MrHighSea:
I believe two sensible adults can take care of them selves.

Family planning should be their watch word.

scoundrel:

Why u

MrHighSea:

Stubborn somebody.
Au u

fieryy:
No, I can't

professore:

Why can't you?

fieryy:


Because I am not getting married, if I can't afford at least a two room apartment.

Everyone is acting like it's solely the man's responsibility to pay the rent or own a house.

With that being said, I also wouldn't accept a proposal from someone, who proposes despite living in a self con, regardless of whether the marriage will solely be based on companionship or whether the aim is to have kids. To me, that's you not setting your priorities right.

But even if I were to accept the proposal, as stated earlier I do not plan on marrying if I can't afford at least a 2 room apartment, so both our salaries should be enough to rent such an apartment.

Now kindly stop with the pms, I didn't reply before and still do not plan on replying

Kirinwa:
Considering the government minimum wage of #30 000, it's understandable that it can only afford a Self con apartment. Ladies, assuming a man proposes marriage to you and cares about you, are you willing to marry him in his Self Con apartment?
Your opinion does count. Let the comments begin...

Mineisgrace:
you can not start a family in a self con
Self con means self contained and not 2 contained.

Mineisgrace:
you can not start a family in a self con
Self con means self contained and not 2 contained.

sassysure:

U forgot to look at the quality of the man u want to marry.
Some may live in self con but frugal and ambitious so it won't last.
Some will live in self con riding 3m car and living fast life.
Some live in self con and are just contented with that.
Look at what stuff he is made of and see if it tallies with yours.

I got married in Julius Berger container converted to house

professore:

Guess what? I believe all you said here. You seem supportive and have standards too. That's how to summarize your perspective. With the pms, I know u didn't reply,I just felt may be one day luck will shine on me and you will consider replying. By the way, you can go through my profile to see if I'm that kind of guy that constitutes nuisance on nl. even though it's a faceless forum. Thank you.

faithfull18:

In Abuja? That was I first saw a container with AC and rug. Garki Area 2 to be precise.

sassysure:

This one wey u dey give me kiss today, am i safe?

I know our people. We love enjoyment na
Babe want to sit in fine car and go dining in one big restaurant, snap picture and post.

As at 10 yrs ago, silverbird cinema at central area Abuja sells a scoop of popcorn 500naira. Roadside popcorn was 50naira. We babes want silverbird cinema popcorn. I have forgotten the name of that plaza.
When u go there, u change accent to americana
U guys in Lagos are low budget babes. Come to Abuja and see fake life at its best.

U will buy ordinary polo there around 7k and it's made in china but has something like Armani or Hugo on the label.
I'm sure now should be around 15 or 20k.

Nigerians

HarunaWest:

Ceddi Plaza

professore:

Guess what? I believe all you said here. You seem supportive and have standards too. That's how to summarize your perspective. With the pms, I know u didn't reply, I just felt may be one day luck will shine on me and you will consider replying. By the way, you can go through my profile to see if I'm that kind of guy that constitutes nuisance on nl. even though it's a faceless forum. Thank you.

sassysure:

Ceddi plaza
Thank u.

HarunaWest:

sassysure:

Be like say u don carry babe go there

HarunaWest:

Well not in recent times though..All those Yaraduas era was when we flex there ......

Mineisgrace:
you can not start a family in a self con
Self con means self contained and not 2 contained.

mrblessed:
Really? "Lucky will shine on you?" Just to reply a pm? Guy, you are bigger than this. Who did you offend to make you do this? How stupid and idotic can a post be. You weren't shamed enough that she publicly warned you to cease sending her pm, you shamelessly exacerbated it with a thoughtlessly demeaning reply.

I am highly embarrassed on your behalf. If you send a message to someone once and she didn't reply, why inundate her with more messages to show how desperate and cheap you are? One young man created a post this week and revealed the kind of pressure ladies suffer just because nairaland is unfortunate to have people like you as members. What a shame!

sassysure:

Haaa
I went there to watch cinema. Na vex I take comot

If not for some specific things that took me there, I vowed not to enter there again
Yeah, it was that yaradua time they sold a small bag of popcorn 500bucks.

If care is not taken, u will steal in that city. Politicians made things hard for ordinary people too.

sassysure:
Jeez!

I hope u want this advice for somebody.
Yes, I can and I actually did
We got married in a place worst than self con



The question should be how to hook a good and hard man who is principled when u see him. See his future not now and definitely not his pocket.

sassysure:
Jeez!

I hope u want this advice for somebody.
Yes, I can and I actually did
We got married in a place worst than self con



The question should be how to hook a good and hard man who is principled when u see him. See his future not now and definitely not his pocket.

GreaterGraceGG:

He is working, I didn't even know he got loan for the wedding. That was where the problem start. Though he has cleared it... Hoping for the best

Kirinwa:


Oga there's no shame in going after someone you care about. Why not ignore instead of further humiliating your fellow man or you think you are the only one that saw it?

There's a reason such words as persistence and patience were created.

This is an adult forum, stop forming nonsense like you are any better.

Davash222:

A senseless lady can't attract a sensible guy.

funmisticqueen2:
so beggars still get mouth