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Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by KNOWMORE56: 9:53pm On May 06, 2020 |
I also discovered that nobody is too |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by missyojo(f): 9:55pm On May 06, 2020 |
Donald3d: Ohhhh.... My!!! I really wish I can like this comment over and over again. You are so full of wisdom. You always make sense in any advice you dished out and I always look forward to reading your comments. Thumbs up to you 5 Likes |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by Nobody: 10:01pm On May 06, 2020 |
ojun50: They said “marry”, not “cage” 1 Like |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by Nobody: 10:05pm On May 06, 2020 |
CosmicJames: Sweet Gaud 1 Like |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by KNOWMORE56: 10:25pm On May 06, 2020 |
I also discovered that nobody is too good and nobody is too bad. What I mean by this is that, even the ones that are said to be bad somebody somewhere desires to get such as his partner. For example, my neighbor always have issues with the wife if she didn't attack the person who crossed her ways. Yet me that my wife can fight, I'm always sad about it. If you said she is bad, it will only make sense to someone who doesn't like to fight but she is a big plus ( advantage) to the one (the man) who likes to fight. * If any man is favoured to find a woman who can handle situations like he would have done, should he be around, he will have: 10. Prolonged life 9. Peace, I have posted 8 to 1. And such people have the experience of heaven on Earth. They always thanks God for the blessings of marriage. |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by KNOWMORE56: 10:30pm On May 06, 2020 |
The challenge is how to get that "another you". This is made difficult because of pretence, especially from female forks. |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by Donald3d(m): 10:39pm On May 06, 2020 |
missyojo:Thank you ma'am |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by Donald3d(m): 10:40pm On May 06, 2020 |
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Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by Donald3d(m): 10:40pm On May 06, 2020 |
thehedge: |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by Donald3d(m): 10:40pm On May 06, 2020 |
thehedge:Bless you too ma'am |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by KNOWMORE56: 11:09pm On May 06, 2020 |
*. I discovered that it's a BIG mistake to presume or assume that your partner will change when you get married. NO! If you can not over look it in the future,stay clear now. From my experience and the interaction with other people, *. I discovered that in the marriage, the arrival of children makes men to cool down and become responsible but the arrival of the children makes women to think and also act it that "there's nothing more at this time to lose". At this juncture, if a man is not careful, there will be a lot of blames, regrets and confusion. Wise men play fool; strong men play weak at this point just to avoid putting the life the kids in bad conditions. This is what makes 90% of men to have mistress (side chick), because his woman now derives satisfaction from the bubbly children. No sex, no this, no that, shouting at you as a reply to your questions; oh, what a temptation! NOTWITHSTANDING, the advantages of marriage is greater than its disadvantages. I'll stop here for now, take care. |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by mrblessed(m): 11:19pm On May 06, 2020 |
Rounding off a masters programme yet thinking like a JSS 3 student. I have this hypothesis that the problem of Nigeria is an annoying uniformity of thinking. In Nigeria, everyone thinks in one direction: both the so-called educated and the unlettered. Oga, a person like you suppose to know that marriage requires a lot of hard work and sacrifice. It is something you should properly understood before taking a leap. |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by faithfull18(f): 12:10am On May 07, 2020 |
SocialJustice:Bad advice. |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by faithfull18(f): 12:11am On May 07, 2020 |
mrblessed:Understand |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by frozen70(f): 5:33am On May 07, 2020 |
whyteteeth: Marriage is sweet if your are very fortunate to get the one with true love Marriage problems are as old as nature, social media now brought it out and you becomes aware of it Don't be scare of marriage, go into marriage when you know that you are full prepared to face the challenges of marriage It's not the same thing as Friendship but more benefitial than friendship It's inky God that can direct one's parth to good life So be calm and walk the walk, that's what makes you a responsible man |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by 2kurupt(m): 8:58am On May 07, 2020 |
OP finding the right partner is the most arduous task ahead of you, do that and you would have solved half of your worries about getting married. Why not start by genuinely entering into platonic relationships with single, amiable, working class & matured ladies with a view of taking it up a notch higher if it hit the right notes? Keyword is right and not perfect coz non is perfect. |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by Justice505: 10:41am On May 07, 2020 |
mrblessed:Perfect human being, but you don't have to insult the Op before you drive your point. |
Re: I'm scared of Marriage. Married People, What Do You Think? Share Your experience by agbolahan1991(m): 11:32am On May 07, 2020 |
Am married... Don't go into marriage with the hope of rosiness... There will be crisis... There will be argument..... There will be temptations....... There will be fights. .. Go in with the intention of fighting for your marriage to make it work.. Study your partner Understand her... Listen to her... Talk softly to her... Rebuke her softly.... Don't always invite a third party.. Take advise from those that u know loves u.... Don't always disclose about your relationship..... ... Marriage isn't a bed or roses brother.... It's an arena where u need a lot of patience n overlookings... Am not perfect though but have learnt all this within my three years in marriage... Architect lawal is here..... If you want a beautiful n good design of a lovable home... Call : 08168400751 |
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