Dreyton36:
I've dated up to 4 different very rich and influential girls
And I'll kindly share just one of their stories, I mean the first of them

It was 2013 mehn life no be moi moi ooo
I lived in Lagos , Maryland to be precise so I got a job at a catering company then at ikoyi
But not like other catering jobs oo , this one is special into big boys way
We only serve the NNPC_NAPIMS workers
Men go garage up with full swag to go serve rice
But it was fun cuz I had my cool Calabar friend with me
I finally had a friend who happened to be an auditor there (female)
Name withheld , she's absolutely gorgeous but a lil older than me i guess
She rides a range Rover , the company has a car park called Park view, for those who knows bayo kuku area in ikoyi you'll know there , big men area

One day I went to serve as usual , I was cashless , after closing hours I almost lost it cuz I had no penny to go home , mehn I trek from ikoyi reach Maryland life tire me
The next day again I went to work after borrowing money from my own younger brother
And after serving , I was just thinking of how to go home , but I no too dear because that day was Friday and we don't work during weekends
As i went to pack up the used plates, this damsel asked me to pass her bag to her, she gave me some $ upto 15 pieces
I mean dollars not naira ooo , 100 dollars each
Mehn my prick sef stand
I was dumbfounded , to say thank you sef tire me
Anyway I left , but I thanked her Sha , but I didn't even know the actual figure of the cash but I know say na load
Trust poor man na , I arrange the dollars inside my wallet and went to a nearby bar to get some cold Heineken and catfish peppersoup
After that I headed to obalende park , as usual the conductors don know me as a wahala boy who no they always get money complete
I stepped into the bus and put on my headphones in it's loudest volume , as usual the conductor started shouting (owo da)
Because I see fine girls inside bus I start to speak phonetics and brought out some dollars that i dont have change , conductor shock
To cut it short I went home
And I made my biggest mistake
Drop ur comments if I should continue cuz this is the funniest partt

bro continue. May while I fit send u private mail?

Women now occupy the same workplace positions as men and make very cool money. Runs girls do not qualify as big girls.

Dating such girls as an alpha male is exhilarating cuz these big girls are wired very positively to respond to us.

They also make better wives. And there maturity usually translates into a more balanced home front, better relationship with extended family members and generally less drama.

If you are however an insecure guy who feels the need to define himself by "things", you will no go far with these kind of women.

illicit:

that's exactly what I have in mind.

Dating such girls is catastrophic

Dicktion:

19 lines wey you drop you come dey feel like story teller the initiate suspense with a
Tedious
Artless
Poorly arranged trash

Even my ex dog won't ask for more of this

Nas once said: not everybody deserves the truth , I'm sorry that you find it hard to accept the truth

Today you want be alpha male, tomorrow simp for big girl, next tomorrow toy thing for oyibo 60+. Ndi uchu, president Buhari got this one right, lazy Nigerian youth!!!

YouareaBITCH:
What dah hell do u men want? We spend our own money, it becomes a questionable trait, we become all womanly and dependent, u all day the only thing we can offer is pussy. Confused specie!! [color=#770077][/color]

Don't give anything, don't demand anything, simple and easy to end.

....

Guys I'm continuing From where I stopped yesterday about my own lil story , but some haters here claim it's all a lie
But who cares
Just like the song , PATIENCE by Damien Marley ft Nas

There's a verse Nas said "when you feed people the truth , you don't know how they're gonna react, scared of wrong doers , people that's just ignorant they're scared of the truth , be patience for now

I'm fasting and I cannot lie

☺️

Blyzz:
bro continue. May while I fit send u private mail?

yeah sure

goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!!

Lol.

Why will I feel inferior when I don’t depend on her for my bills?

I prefer “big” girls to those “money for hair” types. I’ll choose her 11 times out of 10.

georgeiyke009:
Women now occupy the same workplace positions as men and make very cool money. Runs girls do not qualify as big girls.

Dating such girls as an alpha male is exhilarating cuz these big girls are wired very positively to respond to us.

They also make better wives. And there maturity usually translates into a more balanced home front, better relationship with extended family members and generally less drama.

If you are however an insecure guy who feels the need to define himself by "things", you will no go far with these kind of women.

I am yet to meet a guy who doesn't define himself by one thing or the other tho.

Alpha male or not, you can't be seen as anything if you can't boast of somethings.

we all need things to define us

in this present generation, without money, Alpha male my as.s

you will just be seen as a broke as.s pompous rude nigga.

I knew an alpha male who lost his job.
when he had that job he was everything in the house, lording his woman.
job lost. he would want his pregnant wife who now does his feeding to still wash his clothes while he put his legs on a stool watching TV morning to evening.... This story didn't end well. the woman upped one day and left for the UK.

the alpha male does laundry and dry cleaning now. not a bad job but he wouldn't have done it if he didn't swallow his pride.

something defines us.

Money made him kept us his alpha male status. when money left, no matter how hard he tried no body saw him as alpha male , they just saw him as a pompous SOB

goldbim:
Hmmmmmmm sincerely,Dating a big girl is not the issue but with time won’t the guy feel inferior as time goes by?my little experience makes me feel like most guys feel less of a man when the lady is trying to call the shots herself without waiting for any man..
At a point ,the guys start feeling like you are hard to please whereas you are just trying to live your life to suit yourself ..All in all,the key word is humility and it takes the grace of God!!

Very correct. No matter the condition, no normal male wants to be cared for by a female. What do I know self when we have abnormal men everywhere these days.

OlawaleBammie:


Dont mind dat guy o, na lie hin dey lie..

Abi wen did a beer parlour turn to bureau de change??

lol .. we know .. just enjoying is story

No mind am! not only big girls mtcheewww! rubbish! all of them out now na hungry girls. You think its in the movies that a girl will be driving by and trip for a guy trecking..

YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:
Na hungry gals full street nowadays
The big ones don lock up for covid 19 bruhaha

safarigirl:


Thanks for this

The reason why many girls hold off on being generous with guys, is that guys instantly assume that because she is making her own money and not asking them for anything, then, they don't need anything.

Every girl wants to be spoiled and taken care of by their man, irrespective of how much she earns, but women who make their own money are rarely understood like this. I know someone that has been 'dating' some guy for months now, and because she makes her own money, only thing this oga can do is scold her for spending money on necessities. Her phone recently spoilt under lockdown and she had to get another one, no be say money dey, cuz her work has been heavily affected by this pandemic, only thing bros could say is that she should stop wasting her money. He doesn't give her a dime, only monitors how she spends her own money.

Being a big girl doesn't mean you want to go it alone all the time, but a lot of Nigerian men don't know that. They just count their blessings because nobody is asking them for money for airtime and hair, in the long run, na the big girl go lose, cuz she doesn't ask for stuff and the man doesn't have sense to contribute without being asked. Same problem guys have.

Wow, the writing is already on the wall.

To my fellas who don’t know how it feels dating a big girl, just know you’re not alone. I hope we get to find one soon.But on a 2nd note, do they really exist and how do you find them or do they choose who they want? Just thinking aloud...

Be objective.

The guys up there wishing they could meet 'big girls' to spray them cash, what makes you different from the so called 'gold digging girls?

Be truthful.

See? It's a two-way thing, I guess.

paulolee:
yes n it was bad n wasnt funi...bk den in p.h..was a commissioner daughter..met her in an eatery n she cleared our bills and was happy that i caught a big fish when i visited and saw her family settings and building...generally it wasnt dt nice because she was a junkie and a sex freak...talk abt mixing our food and drinks with trams n viagras so we last longer...it was after one night dt we did marathon and i was still strong which isnt possible and unlike me dt i asked her and she confessed dt it was drugs n she gat it recorded...was mad with her and left her place, deleted her number and blocked all her contacts...have to leave eleme bcoz of her visit and was tired of hiding...gat run for my life before bea go turn me to IndecentStar and i begin see my sex videos for pornhub or naijaleaks

lianus,i dey feel u!�

laughitall:
lol .. we know .. just enjoying is story

hmm

pls tag me wen he release season 2, me sef enjoy the lies small

rapid101:
well
as for me my sef and I
I'm dating one now and I'll marry her cus she is everything I dream in a woman, apart from she's rich, her character is 1001% pure. very respectful, dedicated, not materialistic, a goal getter, beautiful. in fact she's everything u ll dream of in a woman. tank God she came my way.
ok bye

I hope you won't come here after to years to turn to a marriage counselor on 'how to avoid broken marriages, especially with older lovers '

Dreyton36:
I've dated up to 4 different very rich and influential girls
And I'll kindly share just one of their stories, I mean the first of them

It was 2013 mehn life no be moi moi ooo
I lived in Lagos , Maryland to be precise so I got a job at a catering company then at ikoyi
But not like other catering jobs oo , this one is special into big boys way
We only serve the NNPC_NAPIMS workers
Men go garage up with full swag to go serve rice
But it was fun cuz I had my cool Calabar friend with me
I finally had a friend who happened to be an auditor there (female)
Name withheld , she's absolutely gorgeous but a lil older than me i guess
She rides a range Rover , the company has a car park called Park view, for those who knows bayo kuku area in ikoyi you'll know there , big men area

One day I went to serve as usual , I was cashless , after closing hours I almost lost it cuz I had no penny to go home , mehn I trek from ikoyi reach Maryland life tire me
The next day again I went to work after borrowing money from my own younger brother
And after serving , I was just thinking of how to go home , but I no too dear because that day was Friday and we don't work during weekends
As i went to pack up the used plates, this damsel asked me to pass her bag to her, she gave me some $ upto 15 pieces
I mean dollars not naira ooo , 100 dollars each
Mehn my prick sef stand
I was dumbfounded , to say thank you sef tire me
Anyway I left , but I thanked her Sha , but I didn't even know the actual figure of the cash but I know say na load
Trust poor man na , I arrange the dollars inside my wallet and went to a nearby bar to get some cold Heineken and catfish peppersoup
After that I headed to obalende park , as usual the conductors don know me as a wahala boy who no they always get money complete
I stepped into the bus and put on my headphones in it's loudest volume , as usual the conductor started shouting (owo da)
Because I see fine girls inside bus I start to speak phonetics and brought out some dollars that i dont have change , conductor shock
To cut it short I went home
And I made my biggest mistake
Drop ur comments if I should continue cuz this is the funniest partt

Please continue

Kweensavvy:
Be objective.

The guys up there wishing they could meet 'big girls' to spray them cash, what makes you different from the so called 'gold digging girls?

Be truthful.

See? It's a two-way thing, I guess.

If you’ve always been on the spending end, won’t you like to experience been spent on? even if it’s just one time

I hope we know the meanings and differences between dating and tomboyism? To date is to relate and share emotions, secrets, dreams and banalities. To be tomboy is to be a play thing, needed by a lady for defined services; emotions won't flow, you can't share secrets, there are no dreams and banalities. A tomboy job is only there for limited boys, just like side chicks play on to get school fees, cloths, cosmetics and largely because they are limited or part-time and unpronounced sex workers. Those you call big girls, often times, have big boys but keep side boys. Sandastand?

rapid101:
well
as for me my sef and I
I'm dating one now and I'll marry her cus she is everything I dream in a woman, apart from she's rich, her character is 1001% pure. very respectful, dedicated, not materialistic, a goal getter, beautiful. in fact she's everything u ll dream of in a woman. tank God she came my way.
ok bye

with all these accolades,I hope you won't still cheat on her!

janedonez:

I hope you won't come here after to years to turn to a marriage counselor on 'how to avoid broken marriages, especially with older lovers '

yes I can b a marriage councilor years to cus I no deep down me my marriage ll b a success. mind u she's not older dan me. but her level of intelligence is way beyond me not wanting to settle down wit her and fight for d love we share. so OGA carry ur bad luck go village. e bad for A no mean say e go bad for B. ok bye

Lovelyn451:
Heheheeey...but I thought that's what you Efulefus like..shebi u want a woman to pay the bills like oyibo pipo? What are u complaining for again? Just donate ur sperm to her, stay at home and do the chores while she make the money, but don't u ever open ur efulefu mouth to ask her for respect or talk abt submission when responsible men are talking...tchew

You be Igala, right ?

Tayor23:
with all these accolades,I hope you won't still cheat on her!

if u truely love some one u won't even tink of cheating. as for me, my self and I. I won't cheat. so help me God

fineboynl:
If you have dated a big girl before you will easily relate with this. Big girls is my term of the opposite of a big boy and not oloshos or Gold-diggers.

Here are my experience. I have dated a girl that has so many girls she called her children. she help them alot, like securing a job from her contact and as well as writing the application letters herself for them and arranging the cv.

She called me always and never flashed and it's calls that runs into hours per day. I will even get tired and tried cutting the calls to discharge her.

I and some of my friend dated girls of this trait. It's not that they have so much money but they have a niche for themselves. They do anty to your younger ones or girls around by taking them out or buying them stuff. Your family developed a feeling that this girl doesn't want anything from you.

They will never allow you spend any money on them, they come to your house with cab. They will never follow you to a gathering where your friends spend money only on drinks and foods. And if it happens by accident they will pass the money to you to at least pay some of the bills.
She doesn't like going out while others pay for her drinks.

They never collect transport or any money from you.

Have you found out where she lives, she might be a spirit.

This thread go mak sense die. The only thing is that, some are cool while some are arrogant.
The one and only I dated was cool, infact till tomorrow we still call each.

YouareaBITCH:
What dah hell do u men want? We spend our own money, it becomes a questionable trait, we become all womanly and dependent, u all day the only thing we can offer is pussy. Confused specie!! [/color]

YouareaBITCH:
What dah hell do u men want? We spend our own money, it becomes a questionable trait, we become all womanly and dependent, u all day the only thing we can offer is pussy. Confused specie!! [color=#770077]

emusmithyy:


You went to a bar to drink? And you had no transport? Hmmm

He thinks we are stupid...,15 $100 notes..u didn't change it but u enter bus...fear didn't catch u.

I'm a big boy by any standard..but when I have dollars in my pocket...i thread with caution!!!!....let him continue with the lamba...its a fun read.