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My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 9:29am On May 27, 2020
I have a previous thread about this man. We started dating like a month now. When I was at his place one time like that, he wanted to show me something on his phone and a whatsapp message popped up from MY LOVE, obviously I wasnt the one that sent the message.
I didnt say anything immediately, I got home and asked him about who that person was, and he said the lady is his ex. He is not in his twenties anymore and it's hard to see a man in his 30s that is actually VERY SINGLE, so I asked him if there is any woman in his life and he told me about a ex that his mum said he cannot marry.
This same ex was the lady that sent him the text that day, they are still in touch and constantly talking.
I was surprised last week when we saw again, fortunately I got to see that he saved my own name as VICTORIA BENIN. I didnt say anything either.
I got home and talked to him about it then he said "with time that will change" what's all that? He knows am not too happy with him, then two days ago he said he called his mum to talk to her about this same ex, whether he can still marry her or not. He then said his mum said NO that am the only lady in his life.
I want to break up this relationship. This is crazy
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by OsuMustGo: 9:31am On May 27, 2020
Victoria benin grin

That guy is just toying with you.
YOU ARE JUST A SIDECHICK THAT'S BEING USED TO PASS TIME.

He probably had misunderstanding with the so-called ex but, they are still actively fûcking.

grin

Any girl that is still communicating with her ex is impossible to be around me. I can not tolerate fuckēry.

I don't communicate with ex no matter what.
When we are done, we are done .

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Flexherbal(m): 9:31am On May 27, 2020
That guy is not ready for you, yet.
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by DonBenny77(m): 9:33am On May 27, 2020
Build your love and show him love first, so you expect him to add love suffix for you after just one month of dating.
His ex earned that title, earn yours and erase her from his life. Simple

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 9:33am On May 27, 2020
OsuMustGo:
grin

Any girl that is still communicating with her ex is impossible to be around me. I can not tolerate fuckēry.

I don't communicate with ex no matter what.
When we are done, we are done .
I am talking about a man here

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Emekaossai(m): 9:34am On May 27, 2020
You don't have a boyfriend. It's as simple as that.

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Ningen(m): 9:34am On May 27, 2020
You're second choice, his back-up plan.

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by OsuMustGo: 9:39am On May 27, 2020
Ningen:
You're second choice, his back-up plan.
Not at all.

She's just a SIDECHICK he's using to pass time grin
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by GOFRONT(m): 9:40am On May 27, 2020
For now, You are still dating yourself..

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Bola146(f): 9:42am On May 27, 2020
grin grin grin grin Sometimes I need to ask how old is the op cheesy cheesy Victoria Benin grin grin He was correct, or is that not your name lipsrsealed
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 9:42am On May 27, 2020
DonBenny77:
Build your love and show him love first, so you expect him to add love suffix for you after just one month of dating.
His ex earned that title, earn yours and erase her from his life. Simple
This doesnt quite make sense. Why should he still be in communication with his ex, isn't it just normal for him to be totally done with the ex before asking for a relationship from me. It is not my duty to erase the ex.
The way you save the name of someone reveals how much that persons means to you.
The ex earned that title and lost it after becoming an ex. Imagine you're dating a lady that saved your name with the location you are and her ex name with 'my love'.
I cannot get myself to keep showing love to a man that doesnt see beyond Victoria Benin, this guy told me he called his mum to confirm whether he can still marry her and you are asking me to earn his love. Isn't it obvious am a back up?
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 9:44am On May 27, 2020
OsuMustGo:
Victoria benin grin

That guy is just toying with you.
YOU ARE JUST A SIDECHICK THAT'S BEING USED TO PASS TIME.

He probably had misunderstanding with the so-called ex but, they are still actively fûcking.

grin

Any girl that is still communicating with her ex is impossible to be around me. I can not tolerate fuckēry.

I don't communicate with ex no matter what.
When we are done, we are done .
I dont think they are fvcking right now tho, he isn't in same location with the lady. Maybe he got bored cos of lockdown and he is using me to buy time
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 9:45am On May 27, 2020
Bola146:
grin grin grin grin Sometimes I need to ask how old is the op cheesy cheesy Victoria Benin grin grin He was correct, or is that not your name lipsrsealed
Age doesnt mean anything when a guy wants to deal with a lady o my sister.
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by foxxydude: 9:46am On May 27, 2020
You are his rebound chick grin

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by chinchonglee(m): 9:46am On May 27, 2020
My first serious ex who is a navy is still stored in my fone as 'MY LOVE'.

At times we jst forget to change or delete contacts from our fone.

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 9:51am On May 27, 2020
chinchonglee:
My first serious ex who is a navy is still stored in my fone as 'MY LOVE'.

At times we jst forget to change or delete contacts from our fone.
Are you in a new relationship? Do you still call your mum to confirm whether you can still marry your ex while you're with a new lady. Are you still in constant touch with your ex. Situations are different but this one doesnt add up

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by DonBenny77(m): 9:53am On May 27, 2020
Vikky1425:

This doesnt quite make sense. Why should he still be in communication with his ex, isn't it just normal for him to be totally done with the ex before asking for a relationship from me. It is not my duty to erase the ex.
The way you save the name of someone reveals how much that persons means to you.
The ex earned that title and lost it after becoming an ex. Imagine you're dating a lady that saved your name with the location you are and her ex name with 'my love'.
I cannot get myself to keep showing love to a man that doesnt see beyond Victoria Benin, this guy told me he called his mum to confirm whether he can still marry her and you are asking me to earn his love. Isn't it obvious am a back up?
Unfortunately for you, you can't think like a man. I've told you what you need to do it's either that or you forget him.
Love grows, with time Victoria benin will change to Victoria love
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by OsuMustGo: 9:53am On May 27, 2020
Vikky1425:

I dont think they are fvcking right now tho, he isn't in same location with the lady. Maybe he got bored cos of lockdown and he is using me to buy time
Quarantine partner

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 9:54am On May 27, 2020
you are the substitute incase he can't marry the "my love". maybe he is still hoping his mother change her mind
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by OsuMustGo: 9:55am On May 27, 2020
DonBenny77:

Unfortunately for you, you can't think like a man. I've told you what you need to do it's either that or you forget him.
Love grows, with time Victoria benin will change to Victoria love
Shut up!

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 10:03am On May 27, 2020
U peepu shud nt make dis lady go and breakup with her newly found boo o
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Homeboiy: 10:05am On May 27, 2020
How did your save his name ?

OSAS Benin.


Your dating yourself
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Blakjewelry(m): 10:05am On May 27, 2020
Vikky1425:
I have a previous thread about this man. We started dating like a month now. When I was at his place one time like that, he wanted to show me something on his phone and a whatsapp message popped up from MY LOVE, obviously I wasnt the one that sent the message.
I didnt say anything immediately, I got home and asked him about who that person was, and he said the lady is his ex. He is not in his twenties anymore and it's hard to see a man in his 30s that is actually VERY SINGLE, so I asked him if there is any woman in his life and he told me about a ex that his mum said he cannot marry.
This same ex was the lady that sent him the text that day, they are still in touch and constantly talking.
I was surprised last week when we saw again, fortunately I got to see that he saved my own name as VICTORIA BENIN. I didnt say anything either.
I got home and talked to him about it then he said "with time that will change" what's all that? He knows am not too happy with him, then two days ago he said he called his mum to talk to her about this same ex, whether he can still marry her or not. He then said his mum said NO that am the only lady in his life.
I want to break up this relationship. This is crazy
LOL you be side chick
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Blakjewelry(m): 10:07am On May 27, 2020
OsuMustGo:
Victoria benin grin

That guy is just toying with you.
YOU ARE JUST A SIDECHICK THAT'S BEING USED TO PASS TIME.

He probably had misunderstanding with the so-called ex but, they are still actively fûcking.

grin

Any girl that is still communicating with her ex is impossible to be around me. I can not tolerate fuckēry.

I don't communicate with ex no matter what.
When we are done, we are done .
LOL I still communicate my ex but it is simply on platonic level, no sweet talk no sweet name
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by OsuMustGo: 10:13am On May 27, 2020
Blakjewelry:

LOL I still communicate my ex but it is simply on platonic level, no sweet talk no sweet name
It's completely unnecessary.
Unless the circumstances that surrounds the breakup is from a third party, like parents, discovery of genotype incompatibility etc.
If it was based on cheating or someone finding someone new, then it's not necessary.

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by chinchonglee(m): 1:23pm On May 27, 2020
Vikky1425:

Are you in a new relationship? Do you still call your mum to confirm whether you can still marry your ex while you're with a new lady. Are you still in constant touch with your ex. Situations are different but this one doesnt add up
Yes ma. I av gone into other relationship without aving any issues abt that. They know i can be forgetful on thing like that. We re still in contact.

Jst find a way to read the content of their chats.. that's all
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by xendra: 2:44pm On May 27, 2020
and you are still with him??

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Lamanii22(f): 3:21pm On May 27, 2020
You haven't found the one yet! You better dialogue with your legs...
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by SirMichael1: 4:24pm On May 27, 2020
It really depends on how long they broke up and if they actually officially broke up, not the hide and seek relationship they might be doing because of his mum. It's not really easy to move on after a breakup, especially one caused by a parent's decision. Truth is, he might not have had the courage to break up with her as they both love each other, so what he intends to do with you is take you to his mum, if she accepts you, fine. If she doesn't, he'll nag about how all his mum doesn't appreciate all the effort he's put in trying to secure a wife. At that point, he'll leave you for the said ex.

I usually don't rename my contacts immediately after a fallout and that's because I'm still very much sulken about the breakup. Just ask him why he still saves her contact as my love and not you.

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Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Humanoid01(m): 5:34pm On May 27, 2020
Victoria Benin? Hahahahahaa..

You better remove your shoes from your legs and take to your heels asap. He saved her number as "my love" , and saved yours as "Victoria Benin" . The message is clear na, no one needs to interpret it for you.
Re: My New Boyfriend Saved His Ex Girlfriend's Name As MY LOVE by Nobody: 6:12pm On May 27, 2020
Vikky1425:
I have a previous thread about this man. We started dating like a month now. When I was at his place one time like that, he wanted to show me something on his phone and a whatsapp message popped up from MY LOVE, obviously I wasnt the one that sent the message.
I didnt say anything immediately, I got home and asked him about who that person was, and he said the lady is his ex. He is not in his twenties anymore and it's hard to see a man in his 30s that is actually VERY SINGLE, so I asked him if there is any woman in his life and he told me about a ex that his mum said he cannot marry.
This same ex was the lady that sent him the text that day, they are still in touch and constantly talking.
I was surprised last week when we saw again, fortunately I got to see that he saved my own name as VICTORIA BENIN. I didnt say anything either.
I got home and talked to him about it then he said "with time that will change" what's all that? He knows am not too happy with him, then two days ago he said he called his mum to talk to her about this same ex, whether he can still marry her or not. He then said his mum said NO that am the only lady in his life.
I want to break up this relationship. This is crazy
make I advice you based on say I be correct gee. grin

You see all these guys telling you to stay and earn his love bla bla bla? Don't listen to them at all.
Reason this thing, if it was the other way round and a guy came on nairaland to say his girlfriend of 3weeks still had her ex's number as 'my love' and his as 'john Lag', these same guys will call him "weak", they will insult him for still staying with her, they'll advise him to take to his heels -- It's all gender bias.

My advice for you is... flee and don't look back. He isn't for you. He doesn't even respect you enough and he will never love you as much as he loves his ex whom he still loves and was separated from due to family differences. Fleeee my dear

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