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omotowo2:
I will even like if u will be the one that will arrest me

ok I'm coming with the cops

Rozz:
You need to be arrested

arrested for beating her son?? a boy still growing to learn between right and wrong? you should have advised her to get him chocolate bars after he stoned her with objects naa

Who beat d boy different from who dey pet am ?

omotowo2:
I am not frustrated ..the thing really hit me so much.

Why will a two years be destroying things at this tender age?
To d extent of hitting his dad?
If he's not cautioned now, water go pass garri
Na small pikin, na small pikin, nai dem take dey spoil.
Next time, when he remember d beat, he nor go try am.

omotowo2:
OK thank you.

Actually I hope he will change .I will not beat him again .I was so angry because the head of that Pepsi bottle he threw hit me seriously .I just checked the eye now and it is red already .

How can two years old be this violent?
E be like say una don pet am spoil already oo

Tushnigerian:
When I saw the topic, in my mind there’s no big deal in correcting a Two year Old, by spanking him on his hands or butt especially when he did something wrong.
But beating a two year old with a belt is a big NO! Absolutely wrong, when you correct kids, you hug them and also correct them in love.
I have two amazing boys so I know how stubborn they can be, the belt was just out of line.

Compensate him with lots of Candy � and Chocolates!

Candy n chocolates for almost blinding an eye?
Abeg, all these ajebor training nor follow
He can pet, cuddle n correct him afterwards.

jimmyolasun:
arrested for beating her son?? a boy still growing to learn between right and wrong? you should have advised her to get him chocolate bars after he stoned her with objects naa

This son is just 2yrs and still battling with childhood neurosis.That was very wrong of him,he went too far.

Rozz:
This son is just 2yrs and still battling with childhood neurosis.That was very wrong of him,he went too far.

children that age are conscious of what they do, they do something wrong and you refuse to scold them(beat or tap). they will always repeat it.

Omotowo2, I want to believe u didn't flog him hard with the belt. Makeup with him. It's part of training. Next tym, he may want to try such, but eye contact with him will make him have a rethink.




My only problem is locking him and switching off the light... Jezzz! It's scaring. He could have convulsion or serious effect. Next time, don't. Or leave the lights on, please.

Even a minute-old baby is eligible for beating. Just forget about the western unnatural concept that criminalises beating. This question might seen plausible because Africans almost always accept hook, line, and sinker most values that west hold. Corporal punishment is an integral disciplinary code of African culture. Is it not written somewhere in their bible that "Spare the rod and spoil the child?" What is unacceptable is battering and infecting bodily injuries to a child. Yes, a two-baby can been corrected through beating with love.

Howeger, madam, it is tantamount to abuse to lock up a two-year-old child and switch off the light. No, you crossed the line. Stop it.

Op

You went too far flogging him with belt and later locking him in the room with light off. For me I prefer flogging with tiny cain at such age.

I remember in 2013, when my first son was 11 months old, by then he has started walking very well. However he had a terrible temper and formed the habit of hitting his forehead on the floor each time he got angry.

Each time he was angry, he would just come in front of me or his dad, bend down and start hitting his forehead on the floor, the harder he hit it, the more painful it became and of course the more he cried. At a stage he was beginning to develop dark mark on his forehead.

I jejely went to market, bought tiniest Cain, I think I bought it for N10 then. The next time he tried it, the head was down as usual, while bumbum was up, I gave him 3 strokes mildly on the buttocks, he got up instantly, ever since that day, he discarded the habit.

Rozz:
ok I'm coming with the cops

Waiting.for you dear

thelish:
How can two years old be this violent?
E be like say una don pet am spoil already oo

It is not a matter of violence.He was only restless because he was telling me something I didn't understand .When he noticed I couldn't grab his point,he threw the Pepsi plastic

mejai:
Omotowo2, I want to believe u didn't flog him hard with the belt. Makeup with him. It's part of training. Next tym, he may want to try such, but eye contact with him will make him have a rethink.




My only problem is locking him and switching off the light... Jezzz! It's scaring. He could have convulsion or serious effect. Next time, don't. Or leave the lights on, please.

Didn't beat him hard that much..

I was scared he will have a mark on his bum bum but I checked later ,there was nothing of such..

I will not lock him up again..thanks

thelish:
Why will a two years be destroying things at this tender age?
To d extent of hitting his dad?
If he's not cautioned now, water go pass garri
Na small pikin, na small pikin, nai dem take dey spoil.
Next time, when he remember d beat, he nor go try am.

Where did you read that he destroyed things ?

Cecegracen:
Op

You went too far flogging him with belt and later locking him in the room with light off. For me I prefer flogging with tiny cain at such age.

I remember in 2013, when my first son was 11 months old, by then he has started walking very well. However he had a terrible temper and formed the habit of hitting his forehead on the floor each time he got angry.

Each time he was angry, he would just come in front of me or his dad, bend down and start hitting his forehead on the floor, the harder he hit it, the more painful it became and of course the more he cried. At a stage he was beginning to develop dark mark on his forehead.

I jejely went to market, bought tiniest Cain, I think I bought it for N10 then. The next time he tried it, the head was down as usual, while bumbum was up, I gave him 3 strokes mildly on the buttocks, he got up instantly, ever since that day, he discarded the habit.

Like seriously ?

All these kids sef.

Na God know where dem dey get their power to be angry

mrblessed:
Even a minute-old baby is eligible for beating. Just forget about the western unnatural concept that criminalises beating. This question might seen plausible because Africans almost always accept hook, line, and sinker most values that west hold. Corporal punishment is an integral disciplinary code of African culture. Is it not written somewhere in their bible that "Spare the rod and spoil the child?" What is unacceptable is battering and infecting bodily injuries to a child. Yes, a two-baby can been corrected through beating with love.

Howeger, madam, it is tantamount to abuse to lock up a two-year-old child and switch off the light. No, you crossed the line. Stop it.

Thanks .I am a dad..will not do such again..


He didn't even spend one minute in that room before I asked his mum to pet him.

Thanks

What you did was actually wrong. All what you and ur wife need to do now is to endure and correct him in a tender way. And make sure u remove any harmful object withing his reach to avoid any form of injury, thanks.

omotowo2:
It is not a matter of violence.He was only restless because he was telling me something I didn't understand .When he noticed I couldn't grab his point,he threw the Pepsi plastic

Bros, na plastic pain u like that so??
Lol

you used a belt on a baby, that's evil. Just tell him No cos right now hes learning what is right and wrong. Distract him and I wont even tell you to spank him at all because you have no control. leave the spanking to the mother if necessary. if you cant cope with a baby throwing things then how will you cope when he does things wrong on purpose. I hope you change your response, a small person can die from shock with the pain you inflicted.

Oh.. he's fond of throwing harmful objects and you guys never deemed it fit to stop him until he targeted your eyes. I'll say you caused it. Correction should have been given the very first time he did it with a little spank and a frown from both of you but I'm sure you laughed it off with the usual he's still a baby. Now the little guy has perfected his throwing skills you wan to kill him.
You're lucky he didn't remove your eyes.

It's ok to spank but the belt is a no no on a two years old. If I'm the mother, ill forget my teeth in your arms lol.... Just joking. I don't bite. But please don't use belt on that baby again. A little spanking will do.