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I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Casalindal(f): 10:49pm On Oct 23
Hello everyone

I can’t keep this any longer I’m dying and I feel I am hating my baby every day I need help I don’t know what is wrong with me. Could this be spiritual? Or do I just naturally hate my babe. Someone please help
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Froshloaded(m): 10:53pm On Oct 23
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Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by ArcFresky(m): 10:54pm On Oct 23
lol, calm down joor....
Naa Buhari cause am, find comedy to watch...

if I may ask, what do you hate about the baby?
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Casalindal(f): 10:56pm On Oct 23
ArcFresky:
lol, calm down joor....
Naa Buhari cause am, find comedy to watch...

if I may ask, what do you hate about the baby?

I feel having this babe has cause me to add weight and all my social life is gone I’m exhausted
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by kaymart: 11:01pm On Oct 23
pls, go have ur brain examined
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Nobody: 11:01pm On Oct 23
Ode! ,,,, sad

You better start to think before you talk,,,,,,,,smiley

The baby wey you carry hin belle for 9 months,, probably breastfeed him for 3 to 4 years,,,, you now talk say you don dey hate ham,,,,,,chai

God which Kain modern mothers full dis world like this,,,,,,,,,,,

God will i marry like this,,,,,

Because the thing dey tire me,,,,

How will you begin to form any hatred for your baby,,,,,,,,?

Shey you adopted him or her nii,,,,,,if yes dat doesn't even call for hatred,,,,,,

Even some certain things cannot be spiritualized easily,,,,,,

OP you don't get sense oo,, kindly think about what you wrote,,,,, aswear this nah trash nah,,,,,

I fit slap you if you're beside me,,,, wetin you dey talk self?


Dem pour the sperm inside your pussy?,,,,,,

, See the way you enjoyed the sex you must enjoy talking care of the baby also,,,, idiot,,,!!

Just think and wise up,,,,,❤️
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Theslumflower: 11:05pm On Oct 23
This is a real issue women face and it's so scary embarassed

I believe you will be fine. Just stay strong. Just know that your baby is a miracle. You brought a human being to this world, you should be proud of yourself because I am smiley

That is enough miracle on its own. Just know that those scars and weight and an indication of how strong a woman you are smiley

Sadly, so many women go through this phase after childbirth. I am not yet a mother so I might not really be in the right position to advice. I think the mod should take this to family section, I believe a lot of mothers over there will be of great help.


You will be fine darling.

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Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by ArcFresky(m): 11:06pm On Oct 23
Casalindal:


I feel having this babe has cause me to add weight and all my social life is gone I’m exhausted


ooohhh, I see...its something you are not used to.

You should be proud of your baby.
You may not realize it now, but you have got the best thing in the world, the pause in your social life is just temporary. Your weight will get back to pre-pregnancy if you just discipline yourself and exercise, especially if you don't eat once its 6:00pm

but honestly, you got your priorities wrong,
Cos at the end of the day, friends will leave, but a mother and her child are inseparable.
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by delishpot: 11:08pm On Oct 23
My dear, its common with women who are stressed with no one they can depend on to take over care of the baby to catch some rest. You are not alone in this. I once met a new mom who was in a stressful situation after having her first baby. She had to live with her mom in law who was super controlling and offered no help at all rather mama would gossip the new mother with all the neighbours telling them she was a bad mom. To crown it all her husband was not around. It was just this wife and her mom in law with the adult brother in law who goes about his thing. When asked how she felt this new mom said.... I feel like putting baby in the microwave and turning it on. She said now she knows why moms kill their newborns. shocked a neighbour around just said please o, when never the baby cires and you feel frustrated pls bring baby to me o. Don't put it in the microwave o.

My dear sis, you can fix it by looking at your innocent baby and telling yourself that it did not force its way into your womb, it was born into this world where it needs love and support from you to thrive. You owe it all the love you can get until you breathe your last cos that child is an extension of you. Many women will prefer to loose their beauty than see their lil one lose a hair in its head. You have a very precious thing in your arms. Your loyalty is to it and pray that God gives you the strength to love your child come what may.
Please don't hurt your child, don't destroy it mentally either. You are it's God at the moment.

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Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by wowdiva: 11:11pm On Oct 23
Casalindal:
Hello everyone

I can’t keep this any longer I’m dying and I feel I am hating my baby every day I need help I don’t know what is wrong with me. Could this be spiritual? Or do I just naturally hate my babe. Someone please help

Hugs mummy. I had same thing when I had my baby, I used to cry alot and nobody understood what I was going through, it's a very difficult phase. If you can try and have people around you and being lonely makes it worse, Dont stress yourself with house chores and try to do things that will take your mind away from it. Remember your baby is a precious gift from God. Reach out to me if you need someone to talk to.

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Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Casalindal(f): 11:16pm On Oct 23
wowdiva:


Hugs mummy. I had same thing when I had my baby, I used to cry alot and nobody understood what I was going through, it's a very difficult phase. If you can try and have people around you and being lonely makes it worse, Dont stress yourself with house chores and try to do things that will take your mind away from it. Remember your baby is a precious gift from God. Reach out to me if you need someone to talk to.

Sad thing is I’m not in Nigeria so I don’t have access to my family I’m all alone here and my husband is a spoil rich kid that doesn’t know left or right either
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Casalindal(f): 11:26pm On Oct 23
Thanks dear wish it’s that easy

delishpot:
My dear, its common with women who are stressed with no one they can depend on to take over care of the baby to catch some rest. You are not alone in this. I once met a new mom who was in a stressful situation after having her first baby. She had to live with her mom in law who was super controlling and offered no help at all rather mama would gossip the new mother with all the neighbours telling them she was a bad mom. To crown it all her husband was not around. It was just this wife and her mom in law with the adult brother in law who goes about his thing. When asked how she felt this new mom said.... I feel like putting baby in the microwave and turning it on. She said now she knows why moms kill their newborns. shocked a neighbour around just said please o, when never the baby cires and you feel frustrated pls bring baby to me o. Don't put it in the microwave o.

My dear sis, you can fix it by looking at your innocent baby and telling yourself that it did not force its way into your womb, it was born into this world where it needs love and support from you to thrive. You owe it all the love you can get until you breathe your last cos that child is an extension of you. Many women will prefer to loose their beauty than see their lil one lose a hair in its head. You have a very precious thing in your arms. Your loyalty is to it and pray that God gives you the strength to love your child come what may.
Please don't hurt your child, don't destroy it mentally either. You are it's God at the moment.
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by mobo76503: 7:12am On Oct 24
lol, calm down joor.... Naa Buhari cause am, find comedy to watch...if I may ask, what do you hate about the baby?
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 7:18am On Oct 24
Fact1:
Ode! ,,,, sad

You better start to think before you talk,,,,,,,,smiley

The baby wey you carry hin belle for 9 months,, probably breastfeed him for 3 to 4 years,,,, you now talk say you don dey hate ham,,,,,,chai

God which Kain modern mothers full dis world like this,,,,,,,,,,,

God will i marry like this,,,,,

Because the thing dey tire me,,,,

How will you begin to form any hatred for your baby,,,,,,,,?

Shey you adopted him or her nii,,,,,,if yes dat doesn't even call for hatred,,,,,,

Even some certain things cannot be spiritualized easily,,,,,,

OP you don't get sense oo,, kindly think about what you wrote,,,,, aswear this nah trash nah,,,,,

I fit slap you if you're beside me,,,, wetin you dey talk self?


Dem pour the sperm inside your pussy?,,,,,,

, See the way you enjoyed the sex you must enjoy talking care of the baby also,,,, idiot,,,!!

Just think and wise up,,,,,❤️
Oh boy d thing pepper u , no be small
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 7:26am On Oct 24
embarassed
embarassed
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Nobody: 7:50am On Oct 24
PrinceofAgoAre:
Oh boy d thing pepper u , no be small


Aswear the thing pain me die,,,,,how will a mother say all this trash,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


You wan start to dey creat hatred for your child imagine,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,


And later they will come out to say that men don't care or wanna take care of their children,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

When they will be chasing dick up and down,,,,,,,,,the basic knowledge they need as a woman they won't learn it,,,, but wanna behave like a child of the world,,,,,,,, aswear this OP is an idiot,,,,,,,,,,,,you think say all the beuty and banging body won't fade away one day,,,,,,,,ode!! ,,,, Eleribuu,,,,,sad

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Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by skillmyman(m): 7:53am On Oct 24
see a psychologist not a psychiatrist.

some women are like that.
after a while you will be back to your hot shape.
work at it n love your baby.

cheers
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Freelane33(m): 8:05am On Oct 24
Which kind thing be this

Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by delishpot: 2:39pm On Oct 24
Casalindal:

Thanks dear wish it’s that easy


No one said it was easy o. I am only saying it takes conscious effort. I am saying you have to remind yourself everyday. I am saying you have to stay positive. It's like telling a widow(er) not to cry, not to give up, to stay strong and positive. We all know it's not that easy for them but does that still change the reality on ground? It needs courage if you can't do it coragiously go to a qualified person a psychologist or a psychiatrist for evaluation and or medication
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Truvel(m): 3:31pm On Oct 24
Ah, U Again? What Is It Dis Time?
Re: I’m Having Serious POSTPARTUM by Godada: 4:01pm On Oct 24
Casalindal:
Hello everyone

I can’t keep this any longer I’m dying and I feel I am hating my baby every day I need help I don’t know what is wrong with me. Could this be spiritual? Or do I just naturally hate my babe. Someone please help


This is just natural. Trust me. In time this will go away. Is there any older woman you can talk to? Believe me, there you are going through a phase that most times is seriously misunderstood and kept a secret. Anyway.....you are not alone

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