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If truly u are a hustler,then u need a hustler to complement u and not a drawback.

eleko1:
ur fiancé not ur wife.U see all these traits and u open thread to ask for our opinion.Young man,leave that girl before God leave u.The handwritten is clear enuf.But if u decide to marry her,work hard and rent mini flat/2 bedroom flat not baba Rasida face to face house make she nor turn Area problem

You have said it all.barman!!! Give this man a bottle of chilled lockdown beer

laluski:
You have said it all.barman!!! Give this man a bottle of chilled Malta .

Thank u

Can you be more gullible, u haven't even taken a stand, u are still feeling like.
Very soon u will start making meals while she watch movies.
U're being oblivious to all the signs.

Katier00:
You have talked and talked, it is now time to run and run

hello good morning

oxiide22:
hello good morning

Good morning how are you doing

doitforyou:
I never really understood this concept. I understand if it’s against your religion or ‘morals’ not to live with your boyfriend. Don’t you want to know how your potential husband will act when he has seen you finish? Isn’t marriage a whole big see finish??

I get your point. However, with stories you hear about couples who "changed" after marriage, it's safe to say you can't 'KNOW' anything apart from what people want you to know.

why must u house a girl in the first place.

jelel6:
I get your point. However, with stories you hear about couples who "changed" after marriage, it's safe to say you can't 'KNOW' anything apart from what people want you to know.

True.

Katier00:
Good morning how are you doing

very fine, I like your look, u luk trendy n so swt

Davash222:
Get yourself a virgin girl if you want to live a happy life.

Na that type dey display such character. My is a virgin and portray similar character like d op babe.

endeavor:
Hello, House.

So I decided to post this to get opinions and advice from people with experience.

I met my Fiance 4 years ago in Abeokuta during a business trip. She was good and lovely then. Fast forward to this year, I'm beginning to see a whole different person in her.
She gets angry when corrected of her mistakes.
She gets angry when questioned on issues.
She does not pray.
She has never advised me on anything.
She is not encouraging.
She never gives suggestions or opinions when asked.
She's never appreciative. (Do today, and you don't do tomorrow, na wahala)
She is not supportive.
All these traits I got to know since she moved in with me for a year now.
Though I'm still a hustler, I do my best to provide.
I assist her financially for her upkeep.
I even enrolled her in a vocational training program to learn a craft.
to cap it all up, her addiction to movies had made me given up.
She can fight you for talking while watching movies on her phone.
I'm not allowed to tune to my favorite channels.
You mustn't send her to get a glass of water while she's watching a movie.
I have talked, complained, advised and even reported. But it's getting worse.

Please, your advises..

From experience, run for your life. Don't say I didn't warn you. I wouldn't say much. Just run faster than you can imagine.

Katier00:
You have talked and talked, it is now time to run and run

I will like to meet u

oxiide22:
I will like to meet u

ok

Katier00:
ok

how shall we? I'm in jos and you?

Katier00:
ok

u luk trendy

Katier00:
ok

reply my pm

This lockdown must have exposed the inadequacies of many partners. I have no advice for you Op, just do what next that comes to your mind.