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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by scoundrel(f): 9:23pm On May 26, 2020 |
MrHighSea:Why u |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by MrHighSea: 9:33pm On May 26, 2020 |
scoundrel:Stubborn somebody. Au u |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by scoundrel(f): 9:38pm On May 26, 2020 |
MrHighSea:Where u |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by professore(m): 9:40pm On May 26, 2020 |
fieryy:Why can't you? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Nobody: 9:55pm On May 26, 2020 |
professore: Because I am not getting married, if I can't afford at least a two room apartment. Everyone is acting like it's solely the man's responsibility to pay the rent or own a house. With that being said, I also wouldn't accept a proposal from someone, who proposes despite living in a self con, regardless of whether the marriage will solely be based on companionship or whether the aim is to have kids. To me, that's you not setting your priorities right. But even if I were to accept the proposal, as stated earlier I do not plan on marrying if I can't afford at least a 2 room apartment, so both our salaries should be enough to rent such an apartment. Now kindly stop with the pms, I didn't reply before and still do not plan on replying 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by sisisioge: 10:04pm On May 26, 2020 |
His 360k salary per annum won't even rent the sefcon in Lagos once statutory deductions hit it. Your question should have been towards one room face me I face you. It is well. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by professore(m): 10:05pm On May 26, 2020 |
fieryy:Guess what? I believe all you said here. You seem supportive and have standards too. That's how to summarize your perspective. With the pms, I know u didn't reply, I just felt may be one day luck will shine on me and you will consider replying. By the way, you can go through my profile to see if I'm that kind of guy that constitutes nuisance on nl. even though it's a faceless forum. Thank you. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Mineisgrace(f): 10:24pm On May 26, 2020 |
Kirinwa:you can not start a family in a self con Self con means self contained and not 2 contained. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Drfernandez(m): 10:30pm On May 26, 2020 |
Mineisgrace: The same you who live in a face me I face you one room with your family of 8 said this nonsense here. Social media life is truly something else. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Omoluabi16(m): 10:34pm On May 26, 2020 |
Mineisgrace:Because two people can't stay on the same bed or share basic stuffs abi? So long they don't see it as a last bus stop, they can go ahead. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by faithfull18(f): 11:13pm On May 26, 2020 |
sassysure:In Abuja? That was the first time I saw a container with AC and rug. Garki Area 2 to be precise. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Kaycee54321(m): 11:33pm On May 26, 2020 |
professore: Nawa oh Bros 12 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Nobody: 12:39am On May 27, 2020 |
faithfull18:U know it! Garlic, wuse etc. Yes o. We have a.c. and everything inside there 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by HarunaWest(m): 12:52am On May 27, 2020 |
sassysure:Ceddi Plaza 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Nobody: 1:00am On May 27, 2020 |
HarunaWest:Ceddi plaza Thank u. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by mrblessed(m): 1:01am On May 27, 2020 |
professore:Really? "Lucky will shine on you?" Just to reply a pm? Guy, you are bigger than this. Who did you offend to make you do this? How stupid and idotic can a post be. You weren't shamed enough that she publicly warned you to cease sending her pm, you shamelessly exacerbated it with a thoughtlessly demeaning reply. I am highly embarrassed on your behalf. If you send a message to someone once and she didn't reply, why inundate her with more messages to show how desperate and cheap you are? One young man created a post this week and revealed the kind of pressure ladies suffer just because nairaland is unfortunate to have people like you as members. What a shame! 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by HarunaWest(m): 1:01am On May 27, 2020 |
sassysure: |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Nobody: 1:02am On May 27, 2020 |
HarunaWest:Be like say u don carry babe go there |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by HarunaWest(m): 1:04am On May 27, 2020 |
sassysure:Well not in recent times though..All those Yaraduas era was when we flex there ...... |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Nobody: 1:57am On May 27, 2020 |
HarunaWest:Haaa I went there to watch cinema. Na vex I take comot If not for some specific things that took me there, I vowed not to enter there again Yeah, it was that yaradua time they sold a small bag of popcorn 500bucks. If care is not taken, u will steal in that city. Politicians made things hard for ordinary people too. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Kirinwa: 4:11am On May 27, 2020 |
Mineisgrace: Self contained means it has toilet and bathroom included. Besides self con us far better than face me, I face you where they share same toilet which can bring infection. Self con also has more privacy. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Kirinwa: 4:21am On May 27, 2020 |
mrblessed: Oga there's no shame in going after someone you care about. Why not ignore instead of further humiliating your fellow man or you think you are the only one that saw it? There's a reason such words as persistence and patience were created. This is an adult forum, stop forming nonsense like you are any better. 11 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by HarunaWest(m): 6:22am On May 27, 2020 |
sassysure:Hahahah Abuja is a Politicians playground. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Nobody: 6:45am On May 27, 2020 |
I can't and I may can lol. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Jochabed(f): 7:02am On May 27, 2020 |
I surely can, life is always in phases and that might be our first phase. Enough of marrying men for the now, ladies should learn to marry a man's tomorrow cause it's sure gonna be bright. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Angelacruz: 7:26am On May 27, 2020 |
sassysure: |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Angelacruz: 7:26am On May 27, 2020 |
Amazing sassysure: |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Angelacruz: 7:31am On May 27, 2020 |
Dat is a good start...beta days ahead GreaterGraceGG: |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Michelle55: 7:38am On May 27, 2020 |
Definitely YES! There's nothing wrong with couples living in self contain apartment. You can live there and plan for your future together. We will both work together to move forward, it takes two capable hands/heads to make things work.. Gone are the days of obiageris, this time around you just have to elevate each other and make positive things happens.. As a woman, know his plans and assist in making it come through. Family planning is necessary at this stage, no need breeding kids yet just to watch them suffer. Be it single room, self contain or flat... The most important thing is striving together to sail higher than you were before and making the home front luxurious and enjoyable for your unborn kids. As a lady, no go marry man wey dey earn 1naira, chop 5naira at a go your own don done be that. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Acidosis(m): 7:43am On May 27, 2020 |
Kirinwa: There's shame in public humiliation. Dude was publicly humiliated because of woman. That's nonsense. He should be cautioned and learn to move on. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Nobody: 8:08am On May 27, 2020 |
Davash222:so beggars still get mouth |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Man Living In Self Con.? by Davash222(m): 8:11am On May 27, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Bag of beans, where have you been?? |
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