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Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by omotowo2: 10:04pm On May 06, 2020 |
Ohemababy: Thank you |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Nobody: 10:04pm On May 06, 2020 |
michlins:U know child psychology. |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by GboyegaD(m): 10:05pm On May 06, 2020 |
Isn't a belt way too much? I understand you need him to learn that what he did was wrong but no be as wound dey itch we dey scratch am. |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by omotowo2: 10:05pm On May 06, 2020 |
zedegit: Keep looking for he and she u hear ? 1 Like |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by RiyadhGoddess(f): 10:06pm On May 06, 2020 |
michlins: God is still the same yesterday, today and forever and it is still the same God that said we should train up our children in the way of the lord which includes the children of today. The mistake most parents made is not catching them early at a very young age... There is no lie in telling a child what is good in the eyes of the lord and what the works of Satan in children level. It is called Sunday school. Just the way they go to school to learn, you teach them the Laws of God. Don't let Satan deceive you with they are too small and it can't work with children of today. Are your children meant to conform to the things or vices of today's world? I can mention and count out loud children of clergies who turned out excellently well. Children that I wish I was like them at their age, children I pray to have, Godly and enviable children... Clergies whose children turned out badly, go and check very well, an edge was broken! The bible says when you break the edge, the serpent will bite. Look closely, they broke a code somewhere along the way which made the enemy to attack and whenever the devil wants to attack clergies, their main target is usually their children. That is why all clergies must always be at alert at all time and ensure that no edge is broken...the devil is always roaming on the earth seeking where to penetrate (seeking faults). Op teach your kids both cultural morals and biblical morals and you will be glad you did... 2 Likes |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by zedegit: 10:11pm On May 06, 2020 |
omotowo2: To marry don dey hungry me if not for the divorce cases and finances. |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by omotowo2: 10:13pm On May 06, 2020 |
zedegit: Funny. You will be fine soon |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by zedegit: 10:15pm On May 06, 2020 |
Ohemababy: You fight your husband over your son? 1 Like |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by jenifer007: 10:24pm On May 06, 2020 |
omotowo2: Going to conceive 1 Like |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by michlins(m): 10:26pm On May 06, 2020 |
RiyadhGoddess:and when the child grows up and becomes an atheist and the concept of hell becomes a rabble rouster in his ears how do we move from that. Let a child understand how important it is for him to be good. Not because he will die and go to hell but because he's a human being and humanity requires him to be good. Using religious tactics is just installing fear into him and believe me,it will never last. But when you convince a child that his being good will help him and his family good,he will be duty bound to it. Add to the fact that you ground the conviction with love, there's no shaking from it. Fear is a momentary charge which is conquered by bravery. Someone like me don't care about what happens to me when I die. Shebi God get my soul,if he likes let him roast it for all eternity na him sabi. Imagine if my morals are based on the concept of hell fire torture. 4 Likes |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by omotowo2: 10:28pm On May 06, 2020 |
jenifer007: Oh OK thanks |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Hotspotbro(m): 10:32pm On May 06, 2020 |
Cuddlebugie:werey |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by chinonyinye: 11:28pm On May 06, 2020 |
Habaaaaa Oga! Dat's too harsh. Not only did you beat him, with belt for that matter! What happened to getting him tiny cane or even tapping with your hands?you also locked him in a room and switched off the light. Even as an adult, I don't feel comfortable staying in a dark room much more a 2 year old child. And you're now wondering why he's running from you and away from the room. Pls don't let that boy become afraid of you ooo, because he will choose not to confide in you due to the fear. Please go and pet him wells. 1 Like |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by davillian(m): 11:28pm On May 06, 2020 |
Be ready to beat for the next 23 years Before the child finish secondary school he would have developed a hard skin And he knows last last na beating no matter what he or she does.. |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Sixfeetbelle: 11:30pm On May 06, 2020 |
omotowo2: On behalf of your son, I have to tell you that he really thinks you're a mean person who took possession of his dad's body. Asides, belt in my own understanding is too much. Spanking with hand is better when they're smaller then you can move to cane and friends when they are at least 8. Please, don't let out your anger on kids. You'll be hurting their psyche more than achieving the discipline you hoped. 1 Like |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Mrsj89(f): 11:55pm On May 06, 2020 |
learn to control yourself when disciplining kids please, they can be a handful but this is a big NO..please |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Nobody: 12:14am On May 07, 2020 |
Using violence to train up your kid? A baby that doesnt even know what he is doing. |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by frozen70(f): 5:27am On May 07, 2020 |
omotowo2: Disciplining of a child starts as early as 1yr when he can understands when you talk Beating a child is good but not all the time you beat him Get a Cain not a belt Seat him down and talk to him and let him know that you will not tolerate nonsense from him because he is already two years Let him see the Cain amd understand that the Cain is for him amd you will beat him very well anytime he misbehaves You amd your wife ha e to team up to make this work Don't beat him all the time, you can give him punishment like knell down and hands up You can restrick him to what we call naughty corner, get a space in your house where he did stay alone without toys if he behaves naughty They hate their freedom being restricted so keep him there for over one hour and you will see him cry for freedom Then if you must beat him do that when it's necessary amd make sure you beat him in the bum bum or on his palms so that you don't spoil his skin Get an exercise books and teach him how to start holding pencil to write because he is due for schooling Get a nursery rhymes video for him or teach him how to watch kids stations where they sing nursery rhymes All this will keep him busy from being naughty 1 Like |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Ybaby: 6:06am On May 07, 2020 |
Buy books on parenting fast. They call it "terrible twos" for a reason. It is lazy parents who beat thier children. You want to instill fear in him like a small ram and when in future he starts acting like a meh you will ask him to sharpen up. 2 year olds are notorious for throwing things, beating people, being troublesome and saying no to everything etc .... they are asserting themselves and it is normal and good for thier self esteem Use your words he can hear you... he is not an animal. Read this article https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/terrible-twos |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by NoToPile: 6:45am On May 07, 2020 |
Kneeling down and closing his eyes works for my 2 year old, I show him what he did and he shouldn't do it again and he ends up saying sorry. |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by RiyadhGoddess(f): 7:13am On May 07, 2020 |
michlins: Op disregard messages like this...Trust me you don't want to raise your children this way... 2 Likes |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by omotowo2: 8:57am On May 07, 2020 |
frozen70: He have started going to school already and hr is learning fast.He have an android phone loaded with kids rhymes ,spelling ,cartoons and kids stories in case his mum will not give up watching telemundo or zeeworld . This is first time of beating him this much Thanks so much . |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by omotowo2: 8:59am On May 07, 2020 |
Ybaby: Thank you .He does all these though and look so unrest .I will not be a lazy father .I will device another means of punishment .I will not beat him again. Thanks 3 Likes |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by michlins(m): 10:02am On May 07, 2020 |
RiyadhGoddess:let me tell you,in Japan, the people there are one of the most amazing people on earth not because they want to make heaven but because they understand that it's in their general well-being is in their individual lives. How can you tell a traumatized child that there's a bigger person who's ready to roast him alive because he hauled a cup at his father. Papa hit am with belt already and you're telling him he's hell bound for doing what kids should do. Nigeria raises the most dysfunctional kids if you must know. Let love be the basis of your children upbringing. Because I haven't seen love defeated 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Ybaby: 11:09am On May 07, 2020 |
omotowo2: You seem to want to be a good father and that is 80%. I commend you seriously. I beg you to read the article in my former post. DONOT PUNISH HIM. Talk to him. You see the reason why white people were able to gather lots of slaves from africa is because of our way of bringing up children. We take away thier natural ability to choose for themselves by coersion rather than reason. Kids are human beings and can think.... not animals. TALK TO HIM... it takes longer to see change when you talk rather than beat or punish but it is more lasting and better for the child. KNOW YOUR CHILD befriend your boy with love and watch him blossom. I have a 16 year old responsible sensible son who is our friend. He does not pretend at home. We gist and nudge him in the right direction. HUMAN NOT ANIMAL PRESERVE YOUR SON's self esteem. |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Ybaby: 11:15am On May 07, 2020 |
michlins: I read this with tears and I am a tough cookie. Thank you for this sensible comment. Today we have 1 million boys we blame the effect and ignore the cause..... "parenting" When I relocated back to 9ja ... I will go to board meetings and see adults being talked down to and they take it. I realised it is conditioning from childhood. Stop abusing your child. That child is 2 today but one day he will be 40 and you will be "2" .... and you will need him to take critical decisions for you in your old age. PRESERVE his self worth. The tiny seed of an iroko tree still is an iroko tree. Respect your child! 3 Likes |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by michlins(m): 11:22am On May 07, 2020 |
Ybaby:thanks for the compliment. But I think not that you have a strong skin. Naija didn't toughen you up. Parenting in Nigeria is sheer display of zero affection and love. Nothing bends a human more than love and respect for ones opinion. Unfortunately we don't have that here 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Nobody: 11:33am On May 07, 2020 |
Op needs to be arrested ASAP. Like someone pointed out in the first page, you’re very lucky you’re not in Europe or America. |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by frozen70(f): 2:12pm On May 07, 2020 |
omotowo2: Thanks dear |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Alennsar(f): 4:10pm On May 07, 2020 |
ahnie: Same as me too. I will rather twist their ears or admonish them with words. It is more preferable for me sha |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by Nobody: 4:16pm On May 07, 2020 |
omotowo2:You need to be arrested |
Re: Can We Beat A 2-year Old Boy ? by omotowo2: 10:18pm On May 07, 2020 |
Rozz: I will even like if u will be the one that will arrest me |
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