guys I need ur advice about my girl, she's very OK to me and we are coping but I senior her about 10years and she will just be 23 this year. thanks

So far you can handle her excesses and inexperienced childish attitude cus she definitely has no or little dating experience and she'll show it in her actions and reactions soon or later. If you can cope with it, you're good to go.

No, It doesn't.

Friendly advice, stop trying to seek validation from others

Tadeknkeepcalm:
No, It doesn't.
Friendly advice, stop trying to seek validation from others

thanks

wait if she first her die for a long time ,it depends o in a way age still matter

Age has got nothing to do with this...by the time she has a child, if you really take good care of her, she would match you in stature. I looked at my daughter recently and was amazed how fast she has grown...she's teen yet looking more mature and people do think she's my babe sef. Her big stature does not reflect her actual age

fairfora:
Age has got nothing to do with this...by the time she has a child, if you really take good care of her, she would match you in stature. I looked at my daughter recently and was amazed how fast she has grown...she's teen yet looking more mature and people do think she's my babe sef. Her big stature does not reflect her actual age

I really appreciate u Sir

May she chop you well. Amen

Oluromantic:
So far you can handle her excesses and inexperienced childish attitude cus she definitely has no or little dating experience and she'll show it in her actions and reactions soon or later. If you can cope with it, you're good to go.

Wow.... Not all younger partners are inexperienced. Some are very matured (brain, common sense and understanding of life) for their age that they can even floor a more older person with their wits.

Op, you know what you have seen in her, just make sure you both have alot trust in each other (asin you won't have trust issues because of her younger age/stature). And there is mutual respect for one another (that i.e don't ever play seniority card with her, else she starts acting out to fit your game). In love, age is nothing, equality is healthy

I even thought it was the reverse.

Stephenomozzy:


Wow.... Not all younger partners are inexperienced. Some are very matured (brain, common sense and understanding of life) for their age that they can even floor a more older person with their wits.

Op, you know what you have seen in her, just make sure you both have alot trust in each other (asin you won't have trust issues because of her younger age/stature). And there is mutual respect for one another (that i.e don't ever play seniority card with her, else she starts acting out to fit your game). In love, age is nothing, equality is healthy

My dear is one thing to know the truth and admit it. It's another thing to make one poster look like what he's saying is wrong even when it isn't.

You emphasized on compatibility and you didn't even know which is good. It still doesn't cancel the fact that a 23 year old would act young at some point. But op being the older one with more understanding can handle it. If he can he's good to go. I don't see how that isn't a fact

Oluromantic:

My dear is one thing to know the truth and admit it. It's another thing to make one poster look like what he's saying is wrong even when it isn't.

You emphasized on compatibility and you didn't even know which is good. It still doesn't cancel the fact that a 23 year old would act young at some point. But op being the older one with more understanding can handle it. If he can he's good to go. I don't see how that isn't a fact

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to nullify your comments. I only sought to address the stereotype that you applied to her age (her excesses). Op is not without his own "adult tantrum" either.

Older people do not exactly outgrown the possibility of acting young too. I only pointed that out should define her by her personality and sense of maturity and not her age

emmy2fyn:

thanks

It depends on what you're looking for.

If you're looking for just a fling , stay with her but if you want something more serious then go for someone who is more mature

Depends on what u want as an individual

SavageResponse:


It depends on what you're looking for.

If you're looking for just a fling , stay with her but if you want something more serious then go for someone who is more mature

well u mean a university graduate is a fling? She's not, this one is just that i understand her and she understand me and she's a decent girl

emmy2fyn:
guys I need ur advice about my girl, she's very OK to me and we are coping but I senior her about 10years and she will just be 23 this year. thanks

If you can be patient with her, this may work out. At that age many of them don’t have sense. They’re still in a phase where they think it’s fun to hœ around and play silly games, testing your patience. It will likely be a stressful relationship unless she gains some maturity by allowing you to mentor her.

emmy2fyn:
guys I need ur advice about my girl, she's very OK to me and we are coping but I senior her about 10years and she will just be 23 this year. thanks

Mine is 18 and I'm 28. I get a lot of headaches everyday correcting her.. But she's good and mature to an extent, both physically and mentally ,so yall good to go , her personality is what matters the most

emmy2fyn:
guys I need ur advice about my girl, she's very OK to me and we are coping but I senior her about 10years and she will just be 23 this year. thanks

It's cool

Am sure you guys don't talk age when you are together.

As long as she is intelligent enough to build a home with you. And you guys have perfect understanding of how a relationship should grow and be sustained.

Please forget the age.

Oluromantic:
So far you can handle her excesses and inexperienced childish attitude cus she definitely has no or little dating experience and she'll show it in her actions and reactions soon or later. If you can cope with it, you're good to go.

A 23 year old woman has little or no dating experience? Did he mention anything about the girl being some hilly-billy Gwari girl living behind the Zuma Rock or something?

Age means jacksh*t when it comes to relationship. As far as you guys are compatible and matured enough to handle your differences and challenges very well, then there is no problem. Wish you well on your journey.

I don't know maybe this feelings happen with Me alone but I can't just date someone younger than me at least she must be older than me a little

I just can't stand the act of not being mature from a lady,,some girls are rude and ill-mannered so when their young their brains will be very little whereas they don't have any dating strategy or orientation dating that kind of person I doubt if you gon last long

OmoAlakija:


Mine is 18 and I'm 28. I get a lot of headaches everyday correcting her.. But she's good and mature to an extent, both physically and mentally ,so yall good to go , her personality is what matters the most

thanks boss are u now married to her?

Bartork:


It's cool

Am sure you guys don't talk age when you are together.

As long as she is intelligent enough to build a home with you. And you guys have perfect understanding of how a relationship should grow and be sustained.

Please forget the age.

thanks for ur contributions

HedwigesMaduro:
Age means jacksh*t when it comes to relationship. As far as you guys are compatible and matured enough to handle your differences and challenges very well, then there is no problem. Wish you well on your journey.

Thanks so much dear

emmy2fyn:

thanks for ur contributions

Anytime bro

emmy2fyn:

thanks boss are u now married to her?

U welcome sir, not yet..,maybe till she's 22 because her elder sister also got married at that age . and by then she eojod have been done serving (NYSC)