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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by davillian(m): 1:48am On May 15, 2020
dairykidd:

Yeah go ahead. Its the best u can do. Afterall u lack morals. And i never mentioned sexual relationship with her. I wouldn't trade words with u but u will get what's coming.. that i guarantee. Continue with ur snake movement grin
You dont need to mention it before I know were you driving at....
Except you want to tell me there is karma for being there for someone you call your friend.....
Be trying to paint yourself white
You think everyone is a goat like you....
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by AreaFada2: 1:51am On May 15, 2020
davillian:

Am not here to prove anything to anyone
You can say what ever you like its none of my business
If you think getting close to someone
Means sexual relationship
Then you are mad.....

For many people, a man & a woman are like goat and yam. Not to be trusted together. grin cheesy

They cannot envisage any genuine friendship. The notion that a lady can be pretty but not romantically attractive to a man is unimaginable.

For that reason I gradually cut off friendships when female friends marry. Even some of the ladies ask if you were in love with them but now angry that they are married. They do not understand. It's to save them trouble. Their husbands may not approve of such friendships.

Another aspect is financial assistance to a married lady. Many hubbies cannot imagine how often their wives seek help from old friends. When you complain that your wife is a drain on your pocket, blah blah blah, often she will stop asking you. Instead go ask understanding friends, usually helpful male buddies from the past. It can be even be an ex when she's financially in a tight corner.

Still, as a man be careful helping with money. It can be interpreted wrongly. Your good Samaritan act can come to bite you in the "bom-bom". grin
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by davillian(m): 2:05am On May 15, 2020
AreaFada2:


For many people, a man & a woman are like goat and yam. Not to be trusted together. grin cheesy

They cannot envisage any genuine friendship. The notion that a lady can be pretty but not romantically attractive to a man is unimaginable.

For that reason I gradually cut off friendships when female friends marry. Even some of the ladies ask if you were in love with them but now angry that they are married. They do not understand. It's to save them trouble. Their husbands may not approve of such friendships.

Another aspect is financial assistance to a married lady. Many hubbies cannot imagine how often their wives seek help from old friends. When you complain that your wife is a drain on your pocket, blah blah blah, often she will stop asking you. Instead go ask understanding friends, usually helpful male buddies from the past. It can be even be an ex when she's financially in a tight corner.

Still, as man careful helping with money. It can be interpreted wrongly. Your good Samaritan act can come to bite you in the "bom-bom". grin
I understand your point jareh....
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by midehill(m): 2:06am On May 15, 2020
And it is one innocent man that will marry dis one ooo...na wa
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 2:08am On May 15, 2020
And all these while you have been nursing the revenge and you claim you were not mad.


Wouldn't it have been better you were mad then, by now you would have let go than being bitter and it has been eating you up all along.

Human heart sha .

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by marylandcakes: 2:10am On May 15, 2020
EdozieRichard:


A Twitter user with the username @harbeeola08 took to the platform to express her gratitude after her friend who has been married for two-years is barren.





https://mobile.twitter.com/harbeeola08/status/1260554854713483264

Good because you are helping her to remind God of her situation. How can two years of marriage be barren?
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Vikynas: 3:16am On May 15, 2020
If she serves the Living God then watch out for her new born baby next year
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by zedegit: 3:17am On May 15, 2020
NockMedia:
Damn! She's petty. Two wrongs don't make a right. She should move on from the bitterness and live her life.
embarassed embarassed embarassed

Not saying she's right but no one can actually understand the trauma she faced during that time. It wasn't only that the girl was against her action but went ahead to thrash her probably as a hoe.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by zedegit: 3:21am On May 15, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
who needs enemies when you have such "friends" in your life...

the important question here IS: should your friend have a different view about "unmarried women having a child", simply because you were one?!?!

Should your friend also gossip about you after voicing her opinion?

If yes, kneel down. Let me pray for you.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Vikynas: 3:21am On May 15, 2020
zedegit:


Not saying she's right but no one can actually understand the trauma she faced during that time. It wasn't only that the girl was against her action but went ahead to thrash her probably as a hoe.
Were you there when it happened cos you're just talking as if you were there when the whole drama took place if at all it ever happened
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by X0012(m): 3:22am On May 15, 2020
Yep

U got it!




bukatyne:
My wonder is how 'friends' have such animosity against themselves and still carry on with the friendship.

She mocked you because you had a child in 400L; either trash it with her or cut her lose.

No, you wait for about 4yrs later to 'mock' her too. undecided

You both are a perfect fit.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Vikynas: 3:25am On May 15, 2020
Someone will just cook stories and serve here and you people will just eat it up without washing your hands properly.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by zedegit: 3:29am On May 15, 2020
Vikynas:
Were you there when it happened cos you're just talking as if you were there when the whole drama took place if at all it ever happened

Since you doubt it happened what are doing here?
I understand that some of the posts here are fiction but we speculate and extrapolate since we don't all see the whole but for her to be hurting after many years means it cut deeper than just a friend telling you it was bad and leaving it there.

She must have rubbed it real deep. Use your sense or borrow any available one.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Pickieox(m): 3:29am On May 15, 2020
Humanoid01:

Shut the F up. People like you have probably never rendered tangible help to anyone, but are quick to throw criticisms when they perceive some kind of loophole in someone else's life.

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Pickieox(m): 3:34am On May 15, 2020
Humanoid01:

Shut the F up. People like you have probably never rendered tangible help to anyone, but are quick to throw criticisms when they perceive some kind of loophole in someone else's life.

If you think so, you're right child of dog. I'll have say ur sky papa should punish you but the thing be say e no exist...so thank the rod...

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 3:57am On May 15, 2020
wilcox:


What’s pretty about her please
Look up the word PETTY in a dictionary
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 3:58am On May 15, 2020
Kingscee:

Where's the pretty? time to change your eyes glasses.
Olodo. PETTY not pretty.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by peterside(m): 4:16am On May 15, 2020
God has the final say Amen
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by aspiring44: 4:19am On May 15, 2020
jabor4Naija:
Mocking someone dat is childless is just so wrong, right in front of my house, d woman dat owns d bar there lost her 3kids in one day and as such had to close up shop. Be careful cos u might ve something today and its gone d next day.

In other words , no condition is permanent in life .
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Yoighaman(m): 4:30am On May 15, 2020
davillian:
I understand women don't like each other
The only thing they do is compete and envy each other....
She had a child in 400lvl meaning she got pregnant and decided to keep it though her friend felt its not the right time for her to be a single mother....
This life, never laugh at anyone present conditions or predicaments
Who knows table might turn sooner or later.

I have a friend who was unable to have a child 10yrs after marriage I know what she went through the abuse, the insults, the stigma etc
It got so bad she can't play with other peoples children because they call her mami water because she is so beautiful with clean skin.
I can't count how many times she cried on phone, how many times she felt like running away how many times she felt like killing her self....
Its not like she was one loose girl she married her husband as a virgin...
God did it for her last year she named her son after me...

Reason I don't look down on anyone is that no one knows 2moro.

...named the child after you? shocked why?

How are we sure you are not the father of that child. smiley
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Urchman200: 5:05am On May 15, 2020
jabor4Naija:
Are u God? How dare u mock a woman dat doesn't ve a child? I know a woman at agboju casco she had 7 children and 6 died in one day, d 7th one survived cos she was sent on an errand and 6 got burnt in d house. I ve said anyone dat mocks me is only reminding God of my situation cos i know my Lord will show up at his time
oboy u dey agboju?u just remind of my old secondary days, I school at awori ajeromi grammar school, back then ,it has been a while. Thanks for the flash back.

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by ikeasogwa: 5:08am On May 15, 2020
Godcan
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by kcowen(m): 5:22am On May 15, 2020
jabor4Naija:
Mocking someone dat is childless is just so wrong, right in front of my house, d woman dat owns d bar there lost her 3kids in one day and as such had to close up shop. Be careful cos u might ve something today and its gone d next day.
Only you, one lost 6 and the other lost 3 ,why bad things dey happen around you
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 5:37am On May 15, 2020
osazsky:
d guy said the truth I served in d west u guys are full of hate and jealousy even when ur fellow guys try to help u
You finally entered express.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by HRMK: 5:48am On May 15, 2020
EdozieRichard:


A Twitter user with the username @harbeeola08 took to the platform to express her gratitude after her friend who has been married for two-years is barren.





https://mobile.twitter.com/harbeeola08/status/1260554854713483264
and i guess ur happy abt it?she culd be waiting for her set of triplets!two wrongs dont make a right!!
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Nobody: 5:49am On May 15, 2020
She just indirectly dared God to move on her behalf and God never misses such opportunity to show he alone in God!


Good luck woman!
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Edusouls(m): 6:09am On May 15, 2020
Yes they are created by God, but at Eden they had an unbreakable convenant with the devil this gave them similar attributes of the devil, that’s character wise they behave just like the devil, then the ones that are fortunate enough to have a husband is now possessed and taimed by the much more God like spirit of a man, that’s why the best thing to happen to a woman is to get married..
Sultty:
Some ladies are just mad,I'm not surprised it came from twitter that's where one lady said ladies intentionally get pregnant and abort it to have big boobs so to look attractive on twitter. Abeg are u sure that it is God that created women

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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by dederocs(m): 6:21am On May 15, 2020
Why are most women so fake, idle and evil angry
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Chookym(m): 6:29am On May 15, 2020
This is wrong. She doesnt knw tommorow, she is already makong mokery of yestady and today.
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Icebreaker212: 6:29am On May 15, 2020
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Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by back2sender: 6:38am On May 15, 2020
NockMedia:
Damn! She's petty. Two wrongs don't make a right. She should move on from the bitterness and live her life.
embarassed embarassed embarassed
That is women for you, petty!!
Re: Lady Mocks Her Friend Who Is Childless After 2 Years Of Marriage by Aystarz: 6:41am On May 15, 2020
jabor4Naija:
Mocking someone dat is childless is just so wrong, right in front of my house, d woman dat owns d bar there lost her 3kids in one day and as such had to close up shop. Be careful cos u might ve something today and its gone d next day.

Mocking anyone for their deficiencies is altogether bad, infantile and ungodly . Let's not stop at childlessness

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