I met one relatively fine babe like that on facebook. Got talking for about some weeks. Did video calls like twice then took her on a date once where we drank wine.

My motive was to knack the puna cause she told me she was a virgin and I have never disvirgined a lady before cuz I can't stand blood on my deek. I always flee from virgins but this time around, I thought I should give it a go

To cut the long story short, I asked her to be my girlfriend after 2 days...I think a wednesday and she said she is not ready for a relationship yet. That she wants to finish school first...she cant really be committed....blah blah blah (in my mind I was like, "who told you I want long term"?

I told her I understand and its fine. She sent me like 3 or four casual messages the next day or so then I stopped replying and deleted her number. Didnt want to invest my time on her cause I had other potential punas to process.

After like 2 weeks or so of no contact cuz i don forget about her completely sef... Next thing I saw was that she sent me friend request on facebook.

What the fvck does this girl want :

Make I sha accept make I see wetin she go talk.


My question is, why will a lady who does not want to be in a relationship yet with a guy still follow up with the guy? Mature responses abeg

You need a decent job

You are too idle

Staphylococcus:
You need a decent job

You are too idle

Over matured response

With all the whole problem wey we get for Naija at the moment.... Na this issue u want matured men/women to come debate?

eRex:


Over matured response

Guys now be serious. Aren't these creatures confused? Seems like a paradox honestly. I admit that I had ulterior motives but she turned me down na. (I always take the response of not wanting a relationship yet to mean no)..

Why follow up on facebook? Which kind no be that?

Better use your brain and stop thinking like a child. Ladies keep their suitors in contact just because of some favors (money, airtime, dates, shopping etc) they get from such guy knowing fully well he’ll want to impress them and they’ll take advantage of such to drain you. She actually knows what exactly she want from you and that’s nothing but you money. Keep your eyes widely open. She’ll start telling you she’s broke, she needs another cream, her subscription is expired blah blah blah and if you aren’t smart. You’ll continue doing those stuffs expecting her to say Yes to you.

Staphylococcus:
You need a decent job

You are too idle

Ma guy!!!

You dey fvck up o

jawalis:
Better use your brain and stop thinking like a child. They keep their suitors in contact just because of some favors (money, airtime, dates, shopping etc) they get from such guy knowing fully well he’ll want to impress them and they’ll take advantage of such to drain you. She actually knows what exactly she want from you and that’s nothing but you money. Keep your eyes widely open. She’ll start telling you she’s broke, she needs another cream, her subscription is expired blah blah blah and if you aren’t smart. You’ll continue doing those stuffs expecting her to say Yes to you.

I know all these ones my guy....I no be maga nw.

Infact i even bait her with N200 recharge card and she fumed saying she didnt ask for it and that I am not obligated to do such favours...In her mind she wants to sound decent so that one day she may ask me for iphone or rent

Before then she was sending me bible verses to appear like wife material Even sent me her child hood photos sef. I wont lie, i didnt expect her to reject my proposal. Was surprised she resurfaced again after shunning her side

ElasticStone:


I know all these ones my guy....I no be maga nw.

Infact i even bait her with N200 recharge card and she fumed saying she didnt ask for it and that I am not obligated to do such favours...In her mind she wants to sound decent so that one day she may ask me for iphone or rent

Before then she was sending me bible verses to appear like wife material Even sent me her child hood photos sef. I wont lie, i didnt expect her to reject my proposal. Was surprised she resurfaced again after shunning her side

Good you are smart. Just find your ways to check out what’s under her panties soon bro. No time

You sound like the confused one here. So a 'shapp guy' like you ran to nairaland and created a whole topic to ask this basic question lol

ibkayee:
You sound like the confused one here. So a 'shapp guy' like you ran to nairaland and created a whole topic to ask this basic question lol

Ibkayee how na?

ibkayee:
You sound like the confused one here. So a 'shapp guy' like you ran to nairaland and created a whole topic to ask this basic question lol

You are only validating the subject of the thread by your display of confusion. I am actually confused and that's why I came here. Why would a lady who does not want a relationship yet and who has not been in touch for 2weeks send a friend request afterwards.

Wetin she dey find?

Theconglomerate:
Ibkayee how na?

Ask her oh. Na only cho cho cho she sabi

ElasticStone:


Ask her oh. Na only cho cho cho she sabi

Lool I love when people say this

ibkayee:

Lool I love when people say this

I assume we now have an understanding.

So answer the question. I would like to hear a lady's mature opinion on this

you are of the idiots out there that always look for girls for sex....ode

ElasticStone:
I met one relatively fine babe like that on facebook. Got talking for about some weeks. Did video calls like twice then took her on a date once where we drank wine.

My motive was to knack the puna cause she told me she was a virgin and I have never disvirgined a lady before cuz I can't stand blood on my deek. I always flee from virgins but this time around, I thought I should give it a go

To cut the long story short, I asked her to be my girlfriend after 2 days...I think a wednesday and she said she is not ready for a relationship yet. That she wants to finish school first...she cant really be committed....blah blah blah (in my mind I was like, "who told you I want long term"?

I told her I understand and its fine. She sent me like 3 or four casual messages the next day or so then I stopped replying and deleted her number. Didnt want to invest my time on her cause I had other potential punas to process.

After like 2 weeks or so of no contact cuz i don forget about her completely sef... Next thing I saw was that she sent me friend request on facebook.

What the fvck does this girl want :

Make I sha accept make I see wetin she go talk.


My question is, why will a lady who does not want to be in a relationship yet with a guy still follow up with the guy? Mature responses abeg

Daroldigits:
you are of the idiots out there that always look for girls for sex....ode

You dey fvck up o

ElasticStone:
I met one relatively fine babe like that on facebook. Got talking for about some weeks. Did video calls like twice then took her on a date once where we drank wine.

My motive was to knack the puna cause she told me she was a virgin and I have never disvirgined a lady before cuz I can't stand blood on my deek. I always flee from virgins but this time around, I thought I should give it a go

To cut the long story short, I asked her to be my girlfriend after 2 days...I think a wednesday and she said she is not ready for a relationship yet. That she wants to finish school first...she cant really be committed....blah blah blah (in my mind I was like, "who told you I want long term"?

I told her I understand and its fine. She sent me like 3 or four casual messages the next day or so then I stopped replying and deleted her number. Didnt want to invest my time on her cause I had other potential punas to process.

After like 2 weeks or so of no contact cuz i don forget about her completely sef... Next thing I saw was that she sent me friend request on facebook.

What the fvck does this girl want :

Make I sha accept make I see wetin she go talk.


My question is, why will a lady who does not want to be in a relationship yet with a guy still follow up with the guy? Mature responses abeg

Mr Elasticstone thank God you are back online
How have u been?
Do you remember me?
The guy you promised to give something
On this threat(God did Not Only Butter My Bread, He Added Fried Egg On Top )
You said I should remind you on the 15th of this month if the promise is not yet full filled
Check your mail
Ve sent you many messages
But no reply
Kindly reply me

Nothing wrong with what she did or what she is doing now. She is trying to form expensive. Keep pushing the kpekus will soon be yours.

ElasticStone:
I met one relatively fine babe like that on facebook. Got talking for about some weeks. Did video calls like twice then took her on a date once where we drank wine.

My motive was to knack the puna cause she told me she was a virgin and I have never disvirgined a lady before cuz I can't stand blood on my deek. I always flee from virgins but this time around, I thought I should give it a go

To cut the long story short, I asked her to be my girlfriend after 2 days...I think a wednesday and she said she is not ready for a relationship yet. That she wants to finish school first...she cant really be committed....blah blah blah (in my mind I was like, "who told you I want long term"? angry

I told her I understand and its fine. She sent me like 3 or four casual messages the next day or so then I stopped replying and deleted her number. Didnt want to invest my time on her cause I had other potential punas to process.

After like 2 weeks or so of no contact cuz i don forget about her completely sef... Next thing I saw was that she sent me friend request on facebook.

What the fvck does this girl want angry angry :

Make I sha accept make I see wetin she go talk.


My question is, why will a lady whoMr Elasticstone thank God you are back online
How have u been?
Do you remember me?
The guy you promised to give something
On this threat(God did Not Only Butter My Bread, He Added Fried Egg On Top )
You said I should remind you on the 15th of this month if the promise is not yet full filled
Check your mail
Ve sent you many messages
But no reply
Kindly reply me

Elasticstone thank God you are back online
How have u been?
Do you remember me?
The guy you promised to give something
On this threat(God did Not Only Butter My Bread, He Added Fried Egg On Top )
You said I should remind you on the 15th of this month if the promise is not yet full filled
Check your mail
Ve sent you many messages
But no reply
Kindly reply me