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dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

I'm tired please.

Me am tired with you too. Most Nigerian women are very wicked when it comes to house helps. To them they are 2nd class citizens and should be treated like animals, they deserve no love or care. Abeg am tired!!

dingbang:
Yes you did wrong in the mindset of a typical Nigerian woman who thinks buying stuff for your niece is termed as sleeping with her. Very off-track thinking set of people.

I'm tired please.

Well, maybe that's cause a typical Nigerian man cheats. Society is give and take. Actions determines reaction.

Pusyiter:
I wish you no far, I for kiss you.
In fact, I owe you one.

You are still kissing in this perilous times

Abeg take kiss this is all you get for now.

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

Making so much sense here. this one alone answers the question of the OP

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

Women are evil!!

I know how a woman treated her niece with so much cruelty, did everything to frustrate the girl's life....why are women like this... u need to defeat that venom in her

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

Your last question got me lol

we don't need details of your sordid escapades at your house.
How did you know her size BTW.?
Dauda d sexy guy.

Caringfather:
And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

She was with me and my children were there too. She chooses her under wears for herself and I paid for it.

I'm a woman and there's nothing wrong in you oga buying those things for your niece. Haa sorry but your wife own no good abeg. You gave her money to buy clothes she hasn't then is it underwear she will buy? She would rather use the money to make her hair than buy for a needy nonsense. How do people derive joy in being mean to kids?

Caringfather:
And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

She was with me and my children were there too. She chooses her under wears for herself and I paid for it.

I'm a woman and there's nothing wrong in you oga buying those things for your niece. Haa sorry but your wife own no good abeg. You gave her money to buy clothes she hasn't then is it underwear she will buy? She would rather use the money to make her hair than buy for a needy nonsense. How do people derive joy in being mean to kids? Wetin she dey vex for? Mtcheeew

Initially when I read the headline, I went WHAT?? But after reading the entire content, I said OK!

In my opinion, he did NOTHING WRONG! The neice was there with his other children and she PICKED HER OWN UNDERWEARS BY HERSELF. He simply PAID FOR ALL THEIR PURCHASES!

His wife is NOT A GOOD PERSON! PERIOD! I see her, as SELF- CENTETRED! SELFISH PERSON! She should be happy that she has a husband that goes shopping for his household.

If the neice parents are still alive, SEND HER BACK! Before your wife makes her life miserable! Then she will be left alone to do her chores and care for her own children. STUPID WOMAN! That is how they will use her hand to wreck her marriage and blame an innocent girl!

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

Woman wrapper.

Do you also wash your wife panties.and do all the.shopping?

No Nigeria woman will take that lightly. Though d clothes buying is cool but undies oga ei no good. My girl with me i do buy them myself once in a while.

I think u should henceforth delegate d duty of underwear buying to her. So matters like this don't up again. Talk to her n apologize

cococandy:
Or maybe this is the whole purpose for the thread. But what do I know?

Can you somehow justify or rationalize the action of the OP's wife?

I once bought pants and bra for my girlfriend's friend....
Some years ago. It was hell but we later settle the whole issue







My GF till today do mention that whenever I anger her

Since she feels that it's her right to buy the underwear , what was keeping her from buying it since 2 years ago? why has dgecnkt bought it since?
Your wife is exhibiting some trait of a wicked person and even worse. And she has a dubious and corrupt mind to even think ill of your action and to even linked it to even sleeping with an under aged niece of hers is something to worry about. Your wife is keeping bad company - it has finished!

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

What a sicko! am sure a pervert like you can sleep with their niece

Didn't you read where he gave the wife money to shop for the girl but madam ate the money

jamesbridget13:
No Nigeria woman will take that lightly. Though d clothes buying is cool but undies oga ei no good. My girl with me i do buy them myself once in a while.

I think u should henceforth delegate d duty of underwear buying to her. So matters like this don't up again. Talk to her n apologize

Apologize for looking out for her niece she should have taken the duty of looking after? why has she not bought anything for the little girl for the last two years even after being told by the husband in different occasions .

The woman should ashamed of herself for her neglect and having a dubious mind. She should change her ways.

[quote author=CHARLOE post=89217293]Give d money to d girl? u like wahala o!




To give her money now na wahala again?
Things like this doesn't count in a sane family seriously! I'm suspecting lack of trust amidst d couples sef

Lolsssss, I fear who no fear naija wives ooo.

The fact is, if everything is always suspicious to the wife, something's seriously wrong with her! And the niece is even staying with the wrong family in this case.




I'm suspecting lack of trust sef, the wife is d problem gan!!

Your decision wasn't wrong but just because of some men that are sleeping with their in-laws, nieces etc but next time look for one of your own sister to take are for shopping since your wife didn't like it

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

Age could be used to predict the size of those things u mentioned. all one need is to communicate with the sellers with the appropriate physical information of the person then the seller, out of experience, can now use those information to predict and select the right size for the intended person.
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And besides, I think the op went with the girls together with his kids for the shopping. You ladies should stop thinking as perverts o.

Yu did nothing just dat some African women are selfish and for me any woman dat does that, her suspect on her, cos day is what some of dem do side. Continue doing ur good since ur mind is clean

All the people telling you that you did nothing wrong are deceiving you more than you are deceiving yourself.

You want to act as if you love her more than your wife.

Better discontinue that else your wife will give you an ultimatum.

NextD18:
You might have done something good for the said niece, but you psychologically grew suspicious looks for yourself before your wife.

Imagine your friend buying G-string for your wife or your colleague buying bra for your 15 years old daughter. How will you feel? It is very wrong to do the right things the wrong way.

And if I may ask, how did you know her boobs and ass sizes before buying her underwears?

You cannot compare friend buying g-string for his wife, with him buying underwears for his wife's neice... They are very far apart. Or even the colleague thing... If you don't have meaningful things to add, just read and pass abeg.

ibkayee:
I've noticed you
Now what?

guwop I miss u a lot dear how is uk

Will you be tempted to ask her to show you, how the pant fits

For all the love women bear their children, one thing u cannot understand is their bitterness for children of other people

Caringfather:
Good evening all

Pls is it wrong for me to buy my wife niece under wears?

I have 3 children 2 girls ages 11, 7 and boy 4 , my wife niece is also living with us. She is 15. I buy my children clothes including their under-wears without my wife complaining I was the one that bought my first daughter her first bras too.

When my wife niece came staying with us it was 2018, I noticed most her clothes were native and worn out. I have given her the money to buy new clothes for the child but she never did. For 2 years now this girl has grown so much and still wearing the same clothes and I really feel ashamed every Sunday when we are going to church. Our kids are looking very cute and this girl is looking unkempt all the time. I have talked to my wife but she doesn’t seem to care about her.

I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months.

I have no intention of sleeping with her niece neither am I sleeping with her. I take her as our first born and am like her father. If I want to cheat on my wife, there are plenty women around me, no way I will stoop so low to sleep with her niece.

I have daughters, sisters and nieces, what I don’t want to happen to my kids then I wouldn’t do it to another person's child. My act was innocent but my wife is angry.

Please be honest with me, was my decision wrong?

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you are not wrong, you are a good man, your wife is not a good person. why can't she take care of her niece , some women are wicked and selfish. don't mind her just continue with ur good behavior.

MJBOLT:

the average nigerian woman is wicked to another woman's child,what about the girl's parents?

This got me.

jaksmillioniar:
guwop I miss u a lot dear how is uk

Hahaha you remember 'guwop'

I missed you too, UK is ok dear. Hope you're well too

Hahahahahahaha
I need am bo.....
If your own get corona I go kiss off the virus

Twoclans:
You are still kissing in this perilous times

Abeg take kiss this is all you get for now.

Ishilove:
Next time just give the money to the niece to buy her underwear herself since your wife doesn't care the girl is shabby. Some women sef

She will also accuse him of sleeping with her if he does that.