she felt lost all I could say was goodbye, after saying I forgive her, things don't feel the same anymore, I want to feel my presence once more that old self, that chases his goals, I want to feel him again and this time in an Alpha way, but I'm so worried I'll hurt her though since she isn't really in good terms with her family, not because of me though, but I just felt she'll feel really betrayed and start to overthink.

Things are boring now, lost of values and so on, seriously I can't make it up to her no more, I'm currently broke though, but due to me spending most of my time with her, I don't get enough to myself to seat and learn and organize myself, so lost to be honest, I wanna end things but if one could suggest a better way, I'd really appreciate it, cause I'm currently with her at the same area now, and I'll be going back home soon, 2days after she persuade me to come, we had sex the first day the next day she proposed a break up, she said "I know this might sound usual but I really think I need sometime, to find myself
This days I just think, over think n I think I don't even like my self enough yet to really know what loves is or means, BTW u act differently
It suits u better tbh"(I've been doing some Alpha stuffs)
That was what she texted me, and this too, "More reason y I begged you to come thinking seeing you will make me feel better
But I don't know what's wrong bae pls help me
I couldn't even sleep all night"

I just don't feel good anymore, it might feel like excuses but trust me, I think us letting go would do us more good, cause this relationship has taught us a lot, what we really want and we should never relent but chase them, and about our interfaith stuff I was thinking it would workout but na I'm tire with some disrespectful character she portrays too though, due to the current situation she's facing at home, I don't want to put her in a very tight corner since we both loosed our friends cause of our clingy relationship.

Just sex bond, isn't working on me, instead it's tiring.

jaycerichh:
Good morning everyone

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Martinez39s
Ubunja

Lately I've been reading the redpill post from y'all and I've really seen reasons to end my relationship

Firstly, I and my partner are interfaith, we attend the same school (UNI), I'm 20 entering 21 before the year ends and she's 18 turning 19 before the year ends too.

It all started during my first year, after our second semester I've had a crush on her not for too long, know I'm the kind of guy that crush on ladies that much though [all I see now are my goals], I was so desperate to feel among, i was a virgin before then(don't really know if a guy's called a virgin though), all I needed was someone to call my own, I wasn't really the sex before marriage person to be very honest, formally I use to masturbate and watch a lot of porn, but I quitted that habit since I gained admission and since then it starts to irritate me cause I felt I was better of without it, I'm this goal chaser kind of person, use to have intellectual conversations with people of my kind, a very good singer and music inclined personal, to cut a long story short it actually going to our second year since we've started dating, I got her number and only had a physical conversations with her for awhile before I left for home after the semester ended, so the rest was done with chatting and all that.

Due to ASUU strike before the next session commenced, we stayed at home for close to five months before resumption, she doesn't bill me, she provided for me she's all this good, but during the holidays we started dating, she persuade me to come over to the environment she stays, "that if I love her we should spend some time together, that how can I say I miss her and all that, so I came over, she visited several times, we had sex, she was not even eighteen yet though, I told her I was new to this, she didn't judge me, and since I was this sorry sorry guy(simp), I'm not trying to judge her and I'm not saying I wouldn't find someone better if I leave her, but she's been through a lot for me I know for sure, a lot of sacrifices she's made, since we're both interfaith her mom never wants to see me though and her elder sis, lol but she act like she doesn't care.

Sometime if we have a fight, she goes to her WhatsApp status to make a post like "we loosing each other to find ourselves"
She's made this post several times whenever we have a fight or misunderstanding, she takes things to the heart, I'm tired of being a sorry sorry man, my mother characteristics, that the kind of woman I'd want to settle with, but now we've made promises to each other, and since I was broke I didn't know a better way to make her feel than tell her I'll neveylet her go, cause she stood by me when I had nothing , seriously it makes me laugh cause when I have some small conversation with her, I tend to find out we both lost ourselves, things we formally do matters no more, which make everything boring, she doesn't want to see me around anyone else not even friends I just feel my whole world revolves around her and I'm tired.

Some days ago due to the whole corona matter sha, we've been apart but she was like " I miss you" please come around, she sent transport, I appreciate that though, she's a very nice person when it comes to giving me, but we lack other areas totally, mood swing na she, when she now propose a break up, she'll now later tell me sorry that when she felt lost all I could say was goodbye, after saying I forgive her, things don't feel the same anymore, I want to feel my presence once more that old self, that chases his goals, I want to feel him again and this time in an Alpha way, but I'm so worried I'll hurt her though since she isn't really in good terms with her family, not because of me though, but I just felt she'll feel really betrayed and start to overthink.

Things are boring now, lost of values and so on, seriously I can't make it up to her no more, I'm currently broke though, but due to me spending most of my time with her, I don't get enough to myself to seat and learn and organize myself, so lost to be honest, I wanna end things but if one could suggest a better way, I'd really appreciate it, cause I'm currently with her at the same area now, and I'll be going back home soon, 2days after she persuade me to come, we had sex the first day the next day she proposed a break up, she said "I know this might sound usual but I really think I need sometime, to find myself
This days I just think, over think n I think I don't even like my self enough yet to really know what loves is or means, BTW u act differently
It suits u better tbh"(I've been doing some Alpha stuffs)
That was what she texted me, and this too, "More reason y I begged you to come thinking seeing you will make me feel better
But I don't know what's wrong bae pls help me
I couldn't even sleep all night"

I just don't feel good anymore, it might feel like excuses but trust me, I think us letting go would do us more good, cause this relationship has taught us a lot, what we really want and we should never relent but chase them, and about our interfaith stuff I was thinking it would workout but na I'm tire with some disrespectful character she portrays too though, due to the current situation she's facing at home, I don't want to put her in a very tight corner since we both loosed our friends cause of our clingy relationship.

Just sex bond, isn't working on me, instead it's tiring.

Yellowblack:
This alfa stuff sef...... What's it all about?
Drop the link lemme read it.....






As for the OP the time you could hav use to make money nd focus on yourself @20 You dey use am Bleep...


Better make money nigga nd forget about girls for now ❌❌❌

wizzyrich:
This long epistle.

do you even write this long during exams ?

zed7:
At 21 some kids are doing great things, getting scholarship etc. I'm disappointed in your writing skills, you should do better for a 21 year old.
Anyway, please focus on building yourself, it's a competitive world out there. Cut off any childish distractions for now. That girl is a child and she has nothing positive to offer you. As you mature more physically, emotionally and intellectually, you'll find a woman who can make a positive impact in your life and you in hers.

IhateThemMods:
Is it about making money? Why do y'all clamor making money like it's one easy thing to do.

Yellowblack:
Yeah it not an easy thing to do.... That is why you kill devote your time nd focus on how to earn it

AAA593:
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No maturity yet and you ain't trying to train her

IhateThemMods:
jaycerichh aka Mr Alfa boy! The people who make the best and most out of relationships are those who have a particular time they date and what reason they date. They don't date willy nilly. You are a young man, use this time to learn stuffs that will help you. Learn python, writing or whatever. I made the same mistake as you and I realized myself almost same time as you. Forget about women and focus on things you need.

daewoorazer:
1. At that age, woman should be d least of your worries, and if you must have one....never get emotionally attached....

2. You really need to start walking with bad boys. Don’t learn weed smoking/cultism o. Just learn how to be heartless and a fucking ALPHA.

3. Face your goals, in years to come when you are a success, you’d realize that girl you’re killing yourself over is a dirty mulamba ....

Take point 2 seriously....it’ll fetch u more pûssy and you’ll go far in life.

ProfDview1:
You think u r now a red piller abi... U r dumb


Very soon, u will be sent away from school

U r 20 and u r searching for a lady to be called your own.. How stewpid are u?

CAPSLOCKED:
STOP BEING SILLY. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING A RELATIONSHIP FROM 18.

CAPSLOCKED:
STOP BEING SILLY. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING A RELATIONSHIP FROM 18.

daewoorazer:
1. At that age, woman should be d least of your worries, and if you must have one....never get emotionally attached....

2. You really need to start walking with bad boys. Don’t learn weed smoking/cultism o. Just learn how to be heartless and a fucking ALPHA.

3. Face your goals, in years to come when you are a success, you’d realize that girl you’re killing yourself over is a dirty mulamba ....

Take point 2 seriously....it’ll fetch u more pûssy and you’ll go far in life.

jaycerichh:
Good morning everyone

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Martinez39s
Ubunja

Lately I've been reading the redpill post from y'all and I've really seen reasons to end my relationship


Firstly, I and my partner are interfaith, we attend the same school (UNI), I'm 20 entering 21 before the year ends and she's 18 turning 19 before the year ends too.

It all started during my first year, after our second semester I've had a crush on her not for too long, know I'm the kind of guy that crush on ladies that much though [all I see now are my goals], I was so desperate to feel among, i was a virgin before then(don't really know if a guy's called a virgin though), all I needed was someone to call my own, I wasn't really the sex before marriage person to be very honest, formally I use to masturbate and watch a lot of porn, but I quitted that habit since I gained admission and since then it starts to irritate me cause I felt I was better of without it, I'm this goal chaser kind of person, use to have intellectual conversations with people of my kind, a very good singer and music inclined personal, to cut a long story short it actually going to our second year since we've started dating, I got her number and only had a physical conversations with her for awhile before I left for home after the semester ended, so the rest was done with chatting and all that.

Due to ASUU strike before the next session commenced, we stayed at home for close to five months before resumption, she doesn't bill me, she provided for me she's all this good, but during the holidays we started dating, she persuade me to come over to the environment she stays, "that if I love her we should spend some time together, that how can I say I miss her and all that, so I came over, she visited several times, we had sex, she was not even eighteen yet though, I told her I was new to this, she didn't judge me, and since I was this sorry sorry guy(simp), I'm not trying to judge her and I'm not saying I wouldn't find someone better if I leave her, but she's been through a lot for me I know for sure, a lot of sacrifices she's made, since we're both interfaith her mom never wants to see me though and her elder sis, lol but she act like she doesn't care.

Sometime if we have a fight, she goes to her WhatsApp status to make a post like "we loosing each other to find ourselves"
She's made this post several times whenever we have a fight or misunderstanding, she takes things to the heart, I'm tired of being a sorry sorry man, my mother characteristics, that the kind of woman I'd want to settle with, but now we've made promises to each other, and since I was broke I didn't know a better way to make her feel than tell her I'll never let her go, cause she stood by me when I had nothing , seriously it makes me laugh cause when I have some small conversation with her, I tend to find out we both lost ourselves, things we formally do matters no more, which make everything boring, she doesn't want to see me around anyone else not even friends I just feel my whole world revolves around her and I'm tired.

Some days ago due to the whole corona matter sha, we've been apart but she was like " I miss you" please come around, she sent transport, I appreciate that though, she's a very nice person when it comes to giving me, but we lack other areas totally, mood swing na she, when she now propose a break up, she'll now later tell me sorry that when she felt lost all I could say was goodbye, after saying I forgive her, things don't feel the same anymore, I want to feel my presence once more that old self, that chases his goals, I want to feel him again and this time in an Alpha way, but I'm so worried I'll hurt her though since she isn't really in good terms with her family, not because of me though, but I just felt she'll feel really betrayed and start to overthink.

Things are boring now, lost of values and so on, seriously I can't make it up to her no more, I'm currently broke though, but due to me spending most of my time with her, I don't get enough to myself to seat and learn and organize myself, so lost to be honest, I wanna end things but if one could suggest a better way, I'd really appreciate it, cause I'm currently with her at the same area now, and I'll be going back home soon, 2days after she persuade me to come, we had sex the first day the next day she proposed a break up, she said "I know this might sound usual but I really think I need sometime, to find myself
This days I just think, over think n I think I don't even like my self enough yet to really know what loves is or means, BTW u act differently
It suits u better tbh"(I've been doing some Alpha stuffs)
That was what she texted me, and this too, "More reason y I begged you to come thinking seeing you will make me feel better
But I don't know what's wrong bae pls help me
I couldn't even sleep all night"

I just don't feel good anymore, it might feel like excuses but trust me, I think us letting go would do us more good, cause this relationship has taught us a lot, what we really want and we should never relent but chase them, and about our interfaith stuff I was thinking it would workout but na I'm tire with some disrespectful character she portrays too though, due to the current situation she's facing at home, I don't want to put her in a very tight corner since we both loosed our friends cause of our clingy relationship.

it's tiring.

jaycerichh:
I'm not emotionally matured for it though

zed7:
At 21 some kids are doing great things, getting scholarship etc. I'm disappointed in your writing skills, you should do better for a 21 year old.
Anyway, please focus on building yourself, it's a competitive world out there. Cut off any childish distractions for now. That girl is a child and she has nothing positive to offer you. As you mature more physically, emotionally and intellectually, you'll find a woman who can make a positive impact in your life and you in hers.

jaycerichh:
Good morning everyone

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Martinez39s
Ubunja

Lately I've been reading the redpill post from y'all and I've really seen reasons to end my relationship

Firstly, I and my partner are interfaith, we attend the same school (UNI), I'm 20 entering 21 before the year ends and she's 18 turning 19 before the year ends too.

It all started during my first year, after our second semester I've had a crush on her not for too long, know I'm the kind of guy that crush on ladies that much though [all I see now are my goals], I was so desperate to feel among, i was a virgin before then(don't really know if a guy's called a virgin though), all I needed was someone to call my own, I wasn't really the sex before marriage person to be very honest, formally I use to masturbate and watch a lot of porn, but I quitted that habit since I gained admission and since then it starts to irritate me cause I felt I was better of without it, I'm this goal chaser kind of person, use to have intellectual conversations with people of my kind, a very good singer and music inclined personal, to cut a long story short it actually going to our second year since we've started dating, I got her number and only had a physical conversations with her for awhile before I left for home after the semester ended, so the rest was done with chatting and all that.

Due to ASUU strike before the next session commenced, we stayed at home for close to five months before resumption, she doesn't bill me, she provided for me she's all this good, but during the holidays we started dating, she persuade me to come over to the environment she stays, "that if I love her we should spend some time together, that how can I say I miss her and all that, so I came over, she visited several times, we had sex, she was not even eighteen yet though, I told her I was new to this, she didn't judge me, and since I was this sorry sorry guy(simp), I'm not trying to judge her and I'm not saying I wouldn't find someone better if I leave her, but she's been through a lot for me I know for sure, a lot of sacrifices she's made, since we're both interfaith her mom never wants to see me though and her elder sis, lol but she act like she doesn't care.

Sometime if we have a fight, she goes to her WhatsApp status to make a post like "we loosing each other to find ourselves"
She's made this post several times whenever we have a fight or misunderstanding, she takes things to the heart, I'm tired of being a sorry sorry man, my mother characteristics, that the kind of woman I'd want to settle with, but now we've made promises to each other, and since I was broke I didn't know a better way to make her feel than tell her I'll never let her go, cause she stood by me when I had nothing , seriously it makes me laugh cause when I have some small conversation with her, I tend to find out we both lost ourselves, things we formally do matters no more, which make everything boring, she doesn't want to see me around anyone else not even friends I just feel my whole world revolves around her and I'm tired.

Some days ago due to the whole corona matter sha, we've been apart but she was like " I miss you" please come around, she sent transport, I appreciate that though, she's a very nice person when it comes to giving me, but we lack other areas totally, mood swing na she, when she now propose a break up, she'll now later tell me sorry that when she felt lost all I could say was goodbye, after saying I forgive her, things don't feel the same anymore, I want to feel my presence once more that old self, that chases his goals, I want to feel him again and this time in an Alpha way, but I'm so worried I'll hurt her though since she isn't really in good terms with her family, not because of me though, but I just felt she'll feel really betrayed and start to overthink.

Things are boring now, lost of values and so on, seriously I can't make it up to her no more, I'm currently broke though, but due to me spending most of my time with her, I don't get enough to myself to seat and learn and organize myself, so lost to be honest, I wanna end things but if one could suggest a better way, I'd really appreciate it, cause I'm currently with her at the same area now, and I'll be going back home soon, 2days after she persuade me to come, we had sex the first day the next day she proposed a break up, she said "I know this might sound usual but I really think I need sometime, to find myself
This days I just think, over think n I think I don't even like my self enough yet to really know what loves is or means, BTW u act differently
It suits u better tbh"(I've been doing some Alpha stuffs)
That was what she texted me, and this too, "More reason y I begged you to come thinking seeing you will make me feel better
But I don't know what's wrong bae pls help me
I couldn't even sleep all night"

I just don't feel good anymore, it might feel like excuses but trust me, I think us letting go would do us more good, cause this relationship has taught us a lot, what we really want and we should never relent but chase them, and about our interfaith stuff I was thinking it would workout but na I'm tire with some disrespectful character she portrays too though, due to the current situation she's facing at home, I don't want to put her in a very tight corner since we both loosed our friends cause of our clingy relationship.

it's tiring.

stanliwise:
Op this is the headaches that comes with entering a relationship. It has a lot of headaches and distractions. If the relationship has given you much brunt then it is left for you to make the final decision to leave or stay.

Good thing you will learn is the lesson of relationship, it will help you nearer future to avoid pitfall and handle situations better. But the sad truth is that you don’t need to learn the lesson now. You could always try relationships at any point of your life but as per education and other helpful things, you may never have the same chance again.

So if you may need to drain a relationship for your dream then it is a good choice.

But on the other hand, what you’re facing is nothing but the adventure of relationship, man life is load of adventure and without them nothing makes sense anymore. So in a nutshell when you quit this so called relationship, you may fall back in to the lonely lifestyle of single lad. I hope you would be able to cope? Single journey is only for the strong hearted and those who have make a decision to the focused on some kind of things. Just because people are doing father(don’t be in relationship and pursue your goal) doesn’t mean you too should ply that part. There are people who have managed everything.

So OP study thyself and pick a right decision for you.