Serious Advice Needed Here oo
LOCKDOWN AND WEDDING PALAVA:

Traditional Marriage was fixed for 29th of March and Wedding was Fixed for 4th of April, the Traditional marriage was done and dusted but wedding could not hold as a result of #COVID-19

Now Pastor said the lady must not stay in the man's house till after wedding, pls advice.
Can a man still stay alone and marry his pillowcases even after traditional wedding, if you are the girl what will you do in this case, because the father said he has given his daughter out in marriage.

What's your take on this...

The pastor must be mad

Cancel church wedding jare na must say i must do am as far say you don pay bride prize
You register for court wetin you wan use church do now abi too much money dey worri you

Any gathering now government go sit for your head

Just take your wife home

To me traditional marriage endorsed, either church wedding or traditional is okay but we overdo things here in Nigeria as long it is done in present of 2 or 3 pple, so u can later seal it up when the marriage registry is open (federal marriage registry is the official endorse for marriages). Bro. Think and do the right, left for me my Babe don follow me go house Oooo.

Arrange for a small church wedding with not more than ten people if the pastor insist.


It can be done in a sitting room self, as long as the pastor, both parents and couples are available. God is everywhere

Simple... organize a parlour wedding where you'll invite the pastor to join the couple. #Lobatan

Does the pastor have cctv co rage of your house

Ariza:
Arrange for a small church wedding with not more than ten people if the pastor insist.


It can be done in a sitting room self, as long as the pastor, both parents and couples are available. God is everywhere

seconded.

Pastors again

you are married.....go and formalize it in a court of law, do thanksgiving after covid.....be a man for once!

Not an issue here anyways. Traditional rites settles all in my own case. If you want formal solemnization because of documents. I suggest a open room wedding with atleast 3 representatives from both sides. An elaborate wedding doesn’t signifies happy marriage. Doing it low key even shows how sensible you both are and how well you can manage situations.

Abeg these kind of stories have been over flogged and it's beginning to get some how


Do marriage blessings and move on.

Anyone who claims Covid stopped them from getting married, is not serious. They just want to show off QED.

kunlesehan:
Serious Advice Needed Here oo
LOCKDOWN AND WEDDING PALAVA:

Traditional Marriage was fixed for 29th of March and Wedding was Fixed for 4th of April, the Traditional marriage was done and dusted but wedding could not hold as a result of #COVID-19

Now Pastor said the lady must not stay in the man's house till after wedding, pls advice.
Can a man still stay alone and marry his pillowcases even after traditional wedding, if you are the girl what will you do in this case, because the father said he has given his daughter out in marriage.

What's your take on this...

This is what you get when you are loyal to your pastor

Let them do parlor wedding, because of covid-19

kunlesehan:
Serious Advice Needed Here oo
LOCKDOWN AND WEDDING PALAVA:

Traditional Marriage was fixed for 29th of March and Wedding was Fixed for 4th of April, the Traditional marriage was done and dusted but wedding could not hold as a result of #COVID-19

Now Pastor said the lady must not stay in the man's house till after wedding, pls advice.
Can a man still stay alone and marry his pillowcases even after traditional wedding, if you are the girl what will you do in this case, because the father said he has given his daughter out in marriage.

What's your take on this...

Some Nigerians and this lopsided mindset that until you do church wedding then you have not wedded.

This is what happens when you allow a mere man with a pastoral title control your life.

Let them do Palor or compound wedding like everyone has been doing since the lockdown.

That pastor doesn't know anything.
The bride price has been paid and they have done their traditional marriage.

They are no more fornicating if that's what the pastor is trying to say.
No pastor can control me this way unless the woman is the pastor's daughter which is why she might follow her father's advice.

when u make a pastor ur alpha and omega in ur marriage ur marriage is bound to collapse

The pastor is absolutely right.
Please tell him to also draw sex time table for the couple when he finally authorizes them to have Intercourse.

Ariza:
Arrange for a small church wedding with not more than ten people if the pastor insist.


It can be done in a sitting room self, as long as the pastor, both parents and couples are available. God is everywhere

Sense




You must not feed the whole community


Just meet the pastors office for the blessing


Chikina

Why not hold a small church wedding with just the parents as witness?

kunlesehan:
Serious Advice Needed Here oo
LOCKDOWN AND WEDDING PALAVA:

Traditional Marriage was fixed for 29th of March and Wedding was Fixed for 4th of April, the Traditional marriage was done and dusted but wedding could not hold as a result of #COVID-19

Now Pastor said the lady must not stay in the man's house till after wedding, pls advice.
Can a man still stay alone and marry his pillowcases even after traditional wedding, if you are the girl what will you do in this case, because the father said he has given his daughter out in marriage.

What's your take on this...

We just create problems for ourselves. They are legally married so which one is pastor say pastor say?

Mscheeew. Let them stay there and be fooling themselves

Aboks:
The pastor must be mad

Cancer church wedding jare na must say i must do am as far say you don pay bride prize
You register for court wetin you wan use church do now abi too much money dey worri you

Any gathering now government go sit for your head

Just take your wife home

U dey vex o

4teeron:
To me traditional marriage endorsed, either church wedding or traditional is okay but we overdo things here in Nigeria as long it is done in present of 2 or 3 pple, so u can later seal it up when the marriage registry is open (federal marriage registry is the official endorse for marriages). Bro. Think and do the right, left for me my Babe don follow me go house Oooo.

Lol
True talk

Ariza:
Arrange for a small church wedding with not more than ten people if the pastor insist.


It can be done in a sitting room self, as long as the pastor, both parents and couples are available. God is everywhere

Too much wisdom

dawnomike:
Simple... organize a parlour wedding where you'll invite the pastor to join the couple. #Lobatan

Abi o

ikdaddy01:
Does the pastor have cctv co rage of your house

Lol
At all o

Alejobs:
you are married.....go and formalize it in a court of law, do thanksgiving after covid.....be a man for once!

Gbam!

Wisdom

nijiatech78:
Not an issue here anyways. Traditional rites settles all in my own case. If you want formal solemnization because of documents. I suggest a open room wedding with atleast 3 representatives from both sides. An elaborate wedding doesn’t signifies happy marriage. Doing it low key even shows how sensible you both are and how well you can manage situations.

Well said

Toks2008:


Some Nigerians and this lopsided mindset that until you do church wedding then you have not wedded.

This is what happens when you allow a mere man with a pastoral title control your life.

Very well said

Allsingles:
That pastor doesn't know anything.
The bride price has been paid and they have done their traditional marriage.

They are no more fornicating if that's what the pastor is trying to say.
No pastor can control me this way unless the woman is the pastor's daughter which is why she might follow her father's advice.

Hahaha ... very funny

J111333:
The pastor is absolutely right.
Please tell him to also draw sex time table for the couple when he finally authorizes them to have Intercourse.

kunlesehan:
Wisdom

Well appreciated Sir. I just hope it makes sense to them at this time. God bless us all!!!

I heard it on radio bro I guess u just copied it from bridge fm