₦airaland Forum

Myhusband:
If you're dating a jobless and financial handicapped lady you can't be so sure that you can't beside you're not focusing on the right direction


Can't she express herself? I'm not saying she shouldn't go to school but what other potentials does she have to move the future with you


See I don't want you guys to fall victims anyhow, my babe I've to nurtured, enlightened and orientated her despite she was a graduate before we could be reasoning together. Now imagine i met a lady that was already nurtured, enlightened and orientated before I met her? I go don move pass this level

In a nutshell, what do you suggest?

icenti:
In a nutshell, what do you suggest?

Move with a lady on the same/above your page. Don't date anyone that will drag you back where you've passed

The assistance u mentioned here.is it free or just human connection? Cos I knw nothing is FREE as far as admission is consign.

icenti:
Quite where I said I spend on her? I'm not a simp

icenti:
;DYou highlighted the keynotes out. I worried how it will make her feel even though I know it's the best thing for her

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Bro in the journey of life, always put yourself and your aspirations first...love yourself 10 times before you love someone else once...consider yourself 10 times before you consider someone else first...if that same girl had been in your position to make this decision, what makes you think she might have considered your feelings? Its a 50-50 thing that she might or might not...so now sit down and put your plans on a piece of paper and if she doesn't fit in bro, let her go...life is too short to string anyone along or play by the rules of others...her taste in guys might change immediately she gets to school bro so just focus on your life and forge ahead...cheers

Davash222:
1: she drinks and seem a bit slutty
2: she's 20
3: she stays alone
4: she's yet to be admitted yet she stays alone
5: her parents are not the one providing for her necessities.
6: you're just 23
7: your friends are 90% right. Listen to them
8: you don't need a messiah to tell you that girl is into illicit acts. have you met any of her female friends?
9: investing on a Nigerian girlfriend is Investment of no Return.
10: stay away from Nigerian girls!



Bye.

You're the sign I needed from God.

So in your delusional mind anybody without a university education is an illiterate

Gabbyodogwu:
So in your delusional mind anybody without a university education is an illiterate

I came from a poor home. Without education which my mom had, I don't think we would have be able to make it. If I had never gone to school I probably won't be where I am today. I don't know where you're from but I respect education not the certificate but the experience you gain from attending formal education. You may never know the difference if you've never been to one


Just so you know, I don't have a delusional mind. I'm only acting based upon my experience.

Apply wisdom

icenti:
You're the sign I needed from God.

I'm glad you could identify the sign.

icenti:
I came from a poor home. Without education which my mom had, I don't think we would have be able to make it. If I had never gone to school I probably won't be where I am today. I don't know where you're from but I respect education not the certificate but the experience you gain from attending formal education. You may never know the difference if you've never been to one


Just so you know, I don't have a delusional mind. I'm only acting based upon my experience.

Education definitely is good but without education one will definitely make it imagine being a business tycoon then you are conferred with a honorary degree. In one topic the question was what will you tell your younger self I said i will tell my self not to go to university rather learn a skill

icenti:
Take a blue pill bro. I won't train her to university, that's one of the worse decision you can make as a young man

assuming am in ur shoe i will ask her if she will marry me , if she says yes i will Marry her and make sure she as giving birth to 2 children b4 she graduate from university . But u have ur decision to make . good luck.

23 years ?
Too young for now