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The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Toks2008(m): 7:38pm On May 13, 2020
After watching a movie about a lady who got pregnant by a guy she slept with on a revenge cheating mission, I felt it will be nice to drop this quick one. I have heard many times when ladies say words like ''If he cheats on me I will cheat on him too'' and I honestly can't judge any lady who wants to tow this path.

Nevertheless, I want every lady to understand this...Men are not wired the way ladies are and Men can't take half the shit of what they throw at the ladies. As awkward as this may sound, a lady has the genetic or natural ability to forgive her man if he cheats on her but a Man will rarely forgive a lady that cheats on him cos that is just how he is genetically wired...it is a mystery.

This thread is not encouraging any man to cheat but rather focusses on the retaliative cheating act by a lady IF her man eventually cheats on her...So as a lady, before you embark on your tit for tat quest, it is very sacrosanct to understand that you can never win the game, ladies always lose at the end because the relationship is already vulnerable and a retaliation affair might complicate things so severely that it sabotages any chance the relationship has to recover.

Revenge cheating will even make a lady more miserable afterward cos she will lose her self-worth and the funny twist is that she will give the guy a reason to justify his actions and he will gladly move on with another lady whilst the lady can't possibly go back to her revenge cheating mate. If a lady can't cope with a cheating guy, she can simply walk away from him rather than indulge in the lame, unreasonable, and image tarnishing act of revenge cheating.



In my opinion, only a lady with a slutty tendency embarks on a revenge cheating mission because nobody can make you do what you are not capable of doing.

Hope this makes sense.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Fidelismaria: 7:54pm On May 13, 2020
wink




na mumu OLOSHO girls dey have sex with another guy for revenge na

Dumb fvxks















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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Davash222(m): 8:02pm On May 13, 2020
We’re not yet married, and you went to sleep with my friend just to get back at me
This is foolishness! You, sleeping with my friend can’t stop my relationship with him. We will even laugh and smoke over it at our usual place.
Dear ladies, make una try dey get sense small, abeg.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by xendra: 8:11pm On May 13, 2020
lmao!!! this toks2008 go lead many men to early grave, whereas he is single to stupor.

Una just dey deceive una sef cheesy why will any sane person want to dish out what they can't take? or are you all not sane?cheesy

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by donbachi(m): 8:15pm On May 13, 2020
Highest level of self under-pricing and demeaning of self-worth.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by MhizzAJ(f): 8:53pm On May 13, 2020
I have nothing to say now until it hits front page
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Kyom20(m): 9:36pm On May 13, 2020
Firstly, adultery being a grounds for divorce goes to both parties. The idea of women being able to stand cheating is not "natural", its what has been taught to them by generation after generation of down-trodden women who didnt have a choice but to stay with such men for various reasons such as lack of economic power, lack of oppurtunity, having too many children and a host of others.

Secondly, women do cheat, a lot actually. The difference with them is that while a man would often times be clumsy or careless, women are much more careful and secretive and when a woman embarks on a "revenge" mission she might not do it necessarily so you would find out but so she can also have some fun which she deprived herself of in the hopes that both parties would be faithful and also so she could feel wanted and desired.

Thirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by CAPSLOCKED: 9:48pm On May 13, 2020
donbachi:
Highest level of self under-pricing and demeaning of self-worth.

AS SIMPLE AS THIS.
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Adasun(m): 9:57pm On May 13, 2020
They no da hear advice.
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by EzeNdiAra: 10:00pm On May 13, 2020
MhizzAJ:
I have nothing to say now until it hits front page

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Fafesot: 10:27pm On May 13, 2020
Thirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment. angryThirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by GeneralPula: 10:29pm On May 13, 2020
Holes are different from Rods.. cool

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by paulolee(m): 10:48pm On May 13, 2020
too bad
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Kyom20(m): 11:17pm On May 13, 2020
Fafesot:
Thirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment. angryThirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment.
I said that with a lot of first-hand information to back it up. Most a times men who do divorce their cheating wives is because they are unrepentant or its becoming obvious to outsiders.

Men are a lot less forth coming about their wives cheating just the same way they are not forth coming about domestic violence they experience. It bruises their ego. Do not be deceived that men do not experience or put up with these things.

So what you are saying is that all or most of the men who married other wives is because their wives cheated? Thats preposterous, men are even more likely to do that when they have a wife who is submissive n meek and whom they know wont stray even if they do it.

Man or woman, cheating is wrong and hurts the other party. Both parties should be adviced against it and no one, man or woman should keep up with an unrepentant cheat.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Starz825(m): 11:22pm On May 13, 2020
xendra:
lmao!!! this toks2008 go lead many men to early grave, whereas he is single to stupor.

Una just dey deceive una sef cheesy why will any sane person want to dish out what they can't take? or are you all not sane?cheesy
So u didn't get the message...
In summary, women don't win the revenge+cheating game...u can never win....na woman go suffer am....

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by ccffwx: 11:47pm On May 13, 2020
Nigerian men are lucky most of their women don't do much thinking and lack healthy self esteem. This one knows what he is saying is just for his own selfish interest being he can't take what he gives. Yet he passes it off as some fact, trying to use underlying threat and fear to scare gullible women to acceptance. No quality woman falls for all this bullshit. None!

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Grandamante: 11:49pm On May 13, 2020
Nope. A lady enjoying another prik is not demeaning neither does it reduce her self worth. Infact, one study like that concluded that revenge sex for a woman tends to be very exhilarating and wildly passionate. Angry emotions rather than happy emotions tend to bring out the animal instincts in a woman.


Since it affects men critically when their women cheat on them, then cheating on ur man becomes the best form of revenge. Ur man go suffer am past. He wants to call truce, u call truce. He wants to separate, u separate. He is not doing u a favor by dating or marrying u. What annoys me is crying like a baby abandoned in a ditch when he wants to separate. U want to do tough stuff, u ve got to toughen up.

One guy above said he would laugh and smoke over it with the said assistant boyfriend. LIES. Encourage one of ur friends to f@ck ur girlfriend or wife and we shall believe.

A man with whom a woman wants to have revenge sex with should thank his stars, she would f@ck with unrivaled passion, gusto and out of the world ability. U see, when women do things out of the ordinary, they tend to make it worth it. So, there will be no back on bed like a log of wood. Enjoy.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Kyom20(m): 12:16am On May 14, 2020
Grandamante:
Nope. A lady enjoying another prik is not demeaning neither does it reduce her self worth. Infact, one study like that concluded that revenge sex for a woman tends to be very exhilarating and wildly passionate. Angry emotions rather than happy emotions tend to bring out the animal instincts in a woman.


Since it affects men critically when their women cheat on them, then cheating on ur man becomes the best form of revenge. Ur man go suffer am past. He wants to call truce, u call truce. He wants to separate, u separate. He is not doing u a favor by dating or marrying u. What annoys me is crying like a baby abandoned in a ditch when he wants to separate. U want to do tough stuff, u ve got to toughen up.

One guy above said he would laugh and smoke over it with the said assistant boyfriend. LIES. Encourage one of ur friends to f@ck ur girlfriend or wife and we shall believe.

A man with whom a woman wants to have revenge sex with should thank his stars, she would f@ck with unrivaled passion, gusto and out of the world ability. U see, when women do things out of the ordinary, they tend to make it worth it. So, there will be no back on bed like a log of wood. Enjoy.
This is an amazing post and more women need to see this. Men aren't doing women favours by being with them, relationships and marriages ought to be enjoyed not endured. If he really feels he can get better he should please go ahead.

A womans self worth lies in her knowing that shes worthy and deserves to be happy not to be treated anyhow nor be at the mercy of some irresponsible men who can control their impulses.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Nobody: 12:38am On May 14, 2020
Lol
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Toks2008(m): 1:46am On May 14, 2020
Starz825:

So u didn't get the message...
In summary, women don't win the revenge+cheating game...u can never win....na woman go suffer am....

LOL! You really have time responding to that trojan troll.
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Toks2008(m): 1:49am On May 14, 2020
Grandamante:
Nope. A lady enjoying another prik is not demeaning neither does it reduce her self worth. Infact, one study like that concluded that revenge sex for a woman tends to be very exhilarating and wildly passionate. Angry emotions rather than happy emotions tend to bring out the animal instincts in a woman.


Since it affects men critically when their women cheat on them, then cheating on ur man becomes the best form of revenge. Ur man go suffer am past. He wants to call truce, u call truce. He wants to separate, u separate. He is not doing u a favor by dating or marrying u. What annoys me is crying like a baby abandoned in a ditch when he wants to separate. U want to do tough stuff, u ve got to toughen up.

One guy above said he would laugh and smoke over it with the said assistant boyfriend. LIES. Encourage one of ur friends to f@ck ur girlfriend or wife and we shall believe.

A man with whom a woman wants to have revenge sex with should thank his stars, she would f@ck with unrivaled passion, gusto and out of the world ability. U see, when women do things out of the ordinary, they tend to make it worth it. So, there will be no back on bed like a log of wood. Enjoy.

Ofcourze I agree but does it make it a win situation for her?
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by ibkayee(f): 2:10am On May 14, 2020
What exactly does a ‘natural ability to forgive’ her man mean? Are you saying we are biologically predisposed to forgiving a man for cheating than a man?

Women do not naturally feel any less hurt or naturally forgive any ‘easier’ than a man would. They do it because they’ve been raised to accept it, that’s all.

Lol Toks why are you always trying to convince women to accept trash behaviour? You are the type to specifically look for a partner with low self-esteem

You know how emotionally/psychologically traumatic it can be to get cheated on, but you want to use one lazy myth to justify why women can handle what you can’t.

Anywho, it’s not like Nigerian women don’t cheat, na today? They just don’t shamelessly act like it’s their birthright and are more coded wink

May ‘refurbished’ virgins, ‘under-reported’ body counts and uncertain paternities continue to fall on all of you grin

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Grandamante: 8:20am On May 14, 2020
Toks2008:


Ofcourze I agree but does it make it a win situation for her?



0f course, she is not revenging to win rather to hurt him as deeply as he hurt her.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Stephenmoka4(m): 8:46am On May 14, 2020
Why would you cheat at the first place

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by IAmSkinny: 8:48am On May 14, 2020
This land is not for sale
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:51am On May 14, 2020
.... To whom it may concern.
Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Toks2008(m): 9:11am On May 14, 2020
Grandamante:
0f course, she is not revenging to win rather to hurt him as deeply as he hurt her.

See Reasoning! Smh!

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:13am On May 14, 2020
Grandamante:
0f course, she is not revenging to win rather to hurt him as deeply as he hurt her.
...So after hurting him what next? Lol. The answer is that she will end up hurting herself more.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by Naomila: 10:27am On May 14, 2020
You guys should understand that some times ladies DON'T GIVE A DAMN! so chillax

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by xendra: 10:59am On May 14, 2020
Fafesot:
Thirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment. angryThirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment.
lmao! and you don't see how the same applies to the woman? that's why most cheating men claim surprised when their wife pours them hot water, nobody ever stays dsame once their partner cheats on them.....from then on the relationship continues on calculative reasons.


Men DON'T CHEAT!
as long as you don't want a woman to cheat on you.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by xendra: 11:05am On May 14, 2020
Kyom20:

I said that with a lot of first-hand information to back it up. Most a times men who do divorce their cheating wives is because they are unrepentant or its becoming obvious to outsiders.

Men are a lot less forth coming about their wives cheating just the same way they are not forth coming about domestic violence they experience. It bruises their ego. Do not be deceived that men do not experience or put up with these things.

So what you are saying is that all or most of the men who married other wives is because their wives cheated? Thats preposterous, men are even more likely to do that when they have a wife who is submissive n meek and whom they know wont stray even if they do it.

Man or woman, cheating is wrong and hurts the other party. Both parties should be adviced against it and no one, man or woman should keep up with an unrepentant cheat.
Deng I love you..... they will soon call you an ass-licker but you are just saying the truth.

I hate women cheating but how can I tell a woman not to cheat when the man she is staying faithful to is a community dick it just doesn't work that way.

Men do not realise that times have changed, women now are different from women then. being a full time house-wife depending 100% on your husband is different from being a working mum.

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Re: The Revenge cheating Mentality Of Ladies. by 2dice01: 11:10am On May 14, 2020
Most of our parents marriage (in Africa) that stand the sand of time was because the woman took a lot of Bullshít all in the name of Marriage

You cant be cheating on your wife and expect (karma)which i don't believe in to revenge for you

Most men do cheat and still love their wife
But when a woman start cheating then the love is no more

Women have now mix and mastered the art of Cheating better than the men grin
The Bushmeat is now the Hunter cheesy

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