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Sixfeetbelle:
Misogynistic men will always have a reason why a fellow man is behaving like an animal.

Truly, are you not ashamed of yourself?

There is nothing in his comment that suggests he's a misogynist!

chiemmanuel:
Is the lady financially independent, if yes, she should leave

Most women endure abusive marriages because of the monetary gain

Your advice lacks merit.You are obviously still a very young boy.

Thier kids will forever be grateful for you saving their mother’s life and marriage. We are men yes we have that issue of womanizing but to the point of slapping or maltreating the woman in your home makes you less of a man.

Dreyton36:
Violence bro, na naija we dey
If we do it, their kids won't forgive us

One day it may result to this

incogni2o:
You say she is a good Woman, A good Woman will rather speak to her Husband wisely, not in the open where the Man's ego is offended.

A good Woman should know commanding her Husband to apologize wouldn't go down well.

Your Friend is obviously wrong.

The Wife can be Better in handling Him.

u are the only one that have sense from the comments from top. thank u for saying this. nice one. Ladies should always learn how to speak to their husband, especially in public. Guys prefer private scolding than public correction. Ladies...it is very important, u must learn how to talk to ur husband and such serious talks must be in private

FreeSpirited:
I was already looking for a comment like this, cos most guys up there are just saying thrash as if they don't understand man's ego. How can she support other men's action against her husband's action in the presence of those friend? No matter what she has to be wise about it and don't hurt the ego of the man. Cos that in itself is disrespectful.

She has no business with issues between friends. She should keep shut in public.

And should I say that friend has a problem. He should stay in his house and look for something doing. How can my wife be calling my friend several times to apologise for issue we had together. If you understand what I mean, something may be cooking in the background softly...And the husband is very smart, and right to act as a real man by shutting her up. That's how it starts, they support other guy against their man in the name of peace and being nice, before u know it,the other guy is already fucking them.
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If she wants to leave she should leave. I wouldn't expect my woman to disrespect me in the public too in the name of mediating in issues. Men issues should be left to men. The woman should go and apologise first for being silly. And I'm sure the man will calm down. There's no issue if she apologises. And the man should never apologise until she also realises that it's wrong to hurt your man's ego supporting other men in public.

u have said it all. thank u man of wisdom.

Openbusiness:
OP na busybody dey worry u. Why don't you mind your business and leave their marriage alone. It's like na you village people send to scatter that marriage kwa? Already you don dey notice she is fine, she has hips, curves and boobs. How she is best behaved and a good earner. Later you will come here and tell us how you slept with your friend's wife. Leave your friend's wife alone before thunder strike you. Marriage on fire kee you dia

thank u. at list some guys here have sense a lot. Dreyton36 u no try at all. For u to even bring up this matter online, tells a lot about u. u need to ask for forgiveness from ur friend. and tell his wife to go and apologize to her husband...kneeling down o and saying to him that she is so sorry for siding u in public. another thing, face ur relationship and get married. stay off another persons wife and stop calling her except for rare extreme important occasions also tell her to stop Calling u anyhow. stay off that woman.

Dollarseeker:
thank u. at list some guys here have sense a lot. Dreyton36 u no try at all. For u to even bring up this matter online, tells a lot about u.

He's not on NL besides I'm not here to cast him out but to seek advise from experts

Why are you guys always visiting him? Una no get work or something?

Leave them alone to sort out their issues. Since he didn't report to you...why you de chook mouth inside wetin no concern you.

You sound like you fancy his wife.

Saintmary:
It's not the job of a wife to change a badly trained husband.

But I can assure you it is the job of a Husband to change a badly trained wife.

Through understanding, patience and maturity and love.

Unfortunately some of our senior brothers just resort to slapping.

the problem now is that how do we handle it when both are badly trained.

incogni2o:
But I can assure you it is the job of a Husband to change a badly trained wife.

Through understanding, patience and maturity and love.

Unfortunately some of our senior brothers just resort to slapping.

the problem now is that how do we handle it when both are badly trained.

They should go for counseling if they want it to work out, else it's going to be one problem after the other.
It takes two to build a happy home, it also takes two to build a shitty home.

though you observed something wrong, I guess that's the best you gonna get personally. the relationship has maybe of recent been filled with hearsay, so I advice bro, that you tread carefully or better still look for a mutual of both parties whom they accord respect and relay your observations only.

[quote author=Dreyton36 post=90451517]If only I'm buoyant I for wire ur aza now i swear , you're the only one who got my msg right
I asked for advice and everyone is saying shit to me bla bla bla
Thanks boss Jah bless u







You're welcome bro, we gather dey here baba

From what I read I’m suspecting that the OP is admiring his friend’s wife because she is beautiful hence he is complimenting her.
How can the husband be a womaniser and a drunk and yet the OP is not both too yet they hang out on a regular basis.
The op should just focus on his own family, anything that happens with your friend and his wife is not your business