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Who Weds Who by udumosam23(op): 7:10am On May 07, 2020

This isn't supposed to be a concern but my little cousin is making a fuse out of it. The argument is beginning to build so much so that if I don't intervene it could cost a relationship.

Much more, I've tried searching the internet I don't seem to get any answers. So I brought the question here maybe, someone knows something.

Pls, Why is it always the lady weds and not the man, even though it's the man paying the bride price.

Supposed we say Okoi weds Isu.

Re: Who Weds Who by donbachi(m): 7:51am On May 07, 2020

Cos na her day

Re: Who Weds Who by Dtruthspeaker: 8:32am On May 07, 2020

It really does not matter because you both agree to the marriage. However, if one is greater than the other and the other agrees, then the greatness and lessness shall stand and every one shall see it.

Re: Who Weds Who by frozen70(f): 2:24pm On May 08, 2020

It's not about who weds who

A man left his parents to get a wife and she accepts, then she has accepted to wed you

Her wedding you means she has made up her mind not to have any other man except you

A man doesn't wed because he will still go out by default

A woman weds you to end every other affairs with other men and face her home and expecting you to give her reasons not to look out

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Re: Who Weds Who by bukatyne(f): 3:19pm On May 08, 2020

frozen70:
It's not about who weds who

A man left his parents to get a wife and she accepts, then she has accepted to wed you

Her wedding you means she has made up her mind not to have any other man except you

A man doesn't wed because he will still go out by default

A woman weds you to end every other affairs with other men and face her home and expecting you to give her reasons not to look out

Re: Who Weds Who by bukatyne(f): 3:21pm On May 08, 2020

udumosam23:
This isn't supposed to be a concern but my little cousin is making a fuse out of it. The argument is beginning to build so much so that if I don't intervene it could cost a relationship.

Much more, I've tried searching the internet I don't seem to get any answers. So I brought the question here maybe, someone knows something.

Pls, Why is it always the lady weds and not the man, even though it's the man paying the bride price.

Supposed we say Okoi weds Isu.

A man marries a woman
A woman weds a man.

What exactly is the concern?

I know some churches that does not accept the woman wedding the man on the card sha.

Because the man is the 'head' of the home.

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