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Olalan:
You invaded her privacy by going into her WhatsApp messages.....she's not your sister neither your girlfriend.But on the flip side it's good you have know how much of a loose girl she is before you start falling in love

Falling in love with a teenager?/Nobody is even mentioning it.

Falling in love with a girl of 17-19.
Where will the love lead to?

It's unrealistic and more of child abuse.

Op
First I would have say u are a fool which exactly you u but sine

U be begged not to be insulted I will say u a bit foolish

For going to through her WhatsApp messages
Wen you are not her bf or elder brother














Bleep you mhen













Spits












You are dem idiot mhen

SocialJustice:
That's your view and I respect it too but for me, privacy must not be invaded.

u case is extreme tho, cause I could never trust you !! If it’s a commited relationship, why not ? But in this case it’s very wrong

How old are you and what are you even doing with a teenager if I may ask? A teenager that does not have a direction in life yet

Well, if you want to keep your sanity, I'll advise you look away cos she's just a teenager who's still experimenting. So if you don't want to be used as a specimen, take a bow. Teenager Hm.

I rem a cousin who became a lesbian in her teenage days , we talk tire even beat her ,, she refused n continued with one teen like her ,,, she’s passed that stage n hates even hearing about lesbianism !! That girl will grow out of that stage . But that u will change her , u will never !! She will grow out of it .

sexylassie2:
You look like someone that does not understand boundaries, she is not your gf and you are already on her whatsapp and phone.

What sort of man is this?

If I know her, I will advice her to run from you.

God bless you. People think it's normal to invade others privacy.

Liliantalks:
I rem a cousin who became a lesbian in her teenage days , we talk tire even beat her ,, she refused n continued with one teen like her ,,, she’s passed that stage n hates even hearing about lesbianism !! That girl will grow out of that stage . But that u will change her , u will never !! She will grow out of it .

Bullshit! Lesbianism, just like heterosexuality, is not a phase; it's permanent.

Martinez39s:
Bullshit! Lesbianism, just like heterosexuality, is not a phase; it's permanent.

Thank you. Might not be permanent, but, Lol, the way she said the girl grew out of it as if it was just like a cartoon habit. Grew out of Lesbianism just like that without divine intervention. I laugh. The girl has deceived them

Kindly send me her number..

Op what you did was wrong. It's very bad to pick up someone's phone and go as far as reading their what's app messages. The is girls you just met in the hospital and you think you have the right to go through her phone. I mean, who does that. It's either you are a secondary school boy or a spoiled brat. The girl on the other her is a child that's why she's sending you messages. I've never gone through anyone's phone except the person wants to show me something. My phone is not even passworded but if someone I'm not close to goes through my phone, he or she must tell me what they are looking for. The girl left you because she doesn't understand life yet. I would have slapped you of the hospital bed. Nonsense
Maybe you wanted to know her account balance.

XhosaNostra:
You can't be serious All these "tears", tantrums & promises between two people who literally just met?

But it’s somewhat cute
I don’t know why!

TonyeBarcanista:
For him to have access to her phone shows that they probably have some 'understanding'

In 4 whole days?

Liliantalks:
u case is extreme tho, cause I could never trust you !! If it’s a commited relationship, why not ? But in this case it’s very wrong

I was referring to myself, I'll never do it. I learnt this habit from before phones when people kept diaries. My phone is always locked, if I give you my phone and you stray where you shouldn't without my permission, don't discuss whatever you saw with me because there will be trouble.

Op leave that girl to earn her 1k in peace...when she starts requesting money from you you’ll not hesitate to come on here and scream gold digger!

Meanwhile I find it disturbing that you’ll snoop through someone’s phone without their permission...It’s called invasion of privacy and that’s sick but if that seems normal to you then you need to get your psych evaluated.

zedegit:
Falling in love with a teenager?/Nobody is even mentioning it.
Falling in love with a girl of 17-19.
Where will the love lead to?
It's unrealistic and more of child abuse.

Are they are both not teenagers?
That’s how and why I thought it was cute.

in less than a week, you're prying into a stranger's phone, someone you're not dating.

she suppose slap you ni.

Op you be one of the newbies,forget tel me who’s not into it?

sexylassie2:
You look like someone that does not understand boundaries, she is not your gf and you are already on her whatsapp and phone.

What sort of man is this?

If I know her, I will advice her to run from you.

Ask me o. Sounds strange to me.

I smell lies

I don’t understand why everybody is screaming privacy this privacy that.

You will be doing privacy and a matured partner Na so your other partner go dey sex chat one random dude or babe, before you know it they’ve met and fuckéd, they could continue fücking or the one night stand may just be enough to shatter your life for a significant amount of time if not the rest of it.

Your WhatsApp messages and groups defines who you exactly are, same as your Facebook messenger, Instagram and other messaging platforms. If I don’t have access to many of these, then I haven’t known you yet.

I will never be in a relationship where my partner is not comfortable with me having access to her phone, mine is there for you too, so why would you yell privacy on me if you have nothing BAD on your phone? If I find out that you’ve been seeing someone or have gone to see someone I will codedly request we go for a test, if you test positive to any STD while I’ve been keeping myself for you, thunder will fire you and privacy (I mean you’re gone in my life, I won’t harm you but reconciliation is not possible).

You can’t come and waste my life in the name of privacy. We fûck and exchange saliva and you think a message on your WhatsApp is private to you?

I just dey pity the Mumu boys wey dey here dey form privacy, una own never done.

Note, my comment goes for the ladies too, you be there forming privacy because there’s a male bestie you always chat naughty with(emotional cheat like you) or a fellow girl you share your sexcapedes with, while your Bobo himself dey bomb straydogs on InMessage, codedruns, streets, workplace or even church. Na so him go carry one illness come infect you or one of the straydogs might be lucky enough to lose your grip on him and you’re done too.


As for the OP, guy why are having emotional hiccups for a teenager?
Unless you’re a fellow teenager, you should better respect yourself.

HarunaWest:
Uncle leave the lady alone oooh.....I don't know why people feel you shud just meet someone and you want to change them sharperly, she will start pretending for you. You shud have let her be,then later on use what you discovered to tease her.If she then discovers that your don't genuinely like her negative traits, she will grow out of it and delete the group. But you wan form Mr Loverman Shaaba dey even quarrel am cos she is living her life, start expecting Lies and pretence from her henceforth. Women grow to like a lover, and when they do, they stop their negative vibes to a large extent...Meanwhile Maintain Physical Distancing

PhySiCal distancing? HaRuna no Get jOy

Liliantalks:
1 week of meeting and u call that a relationship? U r talking of a commited relationship, not this!

defination of a relationship varies.....no one has any right to define for other....na ur own u no.
I won't do what the OP did but I won't judge him either cos that the way he chooses to run is affair.....let always remember this it doesn't need to suit anyone what matters most is doing what best for you....he decided to snoop tru her after a week..... his life is style no law is against that and the lady in question isn't killing herself over that.