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Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Karleb(m): 2:05pm On May 13, 2020 |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mizwisdom(f): 2:16pm On May 13, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie: Run for your life! |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 2:22pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Ah one of those whose respect is for sale. Congratulations |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mizwisdom(f): 2:39pm On May 13, 2020 |
Eketem: Did your husband carry any of your kids for nine month, give birth after labour and nurse that kid with breast milk, what about the pounding everyday in the name of seexx? Oga is just riding you and your equal contribution beliefs. A man should be the bread winner, if both of you are contributing equally to family upkeep you're being cheated especially if you live here in Nigeria. The only time things should be totally equal in terms of financial contributions is when he can help you incubate a kid in his tummy and bear the pain of childbirth and discomfort of nursing. Hope he also does his house chores equally and dutifully. Good luck 5 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Biglittlelois(f): 2:50pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 3:09pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mizwisdom: This nonsense gets more ridiculous each passing day. We are now charging for renting wombs����, gosh �. Love making we both enjoy I should charge for? My goodness, why the hell do you women get married? Why not just put a meter to your vagin_a and collect payments. Marriage is not busy force, this is so sick, I can't even begin to engage with this level of thought. 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Ikjosh04: 3:21pm On May 13, 2020 |
I'm amazed your moniker is quite the opposite of you and I'm sure this character of yours cannot keep a marriage even if you get married to your mr perfect. Mizwisdom: Mariangeles: Well, we all have our definition of strong and i can see yours is myopic. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 3:43pm On May 13, 2020 |
Eketem:Call it whatever you want... 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by affable4(m): 3:46pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles:There is no need forming strong man in this time and age. There is so much uncertainties for one to begin to follow that part of strong man (who dies silently in times of trials) and a totally submissive wife who does not question the husband's mistakes. It is an era of partnership as in 1+1=1. I support my wife 150% to reach wherever she so desires. We strategise together on how to make more money, our kids and in everything around us. It keeps us together. Attention is drawn to mistakes without animosity. Instead of forming strong man, why not form strong partnership. 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 3:59pm On May 13, 2020 |
affable4: As long as she carries no pregnancy or you both equally share in bearing the kids, I'd say that is cheating and weak. From carrying pregnancies to having children that'll bear your name, you still want her to equally share the responsibility in providing? That is wickedness! EVEN GOD KNOWS THAT IS NOT FAIR! You can't expect a woman to do her part and equally share in your part. It is not fair. You want her to die young? That is selfish. A man that cannot protect his woman and her wellbeing is not fit to be a husband period! 1 Like |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by crackkhaus: 4:01pm On May 13, 2020 |
Eketem:Lmao... Someone who has never being proposed to with a ring was trying to tell you how you and your husband ought to be living in your marriage? 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 4:12pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ikjosh04: I believe in a man who can protect and provide for his family. A man who can make his family feel safe and secure. A man whose sons can look up to and want to be like. A man I can respect and be proud of. Unfortunately, there are not much of them these days. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Ikjosh04: 4:35pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Change your circle and have a open mind to see the best in people. 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 4:36pm On May 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus: The irony of her user name with zero sense. No wonder a lot of women end up with mini lords they cannot even converse with, carrying a child I wanted to have and breastfeeding is now a weapon to extort, two sane people sitting and agreeing on how to run a home drama free is cheating, how old are these people I am wasting long grammar on sef? Their thought process is so sad 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 4:37pm On May 13, 2020 |
Ikjosh04: Thank you for this 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Nobody: 4:46pm On May 13, 2020 |
When I see women fighting this equality battle for men, I go just dey laugh. Especially this 50/50 aunty Pickmeshia them! . E no easy carrying a man’s duty,we know! But coming out to argue your stupidity..... abeg, take a seat and learn! .... You’re running at a loss sis! And soon, very very soon, body go tell you!... No be this Nigeria all of us dey!!!?? Awon association of Strong women 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by affable4(m): 4:47pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles: I beg your indulgence, are you male or female? It's quite confusing because most women don't even want to be housewives any longer. Or are you insinuating that they can work but keep their money to themselves or no work at all. Truth be told, there is no template for a happy marriage. Some women stay home and are happy. Some that are home and have everything at their disposal are calling family meetings for their husbands to allow them work. Some are happy working. Wickedness in marriage is relative. What works for me might be a disaster for you. You just work it out with your partner. In all of these, I just hope you are married. If not, you will only understand when you do. 1 Like |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 4:52pm On May 13, 2020 |
Eketem: No go dey do pass yourself to answer "supportive" Body go tell you laslas. Na that time you go know say man and woman no get equal physical strength There was a reason God Almighty established some laws. God made laws that protects the woman. Don't give that up at the detriment of yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 4:54pm On May 13, 2020 |
yettymuse: What are you doing in my head? 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 5:06pm On May 13, 2020 |
affable4: You guys keep on shouting MONEY MONEY MONEY! Is that all you're good for? What is money compared to children? Do women rub it in your faces that they bore you children as you rub it in theirs that you provide? ACCEPT THAT IT IS A RESPONSIBILITY THAT YOU NEED NOT BE PRAISED FOR, JUST AS WOMEN SEE BEARING CHILDREN FOR YOU AS HER RESPONSIBILITY. All she should do is support you in raising your family. IT HAS BEEN ESTABLISHED BY GOD! 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by crackkhaus: 5:22pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Desloaaa(f): 6:30pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles:don't blame them. A lot of women have never enjoyed the full support of a man. Gone are the days! Some of these women paid their own dowry and fund their own wedding. Pay the rent and other bills... all the man does is give her a Mrs title. They only come online to keep a straight face. They cry inside. They are only keeping up appearances. 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Takotsubo: 6:33pm On May 13, 2020 |
Everything my husband and I earn go to one bank account and I disburse and allocate the rest. In recent months I have out earned him,it doesn't change anything,it's still entering the same account When he's outearning me it's about 4-6x mine and yet there's never been any problems,same account again and I disburse. Personally,we do not do head and tail,we are equal partners and I am happy and willing to provide 100% without batting an eyelid. At home, decisions are taken jointly according to who is an expert in what.Each person does what they are good at and we help each other out. Our children were made by us, our joint responsibility,I'm grateful he provided the sperm and I added my womb.. beautiful equation. They were brought into the world with him looking on in pride..they worship him as he is the best dad any child could ever ask for. This model is not for everyone but this is what makes us both happy.I like to work,I like to make decisions and I know that my opinions count 100%..I couldn't cope with anything less. Another person may prefer the more traditional method and it's still okay.There's enough room in the world for all methods. It may sound scary for people who like rigid roles ,but when you are with a person you know is putting in as much effort as you into making your relationship work,you become more selfless..yes you will hurt each other as you are human beings but you still work at it and do better. Every relationship is unique, find what works for you. If you approach your relationship with flexibility and throw away all forms of rigidity ,there will be loads of room to be happy. There's not one size that fits all. 9 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by sisisioge: 6:38pm On May 13, 2020 |
Takotsubo: You guys are very unique and very well in sync... I'm almost sure you're not based in naija though. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 6:41pm On May 13, 2020 |
Takotsubo: Thank you |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 6:44pm On May 13, 2020 |
Desloaaa: Sadly a lot of you have been soaked in poverty mentality; you assume every woman is soaked in same and seeking to grab any possible money from every man you see. This is why marrying from ones station is important; both families agreed to skip the dowry and all that list drama, both were educated enough to realise that bride price and lists do not support equality. Today we want equality tomorrow we are scampering for money. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 6:46pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Laws of 2000 years ago for people in the middle east , 2000 years ago when women could not be lawyers and doctors only wives nurses and teachers I should apply to a marriage in 2020, shame. When it comes to money matters we go back to the stone age |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by igbowoman: 6:47pm On May 13, 2020 |
Katier00: What has this interrogatory CID cum FBI and KGB work got to do with anything? |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by igbowoman: 6:58pm On May 13, 2020 |
Takotsubo: You are answering a question the OP didn't ask. Read the post again |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Takotsubo: 7:02pm On May 13, 2020 |
igbowoman: Pardon me,Not replying OP..just the ones arguing about finances and roles. 2 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Takotsubo: 7:03pm On May 13, 2020 |
sisisioge: Hahaha ..not in naija.However,I bet there are lots of people like us..they just don't see the need to talk about it. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by igbowoman: 7:04pm On May 13, 2020 |
As I have grown older my ideas of life have also grown wider. @ op despite my true feelings about this case as stated in my first post you must also define your needs. I have come to understand that sometimes a woman especially at a certain age may have a need to be legally married and have her children within wedlock. If this man is decent enough and that is what you desire,I wont fault you. I actually came to this knowledge when a 39 year old lady cautioned me on a blog years ago about my stand on marriage and I had a rethink. Marriage could mean different things .For some it could be financial stability others could be the ability to be legally married to bring forth kids and for some of us romantics at heart ,love and companionship. As long as everyone is aware , getting what they want and none feels cheated I say go for it |
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