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[quote author=Caringfather post=89118039]Lol my brother, you did nothing wrong aswear. Don't forget she's a Nigerian, we are 1 confused people! She was just feeling bad cuz it was her responsibilities, so she wanna take d anger on you.

Next time sha, you can just give the money directly to the girl to get anything she needs herself to save you the arguments and to save your home sir...

Did u read? They went out clothes shopping



[Qquote author=NextD18 post=89118233]You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?[/quote]

Mikymiky0:
You are doing the right thing in a wrong way. How did you know the the size of her bra and pant?
Next time, buy only clothes for her and give your wife some money to buy undies for her and make sure ur wife bought it. You can only buy undies for your wife but not her niece.

U didn't read the part where he gave the wife money and she spent it.
Or the part where he only paid for the undies....the niece selected it herself

chatinent:
It's preferrable to give her the money: it's a little suspicious bro. How did you know the sizes ?

Try to read b4 posting, poster said he'd given his wife money in d past to buy clothes for d niece but she refused, d poor girl has been wearing same cloths she came to lagos with for 2yrs now!
@ op, u did nothing wrong, ur wife is just a wicked woman, if she can treat her relation that way, imagine what she'd do to urs.

u did nothing wrong

[quote author=callmeRichie post=89216913][/quote]Give d money to d girl? u like wahala o!

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

wil u kip quite,sm1 dat is living with dem....didnt u see where he mentioned he took dem out for shopping....ur comparison no work..maybe ur like d lady in question....

Ishilove:
Next time just give the money to the niece to buy her underwear herself since your wife doesn't care the girl is shabby. Some women sef

Think that will create the biggest of it all.call her family and speak to them about it before it's too late.

You really have to send her niece parking, or you won't find peace.. She obviously suspicious of your stares and action

Ishilove:
Next time just give the money to the niece to buy her underwear herself since your wife doesn't care the girl is shabby. Some women sef

if he gives her money, the wife may still insinuate the same thing!

emeijeh:
Jeez! Where have I been? 11 year old girls now wear bras?
DAMN!!!

the thing tire me too o

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

YOU ARE A GOOD MAN. IT'S UNFORTUNATE YOUR WIFE IS A BAD WOMAN.

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

From experience say nothing and do nothing is your best defence..

But from your heart of heart try to make her niece better...

You are not doing it for the sake of her niece believe me you are doing it for your kids...
You never know where they will be in the nearest future


Always do good bro.....

chatinent:
It's preferrable to give her the money: it's a little suspicious bro. How did you know the sizes ?

So u didn't read the part op said he took all the kids shopping. Or are u saying the people selling the wares couldn't tell the girl's bra size by looking at her?

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

The last time I wanted to do that to my househelp, I gave the money to my sister and asked the girl to tell my sister what she wanted.

I knew if I buy it, hmmm.

Once a girl has breast and isn't your own blood, wives don't feel comfortable at such gestures.

My neighbor who defended his own niece from his wife who label her a spy and occultist got his own share during a disagreement. The wife told him he was sleeping with his own niece.

These things happens but wives should chill.

What did you do to your wife when you gave her money to buy clothes for her niece and she refused to and only bought for her children? You kept quiet.

You for don insist on her buying the clothes and all for her niece and ensure that you see them...in fact you should have taken all of them for shopping including your wife. It's truly a shameful thing for you when people see your children looking good and see the niece looking like a maid. People will actually conclude she is a maid and that you and your wife are treating her bad..now imagine if they find out she is not a maid but a niece to your wife.

Sometimes you need to be tough on some women. When you give money for something, ensure they show you the result...no long story. Now she is accusing you of sleeping with her niece because she must be wondering how you knew her boob and yansh size.but when she was given the money to buy it, she chop am.

y u takin it light? she probably wants to c ur reaction. u sud b mad at her.

Your intentions might be genuine but trust me in this part of the world both your wife and 15 year old niece have issues with your benevolence.

While your wife might think you have something you are hiding off your sleeves, your neice may think you too are passing her love overtures....to taste the pudding.

Women get jealous of themselves. Even your daughter you will soon stop buying her undies. Because the nature of a women goes with emotional attachments to things. She must have observed your generosity towards her neice and she got the final evidence to confront you.

Henceforth, avoid buying wears for children except she is part of the shopping. Apologize and let her know you have a clean conscience.

You have done nothing wrong.please just be on a lookout as you may have just created another big battle for her. I had the same experience but in my case. I was the victim. God bless you as you continue to provide and protect the innocent child..

Next time give the money to your wife to get her the underwears.

how did you(the man) know her size?

Divorce her and marry the pour girl to spite her. I ate nonsense

dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

I'm tired please.

guy come make we talk for corner ( which size of orijin you de drink, fish or kebab which u prefer)

IrishB:
how did you(the man) know her size?

so you no fit use your eyes to know person's size?

Plut01:
You think that wife won't beat the day light out of the niece if she tries that?
A wife has already termed her 15 years old niece as competitor.

Then the wife should not have brought the niece to the house.

justcallmenuel:
Next time give the money to your wife to get her the underwears.

did you read the story at all?I don't think so, go back and read the story again

ogorchimeizie:
You did wrong my brother... Apologise to your wife and give her the money to buy it. If she does not buy it, then your wife is a witch....but if she buys and you see yourself complaining, Oga join TB Joshua on the mountain.. There is a perverting demon around you...

Thank you

Oga I’m not sure you read the story o, if you did you see where he said he initially gave his wife money to buy cloths for the girl and she never did, the wife is just plain wicked, that’s alll I can say

chatinent:
It's preferrable to give her the money: it's a little suspicious bro. How did you know the sizes ?

Oga did you read the story?

godofuck231:
guy come make we talk for corner ( which size of orijin you de drink, fish or kebab which u prefer)

my brother just send me palliative God go bless you

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

true question

You wife is simply wicked. Give that money to some other women to buy for the niece she will still complain that you overlooked her yet she herself refused to buy same for whatever reason her warped mind has conjured.
Reminds me of when we were kids there was this neighbor of ours that brought her nephew and niece to stay with them then. She treated them so badly that the nephew had to run away. I see the effects on that nephew today cos he is already a grown man but still has a few issues. What about the said woman? well karma didn't treat her so good.
Tell your wife that she doesn't know if that niece she treats badly will turn out to be her savior tomorrow. Some people only reason and live for the moment forgetting there will always be a tomorrow.

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

bro read again. he said he went With all the children including the niece. she'll pick her sizes herself.