2chukwu:
Never been so confused....
Last week i fell very sick and was rushed to the hospital. The next day while i was struggling to wake up i noticed a beautiful young teen beside my bed, asking me how i was faring. I asked her who she was, she told me she that her elder siser gave birth few days ago...

To cut the story short we became real close within the space of four days. But i noticed she was never comfortable each time am checking her phone.

Just 2days before i was discharged while touring her phone i decided to check her whatsapp messages, i saw an adult group which she was an active member. I became really curious but i found out from her chatswith one of the group admin who always pay them the sum of 1000 for sharing their masturbating videos and nude pix.

I was so suprise cos i earlier thought she was a typical innocent church girl. She noticed my mood and sat beside me when she saw what i was checking out, she became a bit furious with shame and guilt written all over her.

I didnt speak to her again till i left the hospital but she kept coming around me moody and always kissing me in tears even though i never said nothing to her.

She has been sending me series of messages cos i refused picking her calls. So today i decided to go see her and we got talking she told me everything and promised to change.

Pls what should i do cos am already feeling something for her...

I no wan nairaland insult abeg...just keen brotherly advice..thanks

sexylassie2:
You look like someone that does not understand boundaries, she is not your gf and you are already on her whatsapp and phone.

What sort of man is this?

sexylassie2:
You look like someone that does not understand boundaries, she is not your gf and you are already on her whatsapp and phone.

What sort of man is this?

XhosaNostra:
You can't be serious All these "tears", tantrums & promises between two people who literally just met?

HarunaWest:

Deception Ah tell you

Davash222:

There's nothing wrong in checking her whatsapp and phone. It's just whatsapp, he wasn't checking the colour of her pant or the size of her kpekus.

sexylassie2:


Everything is wrong.

There is what is called boundaries and privacy, you people should learn that, you can just take someone' s phone and start going through the phone without permission.

2chukwu:
Never been so confused....
Last week i fell very sick and was rushed to the hospital. The next day while i was struggling to wake up i noticed a beautiful young teen beside my bed, asking me how i was faring. I asked her who she was, she told me she that her elder siser gave birth few days ago...

To cut the story short we became real close within the space of four days. But i noticed she was never comfortable each time am checking her phone.

Just 2days before i was discharged while touring her phone i decided to check her whatsapp messages, i saw an adult group which she was an active member. I became really curious but i found out from her chatswith one of the group admin who always pay them the sum of 1000 for sharing their masturbating videos and nude pix.

I was so suprise cos i earlier thought she was a typical innocent church girl. She noticed my mood and sat beside me when she saw what i was checking out, she became a bit furious with shame and guilt written all over her.

I didnt speak to her again till i left the hospital but she kept coming around me moody and always kissing me in tears even though i never said nothing to her.

She has been sending me series of messages cos i refused picking her calls. So today i decided to go see her and we got talking she told me everything and promised to change.

Pls what should i do cos am already feeling something for her...

I no wan nairaland insult abeg...just keen brotherly advice..thanks

sexylassie2:


Everything is wrong.

There is what is called boundaries and privacy, you people should learn that, you can just take someone' s phone and start going through the phone without permission.

SocialJustice:
You dey crase, who you be to check her phone. Na you better. Useless somebody, come take advise when go make you purge your intestine.

All these small boys, where do they learn this rubbish from.

sexylassie2:
You look like someone that does not understand boundaries, she is not your gf and you are already on her whatsapp and phone.

What sort of man is this?

If I know her, I will advice her to run from you.

WalkerMichael:
Why una dey pick una girlfriends phone sef? Sotay una go read WhatsApp messages... Unnecessary HBP.

MJBOLT:

i wonder what gave you the audacity to check her whatsapp messages

sexylassie2:


Everything is wrong.

There is what is called boundaries and privacy, you people should learn that, you can just take someone' s phone and start going through the phone without permission.

TonyeBarcanista:
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[s]What are you saying? There is nothing wrong or immature in going through phones of partner. In fact, anybody that isn't comfortable with his/her partner accessing his/her phone has no business in relationship

Davash222:

You keep sounding as if it's a taboo. I mean, it's just whatsapp. Clear conscience fears nothing.

sexylassie2:


And then..it is taboo

did you read the op the girl is not his partner

TonyeBarcanista:


What are you saying? There is nothing wrong or immature in going through phones of partner. In fact, anybody that isn't comfortable with his/her partner accessing his/her phone has no business in relationship

2chukwu:

Last week i fell very sick and was rushed to the hospital.
i noticed a beautiful young teen beside my bed, asking me how i was faring. I asked her who she was, she told me she that her elder siser gave birth few days ago...

i noticed she was never comfortable each time am checking her phone.

Just 2days before i was discharged while touring her phone i decided to check her whatsapp messages,

TonyeBarcanista:
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What are you saying? There is nothing wrong or immature in going through phones of partner. In fact, anybody that isn't comfortable with his/her partner accessing his/her phone has no business in relationship

Davash222:

Okay.
So, what then do we call when a girl send her nudes for 1k?

obi4eze:
Unfortunately so many youths today are caught in the web of pornography, masturbation and other forms of sexual immorality.
Many of them like it; some want to break free but cannot because the mind has to be purged and set free from it by the blood of Jesus.

To your story, just leave the girl alone. You cannot change her. And forget that feeling you are having for her. She will surely drag you into that strong web of pornography and masturbation if you are not careful.Thanks man i really appreciate