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usj:
She sees you as someone she can run to for refuge, a pillar, a teacher or mentor, and you see her as a very weird girl.

If I were you, I will boost her confidence.

About her age I was always scared of going out at night because I thought the moon was always chasing me, an adult explained to me that the moon is actually my friend and not an enemy and since then I changed my perception about it.

Why don't you see yourself as the little girl sees you? Impart her positively in your own little way and don't be part of her already complicated childhood.

Ok great advice
I will try that after the lockdown

Kalatium:
Ok great advice
I will try that after the lockdown

That's great!
She needs you more than you can imagine. Don't forget, she's not staying with her parents any more!
It could be possible that she has now substituted you as someone she can confides in, maybe like a parent or an elder brother. It's an opportunity for you to be a positive influence to her, so please take it!

As humans, we constantly need the support and love of adults around us. That my friend becomes a scares commodity if a child is parted from her love ones at an early age into child labour where most girl are physically, verbally, emotionally abused by the madam of the house, even sometimes sexually abuse by the oga or male member of the family. So thank you for agreeing to help her the best way possible!