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Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Unnerve: 4:57pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
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Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by BornToSucced(m): 5:38pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
You shouldn’t have proceeded with the marriage no matter what. Women are driven by emotions often, and now she is scared of the reality. 6 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Corporate2020: 5:45pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Mariangeles: So this is all you got from his story. You need psychiatric evaluation and mental test. 12 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by NoToPile: 5:50pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
The deed is done already and she's even pregnant. Try to be supportive she's pregnant, you might be lucky and none of your children will be a sickler. Try and know the baby's genotype as soon as the test can be carried out. 3 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Mariangeles(f): 5:57pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Corporate2020: No, but it is the most important Of course, you'd know that if you were mentally sound. 3 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Graxie(f): 6:05pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:Please quote the verse and chapter, I need to learn. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Fountainofyouth(f): 6:10pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Graxie: It is in the book of Acts, I'm not sure of the chapter and verse, you can search further on it. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by KanwuliaExtra: 6:22pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
ZeroShenanigan: Oh hell! You are already IN IT! Deal with it and stop whining. What implications with a child on the way? I will insist on a relationship with only AA And who says an AA like me would wanno deal with you? You are extremely IGNORANT, immature and annoying. The only lesson you can teach anyone with half a brain is to get a PROPER EDUCATION before discussing common sense issues on or offline. I will not respond to you more than I have, since it would really be a waste of my precious time. All the best! 1 Like |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Lorazepam(f): 6:37pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
You have already married her bro You can know the genotype of a child before the child is born And to avoid SS children in future Do IVF or IUI, genotype of the child can be manipulated through that thats if your pocket fit carry am. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Taiwo20(m): 6:39pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
It's important people know their genotype and blood group early enough even if it's in their teens |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by ZeroShenanigan(m): 6:39pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:Thank you, I admit, I'm responsible for part of the blame, because I couldn't stand my ground during those period. I was timid and confused at the same time. Even though I tried my best but my wife made it seem like, I'm the bad person then. If I have her support on my view point then, things would have been different. A friend I invited to talk to my wife and her sisters, was unable to convince them. He later asked me to do it, just for the sake of my personality as they think it was a kind of betrayal on my side. My elder sister was afraid of my wife's sister and her family, base on fetish reason and name calling, because I'm the only one trying to back off, my wife is not ready to stop. So, she encouraged me to go ahead that we can later find solution to the matter. There are different lies we can cook up together to stop the wedding but when my wife wasn't in support, I was left me with no choice. 4 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Dyt(f): 7:08pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
It's a tough one Just be the best you can be to your wife and your unborn Y'all gonna be fine 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by ZeroShenanigan(m): 7:09pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra: Who is this person na? You just reminds me of the reactions one my wife's sister gave then. Abeg, take things easy with your self, I'm not fighting you please. Even my wife now realized how risky it is for us having more children together and if we resolve to divorce, I think she is wouldn't mind. Will you help us with hospital bills when it happens? will you give us the moral and emotional support of seeing a child sick every time? Please spare me some space to allow for people who have good things to say. Thank you. 14 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
bjprodint:This isn't possible. You're either born AS or AA; you cannot switch your DNA. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Graxie(f): 7:48pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:please there is nothing like that in the Bible. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by juman(m): 8:29pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
If you can pay for it, you will get healthy babies. The medical experts know how to do it. |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by juman(m): 8:35pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
bjprodint: There are two explanation to it. Either the genotype of one of the couple is AA but the test gave false result of AS. Or the wife was sleeping with another man other than the husband. 17 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Op, YOU ARE TO BE BLAMED AS WELL!!!! Did anyone force you to marry her? Why are you acting like you were a kid that was forced. It'd have been better, if you had ended things, instead of first getting her pregnant and now planning a divorce 1 Like |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Uyi168: 8:59pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
bjprodint:.. Aunty, u Sabi lie oo.. 11 Likes
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Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Uyi168: 9:06pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
NoToPile:.. And if he is not lucky |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Uyi168: 9:08pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Lorazepam:.. Instead of going through all these stress,don't u think dissolving the marriage will be better?? 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Uyi168: 9:10pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
KanwuliaExtra:.. This one is already getting emotional over matter wey nor concern her... Nawa.. 6 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by HoliMaree: 9:18pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Try to sit your wife down and discuss your fears with her.Both of you should rub minds together. Don't divorce her, it's not the end of the road. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by mission08: 9:22pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Unnerve: Just like people saying "heaven helps those who help themselves " is in the bible Anyway, why bring sickle cell children to the world to suffer? The crises they experience is painful and draining to their families. Couples need to stay strong and be supportive in this kind of situation because believe me your resilience and commitment will be tested. The journey has not started and you both are already emotionally apart. Your relationship is already too frail to stand what is ahead of you. 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Klass99(f): 9:27pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
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Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Saintmary(f): 9:35pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
ZeroShenanigan:Plot hole number one: You cannot complete your fresher registration in any higher institution without doing blood group and genotype tests. (Or did you buy your certificate?) I'm coming. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by GboyegaD(m): 9:46pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
It is difficult to advise since one of your major reasons of mating her is for childbirth. Would have suggested you guys apt but I'm not sure it will sit well with you. |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Emekaossai(m): 9:53pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
bjprodint:Not that I don't believe in miracles, but this can be an issue of error from the previous test. It has happened to many. 5 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Nobody: 10:06pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
bjprodint: Darling, it's impossible for your genotype to change. The first test result was probably a mistake. 8 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by Emekaossai(m): 10:07pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Give your wife the care and love she needs now. Since you have taken the decision of getting married to her, learn to stand by it like a man you are. My both parents are AS but non out of three of us is sickler. 4 Likes |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by SpicyMimi(f): 10:33pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Marriage counseling is very important before thinking of spending your lifetime with anyone, as it is one of the first requirements. I totally understand why she wanted the marriage to take place, I mean you already chose a date, the shame might be too much for her. You both could have considered adoption, instead of thinking if divorce but too late for this advice now. You have to spice up your love for her once again for the sake of your sweet unborn baby and pray he or she isn't a sickler and hopefully, she won't be and therefore put an end, and adopt his or her siblings. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype: The Reason For My Unhappy Marriage. by KanwuliaExtra: 10:34pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
Uyi168: Na me you wan take drag dis dull thread to reach page 3? Getting emotional indeed. Over an over-flogged, drrrrrry topic? Please buzz of my mentions and keep your “funky genotypes“ off my ID. Thanks. *like me dey come NL with uselesss recycled tory about ancient, genetic, blood craw-craws from cyber nonentities phew* |
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