₦airaland Forum

samworthyever:
If you are not careful you will impregnate another girl. Take a bold step today and be a responsible father and husband.

No force people into life regrettable actions o. He can take care of the child and the girl without being married to them. Being responsible is a choice. Marriage wouldn’t make a man responsible.

chiommy123:
you must marry her oh. who are you leaving her for?

chioma, can u marry a guy who impregnated you but denied he is the father? More so very abusive. Will u be able to bear the horror of an abusive relationship. Same you r advicing this guy. He sees no future with her, only the baby..now she can birth the baby..she should care for the baby and pay her off. But if with time her character improves after birth. Then he can marry her. Some women bad attitudes don't change until after having a baby. Pregnancy can make her behaviour misnormal too.

If you were raped by a native doctor, armed robber or a mad man would you go ahead to marry him?....

Should we tell him

ScotMisile:
If you were raped by a native doctor, armed robber or a mad man would you go ahead to marry him?....

Is he one of them?
Am sure he is in his right senses

Moralgladiator:
*Never date who you don't love because of sex.

*Never have unprotected sex with who you can't marry.

* Lastly, never ask others to help decide your future.

God bless u oooo

aeion:
The same child he wanted to take to a motherless home? No Judge in his/her right mind would give him any custody and besides, you cannot take a child away from his mother just like that. If you read his threads, you'll see he's not capable of raising any child, but I hope the girl is at least sane enough to do so. It's the child I pity - being brought into the world by two dysfunctional people.

Willing to give in to “false marriage” and opting for “motherless home” over the mother; maybe I'm reading too much into this but he's mentally unfit to raise anyone. You're right. He can't win.

I have till this month to make a decision cuz their parents say that if the girl gives birth in their house the child automatically becomes theirs and will never be mine

Actually, I was under the impression it was a custody battle between him and her parents not the mother as she wasn't interested in the child.

MrCuteking:
Don't friend who you don't love. My friend was forced to marry a girl that looks like the ugliest girl I have ever seen. His mum said over her dead body she would keep such an inlaw but unfortunately for her, her husband said his son must marry her.

I couldn't look at her face twice. Sex is overrated, you don't deserve to act stupid in the name of sex.

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]Sometimes I pity the ladies here because it will be difficult to see someone who will want to pay the bride price of a baby mama.

Ur last paragraph made a lot of sense. So, who takes the baby mama. What if it were his sister or daughter. And guess what?
The unborn child might be a girl.
Hummmm, I pity ops
Dont be surprised if the circle continues

Toluwashe778:
Is he one of them?
Am sure he is in his right senses

You have answered my question, you are only marrying him by pregnancy because he is ok for you,not because it's the right thing to do.

Toluwashe778:
God bless u oooo

Good bless you too o!

I wish ladies will recognise the kind of stupidity behind opening their leg for men who aren't their husbands.
It always turn out to be the girl fault and left alone to carry her cross and some don't survive it.

Mr writer, I really want u to answer some personal question

Was this how u guys started? Because, before a lady allow u make raw sex with her when she is not an olosho, hummm,she must be truly in love with u
2. What we're ur plans for her initially. Just sex. Then, naGod catch u
I will not say u should marry her by force ooo but think twice because it is obvious she is feeling insecure with u already. So that thesame thing u did to her will not repeat itself with another lady ( I think she know ur weakness now)

she needs u more now. God has already serve her right because she Don carry belle,. Shakara Don end
If u leave her, who marries the baby mama
If the baby is a girl, hope someone will not do same to u (as u guys are doing to her parents ) too hence the baby mama cycle continues.

It is only women that goes about with an evidence that have had sex(pregnancy).
Ladies keep ur body

Don’t marry her if you don’t think it is right. Don’t marry just for the convenience of child legitimacy or out of pity. Make sure you want to be married to that lady before you proceed.

Secondly, you may need to lawyer up soon. Her parents cannot just decide to take your child away. You are the father of that child.

If you were the son of a billionaire, they wouldn’t be talking nonsense. If they became broke, they would remember you and ask you to “take responsibility” for your child. So, demand your God-given right to be in the life of your child.

Step up.

Like my mum would always say
If you know you can't marry her play safe...

This is what happun wen u damage a car while testing it

Moralgladiator:
*Never date who you don't love because of sex.

*Never have unprotected sex with who you can't marry.

* Lastly, never ask others to help decide your future.

When your statement backs up your name.

Petyprincess:
Mtchew you dnt want to marry her bt you can go raw nd even watch your watery semen flow as a boss
Oga you must marry her o, who her you leaving her to? Rubbish!

princess, you don kill me with laff





aro1 must see this ooh.

Lawbreaker why did you sleep with her in the first place when you know you don't love her
You are the captain of your own problem

OP you're in a good condition. You've been given the best option. Let her give birth in her house, if they don't allow you to take care of the baby, leave them and pray the child turns out to be a boy, definitely, you'll be winning. No bother yourself. If the child is a girl, one thing or the other will surely bring her to you one day and try staying close to where the child is so that you'll know how to handle the child when the time is right.

MrNipplesLover:
princess, you don kill me with laff





aro1 must see this ooh.

Lol,he must marry her o because being a single mother in Nigeria no be small thing

Please hw do guys even have unprotected sex with someone they dnt love?

LawBreaker:
Is it a good idea to marry a girl cuz she is pregnant for you even though you don't love her. I have till this month to make a decision cuz their parents say that if the girl gives birth in their house the child automatically becomes theirs and will never be mine. It is really giving me sleepless night, I am seriously having double mind. When she got pregnant, the parents dropped her at my place and say she is gonna stay here and give birth. It was not really easily living with her. She was always going through my phone and making trouble with my female friends. As a result, our stay wasn't peaceful so her parents came and picked her back to her house. Most persons say as she is already pregnant for me I should marry her. I don't want something I will regret later on.

since you are here for an advice.
i will not judge you.
if she doesn't match who you would like to marry, dont. Marriage is meant to be a forever affair, except ofcos you dont mind divorces pls go right ahead or you are ready to manage her and any situation that comes from the union.



DONT LIVE A LIFE YOULL REGRET!!!!!
STAY HAPPY.

LawBreaker:
Is it a good idea to marry a girl cuz she is pregnant for you even though you don't love her. I have till this month to make a decision cuz their parents say that if the girl gives birth in their house the child automatically becomes theirs and will never be mine.

In my tradition, any child born outside wedlock belongs to the girl's family too. I am Igbo. I don't know if its perculiar to Igbo tribe.

That being said, A child cannot be the only reason why you consider marriage. Even though its regretable to put the life of a child on the line considering the impact such a decision will make in the life of the child. Not with standing, you owe the child a responsibility of catering for his or her welfare.


At the same time, you have to be sure of what you defined to be love. Cos a situation such as "pregnancy alert" can frustrate a person and make him or her question what they were once sure of. What am trying to say is that if your definition of love is just a feeling, at this point am not expecting you to love the person. You must had before now known the lady to an extent. Is she the kinda woman you want as a wife if yes. That feeling will come back when things are right.

Las las, you both (the young man and the lady) have to seek forgiveness from God.

InfinityFabric:
When your statement backs up your name.

Abstain if you can. Play safe if you can't. Moralgladiator doesn't judge the hedonist in every man.

No try am at all say you wan marry all in the name of say she is pregnant for you. The foundation of marriage is love. Since you don’t love her don’t make another mistake marrying her if not you might be signing your own death sentence. Let her parents adopt the child as theirs I bet you one day questions would be asked and your child will come seeking you. But do the needful if she’s keeping the child take care of it
One last thing don’t make the mistake of harboring her all in the name of “let her give birth first” If not you don marry be that

chiommy123:
you must marry her oh. who are you leaving her for?

If a native doctor raped you, would you marry him?

Petyprincess:
Lol,he must marry her o because being a single mother in Nigeria no be small thing

Please hw do guys even have unprotected sex with someone they dnt love?

yes, I support you - he must marry her (whether by fire or by thunder).
single motherhood no be small play especially for girls who are not financially balanced....




@the bolded. having raw sex is not the problem. the problem is the inexperienced guy.

well, make we no long thing on that.


sometimes, when konji hold a man for neck and he wants do the do and condoms no dey close-by, he might not have the power to hold it back and end up going raw.

u know that kind thing, raw dey sweet die and u no go know when the akamu go gush out and flow inside the woman.

na where the inexperienced guy comes to show himself that he's stupid for not knowing how to withdraw and burst the nut on the girl ass or boobs or tommy.

MrNipplesLover:
yes, I support you - he must marry her (whether by fire or by thunder).
single motherhood no be small play especially for girls who are not financially balanced....




@the bolded. having raw sex is not the problem. the problem is the inexperienced guy.

well, make we no long thing on that.


sometimes, when konji hold a man for neck and he wants do the do and condoms no dey close-by, he might not have the power to hold it back and end up going raw.

u know that kind thing, raw dey sweet die and u no go know when the akamu go gush out and flow inside the woman.

na where the inexperienced guy comes to show himself that he's stupid for not knowing how to withdraw and burst the nut on the girl ass or boobs or tommy.

Wow!!! Men are trying o
Imagine loosing all sense when you get erection nd after releasing you regain back your sense

Petyprincess:
Wow!!! Men are trying o
Imagine loosing all sense when you get erection nd after releasing you regain back your sense

wetin we normally go through when our cucumbers rise no be small.


we dey suffer, I swear. imagine having no sense when konji holds us for neck, just to get a crumb of pussy. ..


that's why you ladies need to be pitying us anytime una see us suffering



no be small thing, my dear.