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This thing long o. E nearly reach some people chapter 2 for project work. Abeg next time, summarize am so that we fit settle am sharp sharp and move on.

Micheal don go pick money for ground come turn to fowl. The problem now be say Micheal don run enter Mama Nkechi poultry. We no know who be Micheal again.
How we want take settle this matter now?

Oga the story is too long

Any girl that says she's a virgin to me will leave my house immediately. I don't care if she's joking or serious

my brother, you are Crazy in love but the girl doesn't love u
remedy:
look for another female friend and maybe flirt online with fun people..or move with guys that can ginger u or give u weed to smoke out ur sorrows(If u smoke)...but then...FORGET HER AND HUSTLE!

zexy2030:
u sucked her 3times and u didn't notice she is not a virgin.

He missed the "pant" part.. He sucked her pant

The second week, I bought her some body cares and give her money (2.5k) to make her hair.
this one weak me lol ,your type will pay skol fees
oga u both are naive
just move on abeg no one has time for a confused person
it is draining but seems your age can handle drama
ours cant anymore

uhh... one of the reasons why I abstain from this section is this... guys crying and sorry to say ranting about shits like this... what girls did to them, you rarely see the female folks do this.... solve your problem with your God given intuition.. Thank you..
drop mic

Gosh!!!
I have never read anything so exhausting in my whole life....
I'll just tell you to take a chill pill. She is giving it to some body else so don't bother.
You ain't loved.
Better luck next time buddy.

Bro nawaooo move on with your life,u don't force love cause if you do it will bounce back in a bad way ,girls plenty for this world .

AFvckingAlpha:
Always resist the urge to shalaye.

AFvckingAlpha:
Always resist the urge to shalaye.

Guy I like this quote, simps go just dey shalaye

chinchonglee:
Bros which kian write up dis

Baba I think say na only me notice am, instead him go use pidgin

So, not saying "im sorry" when u are wrong is part of being a man? Indeed there are different kinds of people in this world, apologising when u are actually wrong doesnt kill, what some people call ego is apalling!

luvyaself95:
I understand you Bro, but you are a headache in her brain and weak man in her imagination.
and beside you fvck up never beg girl even if you are wrong never say (am sorry)
instead say You vex much baby relax your mind Okay.
Have been there before and know how it is.
My advice is Just forget she exist and move on with your life.
Stop being Simpson and if you can say how old are you.

Jayjoycey:
So, not saying "im sorry" when u are wrong is part of being a man? Indeed there are different kinds of people in this world, apologising when u are actually wrong doesnt kill, what some people call ego is apalling!

if you understand my message you should have know am saying Woman see sorry as weakness in man.

Kindly move on.

My brother, she is gone.

1. You were being too serious with her.

2. She wants nothing of such nature wrapped up in a relationship.

3. You were too available to her.

4. The girl is still in her hoe phase but you were thinking about the future. She actually fooled you with all those talks about being serious.

5. Accept this fact that women in a romantic relationship is different from women in a platonic relationship. You did not know this and that was why you started the relationship because "she seems good" during the platonic phase.

To address the being serious part let me give you an example. There was this pretty fair skinned lady that I met on Facebook.

There are two parts of me in this.

Part 1 is me being nice (foolish) guy. I was being too serious, too caring, being holy and you know, always available.

Did it work? No!

I left her presence and 2 years now I have resurfaced with a different personality.

Part 2 is me being a bad boy. This time around I am not serious. I talk dirty. Even told her I will suck her. All she does is laugh and smile (a sign that she is enjoying it) now she is willing for us to meet, despite uploading her" boyfriends" picture few days ago.

It was even after that picture I led her cunningly into dirty sex talk... Now I don't even hide the impression that I will love to fvck her. Let me stop here: is it working? Yes!

Will I win and end up fvcking her? I will let your imagination answer that.

Summarily, your approach is why these girls will take you serious or ditch u.

The sad thing this girl you talked about will start taking you serious after losing that virginity, fork one or two dicks. At least I have one like that now who previously will not spend the night with me telling me she had lost her virginity in 2017 blah blah. I never asked her o.

Last week she( ex virgin) was telling me I should have invited her over during this Corona period. Something she wouldn't allow when the virginity was there. In her mind, I am serious now. Me go chop and leave.

BigJoe19:
Guy I like this quote, simps go just dey shalaye

I swear.

I am never a fan of using people to beg or convince someone I am interested in dating. That is emotional blackmail, and a sign of weakness and low self esteem. Stand up like a man!!!

chinchonglee:
Bros which kian write up dis

No mind am.. I want to believe that this guy is immatured ..


Person just dey knack hin head for wall... he too he dey romance person wey never give am peace.... Be begging a confused soul there o... Better girls wey loyal dey out there

keezy125:
you such a dick!!... do you need a prophet to tell you she's never into you and trust me that girl was Nev a Virgin.

she's just a naive girl or probably a teenager that doesn't know what she wants, next time get Control of your emotions because you are a man and never you be all over a girl.

from the way you sound obviously you love her, so for now give her space and stop contacting her, she will come around. she's just been influenced by her friends.

Teens don't know what they want, most of us were like this. Today we love you, the next day we fall out of love...very typical with teens.

Smh..so sad and pathetic,this is the ultimate insult to a mans ego,ur woamn walks away to give another man her contact cos he is in a nice whip and u broke as fv.ck..two things il advice u fam,First forget love for now and make money to have ur own car and watch girls droll over u, 2ndly NEVER EVER beg a girl when she says she is done with the relationship..Dm me if u ready to have ur own benz by end of September

Damn Niggarr!

I read it to the last,

She has a boy friend who left and she didn't have hope of him returning back that's why she gave you a chance in the first place,

But boom, the guy show face and she didn't want to open up to you.

She is not a virgin
She doesn't love you
She wants to friend zone you
She had no option at the time she accepted you
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I dey come make I go chop I go come help u settle the matter later

My brother, you don't need advice. This matter is settled.
Just move on with your life and keep your Hussle legit.
One day, the truth shall come out.

chinchonglee:
Bros which kian write up dis

He write everything wey happen for the matter, so you go fit settle am

chinchonglee:
Bros which kian write up dis

my broda i swear i tire o.... dis one b like write up wey bubu write.

chinchonglee:
Bros which kian write up dis

Your own write-up no jell at all.

cfree14:
Guy next time learn how to summarize. Other matters dey ground to settle

O boi..savage!

chlowi:
i dont even know people get up and switch on others ....

The more I read and try to understand your write-up, the more confused I get.

I have seen a lot of guys like you, even during my university days.
Infact you are annoying, and you deserve all the insults rained upon you here. Get out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gentlec198:
Am Loosing You, My Body Is For My Husband As She Breaks Up, Barely One Month

Good Morning All, My dear Nairalanders in the forum.
Hope you guys are staying safe.

Am writing this long heartbroken article, exactly the way it happens to seek for your advice and opinion.
Early last month April, 2020, I was in relationship with a girl, who used to my best friends junior sister. I sometimes met her in their house when I pay a visit to see her brother (best friend), then I had nothing like any emotional feelings for her, just exchange greetings and I will leave with my friend to my house.

Gradually I became interested and develop feelings for her, one day I had to summon courage and I called her to tell her how I feel, she too has already feeling the same and likes me too, but was worried because of her brother, which I later meet him as a best friend, with the help of his girlfriend and we talked to him, but then he was very angry.

On the 13th April, 2020, even before her brother agreed she came to my house for us to discuss, which she told me, she does not have anything to offer in the upcoming relationship (intimacy), reason been that according to her she is a virgin, and that is the reason why she break up, her last three dates, with the guys, as she caught one among them cheating and other ones she lost communication with them, but any other things she can contribute like advice, finance etc., and even asking what the future holds for us, why I liked her, my plans towards her.

She has good heart, kindhearted and respectful, I love this girl, cherish, care, and I promised not to hurt her, and I was serious to date her, respect her, help and never to cheat on her,
At the first week things went smooth and rosy, full of lovey lovey, she cooked and bring food for me, and even transferred 2k, to my cousin brother, who needed help, when I don’t have it at that point in time
I observed that she is kind of hiding her phone when chatting, even when her phone rings, I will ask her to pick, but she will ignore the call.
The second week, I bought her some body cares and give her money (2.5k) to make her hair.
I do send her text messages morning sometimes at night and call her every day to keep communication active.

The third week, if I call and text, she will not pick or even text back, she will only call when she feels and give excuse, like she is sleeping, when she is not, she started avoiding me, even when I came back from work, she will not feel like her guy is back, no form of romantic act, because I do check her in their street and when am going out to stay for few days, she will be telling me to stay long over there, without feeling she going to miss me, wishing if I had lived far from her, which could be fine for her.

One day I called she didn’t pick, i became worried and angry, I had go out to ask her brother’s girlfriend who called her and she came out, saying if It was me, she wouldn’t have come out, with a frowning face, I asked what is the matter, no response, we were there when, another guy called her and she took permission to see the guy twice, who was asking her, her number, in his friend favor in a car, and the brothers girlfriend told her it is a wrong act, for her to leave me her boyfriend as we are discussing to answer another guy.

Same day she asked me, if I will be angry, if another guy give her phone as a gift that the guy is her church member and he has a girlfriend, so they don’t have anything attached. I told her yes I will be angry and after some arguments and for peace to reign I asked to go ahead to do what she wants to do, since she insisted, even after telling her I will buy, she said she don’t want me to spend money, even the food I bought she refused eating as usual.

This a girl that will come visiting, after romance and being in the mood, she will decline, and said she is not ready, she is afraid and she has sworn according to her until she is married, even asked me to suck her kpetus, and get wet, but will not make out, and this has happened thrice, she will apologies that she can’t give her body, she is a VIRGIN, all the time we are together always virgin matter, but she will be angry and jealous if she sees me with another babe.
And I noticed she don’t open up, sometimes she will be hiding something’s and when I asked her, the only answer I get all the time is nothing, even when I called her to come, she will declined not coming, I will call and still text her, but will ignore and tell me she has no airtime, which I know she has, because I do send her card.

One Sunday afternoon she came with a threatening and frowning face to drop the bombshell, after forcing her to talk why her face is like that, she said WHAT IF I TELL YOU I DON’T WANT TO DATE YOU AGAIN, since she cannot give me her body, that we can be friends, I tried with my best friend girl to convinced her to see reasons with me since am not forcing her, she said she don’t know when she will be ready, and she advised we show move on with our lives separately, no hopes of when she will be ready either in a month or year. this make me shear tears, because i remembered something as she cried she is about losing me, while the other of her friend is crushing on me already she said.

I called and text her that I will wait, but she didn’t respond, next day she text back we should move on our lives, I called her for us to see and finalize it and sort things out, she rudely and angrily decline that she cannot come to anywhere or either to see me. I was very angry the way she responded and reacted on phone concerning the whole issues and I told her, she wasn’t any virgin and never loved me, just deceiving me, maybe her boyfriend is back and don’t want to open up, she replied that am the only guy she had and replayed that she is disappointing in me for saying such.
The next day my friend called her twice before she picked, and on the background he had a female voice asking her why is she till picking up the call and since then none of us has called each other again.

Please I need your opinion and advice, because she had made up her mind, after several pleading and advice.
I will upload some text message chatting we exchanged, when next I login, if it is necessary. Because it has a lot of facts.