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Francisco Tchikuteny Sabalo Dead: Angolan Man Who Had 281 Children From 47 Wives / My Uncle's Wife Is Cheating On Him, I Need Help / Twin Sisters Dedicate Children From One Husband In Akwa Ibom. Photos (2) (3) (4)
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by thedio(m): 9:23pm On May 22|
Ohizman73:words frm elder.Agba o ni tan lorile. May u live long
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by jcflex(m): 9:24pm On May 22|
bros you very funny ooo, so old testament is no longer valid at this point.
so why are our pastors still collecting tithes, is tithes inside new testament, was it not fr old testament it originate from.
everybody jst select whatever suit deir present condition and move on
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by femmyapson(m): 9:24pm On May 22|
pin ko, code ni..
Meanwhile the laptop looks sick..
I pray u find a buyer
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by HeightsKE: 9:25pm On May 22|
Your uncle's brothers should be the ones not you,that's if at all.
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by tunary(m): 9:25pm On May 22|
No dulling o, there are so many people who renders such service temporary//permanent service, we have so many of them even here on this forum. if you can't do the job people plenty wey need am, enemyofprogress number1. even if she no fine self them go manage her like that
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by KaptainAfrika: 9:25pm On May 22|
First of all, what are her stats - front and back, facial...
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Hancycool111: 9:26pm On May 22|
This is a matter of choice,a battle between faith and tradition. wisdom is profitable to direct.
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by grandstar(m): 9:26pm On May 22|
Let the marriage bed be free of Fornication- Hebrews 13:4. What does that mean to you? Read the full verse and ask yourself what it means.
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by saintneo(m): 9:27pm On May 22|
IVF option. Donate sperm via fertility clinic with your wife's consent.
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nellsworld(m): 9:29pm On May 22|
My advice is that
1) i think you just a church goer, cos if you are a Christian, you wouldn't think of this, pls kindly read 1 Corinthians 7, it will help you.
2) people telling you to give her more kids, wouldn't be there to help you when troubles start, definitely there will be serious trouble.
3) if she wants more kids, she should go and abduct a child or children, they are looking for new homes
4) In this tym and Nigeria condition under buhari you want to start running two homes
5) only thing you are obligated is to train ur late uncle's son, by the way if you agree, what are the chances of her giving birth cos she's in her 40s and in Science, her chances are slim
6) How will your uncle feel inside his grave, a woman that you took as a mother is now your lover, forget tradition, even in tradition, if you were ur uncle's direct younger brother, who is older than the woman, it is a different story, but you are his nephew
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by fairfora: 9:29pm On May 22|
promotervickky:I have noticed that too...just to draw traffic . The OP registered today and I've commented about this earlier. There are some monikers here who love posting fake love stories. Before i read or comment, I'd first look up their profile to know if they've posted something similar in the past...but truly, I know someone in my family who's in this guy's shoes. They had kids and all her children she had for the man are well-to-do today. The man is over 60 years old now
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Alxmyr(m): 9:31pm On May 22|
This is dicey.
First, her request was out of strong consideration and reflection. If your uncle was a man of substance, I think you should consider it with the consent of the family member.
If he is not, take responsibility of the Child he left behind and encourage the woman to find someone else.
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Chirowman(m): 9:32pm On May 22|
this issue is heavy
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Capitalgtime: 9:32pm On May 22|
[quote author=Modesthy post=89821126]I had a good uncle who passed away three years ago. His wife morned him for one year. I lived with that my uncle until I got married and parked to my own house.
I use to visit the house sometimes. After the mourning, his wife called me and told me that I should give her more children. She has only one male child. I refused. But She said I should do it for her because she doesn't want children outside the family because she loved my uncle and our family and that she can't continue to stay with only one child.
I'm completely confused. First I'm married doing that is infidelity, sencondly, the uncle was like a father to me before his death. And I see it as a big sin.
Please somebody should help me, my dear i will speak as an igbo man, though i don't kwn wia u are from. By our tradition u commit no sin especial if yur immediate father is late and u ar d only man left with such capacity, afterall in igboland our fathers had children 4 their step mom, when d nids aris
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by IprintMONEY: 9:34pm On May 22|
i can help you as your distant cousin na
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by sircatherine45: 9:36pm On May 22|
also he must involve hiz wife in this
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by yommen: 9:37pm On May 22|
Oga, she should remarry. Make I give her picken begin scatter my own family? By the way, is there no a more elderly person in the family that can grant her wishfull wish? How come she only has a child with the uncle? @Op, you will have to start servicing that woman from time to time o. So oo, please don't do it.
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by BareFacedLies(m): 9:37pm On May 22|
He can impregnate the woman and not tell his wife
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by OlawaleBammie(m): 9:39pm On May 22|
The only tin dat should deter u is d fact that u re married, if not den i dont see any sin in it.
Even in the Bible it was practised, u can ask JUDAH if u doubt me.....then what the heck
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Danester: 9:40pm On May 22|
My brother, any child you have outside your matrimonial home will definitely cause you pain later in future. Refusal to accept those children as your own leads to abject poverty and many bad things in the future. The mystery behind what many people are suffering today is as a result of past mistakes or careless life of the past which can never be corrected again.
Flee to protect your future from complications that's is very devastating at old age.
You will not suffer at old age ooo. Amin
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Benferdy(m): 9:41pm On May 22|
I believe she has love for the family, that's why she proposed that to you(at least someone she has been with before the husband died).
I also believe that she is responsible type because most ladies don't even care rather roaming around sleeping with men having kids outside which will be a kind of shame to the family and keeps them talking about her action.
Bro, the best advise you can get, is from a few elders of your family.
Think about this 50:50..... consider her feelings, consider your uncle also consider yourself. Remember, nothing is new in this life .
Life is a movie, everyone busy playing his/her own character. No one has the right to state or judge what is right or wrong, the wise will only be busy playing that character that contributes to its history after him/her.
remember: lot's daughters slept with their father and begot him children by going against the law to retain their father's history.
I believe you are now a man (look things beyond the optical view ) never join the chorus of the audience .
Benferdy Nwafeenna: has spoken
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by BareFacedLies(m): 9:41pm On May 22|
It could be any male in the husband's family.
According to tradition the widow is give the option to choose any male she likes to impregnate her
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Capitalgtime: 9:41pm On May 22|
tunary:if sneke dose,nt act like it should, little children will use it after fetching dry wood to tire it together....food of thought...
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by prekumohtim(m): 9:42pm On May 22|
Check your family's tradition and seek advice from your elders. In Ijaw land(Bayelsa), it is customary for a younger man to inherit his late father/brother's wife but you also have the right to say no . If you say no, the woman has the right to look for husband outside the family. My dad rejected his late dad's wife, til the rejection she had no right to look for suitor outside the family. Few years ago, my uncle who is yet to marry also rejected his late elder brother's wife. It means these things are fading off.
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by sircatherine45: 9:46pm On May 22|
kurlz:are the older men not probably married too?
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:47pm On May 22|
This man say u want to chop your dead uncle's wife and stop with all these sermon.
Shameful man. Look at your reason.
What of those that have only one child?
She couldn't conceive when her husband was alive, now she is approaching menopause she will conceive.
All of a sudden u want to nyansh somebody u see as a mother figure.
U guys are shameless. And people are actually supporting this abomination?
Some qouted bible too.
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by BayMc(m): 9:47pm On May 22|
whichever way you choose to handle this issue eventually sir, her "having children" with you is a no-no!
If she wants to remarry, she should just do it!
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:48pm On May 22|
BareFacedLies:Which tradition are u guys talking about?
20th century or 21st?
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:48pm On May 22|
At least, somebody with sense.
What l read here wanna make me puke
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by juman(m): 9:49pm On May 22|
In yoruba land, it is called opo susu (to inherit dead mans wife).
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by truentalk: 9:49pm On May 22|
clintz:We select the one that favor us
|Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Macon1212: 9:49pm On May 22|
Story for the gods. You as the producer of this movie, it may be undeniable that you father the only male child before you leave their house and the woman wants you to finish the job you started
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