Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,329 members, 7,954,334 topics. Date: Friday, 20 September 2024 at 04:53 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me (85692 Views)
My Dead Neighbour / My Uncle Wife Is Insensitive / Father Bathes His New Born Baby: "My Wife Needs Rest" (Photos) (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (15) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by DrChukki: 9:49pm On May 22, 2020 |
clintz: Same thing that came to my mind. In the old mosaic biblical culture is allowed. Even in Igbo land is allowed. But the person should be a direct brother to the late man and not his nephew. So OP, what the woman is demanding for is not evil, neither is it wrong, just that you're not the right person except your late uncle has no other biological brother alive |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Legislator: 9:50pm On May 22, 2020 |
For her to be suggesting such That her only child might not even be your uncles
|
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:50pm On May 22, 2020 |
Its a lie! She just want you to sleep with her. Prolly crushing on you. Why does it have to be you that is already married? Are there no other unmarried family members she can chose from. If she truly wants to have more children, let her go and remarry or forget about it. You need to be careful at this point. In fact, stop going there. If you like go cos I know you men. Just avoid her. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by wiseoneking: 9:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
fulaniHERDSman:Beautiful 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by JustAboyy: 9:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
Bola146:From his tone it's obvious he's shagging the wife. They are now torn on whether to get pregnant for him or not, that's what brought him here. It is obvious... |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Shedrack777: 9:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy:my advice is if you have to do it, let it be through artificial insermination. but no matter what, don't have sex with her. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:51pm On May 22, 2020 |
Legislator: Get a life. This does not speak well of you as an adult. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Kubernetes: 9:52pm On May 22, 2020 |
clintz: I again looked at Genesis 38 V 8-10. I couldn't believe that was in the. Bible. Is that verse for real? 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by lawrenzooo: 9:52pm On May 22, 2020 |
If you are financial buoyant you for IVF with her and be the sperm donor. My thought anyway. Modesthy: |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Deloo: 9:52pm On May 22, 2020 |
Don't do it o, the dead and his colleagues Will not forgive you o. The implications are God forbids, you might end up like your uncle cos what goes around comes around "law of carmmer", no 2 bad luck, no 3 bad dream for sleeping with the wife of the dead illegally. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:52pm On May 22, 2020 |
saintneo:He won't do that. Rather he want to dive into free pusssy. If the woman didn't conceive after one yr, he will continue till whenever. Want free access to that pussssy but is feeling guilty. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Halo22: 9:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
Hmmmm. This is really a critical case, but that depends on the custom of ur people. For the woman to make such request, it shows she has good plans for ur uncle's lineage cos only son doesn't guarantee continuous existence of the man's name as anything can happen to him, and the woman could be sonless. However, if she would not hold u to ransome in future over such affair, I think u can help her out on a well outlined condition. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by RuggedSniper: 9:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
Ohizman73: |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
JustAboyy:Smart u. U see what is going on here. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Stomoney(m): 9:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
This is proper in Yoruba land once the whole family is aware of it. You know what is good for you bro 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by dozies: 9:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
OP which is your tribe. Even as a Christian though in thenold testament the bible permits you to marry the widow from your lineage to raise ofsprings for your dead brothers and uncles. Since this request is coming from your uncles widow, if you don't oblige her it will be counted as high level selfishness and wickedness from your part. What do you expect the young widow to do? Spread her legs to outsiders when you are there and you call your self a man.! Please do the needful for your Uncle and your family 4 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by LovelyDude(m): 9:56pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy:You can do it and there's no sin in it, in Yoruba culture and in Hebrew culture when a woman's husband dies she is given as wife to another one of his relatives so you are keeping an ancient tradition and by giving her children fulfilling your rightful duties so long as the man is older than you, if he's younger then you can't do it. So-called civilization have taken away a good part of our culture. Do it and produce seed for your uncle. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by wiseoneking: 9:56pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy:is this your latest achievement and does it worth it? who cares whether you are igbo or Hausa. Wrong is wrong and surely the effects will bomarang either in your life or after. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by 12inchess: 9:56pm On May 22, 2020 |
This was common in the old testament in the bible. And was record severally And it was a sin or dishonorable not to do it. Christianity doesn't practice this anymore but we still pay tithe. Men of God why? |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
henryelfhel: Which tradition? 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by ultimateprof: 9:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
clintz: According tradition and culture including the Holy Bible its not a bad thing to help her out because she is even honest by not wanting to pollute your lineage with unknown blood, forget about those who are suggesting several things without proper knowledge of tradition. To be honest I will like you to consider her request because it is not wrong biblically. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by LovelyDude(m): 9:58pm On May 22, 2020 |
Deloo:You don't know the Bible at all so shut up. The dead can do him no harm and what he's about to do is to produce seed for his uncle, read your bible well and see it's no sin. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 9:59pm On May 22, 2020 |
mrblessed:Shut up |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by dozies: 9:59pm On May 22, 2020 |
OP traditionally it's your right to do what she is asking you to do and it shall not be counted as a sin. If you are truly a christian. Remember the case of Ruth in the Bible. Infact it shall be counted against you as selfishness and wickedness. You don't really love that your uncle 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Lightman300(m): 10:00pm On May 22, 2020 |
clintz: Not true Sir/Ma. Onan was killed for his act of wickedness. It was allowed for a man (also called kinsman) related to another man who died without producing an offspring through his lawfully wedded wife to go into the woman and produce offspring on the behalf of the dead relative. This was of course not a willy-nilly (not do or die).It was volitional.Read Ruth 3-4, on the case of Boaz and Ruth. In the case of Onan,he spilled the seeds,aka sperm ,on the floor at the moment of ejaculation.This was deliberately an attempt not to produce seeds or children for his dead brother. The Owner of all spirits reckoned that to be wickedness, and Onan was slain. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 10:00pm On May 22, 2020 |
Lionessza6: The woman just wants to have a better hold on her late husband’s property. Even though she has a child, it doesn’t stop the husband’s family from stripping her off everything....because it is believed that once she remarries.... the properties are technically out of the family since she will take a new man’s name... with Modesthy, she can claim she’s still a “wife”...in that family The OP is a means to a bigger end....not a 10minute ecstasy 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Perfecttouchade: 10:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
Run with all your strength, it will destroy u and damage everything that u have built...For your Aluminium windows(Casement & casement burglary embedded), Sliding, Projected)doors(frameless doors), partitioning with Perfect Touch. whatsapp 08153665659. email: perfecttouchaluminium2012@yahoo.com https:///2348153665659✴️
|
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Okoroawusa: 10:01pm On May 22, 2020 |
Help the poor woman out if you can. If you can't you tell her you can't. I don't know if you r Igbo but the Igbo tradition allows you to father children for her even if u don't end up marrying her. She wants to keep the blood in the family. She doesn't want to bring outside blood for your family which she is also entitled to do. In Igbo culture you can't refuse a widow from getting pregnant if she so wishes 2 Likes |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by odinga1of: 10:02pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy: OP listen to Ohizman73 ( the guy is saying something easonabrea.) |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Legislator: 10:03pm On May 22, 2020 |
Eulalia:What’s wrong with what I said? |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by olancho: 10:06pm On May 22, 2020 |
Igbo tradition and culture, if you pregnant her she automatically becomes your wife and the children becomes your children except the one she had for your uncle. The woman is morally sound because she doesn't want to go outside and bring in children to the family. If she get pregnant outside it is still your uncle's children forget that he is late. In Igbo culture concubine doesn't claim children. It is very hard for a widow to remarry in Igbo land. Tell her that you are not interested if you don't want her because if you mention it to the elders of your family guy u don' get second wife be that. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Okoroawusa: 10:06pm On May 22, 2020 |
Lightman300:U r still emphasizing his point 2 Likes |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (15) (Reply)
Lady Announced Her Sister Was Missing But She Was Busy In The Bedroom With Men / Caught In The Web Of Affairs With My Wife's Friend / Mother Had Sex With Her Teen Daughter’s Husband
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 61 |