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Rexojie:
People has said so many things about masturbation, masturbation is as old as man, as it is one of the first sexual manipulations humans usually get involved in.

90percents of adults have masturbated in one time or the other.

A study conducted in the united state finds out about 74 percents of males and 48 percents of females between the age of 14-17years do masturbate and about 63 percent and 32 percent of females do masturbate in adulthood.

American Academy of Pediatrics and the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology recognize masturbation as a normal component of child and adolescent development and recommend that health care providers educate their patients that they are perfectly normal if they finds themselves masturbating.

There are no medical side effects of masturbation except it may become an unbreakable habits, which may linger on even in marriage, it could led to guilt because of our belief, it may results to penile skin excoriation if harmful substances are used as lubricants.

The females however may use instruments which can cause cervical injury and introduction of infections to the uterus, some may react to Dildos.


Outside this people believes masturbation causes the following:
1. Infertility: this is absolutely not correct as the commonest cause of infertility are PID, PCOS hormonal imbalance, noona syndrome in males and there is no journal pointing masturbation as a cause of infertility.

2. Premature Ejaculation: masturbation has no connection with premature ejaculation. in fact, people who masturbate tend to last longer in sex.

3. Body weakness: this is also no correct as masturbation also releases natural body endorphins which helps to cushion pains relaxing the nerves.

4. Blindness: another lies the commonest cause of blindness today is refractive errors, diabetic retinopathy and uncontrolled hypertension

5. Poor memory: this is another big lie masturbation doesn't make you have difficulty in recalling if you are dull see a neurologist.

6. Penile curvation: many men have penile curvation and its not because of masturbation although a more serious one called peyronies disease exist still its not caused by masturbation.

7. Low sperm count: its doesn't cause low sperm count however if you want to do sperm count you are even required to abstained from sex, but your testosterone will replenish the sperm.

8. Mental illness: masturbation has no connection with illness infact masturbation even elate individuals and relieves stress.
If you hear people talking to you or you hear voices see a psychiatrist.

9. Cancer: masturbation is not carcinogenic and research has it that men who ejaculate frequently has a lower risk of prostrate cancer.

Next time you are about to discourage someone from masturbating use Religion Either Islam or Christianity to discourage the person and not using unfounded medical myths.
For image illustration on Masturbation, check source

SOURCE: https://afrib.org.ng/2020/05/23/bursting-myth-about-masturbation/

Op.This is a complete false.Masturbation is beyond science to be honest.I don't understand how they claim it's harmless. I almost got blind as a result of masturbation,I am not talking any research but my personal experience. Back pain,depresion low libido,poor eye vision and swollen eyes are some of the many medical conditions I suffered as a result of masturbation. If I dare masturbate today the next few days will be hell for me,from nervous breakdown to many other pains.Forget science,masturbation has serious side effect.

abi na make them dey fire down be that...

DanseMacabre:
Guess what...You just made soapy crew's day.

vikkeee:
Who says Alcohol is not dangerous? Do you know what Liver Cirosis is?

have you heard about diabetes?

Have you heard about hypertension and obesity?

This are all caused by takin in excess of food.

Alcohol use only cause liver cirrhosis in excess and very prolonged abuse just as excess sugar causes diabetes.

And just of your head, do you think people die more from liver cirrhosis or diabetes?

themaestro08:
I disagree. Guilty of what exactly? Ashamed of who? And you say it affects ones self esteem? That's laughable not debatable.

Can you provide any scientific evidence to back up your assertions? I'll wait.

nofap forum is dedicated to quitting a harmless habit.

It has a section dedicated to building your confidence and self-esteem.

See, I don't need to give you any scientific backing. Almost anyone here who has madtubated will tell you they have this hollow feeling after the initial orgasm have died down.

Search for people's feeling about masturbation on Google or go to nofap and read the thought of people who are first hand masturbaters.

Rexojie:
People has said so many things about masturbation, masturbation is as old as man, as it is one of the first sexual manipulations humans usually get involved in.

90percents of adults have masturbated in one time or the other.

A study conducted in the united state finds out about 74 percents of males and 48 percents of females between the age of 14-17years do masturbate and about 63 percent and 32 percent of females do masturbate in adulthood..
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Staggering statistics. Personally, I've never done this before and I've been around for almost 3 decades, it's funny because I've literally watched my senior cousin brother do it when I was little. There's not even any inclination towards making an attempt. I'm sure they're many people like me. Sometimes I ask myself 'what if I'm into this shit?', if I were, believe me I wouldn't see women the way I do now, whether that's a good thing or not, I'm not fapping any time soon. The numbers for Nigeria may be less than these though.

jasent:
Op.This is a complete false.Masturbation is beyond science to be honest.I don't understand how they claim it's harmless. I almost got blind as a result of masturbation,I am not talking any research but my personal experience. Back pain,depresion low libido,poor eye vision and swollen eyes are some of the many medical conditions I suffered as a result of masturbation. If I dare masturbate today the next few days will be hell for me,from nervous breakdown to many other pains.Forget science,masturbation has serious side infect.

Do you feel the same way after having sex with a woman as well?. I'm just curious.

never under estimate the power of sexual fustration

thatthing111:
HAHAHAHA! This made me laugh out loud...just the other day, one of my friends was telling me how his wife had been denying him sex for three weeks, so one night, when she said her normal, 'please, I am tired' he brought out his dick and started masturbating right there on their bed. She got disgusted and asked him to stop. He didn't, so she left the room. lol! I understand why girlfriends might want to deny their boyfriends sex, but wives denying their husbands sex is something I just dont understand.

there could be other underlying factors. your signs may not be directly linked to masturbation

Legendre2:
Do you feel the same way after having sex with a woman as well?. I'm just curious.

Akunwafor:
Please get your facts right. Dopamine in all it's glory is esential to everday movement etc.

The dopamine from the ventral tegmental area is a reward chemical. It is secreted when you do/receive something enjoyable. This in turn causes the brain to tell you to keep getting more and more of that pleasurable thing that causes a release of dopamine hence an addiction.

So yes, Dopamine is what causes an addiction

https://www.sciencenewsforstudents.org/article/explainer-what-dopamine

You cannot be scared of an addition because you don't even know what you could end up getting addicted to. You know about alcohol, drugs etc because they're common but do you know about the RLS(rrestless leg syndrome), pain addiction, speed addiction as in driving fast, even killing ergo serial killers.

I still maintain that you have a piss poor self esteem and no confidence because of the way you were brought up. Like it or not, many people were abused by their parents in different ways as kids and even by their peers in school (bullying).

It is not shame that causes people to avoid crime, it is FEAR. Ask your peers who studied psychology, it's a whole topic on it's own (I think).





Addiction does not lead to shame. The results of your actions when you're under the influence of your addiction is what causes shame.

I have my own peculiar addictions, these addictions do not make me behave in anyway that society will frown up and for that sole reason alone, I am not ashamed, I do enjoy my addiction.

Everybody has one addiction or the other and many people do enjoy their addictions.

As for addiction causing you to lose self confidence and esteem, look at Robert Downey Junior; he was a hardcore drug addict, he was in and out of rehabs and did prison time on more than one occasion, yet, he is as confident as any person can be.

Let us think and appply proven things to daily living for once. Religion and ancient archaic society has conditioned a lot of people to feel a lot of things are when in actuality, they're not.

Keep an objective mind and don't just swallow everything you're fed.

Very wise submissions...

I was telling someone the other day that users aren't addicted to the substance rather they are addicted to the feelings the substance cause them to experience. Give them some other substance that causes similar/enhanced feelings and you'll see it's not the previous substance they're addicted to.


So much for schooling.....very few amongst men are truly educated!

Lloyd

Legendre2:
Do you feel the same way after having sex with a woman as well?. I'm just curious.

No,I don't feel anything after sex.

themaestro08:
I disagree. Guilty of what exactly? Ashamed of who? And you say it affects ones self esteem? That's laughable not debatable.

Can you provide any scientific evidence to back up your assertions? I'll wait.

Chief masturbator,pls continue to masturbate OK..one day you will understand.

Rexojie:
there could be other underlying factors. your signs may not be directly linked to masturbation

my brother. Masturbation is dangerous. I believe in science so much but on the issue of masturbation I must tell you the truth,science hot this wrong..I started masturbating when I was very young. I never knew there was any side infect whatsoever. But I almost got blind. See en,make I non talk wetin masturbation cause me..

PrettyPrint:
"Addiction does not lead to shame. The results of your actions when you're under the influence of your addiction is what causes shame"

You keep going back and forth only to prove my point again in the end.

Addiction does lead to shame, low self-esteem and confidence. It has nothin to do with your actions.

You talked about Dwayne like he's your average man on the street. Do you know the number of professional therapists that man has met in just his single lifetime?

Look around you when you are making a point. Yes masturbation will not interact chemically with your body but psychologically, most people who masturbate pays great price.

I don't care if it is because of religious beliefs or the way they were raised up. It happens a lot and you shouldn't talk like it doesn't happen.

Most people who masturbate becomes timid, have lower self-esteem and confidence especially after trying to quit the habit multiple times and have less quality relationships with the opposite sex since they will spend most of their time indoors.

Show me a very confident man who masturbates and I'll show you 100 more men who masturbates with low self-esteem.

*sigh

Nigerians.

Anyhoo, it's your opinion, you're entitled to it.

PrettyPrint:
"Addiction does not lead to shame. The results of your actions when you're under the influence of your addiction is what causes shame"

You keep going back and forth only to prove my point again in the end.

Addiction does lead to shame, low self-esteem and confidence. It has nothin to do with your actions.

You talked about Dwayne like he's your average man on the street. Do you know the number of professional therapists that man has met in just his single lifetime?

Look around you when you are making a point. Yes masturbation will not interact chemically with your body but psychologically, most people who masturbate pays great price.

I don't care if it is because of religious beliefs or the way they were raised up. It happens a lot and you shouldn't talk like it doesn't happen.

Most people who masturbate becomes timid, have lower self-esteem and confidence especially after trying to quit the habit multiple times and have less quality relationships with the opposite sex since they will spend most of their time indoors.

Show me a very confident man who masturbates and I'll show you 100 more men who masturbates with low self-esteem.

I don't masturbate and I won't criticize those who practise it.
But I think it's because the society disapproves it, that's why most of them have those psychological effects you have mentioned.
Even homosexuals had same issue like that in the past, but now have brazened it out more so acceptance has been given to it by some countries.

you have said it all

eniolaamos7:
I don't masturbate and I won't criticize those who practise it.
But I think it's because the society disapproves it, that's why most of them have those psychological effects you have mentioned.
Even homosexuals had same issue like that in the past, but now have brazened it out more so acceptance has been given to it by some countries.

dont you think getting addicted to it is the problem

jasent:
my brother. Masturbation is dangerous. I believe in science so much but on the issue of masturbation I must tell you the truth,science hot this wrong..I started masturbating when I was very young. I never knew there was any side infect whatsoever. But I almost got blind. See en,make I non talk wetin masturbation cause me..

Rexojie:
dont you think getting addicted to it is the problem

No bro

PrettyPrint:
nofap forum is dedicated to quitting a harmless habit.

It has a section dedicated to building your confidence and self-esteem.

See, I don't need to give you any scientific backing. Almost anyone here who has madtubated will tell you they have this hollow feeling after the initial orgasm have died down.

Search for people's feeling about masturbation on Google or go to nofap and read the thought of people who are first hand masturbaters.

Ignore them !
Why are you even arguing these
I have spent more than four years masturbating and watching porns,and you know the hell I experienced why still in those habits ? Especially masturbating ?
Poor memory, brain fogs,tremendous fatigue,eye that is so dull and lack energy,depression, emptiness, low self esteem,low sex drive ,just name it !
Quitting those habits ,I can't stop being proud of myself.
Let scientific evidence on masturbation go to hell and burn to ashes ,masturbation from personal experience, is deadly and destructive !
It's not just worth it !
Please stop dragging to and fro with them,they want to quit the habit themselves,but don't have & know how to go about it,hence they are trying to justify it.
As I said,ignore them !

PrettyPrint:
nofap forum is dedicated to quitting a harmless habit.

It has a section dedicated to building your confidence and self-esteem.

See, I don't need to give you any scientific backing. Almost anyone here who has madtubated will tell you they have this hollow feeling after the initial orgasm have died down.

Search for people's feeling about masturbation on Google or go to nofap and read the thought of people who are first hand masturbaters.

As expected no citation just anecdotes.

jasent:
Chief masturbator,pls continue to masturbate OK..one day you will understand.

Okay thickhead

PrettyPrint:
have you heard about diabetes?

Have you heard about hypertension and obesity?

This are all caused by takin in excess of food.

Alcohol use only cause liver cirrhosis in excess and very prolonged abuse just as excess sugar causes diabetes.

And just of your head, do you think people die more from liver cirrhosis or diabetes?

so the summary is that alcohol is dangerous abi even though it's danger is attributed to prolonged abuse. You can't use it for your Analogy then

Vaseline gang don get go ahead

Legendre2:
Staggering statistics. Personally, I've never done this before and I've been around for almost 3 decades, it's funny because I've literally watched my senior cousin brother do it when I was little. There's not even any inclination towards making an attempt. I'm sure they're many people like me. Sometimes I ask myself 'what if I'm into this shit?', if I were, believe me I wouldn't see women the way I do now, whether that's a good thing or not, I'm not fapping any time soon. The numbers for Nigeria may be less than these though.

U made a wise decision bro... Thank God u did.. many of us keep wishing we could return to d day we started so we can stop ourselves from doing it the very first time

Cellenero:
Ignore them !
Why are you even arguing these
I have spent more than four years masturbating and watching porns,and you know the hell I experienced why still in those habits ? Especially masturbating ?
Poor memory, brain fogs,tremendous fatigue,eye that is so dull and lack energy,depression, emptiness, low self esteem,low sex drive ,just name it !
Quitting those habits ,I can't stop being proud of myself.
Let scientific evidence on masturbation go to hell and burn to ashes ,masturbation from personal experience, is deadly and destructive !
It's not just worth it !
Please stop dragging to and fro with them,they want to quit the habit themselves,but don't have & know how to go about it,hence they are trying to justify it.
As I said,ignore them !

U have my respect bro..

Masturbation is one of those things that make me believe that science has it's flaws and still have quite a long way to go.
I don't know whether it differs from person to person. But.. masturbation does more harm. They should stop making wrong generalizations

I can not be deceived,
MASTURBATION IS FROM THE DEVIL

Realresk:
U have my respect bro..

I sincerely appreciate.
Good evening..

PrettyPrint:
nofap forum is dedicated to quitting a harmless habit.

It has a section dedicated to building your confidence and self-esteem.

See, I don't need to give you any scientific backing. Almost anyone here who has madtubated will tell you they have this hollow feeling after the initial orgasm have died down.

Search for people's feeling about masturbation on Google or go to nofap and read the thought of people who are first hand masturbaters.

Shut up
I masturbate and I love it. I don't have any hollow feeling after I'm done.
I also have sex and my partners are well satisfied

The only guilt that can come is when people have been indoctrinated from religion that such is bad.

Come again self, are you sure you have ever used your brain in your life?
Have you ever had a thought that was original, not branded into you by the culture or religion you were born in?

Orces:
Shut up
I masturbate and I love it. I don't have any hollow feeling after I'm done.
I also have sex and my partners are well satisfied

The only guilt that can come is when people have been indoctrinated from religion that such is bad.

Come again self, are you sure you have ever used your brain in your life?
Have you ever had a thought that was original, not branded into you by the culture or religion you were born in?

Nowadays everybody wanna talk like they got somethin' to say

But nothin' comes out when they move their lips
Just a bunch of gibberish

~Eminem in forgot about dre

themaestro08:
As expected no citation just anecdotes.

even on this thread you can see the regrets and you're askin for link?


Science is meant for people and not people for science. Or science doesn't accept people's personal experience and only depend on 'citation' links?

Masturbation is really bad, that sh*t almost wrecked me,
Mine was worse, i started having no zeal for anything, memory loss, it also affected my confidence at some point.
I got a babe that has enough sex drive as I do, na as I take solve problem be that.

PrettyPrint:
even on this thread you can see the regrets and you're askin for link?


Science is meant for people and not people for science. Or science doesn't accept people's personal experience and only depend on 'citation' links?

Still doesn't prove anything, just the usual anecdotes