MASTURBATION

Ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I'm not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about sex.

Masturbation is handling your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especiallly non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a penis and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling Hot for no single reason in the world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get worked up on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven't committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and Hot? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is #MENTAL_FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won't be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won't have feelings for your husband's penis. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands' penis are too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscous as singles.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won't enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife
pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge?

How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.

3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.

5. Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119. When you are filled with the word, you have no space for the devil and his demons in your heart.

6. Pray to God for help

7. Make friends with godly people.

8. Avoid pornography and romantic movies.

9. Get busy in kingdom service.

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it.
You can win the fight against masturbation addiction

We love you.

Alright

Hmn that spirit ehn, once it enter you... It only take the grace of God to let u be.
You just need total focus and determination to get rid of it

As vaseline crew members of SAMBISA forest branch, to us this thread is waste of time and energy.

WARNING!
I just heard from unknown sources that Vaseline Crew™ are about to nuke this thread to smithereens!
Take coveerrrrr!

Didn’t even read a word you wrote there. This will be my meat when I’m done with it

hmmm......

If masturbation is a sin and sex before marriage is also a sin then wetin we suppose do when kongi comes knocking

Nice write up....

Damnnnnn niggarrr

All these niggarz will just be coming up with shit

Masturbation is never a bad thing
People should be encouraged to masturbate

What the hell is that number 6?

that gurl jewessgratitude cums to mind, read no. 3 stop masturbating ,that cucumber or candle can break in the middle n get stuck in ur middle... if no man is worthy of you @least accept jesus.. next

I'm still trying to stop for over 10 years now but it been moving little by little for me shaa
From everyday to once or twice in a week slowly I'm reaching a week without wanking
I seriously can't wait to get to school so I can stop this shii totally...2 girls are already even planning on rolling with in school ....if you know what I mean

Lots of anecdotal cliches in this post... All this have been disproved by researchers.

Masturbation is good, I cum with no sex and risk of someone crying that she's pregnant or have me worried that I've caught HIV, it's the best way to satisfy yourself and you know the best part?

I don't need to pay for it or keep any woman by my side to make it all happen, and I can go three rounds or more in a day when I'm in the mood for it and I also get to save aloooot of money and don't have to take a bitcch to shoprite or crunches to open her legs so I can have it


I will always encourage you practice Masturbation but we'll everyone is different

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

All these niggarz will just be coming up with shit

Masturbation is never a bad thing
People should be encouraged to masturbate

bro I'm your biggest fan

sparog:
If masturbation is a sin and sex before marriage is also a sin then wetin we suppose do when kongi comes knocking

if the guy can justify this your question, I will send 500 recharge card to him

Another pseudo scientific jargons..
Spits..

Pastor esheyyy oooo. Like sey d guy no dey masturbate

wanking off is not bad if you can control it

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seanwilliam:
if the guy can justify this your question, I will send 500 recharge card to him

cut ur manhood so u can make heaven.

yarimo:
As vaseline crew members of SAMBISA forest branch, to us this thread is waste of time and energy.

Sighted

Libkid:
wanking off is not bad if you can control it

This is a lie from the pit of hell used to decide wankers,wanking can never be controlled,once you've hopped on the rollercoaster it can't be stopped except with sheer will power.

Guys, if you have masturbated so much and now suffer ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION and/or PREMATURE EJACULATION, contact me asap for a permanent solution. Serious people only.

Contact in signature.

psyrizzla:


This is a lie from the pit of hell used to decide wankers,wanking can never be controlled,once you've hopped on the rollercoaster it can't be stopped except with sheer will power.

speak for yourself bros.

No masturbation in 2020 i will do my last wanking on 31 whos with me

What is masturbation please? is it a name of a person, animal place or things?
cuz here in kuvuki land we don't know it.

Masturbation issa goal �

[quote author=sparog post=85277883]If masturbation is a sin and sex before marriage is also a sin then wetin we suppose do when kongi comes knocking


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