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Please is this statement true? This statement came out from a clergy.. I may not be perfect about his statement, but his statement passed a message that girls who remain virgins are a product of mums who married as virgins..But if you survey, you may get some truths on it.

Seriously

With the way the world is going, we pray girls dont get disvirgined from their mother's womb. Civilization is gradually destroying the world.

PARTIALLY TRUE

There is nothing very true about this. There is a very little to negligible correlation. But definitely no causality. There are many other factors that come into play.

The decision to have sex for a lady is dependent on many factors. I have seen chaste women produce sluts. I have also seen responsible men produce dogs and drug addicts as well. Practically producing mad men who are a menace to the street and area.

The only correlation is the fact that such parents MAY try to teach their kids to be like them. To keep themselves free from premarital sex.

However,most of them, they over do this and force this on the kids and it back fires. Totally. The kids go crazy, resist and do the opposite. The sluttiest girls I have met come from very good homes. Locked up in the house. Given strict rules with respect to boys. The Mothers were pastors in the church and dress neatly. Majority of these girls attend DeeperLife (not trying to insult them). One was a Jehovah's witness. Another Christ Apostolic Church. These same girls will lie, sneak out, at night. Especially the Jehovah's Witnesses Girl. In the compound she dated boys then she moved to the street. Dating boys and having sex. The more the presents try to catch them, the more exciting the adventure and adrenaline. The dopamine release they get from sneaking out becomes addictive. They rebel.

As a matter of fact, in the world of today parents have various factors to contend with. While you are teaching your daughter morals, men are there, peer pressure is there, social media is there, internet is there, all these are doing the opposite of what you are tying to achieve.

So no! Because a woman married as a virgin does not mean her daughter would. Most of our mothers married as virgins but A lot of the girls are sluts. At least where my mum comes from it was taboo and a big one at that.

Sexual desire and the need to satisfy it, is instinctive. It is how much you are able to convince the child about not doing it and about keeping himself /herself and if the child fully understands and wants to obey these rules that will matter.

make all of una just serious dey find virgins, with una community prick....mtchwww

Smh

xendra:
make all of una just serious dey find virgins, with una community prick....mtchwww

you don't need to tell us you are no virgin

xendra:
make all of una just serious dey find virgins, with una community prick....mtchwww

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It's unfortunate, no one is gonna find you. Cos you're in the village square opening for the whole community. **Community Hoe
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@ Op. Like my g use to say, if u marry Army, u go born fyne boy, if u marry Police, u go born thief. If you marry a virgin, congrats on finding someone who kept herself for you. As for the children?
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So help us God.

To a large extent true. The way mother sees virginity is what she is going to project to her daughters and most of them are likely going to tow that line once they hold their mum in high esteem

The clergy is mad.

hooha:
Please is this statement true? This statement came out from a clergy.. I may not be perfect about his statement, but his statement passed a message that girls who remain virgins are a product of mums who married as virgins..But if you survey, you may get some truths on it.

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xendra:
make all of una just serious dey find virgins, with una community prick....mtchwww

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Ferdinandu:
To a large extent true. The way mother sees virginity is what she is going to project to her daughters and most of them are likely going to tow that line once they hold their mum in high esteem

Very high esteem.