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Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by ITbomb(m): 1:38pm On May 22, 2020 |
Why am I the only one thinking the guy should go ahead? Marriage for that woman would mean detaching forever from her late husband lineage and name. And I suppose she cherish the husband's memory and the son but she needs that babies especially a girl from her blood to keep her active and lively But then, I am an amoral Christian, Nigerians don't understand me 7 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Ohizman73(m): 1:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
ITbomb: who told you i and some other good contributors have told the man to go ahead with the same reasons as you. have you not been following the treads and contributors and my imput. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Ohizman73(m): 2:00pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy:Of course it is for PROCREATION not for gratification. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Ohizman73(m): 2:09pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy:In as the wife has brought up the issue,you have to ask her why she did not have other children all these interval of 12 years. Which is very very strange for an African. am sure that only son was pampered and treated like an egg.how sad the boy lost his father at such childhood. you own it an obligation to take care of that boy and also ensure he gets brothers and sisters too. so he cannot be robbed of life because he lost his father due to no fault of his. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Sixfeetbelle: 2:18pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy: If you must do this request, involve the elders, at least 3 older men in your family to discuss on this issue and get their acceptance. Tell them what she said, tell them you're interested and let them decide if you're the right man for the job or not. If you jump over them and do this, you'll be committing a lot of atrocities. First of, her sleeping with a married man is wrong. Second, your child with her won't be seen as your uncle's, which should be the intent behind her request, but as your child and that is adultery; more like betrayal to your uncle. Whatever you're being advised here must only be done after you get the go-ahead to impregnate her cause even in the olden days, a man was chosen by the elders to impregnate a widow to continue the family's lineage, he didn't do it of his own volition. That's tradition. Follow it. 13 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by RealEzee(m): 2:20pm On May 22, 2020 |
femi4:the issue is what does is it make the ancients if not followers of God cos they believed in christ and followed the law given to them? Cos from all indications in the scripture they served God according to the law given to them(a schoolmaster)looking forward to christ and it was accounted unto them for righteousness. What then do you call the ancients if not Christians? |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Modesthy: 2:50pm On May 22, 2020 |
Ohizman73:You have said well and I'm grateful dear. But please how do u see in Christianity perspective? I'm a kind of a person who believe in heaven and hell. But I have tried to find scripture that's for or against the act but couldn't. That's I take to this forum. I don't want to meet my religious leaders over the issue. I'm looking forward to to your response. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Ohizman73(m): 4:09pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy: Your predicament and your uncles wife is very unfourtunate such painfulcircumstances. am a xtian like yourself ,i look up to my bible for spiritual guidance and would try to conote to doing according to such ascribed. the issue of religion is sensitive because of the way people have distorted it. Already on this tread some religious sentiments came up. i as a xtian quickly aired my view as my contributor was trying to claim awareness.I was happy some other contributor took it up. as i was not even ready to start a baseless arguement when a serious and controversial issue was at stake. even in what we see in the bible are the traditions of the middle east(Palestine) on marriage,inheritance and all aspects of life.Which we now claim are xtian acts.There has always been some absurb arguments as the bible is against women wearing trousers as they are mens clothing bla bla bla. Somebody even brought the issue of God striking one of somebody dead because he refused to refused to impregnate his late brothers widowed wife in other to continue the family lineage as was their custom not a sin. i can reference if he was married with his own family. somebody incounter reaction brought another version up.an arguement ensured that is why i dont like harboring religious sentiments.What i would say is we should just pray to God for not to fall into such predicament .Do you took ifsomebody told your uncles wife in a lifetime that she would stoop so low to shed her dignity to approach you on such request she would ever believe.take the issue of Ruth in the Bible and the story. What i would say is that God knows your mind you never lusted after your uncles wife ,just as she also never lusted after you. She is all an epitone of a righteous woman to have endured and stood by your uncle till he died. despite his infertility problem.So much emotions on ground as shes widowed with no companion but just one child.Even if you give her all the money in the world to marry a billionare she would NOT even in the name of another child. as she would see it as a betrayal of ur uncle and her dignity.if that ur uncles wife had up to two more children and ur brother now died.do you think she would think of that matter and not resign herself to fate and work towards giving them the best in life. And moreover never marry not to talk of another man crossing her legs till she dies.Ave said my best how i wish i could speak to you on phone or whatever medium to really counsel you. but with i have said you are a man.the onus lies with you,youare not my family. the life of the family of your late uncle is in your hands.SO HIS WIFE. 8 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Saintmary(f): 4:24pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy:For a woman whom you see as a mom to make this kind of request of you means she has given it a lot of thought. Chances are, she might have consulted one or two elders discretely. 14 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Asquare84(m): 4:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
Ohizman73: You are asking him question as if he is God that give children 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Modesthy: 4:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
Saintmary:I think her mum is involved in this her decision. 4 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by definateli: 5:32pm On May 22, 2020 |
Do sperm donation for her at a fertility clinic. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Misscongenialit: 6:19pm On May 22, 2020 |
Lionessza6: Dear Op, listen to this and flee from that woman, she wants to destroy your famiky and marriage. She is a widow and free to remarry, dnt create a problem that you and your generation will never recover from. After havinv a son it is upkeep, next u have two homes and two wives with children that will grow up to hate you and their step siblings. Pls for the sake of your wife n children ,avoid her pls tell all this story to your wife you will be amazed at how she will settle this matter ,be wise and ask yourself how will your uncle feel after all he did for u One son for a dead man is enough, she's asking for her selfish lust 11 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by scoundrel(f): 8:48pm On May 22, 2020 |
Creative writer of the week. 3 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 8:48pm On May 22, 2020 |
Whats the name of the home video. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by EyezofGod120: 8:49pm On May 22, 2020 |
Your egungun wanto enter express o 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Joystark(f): 8:49pm On May 22, 2020 |
Na wa o. You'll just make your life unnecessarily complex. 8 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by mechanics(m): 8:49pm On May 22, 2020 |
It's ungodly, don't do it, advise her to remarry 4 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Edusouls(m): 8:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
People go and dance with the devil thinking they are smart and wise, but at last the devil always I mean always wins.. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Richieniit: 8:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
what are you asking us again? Shebi you said you "refused" kwo? Modesthy: |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by mmsen: 8:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
All you people claim to follow one Abrahamic religion or another but none of you heed the first lesson - women will lead you to hell. Get away from that woman. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy: Just don't accede to her overtures for these 3 reasons I'm going to give you. 1. Even at his death, your uncle will never be happy with this (you over this) 2. You have your own wife and family, how does she feel if it happens? 3. Ask yourself, will my family receive this as honour if it eventually happens and they get to know about it. If you could not give affirmative answer, then stay off. Truthfully speaking, this happens everywhere. It now depends on you, do you have any dignity you want to protect or not? To me, that will be a shameful act. 7 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nwaonyishi69: 8:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
Even among soldiers there is 'Mercy killing'. It is legal and logical, my fear is how it may affect your innocent wife. It may turn to katakata if she finds out; yet, it is not easy to hide love for too long. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by INCREDIBLE007(m): 8:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
THIS IS HOW TO CRASH YOUR LIFE 101
run for your life ooo
op 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Armani84: 8:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
Is not advisable 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Kay25(m): 8:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
for the sake of your wife and children please don't thread in that path.thank God she has a child for the family already let the family release her and go marry. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by promotervickky(m): 8:55pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Igando666: 8:55pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Kbs468(m): 8:55pm On May 22, 2020 |
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Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by nengibo: 8:56pm On May 22, 2020 |
Lionessza6:She might want him to take care of financial needs too |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Afamed: 8:56pm On May 22, 2020 |
The fact you are wasting your talent surprises me. You will do better in life as a movie director 1 Like |
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