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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by zexy2030(m): 10:36am On May 15, 2020
lammylam:


Brother! Next time ehn use "some women"!

Most people coming here to talk about Women make that mistake and its quiet annoying!

Y'all keep forgetting that we are not the same!

The fact that some people have been unfortunate to meet with Delilah doesn't mean you should tag all women as evil!


So pls ehn next time use " some women". IRE O
A woman doesn't recognize her latent evil until she meets an easy going man. A man who tolerates many things exposes the evil resident in women.
But some women are regenerated. Every woman hates a tight purse.
Note: so many men are deadlier. So chose a partner based on similarities in attributes like 90% similarity.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Sierusvirus(m): 10:44am On May 15, 2020
Men, never you waste your time, energy and money on any woman.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by bukatyne(f): 10:55am On May 15, 2020
Naija246:
women don't care about your struggles,they hang around at the finish line and pick the winner's grin

while a man has to "become" to get anything worthwhile in life, a woman is just "is"
All she has to do is appear beautiful and get stuff handed over to her.
It's really sickening.

cheesy

Even the women selling pepper in the market is just 'is'.

Or the one doing alabaru in Balogun market.

Or women are not trained on how to be domesticated to prove their worth to suitors.

Even in ancient West where they had the Nobility had coming out balls to seek suitors for their daughters, they trained those girls with rigor on what was perceived to be attractive to the men then.

When you read something online, digest it and pick the parts that apply.

Even the ones that just appear 'beautiful', do you know what it costs (time, effort and discipline) required to maintain the the kind of beauty referred to?

Na wa.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by bukatyne(f): 10:56am On May 15, 2020
Bennysam:

My dear most of our mothers don't contribute anything
In the family though we as their children still love them

Your mother did not contribute anything to your development and growth?
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by FGonline: 10:59am On May 15, 2020
Lightangel65:


It's all of them, your eye never open
hahahaha
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by FGonline: 12:27pm On May 15, 2020
KristaPretty:
[[s]b]Women are not logical, so deal with them logically.. they use emotions to play victim cards..
Women are manipulative, so never leave any loopholes for that..
[/b][/s]

[s]Make her totally submissive to you[/s] but always give her a say when taking decision..

Women love heartless men.. I just learned that...


Like I said, your post is baseless! It's unfortunate that all your life you have been meeting girls who are the exact description of your post!
Now if you have met or even made attempt to be friends or in a relationship with reasonable ladies, you would know how that there are women who have a very high sense of reasoning that are not immature to use emotions to play cards neither can they be manipulated.

You cannot make anyone totally submissive to you, you EARN respect and submission. Only
humans with fish brain never take note of this.

Lastly, please do not keep holding unto the frustrations of the past, it's no one's fault you went for low leveled, dumb, cheating, immature girls. Good thing is you learnt your lesson and do not settle for anything worse.

If you're too pained about women, stay single for life and allow other men enjoy life and the beauty of it with women in it!

To those girls you dated in the past, I think you were an "investment gone bad" . Stop dating shawarma and broke jobless girls, you say no!

Good morning with love from the female kingdom grin grin grin

Earn respect indeed
Hahahaha
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Bennysam: 12:47pm On May 15, 2020
bukatyne:


Your mother did not contribute anything to your development and growth?
Till I finished school my mum do not pay any of my fees
In school , I didn't say she don't contribute to my growth , most of basic thing in life they don't contribute money in it , take it or leave it
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by bukatyne(f): 12:50pm On May 15, 2020
Bennysam:

Till I finished school my mum do not pay any of my fees
In school , I didn't say she don't contribute to my growth , most of basic thing in life they don't contribute money in it , take it or leave it

Ok.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nobody: 12:54pm On May 15, 2020
Someone has been butthurt cry

We can say the same for men, men are liars, they say what they don't mean to sleep with as many women as possible. After they have had their feel, they are off to the next attractive women.

My dear beautiful women, Guard your hearts and your kitty-kats for life comes out of both.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by pansophist(m): 12:56pm On May 15, 2020
Martinez39s:
Stop explaining yourself to that woman. You don't have to explain yourself to anybody. All women are like that.

Nawalt cool
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by pansophist(m): 1:02pm On May 15, 2020
Martinez39s:
Life is too short and precious to pander to people's feelings when you can say truth. Truth will set the wise and honest man free.

Chop knuckle

Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by pansophist(m): 1:30pm On May 15, 2020
GenBuhari:
How did you come about this your conclusion?
Do you have personal incidents that made aware of this phenomenon that you recount here?
I am not necessarily in disagreement with your theory ; in the animal kingdom we see this female trait.
When a male lion is being challenged by an outsider lion for take over of his pride the pride females show no loyalty, they leave the pride lion to face his fate alone without assisting him.

Finish your story na grin

The female lion will leave the pride lion if he is defeated, then mate with the winning lion after he has ousted her previous partner, and got her cubs murdered right in her present by the invading lion. Nature is truly harsh. I believe that humans still largely have this primal instinct, though, it radical expression has being suppressed by morality, culture, tradition and religion. Even at that, in particular to this observed female trait, the female do not care about male struggles.

Men create the lifestyle, and women integrate into his lifestyle. The creation of his lifestyle (his pain, struggles, personal demons etc) are not of a concern to the female, they may rationalise your struggles, in an attempt to appear understanding, but they cannot, in its truest essence of it. When men talk about this things, it appears as bashing, but if you visit the redpill women page on reddit, they discuss and admit these things, these women are honest enough to see themselves and recognize their behaviours, unlike most women that operate from a position of perfection and see faults only in men.

Most importantly, this has to do with how men and women understand and express love. Men love sacrificially, while women love idealistically. Men love flows two step downwards, from him to his woman, and his children, for women, it's one step, which is from her to her children. The love women has for a man is basically an opportunistic love for the lifestyle he has created, that trickles down from him to her, which further tickles down from her to her children. The kind of love men have for their wife (sacrificial love) is the kind of love women have for their kids.

The maturity of a person can be judged by the intensity of truth he/she can take, and this sounds harsh, but it is the story of our primal (emphasize of primal) hardwiring. It is biblically required for men to love their women, but that women should respect their men. You think it is a coincidence? I think not. There was also a thread on nairaland last year (I'll try to find it and attached the link here), where the poster asked women what they wanted in a man, and most, if not all wanted something that has to do with the lifestyle he has created for himself (money mostly). So even though a woman has to "just be", and men will accept her as worthy, to women, a man has to "become", to be worthy as well.

When you hear buzzwords such as "a real man", "man up", "be a man", "to be a man is not a day job", etc, but not hearing the female version, it only goes to prove that the male has to become, and the female has to just be. It is what it is.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nyamve1: 4:29pm On May 15, 2020
What u said is true, that's dia nature, and that's why regrets is their companion many many times
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Arthur2021: 9:30pm On May 15, 2020
pansophist:




When you hear buzzwords such as "a real man", "man up", "be a man", "to be a man is not a day job", etc, but not hearing the female version, it only goes to prove that the male has to become, and the female has to just be. It is what it is.

Lol..you want to accuse you of setting oppressive shackles on them?
They have accused of all the woes they face,dont add buzzwords such as be a real woman to it so they dont attack us more.
Many have blamed masculinity as the cause of boko haram and other insurgency... Please just wash your hands off their matter and don't expect a thing from them before they kill us

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by emmaodet: 12:10am On May 16, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Let me tell you something
Any relationship with a girl that is more than two years or that has passed two Years without any hope of getting married to her
Bro just leave her alone
Dating someone for over four years definitely shows you both are not serious just wasting each other's time
You're a man a woman crying and begging you while you caught her cheating, shouldn't be like that you ought to have know all women tactics
You're the one that should play someone not
You been played by someone a woman for that matter damnit angry

If there is no guarantee of faithfulness after 2 years of dating, then i wonder the kind of marriage that will be.
If you can't run long distance relationship between 2 states in nigeria without the woman cheating, then i wonder how such woman won't cheat in a marriage that is going to be longer.
A marriage that is going to fail ks just like a student that performed very bad in mock waec or mock jamb, it shouldn't come as a surprise if such student fail the real waec or jamb.
Saturday wey go sweet, na from friday we go know.
Oju ti o ba ma bani kale, koni fi aro sepin - An eye that will last long till your old age without problem, won't start disturbing or affecting you at young age.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by emmaodet: 12:18am On May 16, 2020
pizzzy:
I think our mindset is the problem any man wey woman no like go say na because of money forgetting dat we have other shortcomings. Timaya give empress 8 million naira jeep � she still fall him hand. If Jeff bezos wife go fit divorce am, you think say na ur 100k wey u give her go make woman stick with u forever. The rich also cry, as long as you want to associate with the opposite sex just be prepared for the bulls**t dat comes with it.

That is why it is good for men to hedge their bet by giving as little as possible and dating a working class woman that will contribute too

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Nancy1986: 2:19am On May 16, 2020
bodybuilder:
Women don't understand your struggle.

The earlier some men realise that women are wired not to recognise the sacrifices you make the better for you.

A woman does not genuily care if you are giving her half of your salary.

A woman does not care that you're trying hard to satisfy in bed.

A woman will always leave you for man richer, more good looking and confident than you.

The moment you recognise this fact that women just care about value not intent or been sacrificial the better for you.

In a nutshell, don't put your self in great inconvenience for a woman.

Don't spend money you can't really afford.

Just spend what is really comfortable with you.

Here is an illustration.

If you earn 200k, and give her 100k

She will leave for a man that earns 1 million and gives her 200k

You get it, women naturally can't relate your sacrifice and struggle.

This is not just about money. It about every other thing.

A woman will not still stay with you because of the effort you put in to making her cum.

All she cares about is the orgasm, not the amount of work you put in.

In conclusion. Don't kill your self, she does not recognise effort. Women does not recognise effort, just value.

Don't forget this!

I'm not bashing women, it's their natural trait. It's not their fault. That's how they are created.

You just have to be aware of this truth as man, so you expect it, and don't cry like baby, when she leaves you anytime.

This is no hate on women. Don't get it wrong.

Funny
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Victornezzar: 2:41am On May 16, 2020
luminouz:


U want video proof or what? Your question is irritating abeg...
Not on bed,na on top mango tree or NEPA pole undecided
cheesy cheesy
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by emmaodet: 5:00am On May 16, 2020
Arthur2021:

Lol..you want to accuse you of setting oppressive shackles on them?
They have accused of all the woes they face,dont add buzzwords such as be a real woman to it so they dont attack us more.
Many have blamed masculinity as the cause of boko haram and other insurgency... Please just wash your hands off their matter and don't expect a thing from them before they kill us

Bro i got banned by BOT on travel section due to my reply to you despite not having any 'F" words in it.
I'm always surprise the way i get banned easily.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by IhateThemMods: 2:11pm On May 16, 2020
emmaodet:


Bro i got banned by BOT on travel section due to my reply to you despite not having any 'F" words in it.
I'm always surprise the way i get banned easily.

I got banned two days ago quoting Acidosis and saying something related to a woman subtly endor.sing ba.by ma.ma and how she will regret it.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by emmaodet: 3:26pm On May 16, 2020
IhateThemMods:


I got banned two days ago quoting Acidosis and saying something related to a woman subtly endor.sing ba.by ma.ma and how she will regret it.

Na wa ooo
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by ekaF(f): 4:48pm On May 16, 2020
I'm glad men are gradually waking up.
Like I always tell my friends especially those guys that are doing church love "Do not be ignorant of the devices of women"

The key is not giving a Bleep.

Guys need to learn to spend more time with each other to refresh their masculine energy

Ball hard,
Bleep hard
Hustle harder

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by lammylam(f): 9:44pm On May 16, 2020
zexy2030:

A woman doesn't recognize her latent evil until she meets an easy going man. A man who tolerates many things exposes the evil resident in women.
But some women are regenerated. Every woman hates a tight purse.
Note: so many men are deadlier. So chose a partner based on similarities in attributes like 90% similarity.

Every woman hates a tight purse
Then yoy haven't seen/heard of women who stick with their husband when he had nothing??
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by olasegun90(m): 10:50pm On May 16, 2020
You can take a lady/women away from money but u can't take money away from them.
that is just the logic.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by bodybuilder: 10:57pm On May 16, 2020
lammylam:


Every woman hates a tight purse
Then yoy haven't seen/heard of women who stick with their husband when he had nothing??

They sticked with their husbands, because they didn't have higher value man who wants to marry them.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by backbone503(m): 11:15pm On May 16, 2020
You've never been truly loved by a female. Women do the unthinkable and go very extreme miles for any guy/man they love.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Samuels90: 11:19pm On May 16, 2020
Naija246:
women don't care about your struggles,they hang around at the finish line and pick the winner's grin

while a man has to "become" to get anything worthwhile in life, a woman is just "is"
All she has to do is appear beautiful and get stuff handed over to her.
It's really sickening.
grin On point

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by Angelacruz: 11:44pm On May 16, 2020
True
emmaodet:


If there is no guarantee of faithfulness after 2 years of dating, then i wonder the kind of marriage that will be.
If you can't run long distance relationship between 2 states in nigeria without the woman cheating, then i wonder how such woman won't cheat in a marriage that is going to be longer.
A marriage that is going to fail ks just like a student that performed very bad in mock waec or mock jamb, it shouldn't come as a surprise if such student fail the real waec or jamb.
Saturday wey go sweet, na from friday we go know.
Oju ti o ba ma bani kale, koni fi aro sepin - An eye that will last long till your old age without problem, won't start disturbing or affecting you at young age.
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by WhiteJacket: 5:55am On May 17, 2020
pansophist:


Finish your story na grin

The female lion will leave the pride lion if he is defeated, then mate with the defeating lion after the invading lion has ousted her previous partner, and got her cubs murdered right in her present by the invading mate. Nature is truly harsh. I believe that humans still largely have this primal instinct, though, it radical expression has being suppressed by morality, culture, tradition and religion. Even at that, in particular to this observed female trait, the female do not care about male struggles.

Men create the lifestyle, and women integrate into his lifestyle. The creation of his lifestyle (his pain, struggles, personal demons etc) are not of a concern to the female, they may rationalise your struggles, in an attempt to appear understanding, but they cannot, in its truest essence of it. When men talk about this things, it appears as bashing, but if you visit the redpill women page on reddit, they discuss and admit these things, these women are honest enough to see themselves and recognize their behaviours, unlike most women that operate from a position of perfection and see faults only in men.

Most importantly, this has to do with how men and women understand and express love. Men love sacrificially, while women love idealistically. Men love flows two step downwards, from him to his woman, and his children, for women, it's one step, which is from her to her children. The love women has for a man is basically an opportunistic love for the lifestyle he has created, that tickles down from him to her, which further tickles down from her to her children. The kind of love men have for their wife (sacrificial love) is the kind of love women have for their kids.

The maturity of a person can be judged by the intensity of truth he/she can take, and this sounds harsh, but it is the story of our primal (emphasize of primal) hardwiring. It is biblically required for men to love their women, but that women should respect their men. You think it is a coincidence? I think not. There was also a thread on nairaland last year (I'll try to find it and attached the link here), where the poster asked women what they wanted in a man, and most, if not all wanted something that has to do with the lifestyle he has created for himself (money mostly). So even though a woman has to "just be", and men will accept her as worthy, to women, a man has to "become", to be worthy as well.

When you hear buzzwords such as "a real man", "man up", "be a man", "to be a man is not a day job", etc, but not hearing the female version, it only goes to prove that the male has to become, and the female has to just be. It is what it is.


Need to put this on a plague. Reminds me on back then in primary sch when I often questioned why girls preferred the rich kids, even though we were all 'supposedly' in a level playing ground.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by mikebabs101: 8:51am On May 17, 2020
Benprass:
God bless you
Be there deceiving yourself and asslicking to get laid
Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by ekaF(f): 10:12am On May 17, 2020
WhiteJacket:


Need to put this on a plague. Reminds me on back then in primary sch when I often questioned why girls preferred the rich kids, even though we were all 'supposedly' in a level playing ground.

Even in higher institutions. The rich kids smash chicks left to right. The intelligent kids have a lot of female attention for study sessions.

Only a handful of ladies actively encourage their male friends or boyfriends to study hard. If anything they are a distraction.

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Re: Women Don't Care About Your Struggle. by zexy2030(m): 10:50am On May 17, 2020
lammylam:


Every woman hates a tight purse
Then yoy haven't seen/heard of women who stick with their husband when he had nothing??
when he had nothing implies he was making effort but its not complimentary enough, so he was providing but not sufficient.

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