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No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody:
I stumble on a thread that says no sex before marriage is a scam.
While everyone is entitled to his or her opinion.

The holy books made it known that it is a sin to have sex before marriage in Deuteronomy chap.22vs20-21
In the olden days any woman that have sex before marriage will be stoned to death for it is a great sin before God and man.

The problem with kid of this generation is too much exposure to Western life and technology which has make no sex before marriage to look like a scam to them.

It is true that virgins enjoy their marriage more than non virgins because they have a lot to explore in regards to their sex life than non virgins who have seen it all.

Don't be deceive by these people that supports premarital sex,they are simply losing it.

What God has join together let no man separate.

My candid advice to you young ones is never you rush your partner for sex before marriage because it is a great sin to make another person sin.

Sex is meant for married couples, any sex outside marriage is a great sin.

Sex before marriage is a no no for me and all those who believe in the sanctity of sex after marriage.

I believe the truth shall always prevail.

#Istandwithsexualpurity

Thank you.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Naija246:
you guys should STFU abeg undecided
It's only fools that agree to that no sex until marriage bullshit.

If a woman tells you that there won't be premarital sex, you should also ensure that there is no premarital spending undecided
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Degrezhaa: 11:28pm On May 30, 2020
ok
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by tgirlblaze(f): 11:29pm On May 30, 2020
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 11:37pm On May 30, 2020
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by obinna58(m): 11:40pm On May 30, 2020
grin
Sex should be fun and nothing more, sex is overrated
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by tobechi74: 1:31am On May 31, 2020
dis won no get point. e wan follow d first person make front page
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by PureGoldh(m): 7:20am On May 31, 2020
Issoryt
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by DenreleDave(m): 7:57am On May 31, 2020
Well.

Even though I am sinner, I am guilty of it but I know the truth.


Sex before marriage is a sin...

Moreover, guys shud stop extravagant spending too b4 marriage so as to stop the expectations for gratification....

Coz if a man is spending on a woman, he might think of sex as a gratitude..

Our ladies too should be useful in their existence, they shud nt depend on men for survival....
All these issue of sex b4 marriage happened mostly because ladies are offer their pussy for money.. Dey depend on men for money, they depend on men to lift their family out of poverty...

If everyone is independent and creative, each one will stand on their ground..

Not that a lady (who has nothing to offer in her life than pussy) is exploiting a guy and u expect me not to fvck her... To add more salt to Injury, she might be fvcking anoda guy out there...

All these may serve as lessons to nice guys and they turn bad guys....


God forgive our sins... We know it's wrong...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by 21cents: 8:08am On May 31, 2020
Naija246:
you guys should STFU abeg undecided
It's only fools that agree to that no sex until marriage bullshit.

If a woman tells you that there won't be a premarital sex, you should also ensure that there is no premarital spending'':::::: Mugabe's quotes
pls don't label anyone a fool just because they're not in line with your point.

God said no sex before marriage, but if you say no and engage yourself in a fuçking spree cos you're looking for the perfect partner, na you Sabi but don't come here trying to make bad things look good.

the words of God should never be undermined.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by PoliticallyInco:
This is just a feeble attempt at defining what is right and what is wrong from a religious perspective.

You are supposed to do good because you feel it is good. Not because you are threatened by it or hope to get a reward. Sex between two (2) people, Consensual , is not immoral or moral. It is sex. And quoting religion (Christianity) as the basis for determining what is moral is a place I won't even delve and dive into. It will only yield fallacies. HUMANS ARE CAPABLE OF CHOOSING WHAT IS ETHICAL AND WHAT IS MORAL WITHOUT RELIGION. YES, HUMANS CAN BE GOOD (OR ACT IN A WAY THAT THEIR FELLOW HUMANS GENERALLY BELEIVE IS GOOD) WITHOUT GOD. let's get that out of the way.

Because why you claim sex before marriage is bad, in your own religious view or your own personal view (and your personal views were based on influences), it is not so in all religions. Neither is it so in all cultures. And not everyone believes it is wrong either.

The idea of right, proper and acceptable varies from people to people. There are also similarities as there are differences. So if someone says he/she wants to have sex, before marriage, and this is opposed by certain persons due to their beliefs, the question is who gives them the right to dictate for all of us based on their religious beliefs? What about other people who do not see my actions as wrong? Who hears them out and takes their position into account? What makes your own opinion superior to mine or what makes mine superior or inferior to yours?

So, before you try to force your opinions on people, please note that the two consenting individuals decided to take the action, in sane mind, believing together that they were not intending to harm anyone or one another. They were both comfortable with their decisions.

It is funny when people believe that lack of premarital sex, or having it as well brings marital happiness. None of the two scenarios contribute that greatly into a lasting marriage. And why should you judge me based upon your religious belief. Why not use any of the over 4,000 religions? You accept one which says that premarital sex is bad. I accept one where it isn't bad. Or I create my own religion where it isn't bad. Yes religions were created. I can as well create mine and call it a name. Give it a diety. Introduce rites and rituals and convert people.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by lexdany(m): 9:55am On May 31, 2020
i think it's a good idea to get to know who you'll be spending your entire life b*nging, rather than regreting in the long run or even worse end up divorcing due to you guys not been compatible for sex..


my opinion tho
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 10:41am On May 31, 2020
tgirlblaze:
Warris dis lipsrsealed
The truth
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Pisol(m): 10:42am On May 31, 2020
There is something I hardly understand about this sex of a thing self. You guys are painting it too high. Meanwhile, at the end of the day, the lady is not loosing anything. You guys loose so much.

You waste resources
You loose strength
You looseblood
You loose water
You loose consciousness for a while
Some get STDs
You spend more money to buy proteinous meal to regain stamina
You loose spiritual sensitivity
You get trapped by sharing fluid


Abeg...... You guys should think with your brain not dick.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 10:43am On May 31, 2020
Naija246:
you guys should STFU abeg undecided
It's only fools that agree to that no sex until marriage bullshit.

If a woman tells you that there won't be a premarital sex, you should also ensure that there is no premarital spending'':::::: Mugabe's quotes
You have a warped idea about sex.
What you need is someone that we schooled you in the intricacy and mystery of sex.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 10:50am On May 31, 2020
obinna58:
grin
Sex should be fun and nothing more, sex is overrated
It should be fun between married couples, anything outside of this is wrong and comes with consequences.
Don't sell your happiness for sexual pleasure.
What is fun can be death if you do it the wrong way,for example a drug that is prescribed by a doctor to cure an ailment of a patient will do its work in the body when taken in its proper dose.
But if taken in an overdose manner can be fatal to the patient,that applies also to sex.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 10:57am On May 31, 2020
tobechi74:
dis won no get point. e wan follow d first person make front page
I am not dragging any point with anybody.
Evil thrive when good men do nothing.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 10:57am On May 31, 2020
DenreleDave:
Well.

Even though I am sinner, I am guilty of it but I know the truth.


Sex before marriage is a sin...

Moreover, guys shud stop extravagant spending too b4 marriage so as to stop the expectations for gratification....

Coz if a man is spending on a woman, he might think of sex as a gratitude..

Our ladies too should be useful in their existence, they shud nt depend on men for survival....
All these issue of sex b4 marriage happened mostly because ladies are offer their pussy for money.. Dey depend on men for money, they depend on men to lift their family out of poverty...

If everyone is independent and creative, each one will stand on their ground..

Not that a lady (who has nothing to offer in her life than pussy) is exploiting a guy and u expect me not to fvck her... To add more salt to Injury, she might be fvcking anoda guy out there...

All these may serve as lessons to nice guys and they turn bad guys....


God forgive our sins... We know it's wrong...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Tibz47(m): 11:02am On May 31, 2020
If you're not ready for marriage just stay away from sexual immortal
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 11:06am On May 31, 2020
21cents:
pls don't label anyone a fool just because they're not in line with your point.

God said no sex before marriage, but if you say no and engage yourself in a fuçking spree cos you're looking for the perfect partner, na you Sabi but don't come here trying to make bad things look good.

the words of God should never be undermined.
Well said,these folks know what they are doing is wrong but won't admit it due to guilty conscience.
Everyone know that sex before marriage is wrong but because of the sinful nature of some they will still and keep engaging in it in order to fulfilled the scripture.
Sex is not evil in itself but doing it the wrong way is evil.
Anal sex,Mouth Gig and fingering is the design of the enemy to rubbish the beauty of sex.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by AdmissionGetEas: 11:07am On May 31, 2020
The fact that you av made mistake sexually doesn't mean you should reject the truth. No sex before marriage is not a scam... #IStandWithSexualPurity


Check my signature for University Admission

Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 11:11am On May 31, 2020
PoliticallyInco:
This is just a feeble attempt at defining what is right and what is wrong from a religious perspective.

You are supposed to do good because you feel it is good. Not because you are threatened by it or hope to get a reward. Sex between two (2) people, Consensual , is not immoral or moral. It is sex. And quoting religion (Christianity) as the basis for determining what is moral is a place I won't even delve and dive into. It will only yield fallacies. HUMANS ARE CAPABLE OF CHOOSING WHAT IS ETHICAL AND WHAT IS MORAL WITHOUT RELIGION. YES, HUMANS CAN BE GOOD (OR ACT IN A WAY THAT THEIR FELLOW HUMANS GENERALLY BELEIVE IS GOOD) WITHOUT GOD. let's get that out of the way.

Because why you claim sex before marriage is bad, in your own religious view or your own personal view (and your personal views were based on influences), it is not so in all religions. Neither is it so in all cultures. And not everyone believes it is wrong either.

The idea of right, proper and acceptable varies from people to people. There are also similarities as there are differences. So if someone says he/she wants to have sex, before marriage, and this is opposed by certain persons due to their beliefs, the question is who gives them the right to dictate for all of us based on their religious beliefs? What about other people who do not see my actions as wrong? Who hears them out and takes their position into account? What makes your own opinion superior to mine or what makes mine superior or inferior to yours?

So, before you try to force your opinions on people, please note that the two consenting individuals decided to take the action, in sane mind, believing together that they were not intending to harm anyone or one another. They were both comfortable with their decisions.

It is funny when people believe that lack of premarital sex, or having it as well brings marital happiness. None of the two scenarios contribute that greatly into a lasting marriage. And why should you judge me based upon your religious belief. Why not use any of the over 4,000 religions? You accept one which says that premarital sex is bad. I accept one where it isn't bad. Or I create my own religion where it isn't bad. Yes religions were created. I can as well create mine and call it a name. Give it a diety. Introduce rites and rituals and convert people.
Their is no any feeble attempt here,what you just read is the truth.
Engage in premarital sex and reap the dire consequences.
Flee from sexual sin and reap the fruit of peace thereof.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 11:12am On May 31, 2020
AdmissionGetEas:
The fact that you av made mistake sexually doesn't mean you should reject the truth. No sex before marriage is not a scam... #IStandWithSexualPurity


Check my signature for University Admission
Thank you so much.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Galactico4ever(m): 11:14am On May 31, 2020
tgirlblaze:
Warris dis lipsrsealed
You fine sha tongue
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by HazardAwka(m): 11:18am On May 31, 2020
Iwilldiesoon:
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Naija246: 11:20am On May 31, 2020
simp!
Galactico4ever:
You fine sha tongue
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by obinna58(m): 11:22am On May 31, 2020
saintpadrepio:
It should be fun between married couples, anything outside of this is wrong and comes with consequences.
Don't sell your happiness for sexual pleasure.
What is fun can be death if you do it the wrong way,for example a drug that is prescribed by a doctor to cure an ailment of a patient will do its work in the body when taken in its proper dose.
But if taken in an overdose manner can be fatal to the patient,that applies also to sex.
Yes, i agreed to doing things right. Fornicate properly, no overdoing.
Not everyone wants to get married
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Galactico4ever(m): 11:25am On May 31, 2020
Naija246:
simp!
Which one be simp again? huh
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 11:36am On May 31, 2020
obinna58:
Yes, i agreed to doing things right. Fornicate properly, no overdoing.
Not everyone wants to get married
No,you don't get me.
I simply meant stay away from premarital sex by using a drug prescribed by a doctor as an example.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by paulolee(m): 12:02pm On May 31, 2020
no problem...las las we all go settle d matter
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by obinna58(m): 2:33pm On May 31, 2020
saintpadrepio:
No,you don't get me.
I simply meant stay away from premarital sex by using a drug prescribed by a doctor as an example.
If you can't then you do it properly right?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is Not A Scam by Nobody: 2:37pm On May 31, 2020
What a beautifully written nonsense. undecided
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