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A twitter user said that getting caught is the only cure to the addiction, lol......


I'll be back to give y'all the gist I'm kinda busy right now.

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It all started in the bathroom when I mistakenly discovered masturbation. Sounds stupid right?

I lived with my parents then. My room doesn't have a private bathroom so I used to make use of the visitors' bathroom. I was only bathing just like every other day before my moisturised hand stroked my stick I felt moved so I had to try it again and I continued for up to like 30 minutes then I the enjoyment stopped (it was actually an ejaculation) I don't know the reason behind this and I was shocked cus I was a novice and I hardly watch porn. And I don't have a phone that can browse(they were really scarce then).......
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After this, I started feeling like a genius like I've discovered what no one else has ever discovered. I remember the urge I had to tell my guys in school then about it but I no wan cast. I became the everytime "first man to bathe" in the house. I started spending up to an hour in the bathroom. Everyone started to wonder what goes on in the bathroom whenever I get in cus you won't hear any sound of water for the first 30 minutes or more.
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I later gained admission into a university after masturbating for many years. I lived in the hostel but I later left due to privacy issues. It's hard for me to masturbate in the hostel cus everyone is together almost all the times I spent there. The bathrooms had short doors and walls. But I still managed to do so at night. At this moment, I believed I'm an ADDICT.
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That Shi still make me tense has as a MOTHERFÚCKER like when you can simply just fúck some pussy with just #150 indomitable and egg she's all yours

After the first year I decided to rent an apartment. I was free to do it anytime I feel like I became more professional and I even created my own instrument i used to masturbate with using condom an other materials I won't mention so that other people won't fall into the trap. Masturbation made me hate girls so much that I hardly have any form of conversation with any my sisters. I had no plans of getting a girlfriend. I'm always feeling classy and I won't stoop so low for any girl (excluding my family members)

ZINIBANKS:
That Shi still make me tense has as a MOTHERFÚCKER like when you can simply just fúck some pussy with just #150 indomitable and egg she's all yours

thats because you did not discover masturbation a early as I did. I started masturbating around the age of eleven

I graduated with the ability of telling anyone the number of girls I actually had any form of conversation with like I fvkn hate them even till now that I don't jerk off anymore. I got a job I'm okay with how I was getting paid because I had no girlfriend and I only take care of my parents, my sisters and my friends are independent and doing great. I rented an apartment (a bedroom self contain). The apartment is one of the many apartments in the compound. There a lady in one of the apartments and she lives with her mother. I hardly have any form of conversation with with her. I only greet her mother. I shun any form of joke she tries to crack (who you )

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foolishman:
thats because you did not discover masturbation a early as I did. I started masturbating around the age of eleven

Niggar someone lured you to this act you didn't just wake up one morning and start doing it
Meaning things you copied are way more easier to stop than things you start practicing on your own
If you don't wanna do something no matter the force and pressure niggga I swear to God you ain't gonna do it you're a man you choose what right for you and leave what's gon kill you at a very youthful age let me tell you how to stop get a fúcking bitch explain it to her and tell her how she can help you to stop it

I actually used to feel like doing her one day but I won't stoop so low to become her friend because of sex. After spending some months in my new apartment, she started coming to my room after her mom traveled for a while. She would come in and be doing anyhow but I would just look away. After like a week of the same occurrence, she came as usual on a faithful day, she changed the channel to zeeworld and I did not even move. She was feeling so free that I have to take of my boxers in her presence, took out one of the condoms I used to use earlier and I wore it and I was like "shall we"? ;DI could read confusion in her face but she boldly asked that why? And I said that because we are friends. She took off her gown (she wasn't wearing anything under ) and we did the do
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ZINIBANKS:
Niggar someone lured you to this act you didn't just wake up one morning and start doing it
Meaning things you copied are way more easier to stop than things you start practicing on your own
If you don't wanna do something no matter the force and pressure niggga I swear to God you ain't gonna do it you're a man you choose what right for you and leave what's gon kill you at a very youthful age let me tell you how to stop get a fúcking bitch explain it to her and tell her how she can help you to stop it

i already know how to stop that's why I want others to learn. Read till the end bro

Omo my head reset fast fast. It was like I've been under a spell. It was a great experience. It happen twice again after the first time. The girl and her mother later left the compound and I started masturbating again but I was already feeling the shame everytime whenever I'm done. So the struggle to stop BEGINS
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I was lucky enough on a particular day to meet my colleagues discussing about masturbation and its side effects. One tebliq guy then said that Mohamed mentioned fasting as a way of curing the addiction. I did not contribute cus I don't want to drop any hint that would make them feel like I'm involved in the act. I thought about it throughout the day. The demon inside me aske that what after I break but I agreed with my self to give it a try first in a particular order tho.
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So I laid down my plans:
- to fast everyday for 40 days straight (12am - 6pm)
- then I'll fast 3 days per week for three months

- then i will fast 2 days per week for another 4 months.
- if I ever relapse I will have to start again but the 40 days will be 60 days
- I have to be sincere with my self
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foolishman:
A twitter user said that getting caught is the only cure to the addiction, lol......


I'll be back to give y'all the gist I'm kinda busy right now.

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A guy form Twitter? Don't you know some Twitter users are clowns and shouldn't be taking seriously?

And I started. I spend 5 days for the first time without masturbating after many years. But I did so after I broke the fast on the sixth night. I felt so bad cus I wasn't in the mood and I forced my self to do so. The fact is you won't have feel like masturbating after you break, you can't masturbate in the day, and you can't watch porn neither and you will hardly be in the mood. I did exactly like I've planned for about a year without masturbating. I already have a girlfriend that makes about 70 percent of the amount I make monthly not like all these mumu social media girls in their early twenties that live in their WhatsApp status. This is my third year without masturbating and I got my girlfriend dis year.
The end.
I'll answer every single question.

themaestro08:
A guy form Twitter? Don't you know some Twitter users are clowns and shouldn't be taking seriously?

I only joke about what he said. It's not my own story sir

Good evening OP, I’m so happy I came across this thread, I had to create a new profile so I can comment and seek help from Nairaland, i used to see thread of people being addicted to masturbating on Nairaland front page and I always make fun of them cos I believe it would never happened to me, my journey to masturbation is kind of crazy because just thinking of touching my dick never came across my mind but late last year I started seeing a girl, she lied that she was a Virgin I know she was lying but I wanted to play the game by her rules, cos I don’t want a story whereby she would say she didn’t give me consent or so, I always want my sex buddy to be 100% willingly to have sex before we commence, so she said the only thing she would do for me is to give me head this was how she’s always coming to house twice a week or ones to give me head, sometimes she will strip naked but still won’t allow me to penetrate, this was how I now enjoy the head than kitty, few months after the whole thing she started giving me attitude and I can tell I’m already addicted to head cos I’ll always tell to just come that I’m not bothered about penetrating just head or handjob, she declined I blocked her and gave her distance, few weeks later she noticed and decide to come visiting this time she allowed me to penetrate but when I knew I was about to come I requested for head. After the whole thing she went home, I later got her message on her WhatsApp that I made her cheat on her bf this and that, that’s she’s no longer interested anymore again I blocked her and decide to let her be, few weeks again she came back and we had sex I did the same thing but this time we had 3 rounds on my third round I didn’t cum, that’s was when her phone begin to ring, her mom was calling her it’s almost 12 am and she’s not home, she went home and told it’s finally over, Few weeks passed I haven’t cum I can’t hold it anymore, then there’s this girl that we both have a thing for each other but she would never ever give me sex no matter how hard I persuade her, she’ll always be like you’re my brother ( I know I’ve been friend zoned) but this girl keeps coming to my house with sexy stuff that always trigger my memories about the other girl that gives head. One night my friendzone girl came with super sexy outfit revealing lots of cleavage ( I so much love breast) I couldn’t stop fantasizing having sex that night but I know I won’t get sex from her so I made her leave by giving excuse. After she left I took my dove cream and went to the bathroom I said to myself this is better than begging or trying to make fool of myself, I started doing the do but it wasn’t working so I pictured myself receiving head from the headgirl few minutes later I cum. Sorry for the typo I’m typing close to my friends and I don’t want them to see this

Cont.... I started masturbating this year let’s say around February when it was time for Ramadan I was finally happy that I’ll get to let it go with the help of Ramadan behold two weeks into Ramadan after Sahur I was about to bath then I got triggered again, I masturbated and perform Jannabah this was how I continue with the act during Ramadan, I’m always stuck on Pornhub I now have my favorite models that I do masturbate to, I still masturbate yesterday.... Pls help me! I haven’t done the act today because I’m now getting scared for myself.

Ineedhelptostop:
Cont.... I started masturbating this year let’s say around February when it was time for Ramadan I was finally happy that I’ll get to let it go with the help of Ramadan behold two weeks into Ramadan after Sahur I was about to bath then I got triggered again, I masturbated and perform Jannabah this was how I continue with the act during Ramadan, I’m always stuck on Pornhub I now have my favorite models that I do masturbate to, I still masturbate yesterday.... Pls help me! I haven’t done the act today because I’m now getting scared for myself.

I have a feeling that my method will work for you. You started just this year but I was addicted for over a decade. Use the method and consider starting again and adding 10 days to the 40 days in case you relapse.

foolishman:
I have a feeling that my method will work for you. You started just this year but I was addicted for over a decade. Use the method and consider starting again and adding 10 days to the 40 days in case you relapse.

and don't forget to be sincere with yourself

Sex is the best way to stop masturbation, when my girlfriend is around I didn't even remember what masturbation is, it didn't even cross my mind for a second

All this self-denial and self-punishing will mostly relapse

Masturbation is like snacks, sex is like food, the urge is like hunger and abstinence is like fasting to cure hunger - good luck to you!

Ineedhelptostop:
Cont.... I started masturbating this year let’s say around February when it was time for Ramadan I was finally happy that I’ll get to let it go with the help of Ramadan behold two weeks into Ramadan after Sahur I was about to bath then I got triggered again, I masturbated and perform Jannabah this was how I continue with the act during Ramadan, I’m always stuck on Pornhub I now have my favorite models that I do masturbate to, I still masturbate yesterday.... Pls help me! I haven’t done the act today because I’m now getting scared for myself.

Get proper sex that's what you need

Sex is like food, masturbation is like snacks your urge is like hunger

oluwaseyi0:
Get proper sex that's what you need

Sex is like food, masturbation is like snacks your urge is like hunger

I really appreciate your contribution. But remember that you can't get sex every time even girls can't

I couldn’t resist that much during Ramadan and I haven’t tried to have sex cos any slight stupid behavior from a girl I’ll just ignore them, like there’s this particular one that was supposed to come visiting but she always comes up with excuses I just blocked her number before deleting it.

Ineedhelptostop:
I couldn’t resist that much during Ramadan and I haven’t tried to have sex cos any slight stupid behavior from a girl I’ll just ignore them, like there’s this particular one that was supposed to come visiting but she always comes up with excuses I just blocked her number before deleting it.

thats why I said that you can't get sex everytime

foolishman:
thats why I said that you can't get sex everytime

you therefore will be tempted to service yourself anytime you get the urge. And it has a lot of side effects. It also affects sexual performance.

How i stopped Masturbating Read below..


So i had my first love 2015 i was 18 then....then but this girl was a virgin and she was scared of allowing me in and i was naive.

So she wouldnt allow me but since then i discovered masturbaion.
I masturbated till last year

Though i and my GF broke up in year 2017.
So No gF again then i stick to masturbation but i always feel depressed and dirty.

Then last year i finnally got a new bae then just when i was about to penetrate her my dick refuse to erect.
When it does i cum within some seconds.

Then i knew masturbation is d caused.
So i immediately stopped and started taking herbs, eat fruits and did some exercise routine.

So 2nd time i couldnt again i was so depressed though she keep encouraging mme..

But 3rd time i was able to had erection and i lasted for almost 20 minutes without cumming.


Though my Bae then was boring type,she doesnt kiss nor romance she just lie down while i put myself in mood, so it also had effect on me..


So ever since then i stopped masturbating till this year and i can tell you there is a great enhancement in me.
I fee happy and strong.


Masturbation is bad....

Mine was a bae that made me stop and d issue of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction....


Also try have bae that gives you sex when you want it and delete porn videos,pictures from your phone or PC

foolishman:
I have a feeling that my method will work for you. You started just this year but I was addicted for over a decade. Use the method and consider starting again and adding 10 days to the 40 days in case you relapse.

I’ll but I just want to recover from Ramadan first

Ineedhelptostop:
I’ll but I just want to recover from Ramadan first

ok

H