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Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Nwokos: 2:05pm On May 05, 2020
My dear dnt mind women with their nonse behaviour,over jelousy,
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Xmen149(m): 2:05pm On May 05, 2020
Rozz:
lol but where did you learn how to buy underwear for ladies and knowing their sizes as well? this is funny to me

dnt be in a hurry to reply,.he said he took them all out for shopping. if the person to wear a particular wear is at poinof sale dnt you think she will make her right choice even with the help of the seller..
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Nwokos: 2:07pm On May 05, 2020
I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and .Dnt mind women with their jeolousy
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Kingbarbie01(f): 2:08pm On May 05, 2020
dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

I'm tired please.
it begins with something, y not foot wears? why not shades, why underwears? you should know dat his wife's niece will think he has the intention of wooing her into an affair and his wife is a woman she knows this. she knows what her niece will think but she doesn't know the intention of her husband. none can be trusted this days becos lots of shit happen u know.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Dollabiz: 2:13pm On May 05, 2020
why did you buy such are you seeing her private parts.....

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Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by LyfeJennings(m): 2:14pm On May 05, 2020
God will punish your wife
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Kingbarbie01(f): 2:16pm On May 05, 2020
Xmen149:


dnt be in a hurry to reply,.he said he took them all out for shopping. if the person to wear a particular wear is at poinof sale dnt you think she will make her right choice even with the help of the seller..
it's an awkward thing to get when ur aunts hubby took everyone shopping she should have at least let her aunt know her choice without the man knowing or get the under wear some other time .it's so wrong for the man to be aware that she's getting an underwear. such ppl should not live with couples, i mean females dat are not the man's blood sister should back off from the home.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Temysteve(m): 2:16pm On May 05, 2020
Ishilove:
Next time just give the money to the niece to buy her underwear herself since your wife doesn't care the girl is shabby. Some women sef
Go back to the post and read again ogbeni..
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by seanjy4konji: 2:17pm On May 05, 2020
I hate women who act in such way..take care of their own kids and maltreat family staying with them...do t tech my kids rubbish...GRowing up we had extended guys staying with us and it was a laid down rule that it's a one family and everyone deserves the same thing..

Na witch wife deh douch. Nothing in buying underwear for the kids. You bought it for every one and not a singular act..ur wife is a trouble maker.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Temysteve(m): 2:18pm On May 05, 2020
NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?
is that ur biz, is that the question he asked you to tackle?
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Temysteve(m): 2:19pm On May 05, 2020
chatinent:
It's preferrable to give her the money: it's a little suspicious bro. How did you know the sizes ?
probably he has imagine the gal kakas nd frontage before going to the market
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by tayebest(m): 2:20pm On May 05, 2020
Ladycewhy:
[s]bla bla bla tell that to the wives of these men.




Even grandfathers can't even be trusted with their toddler grandkids , instead of focusing on the men who are devil's defiling young children you are here spewing trash. I think it has gotten to the stage where men need to bow their heads in shame for become monsters who can't be left to look after little girls .


When I was growing up girls of 15 could still bathe outside without fear of being watched by perverted eyes of useless men but now ,I can't even be comfortable allowing a 5 year old child go on an errand for a man .[/s]

Some women are just dimwit with watery brain. Social vices doesn't recognize any gender likewise child molestation. The female gender have always been playing the vulunrable cards but it's not working anymore. I can't even imagine a person like you saying you can't trust your husband to buy a underwear for your daughter, WTF angry

However, I believe you choose to skip where OP wrote that he gave his wife to buy the said niece some cloths, but she 'chop' the money. You blame him because he took the challenge on himself to cater for the niece who has been wearing worn-out cloths since over 2years without the wife giving a fcck.

Again, you're EVIL angry
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Danniedpastor(m): 2:20pm On May 05, 2020
NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?


Please read again
First.. He gave his wife money to get close for the girl but,she never did. That girl stayed 2 whole years without a new cloth.

Secondly, it's not wrong to buy clothes and undies for your kids... Any child under your roof is your child, you need to give them equal treatment. My wife's sister leaves with us and she calls me "daddy". I treat her as my first child. I've only drawn the like on the 'inheritance".


Finally, you don't need to touch a woman to know her bra size or pant size. You use eye guage or
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Temysteve(m): 2:20pm On May 05, 2020
emeijeh:
Jeez! Where have I been? 11 year old girls now wear bras?
DAMN!!!
shut up Zulu, she's 15
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Karleb(m): 2:21pm On May 05, 2020
I strongly suggest you give her a very hot and resounding slap the next time she calls you a pedophile.

That thing can put you in jail.

It's bad to be called a wife beater but it's worse to be labeled a rapist or pedophile.

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Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by freethesheeple(m): 2:22pm On May 05, 2020
Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

some women are Naturally wicked..You gave her money;yet she no buy and you bought;she got offended.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Nobody: 2:22pm On May 05, 2020
Why are women so wicked to other people's children, that was how I told a friend I can never allow my child to stay in a relative's place, even for holidays. The wickedness.

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Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by vertueptime: 2:22pm On May 05, 2020
Caringfather:
And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

She was with me and my children were there too. She chooses her under wears for herself and I paid for it.

Lol next time you go buy tampons
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Danniedpastor(m): 2:22pm On May 05, 2020
NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?


Please read again
First.. He gave his wife money to get close for the girl but,she never did. That girl stayed 2 whole years without a new cloth.

Secondly, it's not wrong to buy clothes and undies for your kids... Any child under your roof is your child, you need to give them equal treatment. My wife's sister leaves with us and she calls me "daddy". I treat her as my first child. I've only drawn the like on the 'inheritance".


Finally, you don't need to touch a woman to know her bra size or pant size. You use eye guage or better still ask questions in the market.


I don't know my wife's measurements but I buy almost all her undies.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by chris51(f): 2:23pm On May 05, 2020
Please, next time, do not buy underwear for your wife's niece. Your wife is irresponsible and wicked if she can be dressing her children up and ignore her niece.

She doesn't realize that the niece's appearance has positive or negative effect on both of you.

The buying of clothes should actually be the responsibility of the mother in the house. Give your wife money. Let her buy for all. If possible, do the shopping with her, to avoid her accusing you of having affair with the niece.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by chris51(f): 2:23pm On May 05, 2020
chris51:
Please, next time, do not buy underwear for your wife's niece. Your wife is irresponsible and wicked if she can be dressing her children up and ignore her niece.

She doesn't realize that the niece's appearance has positive or negative effect on both of you.

The buying of clothes should actually be the responsibility of the mother in the house. Give your wife money. Let her buy for all. If possible, do the shopping with her, to avoid her accusing you of having affair with the niece.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by djoe21(m): 2:26pm On May 05, 2020
NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

Sorry to say but your analogies are off point. undecided
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by quickly: 2:26pm On May 05, 2020
wetin aboki no go see for gate.

U sef why u dey buy pant for 15 years old girl.

Some men sef

Even if shes ur daughter any thing less than 10years-11 yrs , it would be starting to be strange as buy that age some done they see menses.

The wife is thinking ur planting a seed , one day the girl will want to show u the pant u bought 4 her-
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Ladycewhy(f): 2:27pm On May 05, 2020
tayebest:


Some women are just dimwit with watery brain. Social vices doesn't recognize any gender likewise child molestation. The female gender have always been playing the vulunrable cards but it's not working anymore. I can't even imagine a person like you saying you can't trust your husband to buy a underwear for your daughter, WTF angry

However, I believe you choose to skip where OP wrote that he gave his wife to buy the said niece some cloths, but she 'chop' the money. You blame him because he took the challenge on himself to cater for the niece who has been wearing worn-out cloths since over 2years without the wife giving a fcck.

Again, you're EVIL angry
lol na from clap them dey enter dance . I am sure the women who's husband ended up in the news over looked when their husbands became close to their daughters. I will not put anything past any man of this generation.

Once again I spit on your heads , useless men that can even impregnate mad women on the streets , angry. Spits disgusting breeds of men . The female gender is no longer the only venerable cos even young boys are not even safe from your hands ,I am sure the Vatican can testify to this grin.


https://www.nairaland.com/5785301/nigerians-reacts-pastor-raped-little#88296545


https://www.nairaland.com/5774876/imam-abubakar-danraka-drugs-rapes#88111928.


May I also add that even animals are not safe in the hands of the perverted men of this generation,spits

https://www.nairaland.com/5722269/man-caught-having-sex-goat/2#87223210.


Errm our grandmothers are not safe either.


https://www.nairaland.com/5716180/how-19-year-old-boy-drugged-landlady#87124136.


I think we can all agree who the evil ones are here . Useless breeds , with the way they talk about women here you would think they were all that ,they can sleep with anything even poor animals ,smh

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Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by octokitty(f): 2:27pm On May 05, 2020
Apologize and move on, don’t overflog the issue, I feel it’s not important, going forward stick to just buying clothes for her and nothing else
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Analysiscorner: 2:27pm On May 05, 2020
Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.


I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Maski87: 2:29pm On May 05, 2020
How do you know her size
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Analysiscorner: 2:29pm On May 05, 2020
Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.


I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?
Please, do it again and again. If she fails to backtrack on her statement, please, report her to her parents, your pastor. Etc.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by sylve11: 2:30pm On May 05, 2020
Rozz:
lol but where did you learn how to buy underwear for ladies and knowing their sizes as well? this is funny to me


He's a specialist in that area. grin grin cool


@ op, nothing do you. cool

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Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Opeyemi4real(m): 2:32pm On May 05, 2020
NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?
wrong juxtapositions, if I see your wife today beside you, I will buy her exact bra size for her. Please don't be stupid with your mentality. The girl is like his daughter, since 2018 and you are saying how did he know. You are not different from the that silly wife with your thinking.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Saintinoo(m): 2:36pm On May 05, 2020
ogorchimeizie:
You did wrong my brother... Apologise to your wife and give her the money to buy it. If she does not buy it, then your wife is a witch....but if she buys and you see yourself complaining, Oga join TB Joshua on the mountain.. There is a perverting demon around you...

Thank you
Did you read the part he said the wife refuse to buy clothes for the girl, and where she accused him of sleeping with the little gir?
No reasonable woman will ever do that. That is an insult to the man and his authority as the head of the family.
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Tobadessss: 2:38pm On May 05, 2020
Ningen:
You did nothing wrong.

Actually, you should be pissed off by your wife's insinuation. She's painting you as a paedophile,
a molester and an adulterer. That's so wrong.

If that's the image she has of you, it's so arggg!
You have to fix that!

You can't be this lighthearted. No.
Bro your reputation is on the line here, WTF.

Clearly, you are ruling your house with iron fist.

Salient question...why couldn't her sister feel so bothered

It's too soon concluding he's a paedophile.

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