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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by mechanics(m): 11:41pm On May 14, 2020
Hmmmm, she should watch it, she has to pray for her and not to be happy with her condition.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by PeacenLove2: 11:52pm On May 14, 2020
Karleb:
Everyone is on the side of the other woman probably because she's legally married.

But have you for a second empathized with the lady that got pregnant in 400 level probably out of wedlock? Gossiped by this same now legally married woman? Have you ever imagined how hurtful it can be to be the laughing stock of your department?


Two wrongs don't make a right but a popular saying in my area goes thus: "First to do no dey pain".

What anyone might have said about her back then when she was in 400 level is immaterial. She did not just share her vindictive opinion with a close friend, she callously and shamelessly posted this despicable thing on social media. I tell you this woman is one of the dumbest human to grace the earth. No wisdom and no fear of God. I do not wish her bad o but has she not lived long enough to see that no condition is permanent? May God never let her be a former mother o. There are things you do not allow yourself to think let alone voice out.Very stupid human being that thinks it's by her power.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Jess29: 11:55pm On May 14, 2020
Himmm. Its well
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by grandstar(m): 11:56pm On May 14, 2020
Two wrongs don't make a right.

2 years is a short time. No one knows what may happen in the next 3 or 5 years.

If they can go for fertility treatments early, they could even have quadruplets by next year grin grin grin grin
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by simplepee(f): 11:58pm On May 14, 2020
Pa3cia:

You were right by using found in that sentence, it's found and not find pls
I tire o my sister.

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by davillian(m): 12:03am On May 15, 2020
osazsky:
is her hus awear that she tells u everything sorry o I am just doing some investigative journalism
How I wan take know that one...
On my own side
She talks to my mum and my mum knows her problem...
She talks to my brothers they are twins and she ask them to pray for her that she wants twins but I'm sure they don't know she doesn't have a child....
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by quiteboy(m): 12:11am On May 15, 2020
Sultty:
Some ladies are just mad,I'm not surprised it came from twitter that's where one lady said ladies intentionally get pregnant and abort it so as to have big boobs and look attractive on twitter. Abeg are u sure that it is God that created women
bro your question just dey make me laugh grin grin grin grin cheesy
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Arthur2021: 12:20am On May 15, 2020
Karleb:
Everyone is on the side of the other woman probably because she's legally married.

But have you for a second empathized with the lady that got pregnant in 400 level probably out of wedlock? Gossiped by this same now legally married woman? Have you ever imagined how hurtful it can be to be the laughing stock of your department?


Two wrongs don't make a right but a popular saying in my area goes thus: "First to do no dey pain".
the blame on the first lady has nothing to do with " turn the other cheek",their reason is born out of sheer stigmatization of single moms and not because of "it is best leave to God".

Many of the moniker blaming the SM are ones that I have read their posts on revenge sex and how to get back on spouses.

I see revenge as a waste of time and don't endorse it,but if we are advocating forgiveness and forgetting,let us advocate for it genuinely and not when it suits us

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by darediamond(m): 12:21am On May 15, 2020
She is NOT mocking that her friend people. She is actually telling you all not to Mock People who make mistakes. Imagine the feeling of getting pregnant outside wedlock in School and a FRIEND starts to gossip about you here and there. Gossiping is always Negative remember people.

This lady you are all condemning appreciates Life that is why she did not yield to her friends call for Abortion.

Now that she is Married for good 2 years and have no Fruit of the womb yet, then she will understand why her friend who she mocks around back then in School keep her "unwanted pregnancy" .
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Majesty33(m): 12:22am On May 15, 2020
This is the product of a bittered an unforgiving and unforgetful woman

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by gwama: 12:27am On May 15, 2020
Are you really friends? I things no, a friend want good for her friend. cool cool

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Ladiesdoctor(m): 12:40am On May 15, 2020
She is not your friend.

You are enemies

Worse than devil

Foolish women

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:47am On May 15, 2020
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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Chrysz(m): 12:48am On May 15, 2020
simplepee:
Disgusting tweet.

Well, I didn't just found out today that women are their own enemies, very few are loyal reason I don't have any female friend.
o wrong
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by wman(m): 12:54am On May 15, 2020
KingAzubuike:

True. A Yoruba man is not always happy to see his fellow tribes man succeed. Go to their universities in the SW, it's the same thing. An hausa lecturer will do all he can to see his hausa student get good grades. Same with the Igbos. But the yorubas, they are usually eager to see your downfall and hope you don't graduate.

You've never had sense before. Always spewing trash on this forum.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Arthur2021: 12:54am On May 15, 2020
RTSC:
Dumb girl.

Is there any pride in being a baby mama?

It's a shameful thing.

The lady she is mocking is already married in her husband's house and will conceive in time.

It's foolishness to mock somebody that is better than you and has followed the proper pattern just because the seed has not yet germinated.

It's a matter of time.
an archaic mindset to believe a lady in marriage is better than a single lady.

You conclude happily married? Lol! So her inlaws are not bugging her to conceive? The couple told you they are living happily? Lol


Get the morale of the story,the lady was not mocking her friend but advising against mocking single moms
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:59am On May 15, 2020
davillian:

Person wife God forbid...
I met her online 12yrs ago
Saw her once when I visited abuja 4yrs ago....
She confided in me and tells me everything .
I wonder why a married woman would do that with a person she met online and saw face 2 face once.. She come still name the child after u... make una dey fear God oo. What are u even doing getting that close to another man's wife. Would u love to hear that ur own wife has such relationship with another man but u
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by mayor1814: 1:01am On May 15, 2020
No matter what , you don't mock a person who is down. Don't ever use these THREE THINGS to mock others 1) lack of marriage partner 2) lack of money and 3) lack of child or children.


Even if she had offended you in d past, forgive her. And more so be grateful to GOD. Don't use your blessings to rub others in d face.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Thunderblasts(m): 1:03am On May 15, 2020
The Barre woman was the first offender. You mocked and gossiped your friend coz she had a baby and now karma came knocking in a different way.
The fruitful lady shouldn't pay back evil with evil.
You leave such people to learn with their eyes and repent truly with their own soul completely.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by mukhaila: 1:11am On May 15, 2020
EdozieRichard:


A Twitter user with the username @harbeeola08 took to the platform to express her gratitude after her friend who has been married for two-years is barren.





https://mobile.twitter.com/harbeeola08/status/1260554854713483264

Jeez! What a dark, shallow mind.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by davillian(m): 1:11am On May 15, 2020
dairykidd:

I wonder why a married woman would do that with a person she met online and saw face 2 face once.. She come still name the child after u... make una dey fear God oo. What are u even doing getting that close to another man's wife. Would u love to hear that ur own wife has such relationship with another man but u
I dont know how we got close to that extent
She Opened up to me
So I should runaway at that point ?
Not my fault she picked me to confide in,
She picked my shoulder to cry on
She trusted me...
Another man wife can't have friend?
What if I ranaway from her that point and she decided to kill herself
You all will still blame me for running away from her
Abeg leave me..
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by babajero(m): 1:25am On May 15, 2020
Chicken brain pass some girls own. they think it's just to fine for face empty for inside .
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:25am On May 15, 2020
davillian:

I dont know how we got close to that extent
She Opened up to me
So I should runaway at that point ?
Not my fault she picked me to confide in,
She picked my shoulder to cry on
She trusted me...
Another man wife can't have friend?
What if I ranaway from her that point and she decided to kill herself
You all will still blame me for running away from her
Abeg leave me..
Just read all that u wrote up there. She picked ur shoulder to cry on
You don't know how u got close to that extent
Another man's wife can't have a friend.. such a friendship
All these ur comments shows ur intentions weren't entirely pure. A woman married to another man. Continue but when karma comes because she will be sure to remember how u served someone else's.
I no hold u oo just carry on deceiving urself
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by davillian(m): 1:31am On May 15, 2020
dairykidd:

Just read all that u wrote up there. She picked ur shoulder to cry on
You don't know how u got close to that extent
Another man's wife can't have a friend.. such a friendship
All these ur comments shows ur intentions weren't entirely pure. A woman married to another man. Continue but when karma comes because she will be sure to remember how u served someone else's.
I no hold u oo just carry on deceiving urself
Am not here to prove anything to anyone
You can say what ever you like its none of my business
If you think getting close to someone
Means sexual relationship
Then you are mad.....

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by wilcox(m): 1:34am On May 15, 2020
NockMedia:
Damn! She's petty. Two wrongs don't make a right. She should move on from the bitterness and live her life.
embarassed embarassed embarassed

What’s pretty about her please
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by AreaFada2: 1:37am On May 15, 2020
davillian:
I understand women don't like each other
The only thing they do is compete and envy each other....
She had a child in 400lvl meaning she got pregnant and decided to keep it though her friend felt its not the right time for her to be a single mother....
This life, never laugh at anyone present conditions or predicaments
Who knows table might turn sooner or later.

I have a friend who was unable to have a child 10yrs after marriage I know what she went through the abuse, the insults, the stigma etc
It got so bad she can't play with other peoples children because they call her mami water because she is so beautiful with clean skin.
I can't count how many times she cried on phone, how many times she felt like running away how many times she felt like killing her self....
Its not like she was one loose girl she married her husband as a virgin...
God did it for her last year she named her son after me...

Reason I don't look down on anyone is that no one knows 2moro.

One lesson I learnt about women long ago is that most do not like your sincere opinion. They want your support. Even if they have just murdered someone.

Some have even told me that although my point is spot on BUT I should not have said it to their face. That they feel embarrassed hearing such an opinion from a friend. So in many ways they encourage hypocrisy causing fake friendship.

A friend genuinely concerned about how she'd cope as a single mum incurred hate. She'd never mention other ways this lady supported her at school.

Assisted reproductive techniques are getting better and will give many people a chance to conceive.

Like you mentioned, lots of women compete. Many such friendships are fake and meeting up are used to weigh each other up.

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by alexola20(m): 1:37am On May 15, 2020
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:37am On May 15, 2020
davillian:

Am not here to prove anything to anyone
You can say what ever you like its none of my business
If you think getting close to someone
Means sexual relationship
Then you are mad .....
Yeah go ahead. Its the best u can do. Afterall u lack morals. And i never mentioned sexual relationship with her. I wouldn't trade words with u but u will get what's coming.. that i guarantee. Continue with ur snake movement grin
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by kayusely70(m): 1:43am On May 15, 2020
God shall judge the guilty
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by davillian(m): 1:45am On May 15, 2020
AreaFada2:


One lesson I learnt about women long ago is that most do not like your sincere opinion. They want your support. Even if they have just murdered someone.

Some have even told me that although my point is spot on BUT I should not have said it to their face. That they feel embarrassed hearing such an opinion from a friend. So in many ways they encourage hypocrisy causing fake friendship.

A friend genuinely concerned about how she'd cope as a single mum incurred hate. She'd never mention other ways this lady supported her at school.

Assisted reproductive techniques are getting better and will give many people a chance to conceive.

Like you mentioned, lots of women compete. Many such friendships are fake and meeting up are used to weigh each other up.

They just want you to support what ever decision they make...
And if you not on same page with them they tag you a hate or that you envy them...
Just imagine how long she kept this on her mind
I'm pretty sure the friend won't even know what's on her mind....
To me I smell jealousy because she ended up being a baby mama
And her friend a married woman

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