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My ex once told me to stop smoking weed one time or she's gonna end the relationship lol. I was high and at the same time I was still frustrated for the kind of relationship I'm in

Jackossky:
Is there anything you have done because of love which you regret anytime you remember?




Hmmm, I can remember a friend of mine that helped his new girlfriend to write an exam, this my friend (Let me call him A) is a scholar on a good day, this babe begged him to write an exam because she has failed that same exam back to back, she couldn't afford another failure. My guy being the Samaritan he is agreed but with the promise of entering the promise land after all said and done.


We the friends gingered him and some advised against it.

To cut the story short, he was caught and saved by a hair's breadth, the said girl reneged on her promise and threaten to 'finish' my guy if he make any advance towards her.

Come see how she was loyal prior the exam, this made my friend never to try such and anytime he remembers, he always seem like crying. We do taunt him till today and to cap it all, he had to pay his way out with his own money.


Share your experience...

Your friend for collect d tin severally b4 .

So many ppl are bagin d hole already

Osek:
54m bro and u let her go like dat... Ahhnn noo na

Bro, what I goan do man...
Then while I was hospitalized everyday her family keeps coming over disturbing the peace of the hospital I was admitted to....

Begging and disturbing the peace of everyone...
And my mum is this easy woman she just had to console me to let go..

Let me start
1.when i was in ND, i gave my crush 3k, orignal followcome charger ,she dump me after 1week, my friends laff me no be small.

2. There is this girl i was crushing on grace, she wanted to register 4 jamb. So i went to zenith bank picked up a teller to give her at home(she lives outskirt of town) she is still coming back to the same bank to summit it ooh(mumu)

3.there is this girl, i always do bank top up for from my moms phone, she no go even flash me talk more of calling.

i dont have luck in terms of love i dae very sure say nah my brokeness.

BennyDGreat:
Haba...what could she have used 54m for? Police didn't really help you out....you should have recovered up to at least half of that money if they did their work well.

The police actually did a great job then... You know when you get fed up of everything you just have to let it go..

All she could say was her current husband lend the money for his business, when we asked the so-called husband he said he was scammed of importation stuff like that...

After locking his shop the all worth was just 70k..

Just had to let go

candyguyofficia:
That's deep bro, I wish you pull through sincerely this girls ain't really worth it but why didn't you send to your blood relative father, mother, brother not like it's 100% secured that they will invest the fund on your behalf but it's still saver

yunno my initial plan was to surprise my family with that house...

And for a girl I dated then and she has sacrifice her salary for me then I so much trust her..

So that was what prompt my trust on her...

Stevecreativex:
The police actually did a great job then... You know when you get fed up of everything you just have to let it go..

All she could say was her current husband lend the money for his business, when we asked the so-called husband he said he was scammed of importation stuff like that...

After locking his shop the all worth was just 70k..

Just had to let go

I am finding it hard to believe they did a good job. There would be at least one property somewhere. I believe they made calls and connived with police to ensure that you don't get much out of the case. Wickedness is real sha...hmm

ZINIBANKS:
What a painful story you just have to give love another trial you wouldn't know which is best
And bro can you tell us about life in Greece would love to hear how life is there

Life is how it is

I made money here doesn’t mean there is money, I had my way and I made money

So everyone with different experience

BennyDGreat:
I am finding it hard to believe they did a good job. There would be at least one property somewhere. I believe they made calls and connived with police to ensure that you don't get much out of the case. Wickedness is real sha...hmm

A friend said this too yunno.... But mama is one stress free woman...

She just had to ease off the case..

dayleke:
You never love before?

With all your accuracy and calculations in everything, you fit know when your heart is about to be broken sef

I have this amazing ability to Suppress my Emotions... To the Extent even when am Tripping For a Female... My Facial Expressions remains Stone Cold even when She's around me, to the extent she Starts Questioning Herself ... I see it in Her Eyes and I Smile Inwardly always.

Reverse Psychology Sweet Once You've Mastered The "Dark Art"



You Must Have Loved Before Dayleke??

grafixdon:
Though she's my crush then, but I love her so so much.

She was schooling in ado, it was around 2010... I travelled from Lagos to Ado just to see her. Bought provisions (milk, bread, 5alive,soaps,bounvita etc).

I got to her hostel around 2am because there's a heavy traffic. I almost fainted when I met a guy at her place at that time putting on just boxer, she later introduced the guy as her boyfriend. Both of them slept on the bed while she gave me mat to sleep on. I couldn't sleep because I could hear them fvcking.

The following morning, she prepared the bread, milk and bounvita I bought with my money for her boyfriend. Oboy, I don suffer.

This one loud. Just can't stop laughing.

DaddyRochie1642:
I have this amazing ability to Suppress my Emotions... To the Extent even when am Tripping For a Female... My Facial Expressions remains Stone Cold even when She's around me, to the extent she Starts Questioning Herself ... I see it in Her Eyes and I Smile Inwardly always.

Reserve Psychology Sweet Once You have Mastered The "Dark Art"



You Must Have Loved Before Dayleke??

Yes boss, I have.
But now I know better.

danduchi:
You all don't know what God has done for you all oo.
One time, many years ago, I traveled to calabar to go see this girl. She picked me from the parked and we got to her one bedroom apartment, nice and cozy. I baff, wear singlet and boxer, crossed leg on the table changing TV channels.
2 secs my girl received a call, followed by a knock on the door. It was very obvious he paid for the apartment from the look on his face. My girl just said 'I'm sorry Dan'.
I got dressed, this guy and my girl dropped me off at the park. I reached PH by almost 11pm.
So Me go calabar to just go baff, I can't still believe it.

guy no kill me with laugh oooo

ahnie:
I ve never been in love.

Why?

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

Story that touches the heart and pocket, sorry oooo. Please shey you didn't have relative that will be checking on your building abi you forget say God talk am "trust no man". If you be my brother eh I for sue you for causing emotional trauma for your family.

danduchi:
You all don't know what God has done for you all oo.
One time, many years ago, I traveled to calabar to go see this girl. She picked me from the parked and we got to her one bedroom apartment, nice and cozy. I baff, wear singlet and boxer, crossed leg on the table changing TV channels.
2 secs my girl received a call, followed by a knock on the door. It was very obvious he paid for the apartment from the look on his face. My girl just said 'I'm sorry Dan'.
I got dressed, this guy and my girl dropped me off at the park. I reached PH by almost 11pm.
So Me go calabar to just go baff, I can't still believe it.

This one mad oh. I don laugh tire

I came across this girl very charming 2 my liking
She told me she dont have phone for now
I wanted to inpress her so i give her my infinix hot5 a means for we both 2 connect wel proving i was inlove
I never knew she only came for a visit and planing on going back the nest day.....
U really want 2 know what happen next¿

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

This is trauma personified, u are a strong dude... Surprised u didn't send her to jail for been the biggest yahoo girl in Nigeria...... guy u need to let go of the pain and move on

cricifixo:
It made me marry

Worst mistake ever Chai, take heart ooo

julieeni:
I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.

Anytime someone says I have forgiven him and adds a 'but' then that forgiveness has been wiped off. You need to let go of your past completely to an extent of forgiving him of all his atrocities, once you can give your child the opportunity to see his dad again then you can say you hold no grudges against him anymore. Forgiveness is total, let go and live your normal life. You are a strong woman...

grafixdon:
Though she's my crush then, but I love her so so much.

She was schooling in ado, it was around 2010... I travelled from Lagos to Ado just to see her. Bought provisions (milk, bread, 5alive,soaps,bounvita etc).

I got to her hostel around 2am because there's a heavy traffic. I almost fainted when I met a guy at her place at that time putting on just boxer, she later introduced the guy as her boyfriend. Both of them slept on the bed while she gave me mat to sleep on. I couldn't sleep because I could hear them fvcking.

The following morning, she prepared the bread, milk and bounvita I bought with my money for her boyfriend. Oboy, I don suffer.

The mat part no gri me laff�����

Alex96:
Story that touches the heart and pocket, sorry oooo. Please shey you didn't have relative that will be checking on your building abi you forget say God talk am "trust no man". If you be my brother eh I for sue you for causing emotional trauma for your family.

The building was initially to surprise my family and she was the the only one I trusted then..

For someone to sacrifice a whole month salary on my behalf, Yo if twas you, you might have no other choice than to trust you know...

This is too bad

Stevecreativex:
Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse contact off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

Stevecreativex:
Bro, what I goan do man...
Then while I was hospitalized everyday her family keeps coming over disturbing the peace of the hospital I was admitted to....

Begging and disturbing the peace of everyone...
And my mum is this easy woman she just had to console me to let go..

If u told me in time I for borrow u my Mama...u see that 54m e for come outside or dead body go de....I trust my mum

25tolife:
Let me start
1.when i was in ND, i gave my crush 3k, orignal followcome charger ,she dump me after 1week, my friends laff me no be small.

2. There is this girl i was crushing on grace, she wanted to register 4 jamb. So i went to zenith bank picked up a teller to give her at home(she lives outskirt of town) she is still coming back to the same bank to summit it ooh(mumu)

3.there is this girl, i always do bank top up for from my moms phone, she no go even flash me talk more of calling.

i dont have luck in terms of love i dae very sure say nah my brokeness.

You are your own prophet....lol

to everyone who cares pls i need financial help , any amount is not too small or too big. Solomon Amedu 0802233477 access bank. tanks for ur assistance in anticipation

Forgiveness is truly a sin

Stevecreativex:
Lives good here in greece yunno... Don't think I can't love naija girls here et all...

There is enough job for every one, no stress every one is happy... But 60% of people here are cold-single, nobody want a relationship hook.

Bro I once read it in travel section whereby a Nigerian based in Greece said there's no job
Can you clear this doubt

idahme:
This is trauma personified, u are a strong dude... Surprised u didn't send her to jail for been the biggest yahoo girl in Nigeria...... guy u need to let go of the pain and move on

All this was what I intended doing.... But plea from her family and co...

We just have to ease off

Stevecreativex:
The police actually did a great job then... You know when you get fed up of everything you just have to let it go..

All she could say was her current husband lend the money for his business, when we asked the so-called husband he said he was scammed of importation stuff like that...

After locking his shop the all worth was just 70k..

Just had to let go

Hope say she even build the house oo

Vivianagoja:
Hope say she even build the house oo

Which house... All the pictures she was sending was someone else project

julieeni:
I knew before we got married but I was in love

Which kain love? 2 kids from 2 different women?? Naah God forbid.